FATHERHOOD VOICES podcast

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In Episode 59 of Fatherhood Voices , Edward and Alyssa get deep—and a little hilarious—as they unpack the old-school parenting style known as the "TRA Dad" (Traditional Rules and Authority). From iron fists to tender regrets, Edward reflects on raising daughters with tough love, while Alyssa opens up about how it shaped her emotional world. Together, they dive into the rise of soft parenting, PTSD from college (yes, really), why participation trophies are ruining kids, and what happens when dads turn Barbie time into UFC training. There’s also a wild reveal: Edward paid neighborhood boys to secretly report on his daughter in high school 😳… and it gets even funnier with the case of the missing teddy bear Poopy , who may or may not still be held for ransom. Oh—and if you’ve ever wondered how not to handle bullying as a parent? This episode might leave you laughing, crying, and seriously reflecting.…

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EP 58: Drunk Confessions, Dating Rules & That One “Secret” Document 1:05:11

8 days ago1:05:11

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In Episode 58 of Fatherhood Voices , Edward and Alyssa go off-script—and off the rails—in one of the most raw and hilarious episodes yet. From underage drinking and first crushes to awkward “birds and bees” talks and surprise document discoveries (yep, that one with the bold notes), this episode dives deep into the uncomfortable convos parents avoid but desperately need to have. They unpack the real fears behind house parties, why some parents shouldn’t drink, and how trauma shapes parenting styles. Oh—and wait for the twist involving a spreadsheet called “People Assets and Liabilities.” Oof. This one’s funny, heartfelt, and maybe a little triggering (in the best way). You’ll laugh, reflect, and maybe even text your kid after.…

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EP 53: Ruben Palomares From Cop to Convict, Redemption and Fatherhood Rebirth 1:35:46

13 days ago1:35:46

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In this gripping episode of Fatherhood Voices, former LAPD officer Ruben Palomares takes us on a raw and emotional journey from his days in law enforcement, his fall from grace, and his ultimate path to redemption. From growing up in South Central LA surrounded by gangs, to becoming one of the most respected officers, and then plunging into the dark world of corruption, Ruben shares how faith, forgiveness, and fatherhood saved his life. Discover how he transformed from a man filled with anger to one driven by love and healing. If you’ve ever struggled with breaking generational cycles or finding peace after a fall, this is an episode you can’t miss. Tune in to hear Ruben’s powerful story of personal redemption and how he’s using his past to shape a better future for his children. Subscribe now for more inspiring stories of transformation and fatherhood!…

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EP 57: Fired Twice, Healed Once: A Father-Daughter Story of Business, Betrayal, and Breakthroughs 1:08:26

15 days ago1:08:26

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In this profoundly personal Season 2 premiere of Fatherhood Voices: Breaking the Toxic Cycle, Edward and Alyssa reunite on the mic to unpack a lifetime of wounds, work, and wild rides—from being fired (twice) in their family business to rebuilding their bond through ayahuasca, hard conversations, and second chances. You’ll hear about chaotic trade show blowups, soul-searching ceremonies, and the power of healing the inner child. This episode is raw, redemptive, and a reminder that even the messiest relationships can bloom again, with love, humility, and humor.…

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EP 56: Breaking Free from Domestic Violence: Erica Ruiz's Journey of Survival and Healing 1:01:02

26 weeks ago1:01:02

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In this powerful episode of Fatherhood Voices, host Edward sits down with Erica Ruiz, a survivor of domestic violence, author, and advocate for women and children. Erica shares her profound journey from a turbulent childhood to overcoming domestic abuse, substance addiction, and eventually becoming a published author. Hear how Erica's transformative experiences have shaped her mission to spread awareness and support through her children's books and advocacy work. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone struggling with their own path to healing and is a must-watch for both parents and those affected by domestic violence.…

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EP 55: Building Bonds: The Importance of Father-Daughter Relationships 1:19:08

27 weeks ago1:19:08

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Fatherhood Voices: Embracing Vulnerability and Gentle Parenting with Hector Centeno In this heartfelt episode of 'Fatherhood Voices,' host Edward welcomes Hector Centeno, a devoted father who shares his personal journey of fatherhood and the transformative power of gentle parenting. Hector discusses the impactful moment that led to their meeting, his childhood challenges growing up in South Central, and the lessons he has learned along the way. Together, they explore the importance of emotional safety, vulnerability, and the continuous effort required to be a present and nurturing parent. This touching conversation offers valuable insights for fathers and parents alike, emphasizing the profound impact of being accessible and open-hearted with children.…

