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Building Better Marriages Podcast

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”Building Better Marriages: the I do’s and I don’ts of everyday life” Here, we’re diving deep into the heart of relationships, addressing the many feelings, emotions, and core fears that impact the very essence of your relationship. We’re talking about stronger, Christ-centered marriages. In this safe space, we recognize that the problem is the problem, not your identity. The challenges that you are facing are real, entangling your faith with fears. But fear not, for we’ll navigate these waters with Holy Spirit discernment, allowing faith to transform fear into trust. Join us as we explore the ’I do’ and ’I don’t’ moments in everyday life, weaving Christ-centered wisdom with the Holy Spirit’s direction into the fabric of your marriage. It’s not just a conversation; it’s a journey of building better marriages now.

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057 Before the Ring - Red Flags Every Couple Should Know 10:46

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Welcome back to episode 57 of the Building Better Marriages podcast. I’m so glad you’re here because today, we’re talking about something that can truly change a couple’s life. We will look at what happens before the ring —before the vows, before the dress, and before the honeymoon. I want to help couples and those who care about them understand the red flags and foundations that really matter when it comes to marriage. his season is where big decisions are made, but sometimes with little direction. That’s why I’m passionate about equipping couples with truth, tools, and godly wisdom so they don’t just walk into marriage with excitement—but with clarity and confidence in God’s plan. If you're dating, engaged, or know someone who is, this episode is especially for you. Let’s talk about what needs to be seen and said before the aisle walk begins. The Biblical Love Checklist is a simple yet powerful tool to help you reflect on what true love looks like through the lens of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. Whether you're single, dating, or married, this guide will help you set healthy, godly expectations and grow in Christ-centered love. Let me know in the comment section if you would like the download. Grab your latte, reheat your tea or start to set the pace and get cozy and comfy, for your prayer was heard. This is the first step toward building a love that honors God and lasts a lifetime. If today’s episode blessed you, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement in her relationship. Your support helps other women like you discover God’s truth for love, marriage, and healing—one episode at a time. Let’s build Christ-centered marriages together!…

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056 God's Blueprint For Love - What the Bible Really Says 16:35

8 days ago16:35

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In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, showing how God defines love not as a feeling but as action, sacrifice, and commitment. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this message will help you set biblical expectations that lead to deeper trust, healthier intimacy, and stronger Christ-centered relationships. You’ll learn: How to recognize real, God-honoring love Why feelings fade, but commitment lasts How to apply 1 Corinthians 13 to your daily life and marriage The difference between worldly love and biblical love How to pray for and pursue a relationship that reflects Christ This episode is for the woman who wants more than just surface-level connection. She wants a relationship built on truth, trust, and God’s design for love. Be sure to grab the free Biblical Love Checklist linked in the show notes to take this message even deeper.…

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055 Diving into the Deep End of Commitment 7:46

13 days ago7:46

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Why are so many people afraid of true commitment—especially when it comes to marriage? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the fears that hold us back from diving deep into lasting love and why God’s design for marriage is the only way to truly experience the joy, safety, and purpose of covenant love. If you’re ready to move past the fear and into a Christ-centered relationship that reflects His heart, this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: God’s Design for Marriage – A biblical guide to building a love that lasts A Better Marriage Prayer Journal – 31 days to deepen your connection through Scripture and prayer Ready to go deeper? Click here to schedule a free discovery chat with Dr. Deborah. She would love to walk alongside you on your journey. Like what you hear? Be sure to like, subscribe, and leave a review—your support helps others just like you find this podcast and grow stronger in faith and love. Before I go here’s A Prayer for You Heavenly Father, Thank You for the one reading these words right now. You see their heart, their hopes, and even their hesitations when it comes to love and commitment. Remind them that Your design for marriage is good, safe, and rooted in truth. Replace their fear with faith, their wounds with healing, and their doubts with Your peace. Give them courage to take the next step—whether it’s starting again, praying together, or reaching out for guidance. Wrap them in Your love today and show them that with You at the center, all things are possible. In Jesus’ name, Amen.…

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054 The Five Foundations Of An Unshakeable Marriage 8:15

