54 - Children and Supermarkets (Jonathan Haidt)

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[0:00] Music.

[0:37] Sam.

[0:56] In an absolutely hilarious Turn Of Events 2 weeks ago I. Recorded are quotes podcast great the best one ever.

[1:16] I was recording the wrong sound input.

[1:21] So it was Sam that was fun for me when I got to the end and saw that it was a flatline.

[1:30] Yes but.

[1:35] I was frustrated about mouth clicks so I looked into you know.

[1:46] I looked into them at the end of it and people saying eat an apple it’s an apple slices it’s got to be green, so I’ve got an apple and a good two slices and there ain’t green and you know what the acid of the apple has the fuse that clicking it in my mouth. So we’ve not announced today it’s eat a whole slice just before recording podcast and I’ll remove that collect. Jonathan haidt was on Joe Rogan Jonathan haidt no popular social scientists my hero longer speak some uh, I need fucking clicking right left and centre in the skies a pro so someone needs to give that mother fucker an apple.

[2:40] Right I need to find out where the fuck the content is cos I’m just kinda like staring into space.

[2:55] I was ok that’s good I hope that you’re ok that’s not brilliant stone I. Might see how to geek article I might have a thought and Jonathan had said something interesting and I’ll email it to an email address pod at noviscore. Il. A doctor’s and get I am voice to text otherwise that email addresses out there for the spam bots. And always does a terrible job of converting anyway so I’m just going to have, Sheila gets out wrong and it goes to a folder got a real setup goes to folder really impressed by their if using these apple pieces of done for clicks my matter fucking. That’s a tip that’s a tip for anyone he’s going to throw shut down on a Mike. And then I go into that folder when I’m recording a podcast and I’ll see the subject and it’ll just give me right now. Few words There Jonathan haidt talking about 17 or something and then I’ll just go off and start talking to you it now got a rule and well I must have a rule setup on a folder she look like now.

[4:19] Yeah so auto clearing anything over 14 days automatically get deleted nice. Two weeks ago I want to record an audio podcast it didn’t work and I just thought fuck am I doing the whole thing again I’m just I’m just not doing that frustrate me and I don’t do the podcast to be frustrated and not get paid, so I’m not gonna lose outside. Been a marked off as a failed recording and I’ll do it in two weeks after that I just heard a hello, the the folders been automatically it’s deleted all that shit because it’s older than 14 days old so wow interesting.

[5:09] So oh yeah talk about term. Flying by the seat of your some sense I’m just gonna have to go with John B big John eh from Joe Rogan I’m listening to. Is audiobook the coddling of the American mind at the moment it’s average man it’s average it’s got you know I know where he’s going with it and.

[5:41] You know I feel what he saying that the long and short of it is just kids eating nuts. And she kids got an allergy gets rushed to hospital. Is a 20 years ago let’s say so the school and you know that it was once in two kids get rushed to hospital year and I want that up numbers to a less you say 1% kids get rushed to hospital for, the school say nuts a band what the fuck are no notes no nuts this looks got to be labelled on food not not not out out out and then she ate boom explosion and nut allergies, just people having been exposed to nuts. The tolerance goes down the problem increases so good intentions but bad results and what he sent you that fight, so what he says now is this is similar with safe spaces in universities 10.

[6:45] Never trying to protect the Minds of younger folk giving unsafe spaces, shouldn’t be exposed to opinions or make them feel scared when you started on agree with some students likening, so speakers and their opinions to violence units of physical still associated violence, Molly saying is 10 people in I’m going out into the real world getting a job in a harsh environment in a win the fucking real world not the real world like, I’m struggling the anxious and the struggling with depression. And is related summer trying to protect them Rover protecting them and then they’re struggling with reality. So that’s what the books about pretty much and I get that but.

[7:42] It’s not as good as the happiness hypothesis which it is well enough was it a media last book. Where is one of those books that listen to pray and fucking loved a brilliant book switch while another reason I like big Johnny Hyde.

[7:58] But you did say something recently that has got me and an in pass. With my family upset historical E I live by TNT truth and transparency and I kinda I lay It Down on a brutal truth level. Where. I’m as young as they ask about death but you have people died and spoke about it before and been difficult and I’m not sure it’s the right thing before you know what I’m always going to be honest with them.

[8:34] And so I think it’s worked out pretty well and then you have to conversation with them in a conversation too hard and sometimes you can’t articulate it right, but you do as good as you can and you move on and they learn and you go out and I’ve been happy with that. Anna and Jonathan haidt on and he says send your kid to supermarket when the kids between the age of 7 and 11 equals the key age so it’s a new Kid the supermarket round the corner, going to pick up some fucking bananas, that kind of exposure to the real world is really good because some sense of independence xxx my yeah man feeling that, doesn’t statistics you know you have to send your kid to a supermarket, I need after you have to sit in there car lot for 7000 years for the kids to be able to take from supermarket no one backed up by some solid facts lovin’ it lovin’ it.