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EP 54: Empowering Kids: Financial Literacy and Life Skills with Scott Donnell 52:18

28 weeks ago52:18

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Join our engaging episode featuring Scott Donnell as we delve into the critical importance of instilling work ethic and financial literacy in children. Explore how to teach essential life skills through practical experiences, personal stories, and breaking toxic cycles to set up the younger generation for success. Learn how to build a home economy system where kids can earn and thrive, emphasizing heritage over inheritance and fostering a family culture with clear values. Discover strategies to protect against entitlement, create value, and promote financial independence, highlighted by examples from successful families like the founders of Hobby Lobby. Tune in for invaluable insights and effective strategies to equip your children with lifelong skills and confidence, ensuring a prosperous future for your family.…

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EP 52: Breaking the Cycle: How Love and Humor Shape Modern Dads 1:02:50

30 weeks ago1:02:50

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This engaging fatherhood podcast, 'Fatherhood Voices,' hosted by Edward, features guest Jevin Smith. Jevin discusses his dedication to being a present father, emphasizing how the absence of his own father shaped his commitment to his children. He shares anecdotes about growing up in West Los Angeles, raised by a single mom and surrounded by strong female figures and key male role models like his grandfather. Jevin finds inspiration in TV fathers like Heathcliff Huxtable, Uncle Phil, and Carl Winslow. Known for embarrassing his kids with comedic and musical antics, Jevin has turned that into a unique parenting style. As a DJ, he uses humor and music to connect with and support his children emotionally. This script emphasizes his encouragement for parents to be present and creative in nurturing their children, and highlights his newly released children's book, 'Daddy Loves to Embarrass Me,' which weaves these themes into a fun narrative. Jevin's story commends the importance of understanding family dynamics, creating lasting memories, and the significance of male role models, with a focus on children growing up in single-parent households.…

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EP 51: A Fatherhood Conversation with Juan Gallegos 1:05:04

31 weeks ago1:05:04

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In this emotional and insightful episode of 'Fatherhood Voices', Edward sits down with Juan Gallegos, a father and real estate professional from Denver, Colorado. The conversation explores Juan's life journey, including his childhood split between the U.S. and Mexico, the challenges of growing up with a physically abusive but well-meaning mother, and a largely absent father. Juan opens up about his transition to fatherhood and the struggles of repeating his father's patterns, as well as his path to healing through plant medicine and personal growth. The discussion also touches on themes of intergenerational trauma, the importance of breaking toxic cycles, and the power of love and understanding in parenting. Juan shares heartfelt advice for mothers, reflections on his relationship with his parents, and aspirations for future trips to strengthen family bonds. The episode closes with a powerful message about living life with love, happiness, and service.…

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EP 50: Fatherhood Voices with Rod Richards: Embracing Purpose and The Eternal Role of a Dad 1:10:31

32 weeks ago1:10:31

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Join us in an enlightening episode of Fatherhood Voices where host Rod Richards delves into the raw and real journey of fatherhood. Rod candidly discusses his unique upbringing, the transformative power of parenting, and the foundation of his platform, Forfeit Fatherhood. Discover how fatherhood transcends careers and achievements, explores the vital role of fitness in parenting, and underscores the importance of being present in your children's lives. Get inspired by stories of commitment, sacrifice, and the unbreakable bond of family, reshaping what it means to be a dad.…

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EP 49: Breaking the Cycle: Empowerment Through Family Empire Car Club 1:49:59

33 weeks ago1:49:59

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Fatherhood Voices: Empowerment Through Healing – Stories of Resilience from the Family Empire Car Club In this impactful episode of 'Fatherhood Voices,' we shine a light on the profound stories of resilience from members of the Family Empire Car Club, a women-led organization from Lancaster, California. These remarkable women share their raw and emotional experiences of overcoming abusive relationships, generational trauma, and addiction. The episode highlights their journey towards healing, empowerment, and the crucial role of fatherhood in shaping future generations. Listen in to understand their mission of breaking cycles of abuse and empowering others through outreach programs, support, and vocational training. Join us for candid conversations that challenge traditional views and champion the strength and solidarity needed for personal and communal growth.…

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EP 48: Beyond Expectations: A Conversation on Family, Healing, and Purpose 1:25:16

