Positive Impact of Co-Parenting on Emotional Growth - with Joseph Zweben

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"The basic premise of the event is that hunters hunt rattlesnakes from the surrounding environment all across West Texas, and bring them into the roundup for the weekend. And during the roundup, these snakes are kept in a pit and then, one by one, beheaded and skinned in front of in front of audiences." - Elizabeth MeLampy Elizabeth MeLampy is a lawyer dedicated to animal rights and protection, and her passion for this work shines through in her latest book, Forget the Camel, the Madcap World of Animal Festivals and What They Say About Being Human . To research the book, Elizabeth traveled across the country, immersing herself in a wide range of animal festivals — from the Iditarod dog sled race to the rattlesnake roundup in Sweetwater, Texas. Elizabeth examines these festivals as revealing microcosms of our broader relationship with animals. Whether it's rattlesnake hunts, frog-jumping contests, ostrich races, or groundhog celebrations, these events reflect the ways humans use animals to express cultural identity, community pride, and historical traditions. Yet beneath the pageantry and excitement lies a deeper question: Is our fascination with these spectacles worth the toll it takes on the animals involved? With compassion and insight, Elizabeth invites readers to consider whether there’s a more ethical and empathetic way to honor our stories — one that respects both animals and the traditions they inspire. Please listen, share and read, Forget the Camel. It will be released on April 8th, 2025. https://apollopublishers.com/index.php/forget-the-camel/…

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"If your parents and you are just going to look at the negative side only and just keep making it worse for yourself, it's never going to get better." -Joseph Zweben- Joseph Zweben, a student at Pace University, is a testament to the positive impact of cooperative parenting during challenging times like divorce. Having personally experienced the benefits of his parents' collaborative efforts, Joseph emphasizes how their open communication and conflict-free environment allowed him and his brother to thrive academically and athletically. This nurturing approach not only bolstered his emotional well-being but also sparked his passion for helping others facing similar challenges, as demonstrated through his volunteer work with organizations such as Top Soccer and Best Buddies. Joseph's story underscores the potential for resilience and growth in children when parents prioritize a supportive and stable environment, even amidst the complexities of divorce. Key Takeaways: ->The positive impact of cooperative parenting during and after divorce on children's adaptation and mental well-being ->The value of empathy, support, and effective communication in navigating tough situations, as learned through personal experiences ->Maintaining a sense of normalcy for children during family celebrations, birthdays, and holidays post-divorce ->The enduring unity within divorced families and the importance of open communication and adaptability in family relationships post-separation ->Reassuring children during divorce to prevent them from blaming themselves and minimizing the negative impact on their well-being ->The emotional intelligence growth and ability to help others influenced by watching parents co-parent Connect with Joseph Zweben: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-zweben-17676434a/ https://www.instagram.com/joezweben_/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

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Positive Impact of Co-Parenting on Emotional Growth - with Joseph Zweben

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Establishing Boundaries and Co-Parenting in Divorce - with Jessica McCarthy PSY.D. 34:30

7 days ago34:30

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"Divorce will get you out of one situation. It will not guarantee, though, a happy ending in the next." - Jessica McCarthy Dr. Jessica McCarthy, a renowned clinical and school psychologist from New Jersey, is celebrated for her expertise in supporting women through life transitions, including divorce. As the founder of Elements Psychological Services, she adopts a no-nonsense approach to simplify complex psychological concepts, making her a respected figure in both clinical and media landscapes. Dr. McCarthy views divorce as an opportunity to start anew rather than an assured path to happiness, urging individuals to engage in self-reflection and learn from past experiences to avoid repeating old patterns. She advocates for intentional living by setting clear boundaries and focusing on self-discovery, empowering her clients to craft a fulfilling and purposeful new chapter in their lives after divorce. Key Takeaways ->Healing after divorce requires time and support to prioritize personal well-being. ->Divorce can lead to personal growth and self-discovery by focusing on self-investment. ->Establishing new boundaries and parameters is crucial in post-divorce relationships. ->Co-parenting after divorce requires setting boundaries, clear communication, and prioritizing children's needs. ->Setting boundaries in communication with ex-partners post-divorce is essential for healthy dynamics. ->Maintaining consistency and structure for children of divorce is crucial for their well-being. Connect with Jessica McCarthy: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-a-mccarthy-psy-d-795b333/ https://elementspsych.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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The Role of Parents in Teaching Money Management - with Ed Vargo 38:00