[9:37] Not always been the line is gone down and then you caught me with a fucking careful man. Because it basically says. Kids not your kids can talk to strangers but you don’t want to be seen see kids don’t talk to strangers because the stranger could take you away and take you away from your family on you’ll never see it again. It is because that kind of talk of how dangerous and horrible people can be. Is actually can we can grow up to be anxious and depressed by having a conversation.

[10:23] So I mean I don’t I don’t think he says tell your kids as talk to strangers but at the same time as he says don’t don’t. Let me not to the key example don’t say to your kid don’t talk to strangers because the stranger might take you away because he starts scared the kid then and that can do damage read my record me out is because. Does a church not far away from where I am and I don’t fucking like the whole priest thing because of the film like spotlight, and when you look into. The steps you look at an organisation like the church let’s just pretend that was a corporation.

[11:16] And then you looked at the number of sexual crimes against children per employee know it’s fucking it’s, it’s an insane you if it was an actual corporation that be all over the news for, it’s crazy that Joey one ever Incorporated excuse me for a second. I’m going back in the house so when I was pretty much saying you did the church hasn’t got a good reputation around children. So we walking past the church and daughter said lived in there said he’s a priest for, and he might say there’s a bad man I said yeah yeah he’s a bad man she’s like why.

[12:11] And I said listen I can’t tell you because you’re too young thought maybe when you’re older well. What is a bad man so you know just trying to stay away from him you don’t need to worry because I’m daddy I protect you but it’s not it’s not good. 8lf to thing on his prior to listening to Big John hay channel you think I’m on my god you shouldn’t be saying saying that to your daughter, how can over Chrome on a boat.

[12:44] 3 perfectly honest or in at least a few weeks ago they don’t really fucking care what you think if there’s even a small risk. My daughter just thought it was fine to trust the priests because that’s their you know. It’d be in a position of authority when you’re in his environment and then something better so did escalator sexual abuse I’m just not willing to take that risk at all I will label, I will playable rightly so my opinion from the data of it and the way the church deal with this shit that priests the fucking asshole and I wanted to be scared and I was fine. But listening to big Johnny Boy Jonathan haidt. Speaking to my wife because she doesn’t listen to All the psychology shit there. I do with my a social psychologist and stuff but you don’t seem to when it comes down this kind of thing I dunno maybe its natural part of being a woman, just have a better overall she pretty good with this shield bar. And I mention this to her because she knows that im very open and honest about everything to the kids to a level.

[14:06] And she’s like listen the bottom line is but it will not religious and we don’t go to church and it’s, the cheaters never be really gonna be around the priest don’t don’t do it a religious school near that we chose not to do that one to a different one so when you look at everything in its totality in a maybe maybe I was wrong. And I should be not always given the. The harsh reality talk to my children so they sort of a Kinder, desensitise the kids but I’m kinda I can speak openly with a but not speak with a quiver not like oh my god the world’s a horrible place because I thought that make the manager’s brother give it matter of fact, what side will you be ok if you look out for this and we’re there to protect you that be ok and I don’t know what I’m I know I’m offline on but I may have got it wrong because.

[15:08] I don’t feel as if I have got it wrong, I trust Jonathan haidt more than I trust my own judgement because, I’ve listened to him in in different environments and I’ve marked them up as a trustworthy source and his social psychologists Sophie said something that contradicts my belief, I’m going to go with him because you know he’s being proved before.

[15:42] Yeah I mean nothing something out so fucking all this was supposed to have no content for this week. I had am beautiful boy and I wish to the such as everything’s been released by the beautiful boy film on her friend of mine had a beautiful boy film on and the TV without Davey Boy, and the kids are around a daisy boys so they they were in the room whilst it was on, and I got a bit where do a cooking up some heroin. Unusually my wife at them be like 10 turn off Mum cos he’s kids so fucking. 5 years old fun fair on people cooking heroin on TV, nuclear can push back or discuss it later I’m just say I don’t want to hide reality from them I want them to see them cooking up heroin and say listen. The cooking up heroin putting something in the body and then I give you the money favours to give me Detroit destroy, the immune system and go through the facts don’t be scared but be open and approach each other not shocked.

[16:57] When you see that stuff in the future the match shocked on the not all be seen it and we’ve been spoken to about it. When she said turn it off I was just like first my brains like no fuck you ain’t in that off this is an opportunity to converse, and I thought about big Johnny age and I was like no I don’t know if John do you want someone stomach supposed to this shit, maybe they are maybe it’s not always about truth and transparency me of the are too young. And I fucking just turned it off and I still I still haven’t included on what’s the right thing to do man because that’s life so many people seem to have to have an opinion about everything to Canada. Feel that they are somebody that they are a person and then they can stand and fight that opinion against other people but you know what.

[17:58] A lot of the time I just don’t fucking no man and that’s ok.

[18:27] It’s motherland Pizza Hut.