34 weeks ago1:25:16

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Transformative Healing: Harsha Sosa's Journey through Family, Breathwork, and Community Building Join us for an enlightening episode of Fatherhood Voices: Breaking the Toxic Cycle, as Edward sits down with Harsha Sosa to explore her profound journey of self-discovery and healing. Harsha delves into the challenges of navigating parental projections, adolescent expectations, and the power of breathwork and plant medicine. Alongside her husband, Aaron, Harsha embraces motherhood and further personal growth, leading them to create an online community dedicated to fostering connection and healing. This episode offers heartfelt insights, practical advice, and an inspiring message of hope, highlighting the importance of individual oneness and collective human connection. 00:00 Introduction: Breaking the Toxic Cycle 00:37 Meet Harsha Sosa: A Journey of Wisdom and Healing 02:53 Harsha's Early Life: From India to Vancouver 05:18 The Burden of Greatness: Cultural Expectations and Personal Growth 07:46 Parenting and Projections: Navigating Childhood Expectations 13:07 Healing the Inner Child: Overcoming Trauma and Finding Balance 19:56 The Power of Self-Love: Practical Steps for Healing 33:18 Travel and Exposure: The Impact of a Global Upbringing 42:11 Sibling Dynamics and Personal Pressure 43:15 Identity Crisis and Self-Limiting Beliefs 44:48 Parental Expectations and Personal Realizations 46:07 Parental Influence and Self-Expression 49:42 University Life and Experimentation 52:27 Meeting Aaron and Relationship Dynamics 55:48 Healing and Spiritual Awakening 01:00:59 Parenting Advice and Relationship Reflections 01:08:46 Personal Development and Plant Medicine 01:19:08 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans…

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EP 47: Ego, Emotions, and Evolution: A Father's Healing Journey 1:15:11

35 weeks ago1:15:11

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In this episode of 'Fatherhood Voices' featuring Matt and Jash from the 'Cool Dad Collective.' It explores the multifaceted challenges and triumphs of fatherhood, highlighting the importance of mental health, vulnerability, and emotional bonds. The discussion covers personal narratives, with Jash documenting his journey from birth through the toddler years and Matt discussing his healing through introspection and plant medicine. They delve into breaking toxic cycles, balancing fatherhood with ego management, and the powerful impact of nurturing emotional connections with children. The concept of maintaining traditions to heal relationships, implementing healthy boundaries, and the importance of self-awareness and vulnerability are prominent themes.…

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EP 45: Presence Over Absence: A Mother’s Resolve 1:00:56

37 weeks ago1:00:56

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Sarah Eckert confronts the shadows of growing up without a father, weaving a narrative of resilience and healing. Raised by her grandparents, Sarah's tale navigates the emotional gaps left by absence and her resolve as a mother to break the cycle of abandonment. She discusses overcoming toxic relationships and the power of forgiveness, both towards her father and in her journey as a parent. This episode is a profound exploration of how love and presence can transform lives, ensuring no child feels an empty seat in the audience.…

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EP 44: Navigating the Challenges of Postpartum Parenthood 47:44

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Think postpartum depression is just a ‘mom issue’? Think again. In this explosive episode of ‘Fatherhood Voices,’ Chelsea of Mama Psychologist reveals how outdated attitudes can harm entire families. She tackles the tough questions around partner support, the real impact of generational trauma, and why fostering your child’s autonomy isn’t just good parenting—it’s essential. Dive into the controversial truths about what it really takes to build a resilient family. Don’t miss this deep dive into transforming personal struggles into powerful legacies!…

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EP 43: From Absence to Influence: A Father’s Transformation 1:06:39

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In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Edward Rodarte interviews Locke Haman, a father of four who transitioned from being absent to becoming a mentor for dads. Locke shares his journey and stresses the importance of fathers being heroes in their families. He discusses the benefits of men's groups and meaningful conversations about fatherhood. The episode focuses on self-acceptance, the challenges of fatherhood, and the significant impact of supportive fathers on their daughters' emotional health and development. Locke and Edward emphasize the necessity of fathers being present and teaching their daughters how to navigate conflicts and express emotions healthily.…

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EP 42: From Discipline to Discovery: A Journey into Conscious Fatherhood 51:45

40 weeks ago51:45

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In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Edward Rodarte and Adetokunbo Osinaike discuss the profound impact of father figures on child development. Ade shares his journey from engineering to spirituality and coaching, highlighting his experiences with ayahuasca, which deepened his emotional awareness and authenticity as a parent. They delve into the challenges of inner-city life, the importance of positive male role models, and effective co-parenting strategies. The conversation also emphasizes the necessity of emotional presence in parenting and the benefits of outdoor activities and reading for children's growth.…

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EP 41: Echoes of the Past: The Healing Power of Oldies Music 1:09:41

