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Why do narcissists devalue you? - The why and how narcissists bring you under their control

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Why do narcissists devalue you?
Once the narcissist has hooked you in, the devaluation stage must and will begin. They will destroy all that is good about you, because all of those amazing traits and qualities make them feel bad about themselves. They devalue you to punish you for being 'better' than them in any way, to punish you, and to bring you under their control.
In this episode we unpack....
* Why does the narcissist devalue you?
* The strategies they use to devalue you that you don't recognise at the time.
* What devaluing strategies does the narcissist use? Eg. Isolation, Gaslighting and financial abuse.
* Is the devaluing stage inevitable?
* How do you as the victim, fall for their devaluation strategies?
* How do you recognise the times you bare being devalued?
If you found this episode informative, I would absolutely love it if you could rate this podcast, leave a review, and please share, Share, SHARE! Help to spread awareness around Narcissistic Abuse, so there's more support and justice for survivors!
Nova xx

You can book an online counseling appointment with me or book me to speak at your event here
You can purchase a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from narcissistic Abuse’ here
Join the private Facebook discussion group here
Join me on instagram here
Join me on TikTok at @nova_gibson
Please leave a review, and please share, Share, SHARE! Help to spread awareness around Narcissistic Abuse, and more support and justice for survivors!
Nova xx

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Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.
Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.
If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com
To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
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Why do narcissists devalue you?
Once the narcissist has hooked you in, the devaluation stage must and will begin. They will destroy all that is good about you, because all of those amazing traits and qualities make them feel bad about themselves. They devalue you to punish you for being 'better' than them in any way, to punish you, and to bring you under their control.
In this episode we unpack....
* Why does the narcissist devalue you?
* The strategies they use to devalue you that you don't recognise at the time.
* What devaluing strategies does the narcissist use? Eg. Isolation, Gaslighting and financial abuse.
* Is the devaluing stage inevitable?
* How do you as the victim, fall for their devaluation strategies?
* How do you recognise the times you bare being devalued?
If you found this episode informative, I would absolutely love it if you could rate this podcast, leave a review, and please share, Share, SHARE! Help to spread awareness around Narcissistic Abuse, so there's more support and justice for survivors!
Nova xx

You can book an online counseling appointment with me or book me to speak at your event here
You can purchase a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from narcissistic Abuse’ here
Join the private Facebook discussion group here
Join me on instagram here
Join me on TikTok at @nova_gibson
Please leave a review, and please share, Share, SHARE! Help to spread awareness around Narcissistic Abuse, and more support and justice for survivors!
Nova xx

Send us a Text Message.

Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.
Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.
If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com
To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
https://linktr.ee/novagibson
And follow on these platforms to discuss each and every episode!
Facebook group -
https://www.facebook.com/groups/822368872683676/?ref=share
Instagram (@novas_narcissistabuse_recovery)
Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert)
TikTok (@nova_gibson)
YouTube (@novagibson_)
Youtube
@novagibson_

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