14 days ago38:00

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"If you don't know about the money, you don't have control over the money or access to the money." Ed Vargo, the founder of Burning River Advisory Group and Enlighten Her, is a fervent advocate for financial literacy, particularly focusing on empowering women. Inspired by his immigrant mother's struggles with financial independence, Ed has dedicated his career to providing compassionate financial guidance to help women achieve equality through financial strength. He emphasizes the significance of teaching financial literacy from a young age, advocating for parents to model positive financial behaviors for their children and encouraging open discussions about money within families. Vargo also highlights the impact of financial misunderstandings on relationships, especially during divorce, underscoring the importance of assembling a knowledgeable support team and fostering financial education to promote harmony and independence. Key Takeaways: ->Ed Vargo emphasizes teaching children about money management from a positive perspective and modeling good money behavior. ->Communication about money values and decisions is crucial in relationships to avoid disharmony and resentment. ->Open dialogue about money in relationships can prevent conflicts and build financial harmony. ->Educating oneself about family finances, especially during divorce, is essential to avoid being at a disadvantage. ->Enlighten Her offers resources like white papers on money myths and steps to take during divorce to empower women in managing their finances. ->Early intervention in divorce proceedings is crucial to avoid post-settlement regrets and make informed decisions. ->Enlighten Her aims to empower women to take control of their finances and make informed decisions, especially during major life events like divorce. Connect with Ed Vargo: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-zweben-17676434a/ https://www.instagram.com/joezweben_/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Positive Impact of Co-Parenting on Emotional Growth - with Joseph Zweben 28:34

20 days ago28:34

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Avoiding Pitfalls: Family Home, Financial Models, and Individual Goals - with Melissa Murphy Pavone 28:43

28 days ago28:43

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"You really want to know what your priorities are and then you want to know what your spouse's priorities are, because they might be different." - Melissa Murphy Pavone Melissa Murphy Pavone is a seasoned certified financial planner and divorce financial analyst, whose 18 years of experience in the field are deeply influenced by her personal experiences as a child of divorce. She founded Mindful Divorce Partners to guide clients through the intricate financial challenges of divorce with clarity and assurance. Melissa stresses the importance of proactive and holistic financial planning, focusing on understanding settlement options, tax implications, and the long-term effects of financial decisions, especially when children are involved. Her approach goes beyond mere numbers, helping clients design balanced and sustainable financial plans that align with their future goals and risk tolerance, while avoiding common pitfalls such as retaining the family home without considering its long-term financial impact. Key Takeaways: ->Working with a financial planner post-divorce is crucial for navigating the transition to saving for oneself, contributing to retirement, and bridging the financial gap left by alimony and child support. ->Understanding priorities in financial assets during divorce negotiations is key to ensuring a fair and balanced outcome, particularly when children are involved. ->Having a financial planner as a supportive ally can provide guidance tailored to risk tolerance and financial goals for a secure future post-divorce. ->Offering fee-for-service and assets under management advisory models allows financial advisors to tailor their services to best suit individual circumstances and goals, especially in divorce scenarios. ->Educating clients on the importance of having an emergency fund and considering tax implications is crucial in making informed decisions about the family residence in divorce settlements. Connect with Melissa Murphy Pavone: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissamurphypavone/ https://mindfulfinancialpartners.com/about/ https://mindfulfinancialpartners.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Recovery and Transformation: The Potential for Positive Change Post-Divorce - with Justine Carino 34:28

5 weeks ago34:28

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"In divorce we grieve the marriage, we grieve the life we once had with our partner and what that looked like. We grieve that stability." - Justine Carino Justine Carino, a licensed mental health counselor with over 12 years of experience, is a prominent voice in understanding the psychological impact of divorce. Specializing in anxiety and depression, she highlights the critical role therapy plays in navigating the emotional complexities of this life-altering event. Through her practice and her podcast, "Thoughts from the Couch," Justine emphasizes the importance of therapy in guiding individuals through the stages of grief, helping them rebuild their identities, and fostering personal growth. Her compassionate insights, featured in major media outlets like Cosmopolitan and the Huffington Post, reassure those experiencing divorce that with the right support, happiness and transformation are attainable outcomes. Key Takeaways: ->Divorce can bring about a range of emotional challenges similar to the stages of grief. ->Therapy is essential in assisting individuals going through divorce. ->Establishing clear boundaries is essential for preserving relationships during divorce. ->Common misconceptions about divorce recovery can be disproven. ->Individuals experience an identity shift post-divorce. ->Many individuals eventually consider dating post-divorce. Connect with Justine Carino: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justine-carino-lmhc-39a84615b/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/…

