S6 E4 - Things We Wish We Knew Earlier Pt 1 Coffee Morning Laughter podcast

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In this week's episode of Coffee Morning Laughter, we tackle the thorny issue of dealing with difficult bosses. Join Shilz and Djenys as they share personal stories and offer sage advice on navigating the complexities of challenging workplace dynamics. Djenys opens up about her harrowing experiences with a particularly tough female manager, highlighting the struggles she faced while pregnant. Shilz emphasizes the importance of a supportive work environment, contrasting her positive experiences under nurturing leadership with the stress and uncertainty brought on by ineffective managers. The discussion deepens as they debate what truly defines a great leader, swapping tales of bosses who overstep, undermine, and occasionally, those who inspire and elevate their teams. They also tackle the delicate topic of confronting a difficult boss and the potential repercussions within the office politics. Plus, get ready for a spirited disagreement on whether HR departments are allies or obstacles in the quest for workplace justice. Tune in for an episode filled with laughter, candid discussions, and valuable insights. Whether you’ve faced a nightmare boss yourself or just enjoy a good workplace saga, this episode is for you. Don't forget to share your own bad boss story with us—your experience could be a lifeline for someone in a similar boat! #NightmareBosses #LeadershipLessons #WorkplaceSurvival #CoffeeMorningLaughter #CMLpodcast #RealTalk #CareerAdvice #OfficePolitics #HRDebate #PodcastLife #SurvivingBadBosses…

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S6 E8 - Preparation Meets Opportunity 26:32

12 days ago26:32

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Get ready to level up with Season 6, Episode 8 of Coffee Morning Laughter: "Preparation Meets Opportunity." In this empowering episode, Shilz and Djenys dive into the crucial roles of preparation and discipline in achieving success. They discuss how true success is not a matter of luck but the result of diligent preparation meeting the right opportunities. Drawing from the dedication of professionals like hairstylists who perfect their craft and icons like Beyoncé known for her unparalleled work ethic, the episode underscores the importance of being proactive in your professional and personal life. The conversation extends to personal relationships, examining the necessity of having direction and discipline as foundational qualities in potential friends and partners. From setting weekly goals to choosing your circle wisely, this episode is a toolkit for anyone looking to intentionally prepare for future successes. Shilz and Djenys highlight that life is made up of different seasons—some for planting seeds and others for harvesting the fruits of your labor. Tune in to learn how embracing discipline and intentional preparation can transform your approach to opportunities and set you on a path to achieving your dreams. Remember, it’s all about staying ready, so you don’t have to get ready.…

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S6 E7 - Beef, Pride & Accountability 33:49

19 days ago33:49

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In this compelling episode of Coffee Morning Laughter, titled "Beef, Pride & Accountability," Shilz and Djenys delve into the complexities of taking responsibility in relationships and the broader implications of high-profile disputes like the Kendrick Lamar vs. Drake beef. The conversation centers on the importance of accountability, particularly how people handle the repercussions of their actions toward others. Shilz argues that forgiveness doesn't mandate reconciliation, especially if boundaries have been disrespected and relationships have fundamentally changed over time. Using the friction between Kendrick Lamar and Drake as a framework, they explore whether some conflicts are irreparable, discussing how deeply personal disagreements can permanently alter perceptions and interactions. The episode also touches on the notion that not all relationships need to be fixed—sometimes, an apology is just an acknowledgment, not an invitation to reconnect. Shilz brings a biblical perspective, quoting, "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks," to highlight that words often reflect our truest sentiments, especially those expressed in heat. Djenys concurs, suggesting that letting go and moving forward without resolution can sometimes be the healthiest path. Tune in to this episode on your favorite streaming platform as Shilz and Djenys navigate the delicate balance between making amends and maintaining personal boundaries. It's a discussion about respect, recognition, and the right to distance oneself from past conflicts. #CoffeeMorningLaughter #Accountability #Relationships #KendrickVsDrake #Forgiveness #PersonalBoundaries #PodcastLife #CMLpodcast…

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S6 E6 - To Gift or Not to Gift? 28:52

