243: Ramit Sethi's Money Advice for Couples: Live a Rich Life, Together

BiggerPockets Money Podcast

If you’re part of the FI community, you’re probably a saver. Heck, if you’re listening to this podcast you’re probably a saver. While we all are busy optimizing our budget, reinvesting dividends, and contributing to our retirement accounts, do we ever take a step back and ask, “why are we saving so much?” Maybe you have a simplistic answer for this: your kids, your spouse, your “future”. When it comes time to finally reap the rewards of all that saving and investing, we struggle, and often fail to do so.

Ramit Sethi, the author of I Will Teach You To Be Rich, has struggled with this in his personal life as well. When he got married, he and his wife spoke about what money meant to them, and they were shocked to have completely different answers. While Ramit loves setting up models and spreadsheets, he also encourages couples to speak about their finances through a shared vision. It isn’t “I’m saving this money so we can be happy”, it’s “WE are saving this money so we can take that camping trip we always dreamed of.”

We touch on other topics like joint bank accounts, creating a “worry-free number”, and building a rich life together, as partners. Ramit also gives personal advice to Mindy to help her realize that she has already won the “money game”, even if it doesn’t feel like it at times.

In This Episode We Cover

• Combining finances as a couple and creating a shared vision
• How much to keep in your personal and joint bank accounts
• Creating your “worry-free” number that allows you to live life without money stress
• The “money rules” that Ramit uses in his daily life
• Getting over your “savings rate obsession” and finding joy in spending
• Why spending can become painful for those who are on the road to financial independence
• And So Much More!

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