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Investing in Yourself: Acquiring Skills for Career Re-Entry - with Jody D'agostini 30:11

6 weeks ago30:11

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Why is emotional well-being important in financial planning post-divorce? Jody D'Agostini is a renowned financial strategist and certified divorce financial analyst with nearly two decades of experience, specializing in helping individuals navigate the financial intricacies of divorce at Falcon Financial Group in Morristown. Transitioning from a career as a physician's assistant, Jody has dedicated her practice to empowering clients, particularly women, by educating them on financial literacy and the importance of informed decision-making. Her approach emphasizes personalized, holistic financial planning that considers each client's unique life stressors and priorities, with a focus on setting them up for long-term success rather than short-term gain. Jody advocates for a balanced mindset during divorce, advising clients to meet their needs while minimizing emotional and financial strain, and is committed to fostering financial stability and growth through tools like collaborative law and career re-evaluation. Key Takeaways: ->Financial planning during divorce is crucial for making informed decisions and preparing for sudden financial changes. ->Tailoring financial plans for success and using software to project future outcomes can provide individuals with a sense of control and security post-divorce. ->Emotional impact of divorce, including anxiety and disorientation, requires a holistic approach to financial planning for stability and well-being. ->Supporting individuals in overcoming career challenges and pursuing fulfilling career paths after divorce is essential for building a brighter future. ->Lawyers play a crucial role in divorce proceedings by providing legal guidance, negotiating settlements, and ensuring compliance with legal precedents. ->Creating a budget, assessing income sources, setting financial goals, and adjusting investments post-divorce are essential for establishing a stable financial future. Connect with Jody D'agostini: https://www.thefalconfinancialgroup.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/jody-d-agostini/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://miller-law.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ New boost…

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Harnessing the Unseen: Finding Clarity in Emotional Exploration - with Deborah Lukovich 33:42

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"Depth psychology is a more spiritual approach, a psychospiritual approach to understanding yourself more deeply." - Deborah Lukovich Dr. Deborah Lukovich is a renowned depth psychologist who offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of divorce by delving into the unconscious mind. With a belief that up to 90% of our actions and decisions are influenced by hidden forces, she emphasizes the importance of uncovering these unconscious patterns and behaviors that shape relationships. Through her book "Your Soul is Talking, Are You Listening?" and her engaging podcast and blog, Dr. Lukovich provides valuable insights into the unseen dynamics and hidden agendas that often go unnoticed during the tumultuous process of divorce. By guiding individuals to explore the depths of their psyche, Lukovich aims to foster a deeper understanding of personal and relational dynamics, ultimately aiding clients in transforming their relationship patterns and preventing past experiences from dictating future connections. Key Takeaways: -Depth Psychology focuses on uncovering hidden aspects of the unconscious mind to promote personal growth and transformation. -Anger during divorce can be connected to past experiences and emotions, influencing individuals' reactions and behaviors. -Dr. Lukovich shares her personal journey through divorce and highlights the importance of understanding the unconscious mind in life transitions. -Relationship complexes involve patterns of thinking and behaving that impact interactions, hinder personal growth, and can lead to misunderstandings. -Effective communication in relationships requires honesty, vulnerability, and creating a safe space for open dialogue. -Unconscious fears and thoughts often hinder honest communication, emphasizing the importance of tools like 'Start with Hearts' to manage emotions and promote authenticity. Connect with Deborah Lukovich: https://www.deborahlukovich.com/ https://www.facebook.com/dlukovich https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-lukovich-phd-5322953/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/…

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Challenges of Nesting: Sharing Living Space Post-Divorce - With Lisa Herrick 28:08

