331. The Dangers of Not Hearing God

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Hey friends, in today's episode, we're diving deep into the dangers of not hearing God's voice. I know we often talk about how to hear His voice, but today, we’re flipping the script. What happens when we don't hear from Him? We explore some serious risks, like losing direction and purpose, falling into deception, and spiritual drift. I even share the story of David, who, despite being anointed and having incredible victories, still found himself hiding from God. If you're feeling lost or disconnected, this episode is for you. Let's unpack it together and get back to hearing from our Creator! ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah

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331. The Dangers of Not Hearing God

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363. When God Is Silent But Everything’s Loud 22:10

15 hours ago22:10

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In this episode, I open up about what it feels like when God goes silent—and how that silence can shake our faith to the core. If you've ever felt like your prayers are hitting the ceiling or like you're on “read” with heaven, you’re not alone. I talk about how silence doesn’t mean absence, and how divine delays are often God’s strategy to develop us in hidden places. I also share some honest reflections, practical tools for getting through the silence, and three questions to help you get real about where you’re at: - Am I exhausted or spiritually malnourished? - Am I praying or performing? - Am I showing up to be seen or to stay aligned?…

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362. Parenting Q&A: Dating, Discipline, and Boundaries 39:25

8 days ago39:25

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Hey friends! I’m so glad you’re here for this parenting episode—it’s a special one because I’ve got my husband, Ben, joining me, and we’re diving into your top parenting questions. From navigating the dating convo with your kids (yes, even the 6-year-olds asking about boyfriends!) to figuring out when and how to discipline without losing your mind—we’re going there. We're not claiming to have it all figured out, but we’re sharing what’s worked (and hasn’t) in our own wild and wonderful journey raising four boys. It's honest, a little messy, and totally full of grace. Let’s do this together!Checkout my parenting course with Lisa Bevere - Moms of Men: https://truthtotable.com/moms-of-men/…

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361. The Power of a Praying Parent: My Dad’s Radical Testimony 35:19

15 days ago35:19

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Hey friends! This week on the podcast, I get to have a really special guest—my dad! We’re talking all about the power of a praying parent, especially when it feels like you can’t do anything else. If you’ve ever felt heartbroken watching your kids or grandkids wander away from God or unsure how to reach them as they grow, this episode is for you. My dad shares his wild testimony—from atheism to radical salvation—and how his mom’s prayers changed everything for our family. We also dive into his brand-new book that gives you a practical, powerful framework for praying over the people you love. You are not powerless—your prayers matter more than you know!Prayers For Every Day Battles & Generational Breakthrough: Win the War For Yourself & Others: https://a.co/d/a2yx5sj…

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360. Mom Life Unfiltered: When Respect and Relationship Collide 14:27

22 days ago14:27

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Hey friends — this episode is one of those raw, real conversations straight out of my own life, and honestly, I think you're going to feel so seen. I sat down with Jason and Lauren Vallotton and what started as a chat on marriage turned into me getting super honest about something I’ve been walking through as a mom of boys. We unpacked the tension of raising strong, healthy men while still holding space for your own heart as a mom, and let me tell you — it’s messy, but it’s also so powerful. So if you're in the thick of parenting, especially raising sons, you are not alone. Grab your coffee, lean in, and let’s go there together!Checkout my parenting course with Lisa Bevere - Moms of Men: https://truthtotable.com/moms-of-men/…

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359. God’s Strategy for Parenting - It’s Not What You Think 32:15

29 days ago32:15

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Today we're kicking off a brand new parenting series, and listen — it's not just about raising "good kids" or making sure you don't mess them up (because hello, no pressure, right?!). What if God’s plan for parenting is actually about transforming us just as much as it is about raising them? I’m sharing some real talk from my own life — the mess, the beauty, the discipleship happening inside of me while I'm trying to parent these four boys. 😅 So grab your coffee, get comfy, and lean in. We’re gonna grow together, and it's gonna be good! 💛Checkout my parenting course with Lisa Bevere - Moms of Men: https://truthtotable.com/moms-of-men/…

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358. The Fall Season - Transition and Celebration 18:28

5 weeks ago18:28

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You guys—we made it! We’ve hit the fall season, and this one is all about the harvest. But here’s the thing: harvest doesn’t just mean abundance and celebration (though yes, we’re totally dancing on grapes over here 🍇). It also means transition—and that can feel a little unsettling. In this episode, I’m unpacking what it looks like to truly reap what you've sown and how to celebrate, prepare, and stay grateful without getting stuck. We’re talking Sabbath, seed saving, generosity, and asking God what’s next. If you’ve felt like you’re finally seeing fruit, but your spirit’s still stirring—this one's for you.If you’re wondering what spiritual season you’re in, head over to havilahcunnington.com/seasons and take the free test. Let’s grow on purpose together!…