27 days ago28:52

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Valentine's Day brings with it the perennial question for many in relationships: To gift or not to gift? This episode of Coffee Morning Laughter delves into the complexities of gifting expectations at various stages of relationships. Join Shilz and Djenys as they explore how different couples navigate the pressures and pleasures of exchanging gifts on special occasions like Valentine’s Day. From new daters to long-married couples, our hosts share insights on the delicate balance between showing affection through gifts and managing expectations. They discuss stories and perspectives that reveal how the significance of gifting can vary, sometimes leading to delightful surprises or unintended misunderstandings. Tune in to understand the nuances of romantic gifting, hear about different relationship dynamics, and maybe even get some inspiration for your next special occasion. Whether you're a big spender or prefer heartfelt gestures, this episode will give you plenty to think about! Stream "To Gift or Not to Gift?" now on your favorite podcast platform and join the conversation about love, relationships, and, of course, the art of gifting.…

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S6 E5 - Is This Man Yours Or Ours? 32:48

5 weeks ago32:48

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In this revealing episode of Coffee Morning Laughter, Season 6, Episode 5 takes a deep dive into the intriguing world of modern dating forums like "Are We Dating the Same Guy?"—a space where women investigate potential infidelities by comparing notes on their partners. Shilz and Djenys explore the motivations behind joining such groups, the red flags that drive suspicion, and the quest for validation in relationships. With humor and insight, they discuss the complexities of advising those who are rich, in love, or deeply invested in spiritual guidance. The conversation extends to relationship standards and self-worth, addressing why some people settle for the bare minimum in love. The episode also tackles the emotional dimensions of infidelity, particularly how women experience it differently, making it less detectable. Shilz challenges listeners to consider what they truly seek in dating, emphasizing the importance of self-questioning and personal standards. Privacy versus public exposure becomes a central theme as they critique the trend of posting partners' photos in public groups. How does sharing intimate details online affect personal relationships and privacy? They encourage listeners to trust their instincts and recognize the signs when something doesn't feel right. Join Shilz and Djenys as they navigate this delicate topic, offering insights on maintaining dignity and recognizing one's worth in the complex web of modern relationships. Stream "Is This Man Yours Or Ours?" now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite streaming service to join the conversation about love, trust, and the fine line between public intrigue and private matters. #CoffeeMorningLaughter #ModernDating #RelationshipRedFlags #PrivacyInRelationships #SelfWorth #DatingDilemma #PodcastLife #DatingEthics…

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S6 E4 - Things We Wish We Knew Earlier Pt 1 29:52

6 weeks ago29:52

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Join Shilz and Djenys on Coffee Morning Laughter as they dive into a reflective exploration of life's lessons in the episode "Things We Wish We Knew Earlier Pt 1." This engaging discussion covers the crucial insights and realizations they've gathered through varied experiences—highlighting how life humbles you, the unpredictability of career paths, and the resilience required to navigate emotional challenges. The episode emphasizes the importance of preserving your true self through 'seasoning'—setting boundaries and maintaining personal integrity amidst life's demands. Shilz and Djenys share their perspectives on 'soft living,' which cherishes the simplicity of life's pleasures and underscores the significance of self-care and taking breaks to recharge. They also explore the vital role of friendships, discussing how nurturing these relationships provides support and joy, and the power of healing through conversations. Each story and discussion point underlines a central message: embrace life's journey with patience, keep moving forward, and cherish the connections that enrich our experiences. Tune in on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform to absorb these heartfelt lessons. Reflect with us and share how these insights resonate with your own experiences. #CoffeeMorningLaughter #LifeLessons #PersonalGrowth #NewBeginnings #SoftLiving #FriendshipGoals #JoyfulLiving #CMLpodcast #PodcastLife #ReflectiveJourney…

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S6 E3 - LA Fires: How Did We Lose Our Compassion? 28:59

7 weeks ago28:59

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In this thought-provoking episode of Coffee Morning Laughter, hosts Shilz and Djenys delve into the recent wildfire crisis in Los Angeles, examining the complex reactions it has sparked among social media users. As the flames consumed lives, livelihood and properties, a troubling trend emerged: a glaring lack of compassion for certain victims, particularly celebrities and the affluent, raising important questions about empathy in our society. The episode, “LA Fires: How Did We Lose Our Compassion?” explores the selective sympathy displayed online, where comments have ranged from supportive to spiteful, particularly towards those perceived as wealthy. Shilz and Djenys discuss the critical need for universal compassion regardless of social status, especially in times of widespread disaster. They challenge listeners to consider why some feel that only the underprivileged deserve empathy when tragedy strikes. Through personal opinions and online comments, this episode unpacks the biases that influence our capacity for kindness and calls for a more inclusive approach to offering support. As Los Angeles begins to heal and rebuild, this discussion invites us to reflect on what it means to truly empathize with all those affected, regardless of their background. Join us as we explore the depths of human kindness and the critical need to nurture it in our increasingly divided world. Tune in, reflect on your views of compassion, and share your thoughts with us. #LAFires #Compassion #SocialMediaReactions #Empathy #UniversalKindness #CoffeeMorningLaughter #PodcastDiscussion #CommunitySupport #HumanKindness…