8 weeks ago28:08

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"Kids have large antenna on their heads that you can't see, but they're always scanning for information, and that is information that is picked up very easily." - Lisa Herrick Dr. Lisa Herrick, a renowned family therapist and collaborative divorce coach, has nearly twenty years of experience guiding families in the Washington, D.C. area through the complex transition period of separation and divorce. She emphasizes that this transition varies greatly among individuals, depending on their resilience and specific circumstances, and underscores the importance of allowing adequate time for adjustment, adaptation, and recovery. Dr. Herrick advocates for honest and respectful communication between co-parents, particularly when introducing new partners to children, to minimize confusion and build trust. Drawing from personal experience, she highlights the intricate dynamics involved in shared family activities post-divorce, such as spending holidays together, and the necessity of preparing new partners for their roles within a blended family to foster a healthy and harmonious environment. Key Takeaways: • The period of time required for individuals and families to adjust, adapt, and recover from separation and divorce is crucial. • Nesting during divorce involves sharing living space, household responsibilities, and potential implications for future relationships. • It is important to go slow when introducing children to new romantic partners after divorce. • Lisa Herrick emphasizes the importance of preparing new partners for interactions with children and ex-spouses in blended families. • Lisa and Katherine emphasize the benefits of waiting for the right moment to introduce shared holidays and dinners in a blended family. Connect with Lisa Herrick: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisa-herrick-009a6128/ https://lisaherrick.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/…

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The Benefits of Bird Nesting for Children's Stability - with Ann Gold Buscho, Ph.D. 27:37

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"The key is that it keeps the children stable. It keeps their routines consistent. There's a lot less upheaval and chaos for the children. It's a very child centered approach to separation and divorce." - Ann Gold Buscho Ann Gold Buscho, a licensed clinical psychologist, is renowned for her expertise in family dynamics surrounding divorce, with a particular emphasis on child-centered solutions. As the author of "The Parents Guide to Bird Nesting: A Child-Centered Solution to Co-Parenting During Separation and Divorce," she advocates for bird nesting as a strategy to mitigate the negative impacts of divorce on children by ensuring stability and consistency in their environment. Buscho underscores the importance of prioritizing children's welfare by setting aside personal conflicts and fostering effective co-parenting through open communication and collaboration. Her work offers practical tools and guidance to help parents navigate the complexities of bird nesting, including addressing financial and logistical considerations, to create a harmonious and supportive arrangement for their children. Key Takeaways: • Bird nesting is a child-centered approach to divorce that provides stability and consistency for children. • Financial and logistical considerations are crucial when implementing a bird nesting arrangement. • Short-term nesting can have a positive impact on children by offering a stable transition during separation. • Having clear agreements in place for nesting arrangements is essential for co-parenting success. • Establishing a clear budget and separate accounts for nesting expenses is crucial for financial stability. Connect with Ann Gold Buscho, Ph.D.: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-buscho-ph-d-4110437/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/…

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How a Well-Written Prenup Prevents Divorce—with Aaron Thomas 26:38

30 weeks ago26:38

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Prenups get a bad rap. And if you broach the subject with a partner, they often think you’re planning for the marriage to fail. But what if a prenuptial agreement could help you get on the same page about money before you got married? What if a prenup could reduce tension in your marriage and even prevent divorce? Aaron Thomas has been named Atlanta's best divorce attorney three times, and he’s one of the nation's top experts in family law issues. Aaron is also the founder of Prenups.com, a platform that helps couples establish a solid financial foundation before they walk down the aisle, and author of The Prenup Prescription: Meet the Premarital Contract Designed to Save Your Marriage. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Aaron joins Katherine to explain how prenups help couples establish a good working relationship around money. Aaron discusses the parallels between business partnerships and marriage, challenging couples to structure their finances in a way that makes both parties feel secure. Listen in for Aaron’s advice on approaching your significant other about creating a prenup and learn how a well-written pre- or postnuptial agreement can make your marriage stronger! Topics Covered How a well-written prenup helps couples reduce tension in a marriage Why a prenup should address your finances before, during and after marriage Aaron’s insight on the One Paycheck Rule and why it’s important How prenups help couples establish a good working relationship around money The parallels between forming a business partnership and getting married Why extreme power imbalances in a marriage often lead to divorce Aaron’s advice on deciding what money is yours, mine and ours How to approach your significant other about creating a prenuptial agreement What the less-moneyed spouse can do to feel protected by a prenup The misconception that prenups are only a tool for the super-wealthy Connect with Aaron Thomas Prenups.com: https://prenups.com/ The Prenup Prescription by Aaron Thomas: https://prenups.com/book/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com Call (914) 738-7765…