21 days ago8:15

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What makes a marriage truly thrive? In this episode, Dr. Deborah dives into the five essential foundations of an unshakeable marriage—faith, love, trust, communication, and commitment. She unpacks how these biblical principles create a strong, lasting relationship and share practical ways to build (or rebuild) them in your marriage. Whether you're newly married, years into your journey, or preparing for marriage, this episode will give you the tools to strengthen your relationship and align it with God's design. Grab your latte, reheat your tea or start to set the pace as you tune in for encouragement, wisdom, and real-life applications to help your marriage flourish! 🔹 Scripture Focus 🔹 Action Steps to Strengthen Your Marriage 🔹 Encouragement for Couples at Any Stage Don’t forget to subscribe and share this episode with someone who needs it! Thank you!…

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Spring Ahead - Moving Forward in Faith Together 7:02

29 days ago7:02

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Spring is here—a season of renewal, fresh beginnings, and new growth. Just like we set our clocks ahead to embrace longer days, our marriages also need refreshing and intentional change moments. Are you making the necessary adjustments in your relationship to move forward in faith and love? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares a personal story of how God shifted her path from growing flowers to growing marriages, reminding us that just like gardens need tending, so do our relationships. Tune in to learn: How to clear out the weeds—old habits, past hurts, and things holding you back. Why trusting God's timing is key for renewal in marriage. Actionable steps to spring ahead together in faith and love. Ready to refresh your marriage this season? Start your journey with my Better Marriage Prayer Journal: 31 Days of Scriptural Reflections and a Guide to Deepening Your Connection . Grab your copy now on Amazon! Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe now, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement! Thank you! xoxo Deborah…

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052 God is in the Testing - Trusting Him to Show the Way 8:44

5 weeks ago8:44

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Life doesn’t always go as planned. Sometimes, we step out in faith, pour our hearts into something, and the response isn’t what we expected. In those moments, doubt creeps in, and we wonder if we misheard God. But what if the testing is part of His plan? What if He’s refining us, redirecting us, and preparing us for something greater? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares her own experience of stepping out in faith, facing unexpected challenges, and learning to trust that God is in the testing . Through scripture, personal reflection, and encouragement, she reminds us that when we keep our hearts open, God will show the way—often in ways we never imagined. If you’ve ever faced a season of uncertainty, this episode is for you. Tune in and be encouraged to surrender, trust, and walk boldly into God’s plan for your life. Key Takeaways: How to recognize when God is refining you through testing The power of surrendering our plans for His purpose Encouragement to keep moving forward in faith Listen now and be reminded: He is making a way—even when you can’t see it yet. If you want to bless me and others, please "like, share and leave a review." Thank you xoxo…

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051 Are You Worth the Investment? 13:27

6 weeks ago13:27

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"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Matthew 6:21 (NIV) How often do you think about treating yourself—a massage, a facial, a weekend getaway, or even just dinner with a friend—only to stop yourself with the thought, "That’s a lot of money." You might even search for a payment plan or a discount, but deep down, it was never really about the money. The real issue? Believing YOU are worth the investment. In today’s episode, we’re diving into why so many women struggle to invest in themselves and why nurturing your inner self—your faith, dreams, and purpose—is just as important as anything you do on the outside. That’s why I created the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit—because YOU are worth the investment. It’s time to renew your spirit, restore your joy, and embrace the story God is writing in your life. CLICK HERE for the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit! Want to go deeper? CLICK HERE to Grab my book! God’s Design for Marriage: A Blueprint for Building a Christ-Centered Marriage Need clarity? CLICK HERE to schedule a FREE 15-minute Power Call with me today! Loved this episode? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with a friend who needs this encouragement! Until next time, keep your eyes lifted, your hand ready to help, and your heart open to love.…

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050 You Were Not Meant To Do Life Alone 12:26

