EP. 181 Evan Marc Katz: You don't have to change to find love. You have to change your choice in men

Better Divorce Podcast

Join Paulette and Evan for this conversation on You don't have to change to find love. You have to change your choice in men.

About Evan:

Dating coach Evan Marc Katz is the author of 4 books and has been featured in hundreds of media outlets since 2003. His blog has over 35 million readers, his podcast has over 2.5 million downloads and 13,000 women have taken Love U, his video course that helps smart, successful women find love. Evan is happily married and lives in Los Angeles.

Takeaways:

• Dating after divorce can be challenging, but it's important to approach it with confidence and a positive mindset.
• Online dating platforms can be overwhelming, but success depends on how you use them and the effort you put in.
• Many people carry limiting beliefs from past relationships, but it's important to recognize that there are healthy and functional relationships out there.
• Love U is a platform that provides education and support for women navigating the dating world, helping them build confidence and make better dating and relationship choices. Take the leap and be open to dating after divorce
• Feel and allow yourself to be vulnerable in order to find love
• Make smart trade-offs and compromise on the right things in relationships
• Don't compromise on important qualities like kindness and character
• Seek resources and support to navigate the complexities of dating after divorce.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and the Topic of Dating After Divorce

03:07 The Challenges of Online Dating

06:10 Why Dating is More Complicated Now

12:58 Shifting Your Mindset After a Negative Experience

21:53 Taking the Leap: Dating After Divorce

23:09 The Importance of Vulnerability in Finding Love

24:06 Smart Trade-Offs and Compromises in Relationships

26:52 Don't Compromise on Kindness and Character

35:45 Navigating the Complexities of Dating After Divorce