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Conducting a Cost Benefit Analysis Before You Initiate Divorce—with Raiford Palmer 30:53

35 weeks ago30:53

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If you’re considering divorce, it’s useful to do a cost-benefit analysis before you initiate the process. And think beyond the legal fees and division of property. How much time will it take to work through the process? What's the emotional cost to you, your spouse and your children? How might it impact your career? Raiford is CEO and Managing Partner of STG Divorce Law in Chicago and Fellow at the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. Raiford is also the author of the award-winning divorce book, I Just Want This Done: How Smart, Successful People Get Divorced Without Losing Their Kids, Money, and Minds. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Raiford joins Katherine to explain why you should get educated before you jump into a divorce. Raiford describes how to reframe the experience of divorce as an opportunity for growth and discusses how his own divorce changed the way he approaches his work as a divorce lawyer. Listen in for Raiford’s insight on trying alternative dispute resolution in high-conflict cases and learn how to conduct a cost-benefit analysis before you move forward with a divorce. Topics Covered Raiford’s advice on getting educated before you jump into divorce Why Raiford suggests looking inward before you divorce and/or remarry How to leverage divorce as a personal growth experience What motivated Raiford to write the divorce book I Just Want This Done Raiford’s personal experience with feeling lost in the process of divorce How Raiford’s own divorce changed the way he approaches his work Why you should still try alternative dispute resolution if your partner is uncooperative How mediation can work better than litigation in high-conflict cases Conducting a cost-benefit analysis before you move forward with a divorce The first steps you should take to initiate the divorce process Connect with Raiford Palmer I Just Want This Done: https://www.ijustwantthisdone.com/ Raiford on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raifordpalmer/ Raiford on X: https://x.com/raifordpalmer Raiford on TikTok: raifordpalmer STG Divorce Law: https://www.stglawfirm.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com Call (914) 738-7765 Resources I Just Want This Done: How Smart, Successful People Get Divorced Without Losing Their Kids, Money, and Minds by Raiford Palmer: https://www.amazon.com/Just-Want-This-Done-Successful/dp/1737208903 Unbreakable Husband Program: https://richinrelationship.com/ Dr. John Duffy: https://drjohnduffy.com/…

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Navigating Divorce as an Immigrant—with Neepa Padia 25:28

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Neepa Padia gave up her senior level career in India to get married and immigrate to the US. But her partner was abusive, and Neepa wanted out. Unfortunately, she was in the country on a dependent spouse visa and had no friends, no family and no job. How did Neepa navigate divorce as an immigrant? Neepa is the Certified Divorce Coach behind Holistic Divorce Journey, a platform that helps immigrants in divorce with logical steps and tools toward a brighter future. Neepa’s personal experience has shaped her into a compassionate and nonjudgmental coach, ensuring that her clients are not alone on this journey of getting divorced in a in a strange land. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Neepa joins Katherine to explain how her experiences as an immigrant going through a divorce inspired her to become a divorce coach. Neepa discusses the options available to people in the US on a dependent spouse visa, describing the resources available to immigrants dealing with the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce. Listen in for Neepa’s insight on finding culturally aligned support and learn how to leverage the holistic divorce journey to build the future you want! Topics Covered Neepa’s experience navigating divorce as an immigrant to the US What inspired Neepa to build Holistic Divorce Journey Options available to divorcing people in the US on a dependent spouse visa What resources Neepa leaned on when she was getting divorced Resources available to immigrants navigating divorce The emotional and logistical challenges of divorce as an immigrant How international assets impact equitable distribution of property in divorce Why it’s helpful for divorcing immigrants to find culturally aligned support Leveraging the holistic divorce journey to build the future you want Connect with Neepa Padia Holistic Divorce Journey: https://holisticdivorcejourney.com/ Neepa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holisticdivorcejourney/ Neepa’s Divorce Support Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/969925950972235/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Second Saturday: https://www.secondsaturday.com/ Divorce GPS: https://divorce-gps.com/…

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A Fair & Loving Approach to Prenups—with Laurie Israel 29:57