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S6 E2 - Quitting Friendships That No Longer Serve You 31:52

8 weeks ago31:52

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In Season 6, Episode 2 of Coffee Morning Laughter, we dive into the sometimes difficult but necessary realm of ending friendships that no longer contribute positively to our lives. Shilz and Djenys unpack the emotional and psychological aspects of recognizing when a friendship has run its course and the courage it takes to step away for the sake of personal growth. This episode explores why some friendships may start to feel misaligned as our lives and values evolve. From shifting dynamics to recognizing toxic patterns, the hosts share personal anecdotes and advice on how to approach these tough decisions with compassion and resolve. Listeners will gain insights into: Identifying signs that a friendship might be holding you back. Handling the emotional fallout of ending a friendship. Strategies for letting go with grace and respect. Join Shilz and Djenys as they provide guidance on nurturing healthier relationships and making space for more fulfilling connections. It's all about honoring your journey and surrounding yourself with people who uplift and support you. Tune in to learn how to confidently navigate the process of quitting friendships that no longer serve you, and discover how this tough choice can open doors to better well-being and stronger, more supportive bonds. #CoffeeMorningLaughter #Friends #FriendshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #HealthyRelationships…

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S6 E1 - New Year Reset: Setting Goals or Vibes? 33:29

9 weeks ago33:29

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Welcome to the first episode of Season 6 and the new year on Coffee Morning Laughter! In "New Year Reset: Setting Goals or Vibes?" we dive into the heart of January's fervor. This episode explores the myriad ways people approach the new year—some with detailed resolutions and ambitious goals, others riding the wave of 'just vibes.' Join Shilz and Djenys as they unpack the significance of setting intentions and how these choices can shape our year ahead. From the psychology behind resolutions to embracing a more relaxed approach to the new year, we discuss what works, what doesn't, and why sometimes, the best plan is having no plan at all. Whether you're a planner, a dreamer, or somewhere in between, this episode offers insights and laughter for everyone. As we kick off 2025, what's your approach? Goals, vibes, or a bit of both? Tune in to find out how to make the most of your new year reset. Remember, the year is yours to define. Let’s start it together with purpose, laughter, and maybe a new perspective on what it means to truly reset. #NewYearReset #CoffeeMorningLaughter #Season6 #GoalSetting #NewYearVibes #CMLpodcast #PodcastLife #2025Goals…

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S5 E12 - How We Christmas 28:58

11 weeks ago28:58

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Celebrate the festive season with this special Christmas Day episode of Coffee Morning Laughter, titled "How We Christmas." Join Shilz and Djenys as they share their personal holiday traditions, favorite festive memories, and the unique ways they celebrate Christmas. From heartfelt family gatherings to the quirky customs that make the season bright, this episode is a cozy dive into the holiday spirit. As Shilz and Djenys recount the laughter and joy of their holiday experiences, we invite you to reflect on your own Christmas traditions. What makes the holiday special for you and your loved ones? Whether it's a long-held family ritual or a new tradition you've started, we're excited to hear about the diverse and delightful ways our listeners celebrate. Tune in to "How We Christmas" and get into the holiday spirit with us. Don’t forget to share your Christmas stories in the comments or on social media – we'd love to celebrate the season of giving and joy with our Coffee Morning Laughter community. #HowWeChristmas #ChristmasTraditions #HolidaySpirit #CoffeeMorningLaughter #CMLpodcast #FestiveSeason #ShareYourStory…