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In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Becky Lu, aka Old School Becky Lu, discusses her connection to the Art LeBeau Connection and the healing power of oldies music. She shares how her childhood was shaped by her parents' love for music and emphasizes the importance of involving children in this musical heritage. Becky highlights how oldies music helps preserve cultural memories and strengthen family bonds. The episode also explores the role of fathers in family dynamics, the impact of their presence, and the communal and healing aspects of music.…

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EP 40: Redefining Fatherhood: Consistency, Kindness, and Fitness 55:00

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In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Edward Rodarte interviews Pat Barber, founder of The Father's Guild. They discuss Pat's journey as a father of four boys, emphasizing the importance of questioning parenting norms, maintaining consistent communication, and integrating fitness into fatherhood. They also explore the parallels between parenting and business leadership, focusing on continuous improvement and the profound impact of unconditional love.…

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EP 39: The Joy of Youth Sports: Balancing Fun and Competition 5:38

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In this episode, Coach Andrew Weingart shares his passion for working with youth athletes, emphasizing the importance of mindset and mindfulness in sports. He reflects on his upbringing and athletic experiences, advocating for children to have fun and not define themselves by their athletic abilities. The conversation explores common parental mistakes in pressuring young athletes and the need for a code of ethics for parents during games. The episode concludes with insights on the appropriate age to introduce children to sports and the value of friendly competition.…

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EP 38: Unlocking the Potential of Homeschooling 55:55

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In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Claire Denault and Edward Rodarte share their homeschooling journeys, emphasizing that homeschooling is accessible to families of all income levels. Claire discusses the abundant resources and curricula available, while Edward highlights the importance of fostering a love for learning and addressing misconceptions about homeschooling. They both touch on the significance of socialization, the role of parents as educators, and the benefits of personalized education. Edward also discusses the impact of technological advancements in homeschooling. Tune in to explore how homeschooling can help children develop confidence and critical thinking skills.…

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EP 37: Parenting at Your Child's Pace: A Holistic Approach 56:37

45 weeks ago56:37

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In this episode, Dr. Joel Warsh, an integrative pediatrician, discusses the importance of parenting at a child's unique pace and the benefits of a balanced approach to medicine. He emphasizes the need to explore alternative practices alongside modern treatments and addresses the overuse of medication in children. The conversation covers various topics including holistic health and nutrition, the costs of organic food, the impact of societal beauty standards on children, and controversies around circumcision and birth control. Dr. Warsh also talks about empowering parents to make informed choices and introduces his book, "Parenting at Your Child's Pace," offering a bonus chapter and access to his parenting community. Tune in for innovative insights on parenting and child health.…

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EP 36: The Power of Presence in Parenting 1:03:11

46 weeks ago1:03:11

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In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Nate Feathers, a father of six, shares his transformative journey from traditional to conscious parenting. Nate reflects on the regret he felt when his oldest son went to college, realizing he could have been more present. Emphasizing the importance of personal growth and being a better version of himself each year, Nate discusses building deeper emotional connections with his children and the necessity for fathers to support each other through shared struggles. Together with host Edward Rodarte, they delve into the value of mastermind groups for fathers, the impact of mutual suffering in fostering brotherhood, and the critical role of self-discipline in parenting. The episode concludes with practical recommendations for resources and systems to help fathers strengthen their emotional bonds with their children.…

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EP 35: Love and Affection: Keys to Strong Parenting 1:02:25

47 weeks ago1:02:25

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In this episode, Aaron Sosa shares his transformative journey from a loving childhood to fatherhood. He discusses the impact of his grandfather's passing, the importance of creating safe spaces for children's emotions, and the value of vulnerability and authenticity in parenting. Aaron also talks about being present with his son and building self-confidence in children. The conversation highlights maintaining a healthy relationship with one's partner, showing love and affection to children, and using plant medicine for personal growth. The episode concludes with Aaron offering a free master class on relationship coaching.…

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EP 34: Healing from Childhood Trauma: A Journey of Self-Discovery 1:02:28

48 weeks ago1:02:28

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In this powerful episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Hazley opens up about her transformative journey of healing and self-discovery. She reflects on her childhood experiences growing up without a father and her complicated relationship with her mother, shedding light on the trauma she endured. Hazley shares how plant medicine, meditation, and journaling have been pivotal in her healing process, helping her navigate the complexities of family relationships and set healthy boundaries. Join us as we explore the intergenerational impact of trauma, the importance of forgiveness, and the journey towards creating a safe emotional space. Hazley also discusses the challenges of cultural expectations and the difficult process of breaking toxic cycles within her ancestral lineage. This episode is a heartfelt conversation about healing, self-discovery, and the resilience needed to overcome deep-rooted family issues…