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You might assume that mediators who specialize in prenups recommend them for everyone. But Laurie Israel is actually against prenuptial agreements for most couples. So, when should you consider creating a prenup? And how do you write one in a fair and loving way that strengthens the new marriage? Laurie is a collaborative lawyer and mediator based in Massachusetts, where she concentrates her practice exclusively on prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. Laurie also writes extensively about the art of mediating prenups, and she is the author of The Generous Prenup: How to Support Your Marriage and Avoid the Pitfalls. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Laurie joins Katherine to explain when a prenup is a good idea and when it isn’t, discussing why it’s inappropriate to think of a marriage as a business deal. Laurie shares her thoughts on prenups for inheritances, second marriages, and business owners, describing what to look for in a mediator to negotiate your agreement. Listen in for Laurie’s insight on protecting both parties (not just the moneyed spouse) and learn how the right kind of prenup creates peace, certainty and fairness for all involved. Topics Covered Why Laurie is against prenuptial agreements for most couples When a prenup is a good idea and how it can create peace, certainty and fairness in those cases Why it’s inappropriate to think of a marriage as a business deal Laurie’s advice on what to look for in a mediator to negotiate your prenup Why Laurie suggests a prenup for second marriages and marriages involving children from previous relationships How Laurie thinks about building a prenup or postnup for business owners How fairness in a prenup is influenced by the laws in your particular state When it might be appropriate to draft a postnuptial agreement Laurie’s thoughts on the complexities of money and marriage Laurie’s loving approach to prenups that protect both people in a marriage (not just the moneyed spouse) How to address student loans and inheritances in a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement Providing for the surviving spouse when a marriage ends in death Connect with Laurie Israel Laurie Israel Law and Mediation: https://www.laurieisrael.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com Call (914) 738-7765 Resources The Generous Prenup by Laurie Israel: https://www.laurieisrael.com/book/ Ten Things I Hate About Prenuptial Agreements: https://www.laurieisrael.com/ten-things-i-hate-about-prenuptial-agreements/…

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Empowering Women in Divorce—with Heather Quick 24:09

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In the early days of her family law practice, Heather Quick noticed a troubling pattern among the women she represented. Women often undervalued what they brought to the marriage and failed to stand up for themselves in the divorce process. So, what can women do to change their mindset around divorce and fight for what they deserve? Heather Quick is Founder and CEO of Florida Women’s Law Group, the only divorce and family law firm in Northeast Florida that serves women exclusively. Consistent with her message of women's empowerment, Heather has published several books on divorce and business, including Women’s Guide to Divorce in Florida and Women’s Guide to Becoming a Successful Entrepreneur. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Heather joins Katherine to discuss the unique challenges facing women in divorce, from stay-at-home moms to female breadwinners. Heather explains how women compromise on finances to protect their children and why that’s a bad idea, challenging couples to stop using their children as a negotiating tool in divorce. Listen in to understand how entrepreneurship can help women own their financial destiny and learn how FWLG advocates for women before, during and after divorce. Topics Covered What inspired Heather to focus on helping women stand up for themselves in divorce Why women tend to undervalue what they bring to a marriage What issues affect women in particular during the divorce process How women compromise on finances in divorce to protect their children (and why they shouldn’t) The danger in using your children as a negotiating tool in divorce Common issues facing female breadwinners in divorce, e.g.: custody, alimony, etc. How Heather’s books educate and empower women before, during and after divorce Heather’s experience working with a team of all women at Florida Women’s Law Group How Heather benefits from having a divorce coach on her team What motivated Heather to expand her focus to helping women excel as entrepreneurs Connect with Heather Quick Florida Women’s Law Group: https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/ Women Winning Divorce Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/685277376560289 Women Winning Divorce Podcast: https://womenwinningdivorce.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Women’s Guide to Divorce in Florida by Heather Brooke Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Guide-Divorce-Florida-Advantage/dp/150323326X Is Divorce Right for You? by Heather B. Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Right-You-Guide-Determine-ebook/dp/B00NH2QK1G/ Women’s Guide to Becoming a Successful Entrepreneur by Heather B. Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Guide-Becoming-Successful-Entrepreneur/dp/1511734655/ Julie Rountree on Divorce Dialogues: https://miller-law.com/podcast/the-missing-professional-from-a-divorce-litigation-team/ Changes to Florida’s Divorce Law: https://www.attorneylauraolson.com/an-overview-of-floridas-new-alimony-law-elimination-of-permanent-alimony/…

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Divorce Financial Planning with a Love Letter—with Jennifer Lee 26:13

1 year ago26:13