122:相比于报恩,我们更记仇?
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“以牙还牙”和“知恩图报”,听起来完全相反,但仔细想想,它们表达的是同一个意思——你怎么对我,我便以同样的方式对待你。可是,“报恩”和“报仇”真的是一样的吗?相比于报恩,我们是否更记仇?还是说,相比于报仇,我们更懂得感恩呢?
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Chernyak, N., Leimgruber, K. L., Dunham, Y. C., Hu, J., & Blake, P. R. (2019). Paying Back People Who Harmed Us but Not People Who Helped Us: Direct Negative Reciprocity Precedes Direct Positive Reciprocity in Early Development. Psychological Science, 30(9), 1273–1286. https://doi.org/10.1177/0956797619854975
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