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EP 33: Redefining Fatherhood: Insights on Parenting and Presence 1:10:59

49 weeks ago1:10:59

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In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," host Edward Rodarte interviews Charles Vargas about his transformative journey as a father and the profound impact of his upbringing on his parenting style. Growing up in Redondo Beach, California, Charles faced emotional challenges due to his father's absence, leading him to build emotional barriers and focus heavily on his career. This workaholic tendency persisted into adulthood, until a pivotal moment when his daughter started high school made him realize the fleeting nature of time with his children. Charles shares how this realization prompted him to become more present and involved in his children's lives. He highlights the importance of self-love and self-acceptance in parenting, and the value of seeking mentors and role models for guidance and support. The conversation also delves into the role of plant medicine in improving relationships with their children and parents, the significance of creating safe spaces for children to express themselves, and the necessity of breaking free from scarcity mindsets around money. Charles and Edward emphasize the power of vulnerability and transparent conversations among men about their struggles. They conclude the discussion with a reminder to focus on leaving a legacy of love and positivity for future generations.…

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EP 32: The Power of Inner Work: Releasing Emotional Baggage Through Spiritual Divorce 57:28

50 weeks ago57:28

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In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Joyce Haddad shares her transformative journey of healing through spiritual divorce and energetic detachment from relationships. Joyce delves into the importance of forgiveness and recognizing the lessons in every experience. She highlights the healing power of journaling and taking small, mindful steps towards personal growth. Central to her discussion is the concept of the inner child and its profound impact on our adult lives. Drawing from her own childhood and her father's illness, Joyce explains how these experiences led her to explore energy healing and create her own protocol for spiritual divorce. She expands the idea of spiritual divorce beyond romantic relationships, illustrating how it applies to family, friends, and even work connections. Joyce emphasizes the necessity of inner work and having meaningful conversations with the energies of those we need to detach from. Through her insights and book, "Spiritual Divorce," Joyce outlines a step-by-step process for releasing energetic attachments and emotional baggage, paving the way for positive experiences. She concludes by urging listeners to take responsibility for their own reality and view challenges as opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Tune in for an enlightening conversation on healing, growth, and the power of spiritual transformation…

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EP 31: Fatherhood Voices: Laughter & Learning: A Pharmacist's Take on Fatherhood and Healing 54:44

51 weeks ago54:44

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In this edition of Fatherhood Voices, the guest Corey Jenks, a pharmacist, author, comedian, and professional speaker from Tucson, Arizona, shares his unique journey of fatherhood intertwined with his professions. Jenks discusses the influence of his family's background in education and work ethic on his diversified career path, including his approach to parenting, managing diabetes through lifestyle changes, and utilizing comedy in healthcare communication and parenting. Corey speaks candidly about his experiences growing up, his belief in setting a strong foundation for his kids, and the importance of being present as a father. He further explores how his work in pharmacology and personal parenting experiences inspired him to write a humorous yet insightful book aimed at newish dads, 'I Guess I'm a Dad Now.' The podcast delves into themes of parental expectations, the balance between discipline and allowing children independence, the impact of nutrition on behavior, and the crucial role of personal self-care for fathers. Corey's story is a call to fathers for introspection and growth, emphasizing the significance of applying one's passions and lessons learned to raise the next generation.…

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EP 30: From Chaos to Clarity: Navigating the Complexities of Parental Relationships 1:05:41

1 year ago1:05:41

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In this episode of Fatherhood Voices, host Edward engages in a profound conversation with Sarah Kari, a coach and therapist who doesn't conform to traditional therapeutic labels. Initially reflecting on personal freedom experienced around her grandfather, Sarah delves into the importance of childlike curiosity and authenticity. She shares her journey from pursuing academia to embracing a holistic approach combining spirituality, meditation, and Reiki. The discussion navigates through the impacts of parental relationships on personal development and approaches to addressing and transcending familial challenges. Sarah emphasizes the need for self-awareness, understanding, and communication within relationships, advocating a heart-centered approach to healing and personal growth. The conversation offers insights into creating safe spaces for emotional expression and growth for both parents and children, ultimately aiming towards breaking cycles of toxicity and evolving towards healthier familial dynamics.…

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Ep 29: From Regrets to Reflections: A Dad's Raw Journey Through Fatherhood's Challenges 1:07:03

1 year ago1:07:03