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357. The Summer Season - Hard Work and Warfare 19:20

6 weeks ago19:20

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You guys—this one is for those of you who feel like you prayed for growth, said yes to the breakthrough, and now you're wondering, “Wait, why does it all feel harder?” In this episode, I’m diving into what summer looks like in your spiritual life. And spoiler: it’s not just sunshine and boat rides. It’s warfare, responsibility, and learning how to keep going when things get tough. I break down how to know if you're in a summer season, what to do so you don't burn out, and how to stay faithful in the doing. We even talk about protecting your yes and making space for rest without losing the harvest. Let’s get into it!If you’re wondering what spiritual season you’re in, head over to havilahcunnington.com/seasons and take the free test. Let’s grow on purpose together!…

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356. The Spring Season - New Beginnings and Guarding Growth 15:17

7 weeks ago15:17

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In this episode, I’m diving into what it really means to be in a spring season spiritually — and trust me, it’s not all butterflies and breakthroughs! I talk about how the very opportunities you’ve been praying for can also become distractions if you’re not careful. Just because a door opens doesn’t mean God’s asking you to walk through it. I’m sharing the PLANT acronym (you’ll love it!) and how to steward the season well, even when everything feels fresh and exciting. If you’re wondering what spiritual season you’re in, head over to havilahcunnington.com/seasons and take the free test. Let’s grow on purpose together!…

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355. The Winter Season - Waiting and Rooting 17:53

8 weeks ago17:53

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In this episode, I’m diving into the spiritual season of winter—yep, that season nobody volunteers for but somehow always shows up. If you’ve ever felt like God’s ghosting you, like your prayers are hitting a wall, or like you’re stuck in a never-ending freeze, this one's for you. I share personal stories (yes, I’ve definitely been there), practical ways to stay rooted, and some survival hacks to help you not just endure but grow in your winter season. Plus, don't miss the free quiz I made to help you figure out what season you're really in—link’s in the show notes. Let’s talk about silence, root systems, and why rest is actually a weapon.Find out what Spiritual Season you're in: https://havilahcunnington.com/seasons…

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354. What are Spiritual Seasons? 15:04

9 weeks ago15:04

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In this episode, we're kicking off a brand-new series all about spiritual seasons. Have you ever felt like your faith was thriving one moment and lifeless the next? You're not alone—it's totally normal! We’re diving deep into understanding the spiritual seasons of winter, spring, summer, and fall, and how each one has a unique purpose in your journey. I share my own story of navigating through a tough winter season and realizing that God was still at work beneath the surface. So, grab your coffee, take a walk, and let’s talk about how to discern your current season and steward it well. And don’t forget—next time, we’re diving into the details of winter, so make sure you’re subscribed!Find out what Spiritual Season you're in: https://havilahcunnington.com/seasons…

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353. Your Biggest Marriage Questions, Answered! 31:58

10 weeks ago31:58

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In this episode, we’re answering your top questions about marriage! We dive into everything from navigating conflict and staying connected to building trust and keeping intimacy alive. Whether you’re newly married or have been in it for years, we’ve got real, practical advice that’s going to help strengthen your relationship. I’m excited to share insights that will bring clarity and encouragement to your marriage journey!…

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352. Thriving in a Blended Marriage 40:46

11 weeks ago40:46

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Hey friends! In this episode, I’m sitting down with Jason and Lauren Vallotton to talk all about marriage—the real, raw, and sometimes messy journey of doing life together. We’re diving into what it looks like to build a strong foundation, navigate conflict with grace, and keep intimacy alive even in the busiest seasons. Jason and Lauren bring so much wisdom and honesty to the conversation, sharing their own experiences and practical advice for couples who want to cultivate a thriving relationship. You don’t want to miss this one!…

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351. Keeping Up Love After Marriage 40:50

12 weeks ago40:50

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In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of marriage with Barry and Lori Byrne, the powerhouse couple behind Love After Marriage and Nothing Hidden Ministries. We’re talking about the real struggles, the tools for breakthrough, and why transparency is the key to a thriving marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or hoping to be, this conversation is packed with wisdom on intimacy, connection, and spiritual warfare in marriage. Plus, we get real about sex, communication, and how to heal when trust has been broken. Grab your coffee, get comfy, and let’s do this! Love After Marriage course: https://nothinghidden.com/love-after-marriage/…

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350. Marriage & Communication: What We Wish We Knew Sooner! 48:24

13 weeks ago48:24

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Hey friends! This week, we're diving deep into marriage—what makes it healthy, what challenges come up, and how to keep growing together. And I’m not doing it alone—Ben’s here! We’re getting real about our own journey, from the early struggles to the tools that transformed our relationship. We talk communication, intimacy, and the mindset shifts that made all the difference. Whether you're newly married, deep in the trenches, or just curious, this episode is packed with insight and hope. Let’s get into it!…