7 weeks ago12:26

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Have you ever found yourself saying, “I don’t need anyone. I can handle it alone” ? Maybe you’ve convinced yourself that asking for help is a sign of weakness or that no one would understand your struggles. But here’s the truth—God never intended for you to walk this journey alone. In this episode, we’ll dive into why so many women feel they must carry everything by themselves, the biblical truth about community and support, and how stepping out of isolation leads to healing and transformation. You are not meant to do this alone, and you don’t have to. Want to go deeper? Join us at the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit—a sacred place where you will find encouragement, wisdom, and faith-filled connections. You are seen. You are loved. You are worth the investment. Grab your FREE resource: "Your Story Matters"—a powerful guide to embracing your journey and stepping into the purpose God has for you! Loved this episode? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with a friend who needs this encouragement today! Register for the Summit Here! Download Your Freebie Here! With joy and blessings, Dr. Deborah…

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049 The Power of Commitment When Love Gets Tough 12:10

9 weeks ago12:10

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"Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." — Romans 12:10 In Episode 049, "The Power of Commitment: When Love Gets Tough," Dr. Deborah explores the real meaning of commitment beyond the honeymoon phase. Discover how to navigate difficult seasons in your relationship, why feelings aren't enough to sustain commitment, and how God's blueprint for love can strengthen your marriage. Whether you're waiting on commitment, preparing for it, or facing tough times in your relationship, this episode offers biblical wisdom, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement. Key Takeaways: Debunking the myths of commitment Understanding God's design for lasting love Practical strategies for staying connected when love feels challenging Call to Action: Don’t miss out on the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit , where we’ll dive deeper into God's design for love and commitment. Also, grab your copy of God's Design for Marriage: A Blueprint for Lasting Love in Christ" for more insights and tools to strengthen your relationship. If this episode blessed you, please like, subscribe, and share the podcast with others who need encouragement in their commitment journey. Your support helps us reach more hearts and homes with God’s message of love. Key points: The Myths of Commitment: Why feelings aren’t enough. God's Blueprint for Commitment: Reflecting Christ’s love in relationships. Practical Strategies: Daily prayer, gratitude journaling, and conflict resolution tips.…

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048 Discovering Your Heart's Song A Journey of Renewal and Purpose 24:40

10 weeks ago24:40

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Are you feeling stuck, uncertain, or longing for more in your life and marriage? In this powerful episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to discover your heart’s song—that unique, God-given purpose that brings clarity, confidence, and joy. Using Isaiah 43:18-19 as our foundation, we’ll explore how to release the weight of the past, embrace the fullness of who God created you to be, and step boldly into your next season. Your story—the good, the bad, and the challenging—matters, and when you embrace it, you step into the renewal and restoration God has for you. Here’s what you’ll take away from today’s episode: ✔️ How to let go of past hurts and disappointments that hold you back ✔️ Why your story is your strength and how God uses it for His glory ✔️ The three essential reasons why discovering your heart’s song is life-changing ✔️ A special invitation to the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit—the life-reset experience you’ve been waiting for Special Free Gift! As we prepare for Valentine’s Day, I have a FREE DOWNLOAD just for you—“31 Marriage Promises for Your Valentine.” These powerful, faith-filled promises will help you and your spouse strengthen your love, deepen your connection, and build a Christ-centered marriage. Click here to get your free copy . Register Now for the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit " New Beginnings, Embracing Your Story To Discover Your Heart's Song "! This life-changing event is designed to help you embrace your whole story, find renewal, and confidently step into God’s purpose. Click here to register today! Let’s keep the conversation going! If this episode blessed you, please like, review, and share the podcast! Your support helps us reach more women who need encouragement and transformation. Leave a review on [Podcast Platform] & share this episode with a friend! Let’s discover your heart’s song together. See you in the episode!…

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047 Reflecting on the Past to Embrace God's Grace Now 16:38