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S5 E11 - Aunt Wisdom 31:45

13 weeks ago31:45

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In this captivating episode of Coffee Morning Laughter, titled " Aunt Wisdom ," Shilz and Djenys delve into the rich tapestry of African Aunties' wisdom that has been passed down through generations. Their sayings and advice often serve as invaluable guides through everyday life situations and relationships, offering a unique blend of humor, love, and practicality. As cherished as their wisdom is, Shilz and Djenys also explore the lighter side, discussing how some views from our beloved aunties can seem out of touch, reflecting the humorous and sometimes perplexing aspects of the generational gaps. From relationship advice that hits the mark to opinions that leave us puzzled, this episode is a heartfelt nod to the cultural nuances that shape our interactions within African families. Tune in to "Aunt Wisdom" and join us as we celebrate the quirky yet profound impact of African Aunties' advice on our lives. Whether you find yourself nodding in agreement or laughing at the absurdities, this episode is a warm tribute to the women who shape us with their words. Listen now on your favorite streaming platform to discover the pearls of wisdom and the puzzles of perspective that African Aunties bring to the table. #AuntWisdom #AfricanCulture #FamilyAdvice #GenerationalGap #CoffeeMorningLaughter #CMLpodcast #LifeLessons #HumorAndHeritage…

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S5 E10 - Diddy done did it 29:52

16 weeks ago29:52

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In this eye-opening episode titled "Diddy Done Did It," Coffee Morning Laughter takes a deep dive into the troubling revelations surrounding allegations of abuse by influential figures like Diddy. As shocking as it is, this episode explores the stark reality that individuals idolized by many can lead double lives, wielding their power and status not as pillars of community support but as tools for manipulation and control. We dissect the complex dynamics of how charm and charisma can mask darker truths, particularly in high-profile figures within the Black community. This discussion sheds light on the broader societal implications—how wealth and fame create protective barriers that allow such behaviors to go unchecked, reinforcing the adage that all that glitters is not gold. Join Shilz and Djenys as they unpack the difficult questions about accountability, the allure of celebrity, and the critical need for systemic changes that ensure no one is above scrutiny, regardless of their social standing. This episode is a call to remain vigilant and question the narratives we often take for granted. Tune in to challenge your perceptions and engage in a crucial conversation about recognizing and addressing abuse in all its forms. #DiddyDoneDidIt #AbuseInPower #CelebrityCulture #Accountability #CoffeeMorningLaughter #PodcastDiscussion #SocialJustice #AllThatGlittersIsNotGold…

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S5 E9 - Reclaiming Narratives - Black History Month 31:58

19 weeks ago31:58

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In this special episode titled "Reclaiming Narratives - Black History Month," Shilz and Djenys embark on a powerful journey through the often overlooked and forgotten histories of the Black community. As Black History Month concludes, they delve deep into the stories that have shaped, defined, and continue to influence the Black narrative across generations. Join us as we explore the significant contributions, enduring struggles, and triumphant moments of the Black community that mainstream history often misses. This episode is not just a reflection; it's a celebration and a call to action to honor, remember, and reclaim the narratives that have been sidelined for too long. Listen as Shilz and Djenys engage in thoughtful discussions, share insights, and highlight the importance of understanding our collective history to forge a more informed and inclusive future. This is an episode for everyone committed to learning, growing, and participating in the vital conversation about racial equality and historical acknowledgment. Tune in to deepen your understanding and appreciation of the rich and diverse tapestry that is Black history. #ReclaimingNarratives #BlackHistoryMonth #CulturalHeritage #PodcastLife #CoffeeMorningLaughter #EducateAndCelebrate…

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S5 E8 - Can You Be Friends with People Who Are Jealous of You? 42:48

23 weeks ago42:48

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In this thought-provoking episode of Coffee Morning Laughter, we delve into the complex dynamics of friendship and jealousy. Is it possible to maintain a genuine friendship with someone who may harbor feelings of envy towards you? We explore the subtle signs of jealousy in friendships, discuss how it can affect your personal growth and relationships, and offer strategies for addressing and managing these challenging situations. Join us as we examine whether these friendships can be salvaged or if they are too fraught with negative emotions to sustain. This episode provides insights and practical advice for anyone struggling to navigate the delicate balance between camaraderie and competition within their social circles. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how to foster healthier relationships and decide for yourself if it's possible to be friends with someone who might be jealous of you.…

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S5 E7 - Boundaries and Bank Accounts - The Reality of Family Entitlement 43:23

26 weeks ago43:23