11 weeks ago16:38

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As we step into the new year, it’s easy to look back on our past—our victories, mistakes, and moments of regret. But what if, instead of holding onto guilt, we embraced God’s grace fully? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah dives into the power of grace and how it frees us from shame, renews our spirit, and allows us to walk confidently into God’s plan. 📖 Key Takeaways: ✨ The difference between reflecting and dwelling on the past ✨ Three truths about embracing God’s grace today ✨ Two choices that will help you move forward ✨ One practical tip to release guilt and trust in God’s plan No matter what yesterday looked like, today is a new beginning. Join us as we learn to let go, trust God, and step into His freedom for us! 👉 Listen now and start embracing God's grace in your marriage and life today! Discover how His love can transform your story! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode, and share this with someone who needs encouragement today. Let’s build better marriages together! With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, why not download “31 Marriage Promises for Your Valentine” to keep your steps steady and your heart focused? Click here to get your beautifully designed download. Join Us for the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit! Step into a life of purpose and renewal at Success to Significance: Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart’s Song. This transformative event will help you reflect on your journey, uncover your God-given purpose, and equip you to walk boldly into the future God has planned for you. Here’s what you’ll experience: Powerful keynotes rooted in biblical wisdom. Practical workshops to inspire personal and spiritual growth. A supportive community of faith-filled women just like you. Don’t miss this opportunity to embrace your story and align your life with God’s design. Click here to Register today to save your spot for this life-changing event. Virtual and in-person options are available! Let’s step into God’s “new thing” together!…

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046 How to Take Baby Steps For a Fresh Start With a Faithful God 10:19

12 weeks ago10:19

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Are you ready to start fresh and take control of your spiritual journey? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba shares how small, faith-filled steps can lead to meaningful change in your relationship with God and your spouse. With insights from Zechariah 4:10, you'll learn how to trust God’s timing, let go of perfectionism, and embrace progress in your everyday life. What You’ll Discover: Practical, faith-based habits to build a stronger relationship with God. Encouragement to prioritize your marriage through simple daily actions. How God rejoices in your small, intentional beginnings. Don’t miss this episode if you’ve been searching for: “How to grow closer to God in everyday life.” “Faith-based personal growth.” “Steps for a fresh start with God.” Thank you for tuning into Building Better Marriages: The I Dos and I Don’ts of Everyday Life. If today’s episode inspired you, don’t stop here! Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode. Please leave a review to let us know how this message is helping you grow in your marriage and faith. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement. Don’t forget to click here for a powerful resource, "31 Marriage Promises for Your Valentine," Register for the "2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit" here . Let’s take those baby steps toward stronger marriages and deeper faith!…

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045 A Fresh Start in 2025 - Baby Steps Toward Your Best Year Yet 13:16

13 weeks ago13:16

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In this inspiring episode, we’ll explore how to embrace the new year with a fresh perspective and renewed faith. Whether you're setting big goals or focusing on small, meaningful changes, we’ll discuss how taking baby steps can lead to lasting transformation. Grounded in Scripture and practical tips, this episode will encourage you to trust God’s plan as you move forward, one step at a time, toward your best year yet. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about hope, grace, and creating a Christ-centered 2025! 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit: “New Beginnings – Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart’s Song” Are you ready to embrace your story—all of it—and step into the new beginning God has planned for you? Join us at the 2025 Women’s Summit, where we’ll dive into Isaiah 43:18-19 and discover how to let go of the past and walk boldly into your future. Space is limited for this life-changing event, so don’t wait! Register today and invite a friend to share in this journey of renewal, restoration, and rediscovery. Click here to claim your spot now! Are you thinking about what to give your Valentine lately? Click here to get your 31 Marriage Promises!…

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044 From Empty to Empowered - Trusting God When You Have Nothing Left To Give 13:26

14 weeks ago13:26

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This listener favorite originally aired September 3, 2024, and we’re bringing it back because it’s just as powerful today as it was then! If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burned out, or like you have nothing left to give, this episode is for you. Dr. Deborah Skomba shares timeless biblical truths and practical steps to help you trust God in your emptiest moments and find strength in His promises. ✨ Join Me at the 2025 Success to Significance Women’s Summit! ✨ This March, we’ll gather to embrace our stories and rediscover the heart song God has placed in us. Reserve your spot at the 2025 Success To Significance Women's Summit, New Beginnings - Embracing Your Story to Discover Your Heart's Song" and be part of this transformational experience. 🎙️ Where to Find Me: YouTube: Talking Heart to Heart with Deborah Skomba Amazon Music: Building Better Marriages Instagram & Facebook: @deborahskomba @hearttoheartcoachingandcommunity Revisit this impactful episode and let it inspire you once again. Please share it with someone who needs encouragement today!…

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043 Love Is At The Heart of Christmas 8:24

15 weeks ago8:24