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349. The Dating Mistakes Christians Make (And How to Avoid Them!) 50:13

14 weeks ago50:13

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Hey friends! Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that doesn’t get enough real talk in the church—dating, sex, and singleness. Yep, we’re going there! I’m sitting down with my friend Elles Maddry, who, along with her husband, leads Moral Revolution, an organization dedicated to helping people navigate healthy sexuality within faith. We’re unpacking everything from dating apps to setting boundaries, from purity culture to how to know if you’re in a God-honoring relationship. If you’ve ever wrestled with questions about love, relationships, or even just how far is too far, this one’s for you. Get ready for an honest, no-filter convo with plenty of laughs and real wisdom.Parenting Sexuality Course: https://truthtotable.com/parenting-sexuality/ The Naked Truth About Sexuality: https://a.co/d/a3afM3A…

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348. Faith and Porn: Breaking Free from the Trap 47:38

15 weeks ago47:38

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Wow, this episode was a deep one! I sat down with my friend Aaron to talk about a topic that so many struggle with but rarely discuss—porn. We unpacked why it’s not just about self-control but about deeper needs, how shame keeps people stuck, and what real freedom looks like. Aaron shared his personal journey, the science behind addiction, and practical steps for breaking free. Whether you’re dealing with this yourself, walking alongside a spouse, or raising kids in a hypersexualized culture, this conversation is full of insight and hope. Don’t miss it!More from Aaron: zintsquad.com Buy Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn: https://a.co/d/ivwtDyS Buy The Naked Truth About Sexuality: https://a.co/d/a3afM3A…

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347. The Science of Sex: What No One Told You 21:01

16 weeks ago21:01

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Today we’re diving deep into a topic that honestly, we don’t talk about enough—the science of sex. Last time, we covered the basics of healthy sexuality, and today, we’re taking it further. Did you know that sex isn’t just about the physical? There’s a biological, emotional, and even spiritual design behind it. We’re talking hormones, bonding, God’s intention, and why culture often gets it completely wrong. Plus, I break down the three B’s of sex—babies, bonding, and beauty—and why understanding them can change the way you view intimacy forever. Stick around, because this conversation might just change the way you think about sex for good!Buy The Naked Truth About Sexuality: https://a.co/d/a3afM3A Parenting Sexuality Course: https://shop.truthtotable.com/collections/digital-courses-studies/products/parenting-sexuality…

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346. What Happens When The Church Ignores Sexuality? 23:51

17 weeks ago23:51

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Wow, this episode is going to be a powerful one! We're diving into a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough—sex and sexuality. I know, I know, it’s not always an easy conversation, but that’s exactly why we need to have it. This month, we're unpacking what healthy sexuality looks like through a faith-filled lens, tackling big questions like intimacy, marriage, and even the tricky subjects like porn and shame. My goal? To equip you with clarity, hope, and practical tools to navigate your own journey. So stick with me—let’s get real, let’s get honest, and let’s take back the narrative together!…

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345. Supercharge Your Productivity! 25:41

18 weeks ago25:41

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In this episode, we dive into the power of attention and how it shapes our productivity and outcomes. I share personal insights and practical strategies for staying focused, avoiding distractions, and prioritizing what truly matters. Whether it’s tackling the one task you've been procrastinating on or learning how to set boundaries to protect your mental energy, these tips are game-changers. Plus, I reflect on how my journey of saying "no" to some things has made room for a more intentional, fulfilling life. Tune in to supercharge your focus and get ready to shift your productivity into high gear!…

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344. How Assumptions Are Holding You Back—And What to Do Instead 21:33

19 weeks ago21:33

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Are your assumptions secretly running the show? In this episode, we’re diving into how assumptions shape our decisions and relationships—often without us even realizing it. I share personal stories, like my old red convertible days, and explore how our minds love shortcuts (hello, confirmation bias!). Together, we’ll unpack practical ways to identify and challenge those sneaky thoughts holding you back, so you can reframe your perspective and step into a more intentional way of living. Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one!…

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343. The Mind-Body Hack That Will Unlock Your Brain Power 21:50

20 weeks ago21:50

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This week on the podcast, we’re diving into the fascinating connection between our minds and bodies, exploring how intentional living can unlock your full potential. I’m sharing some of my favorite insights, practical tips, and even personal stories to show how things like sleep, exercise, and mindfulness can profoundly impact not just your mental clarity but your whole life. Plus, I’ll let you in on how tiny habits can lead to big transformation and why even something as simple as smiling can boost your mood. Ready to take your intentional living game to the next level? Let’s do this together! Learn about Havilah's Author School here 👉🏼 https://havilahsauthorschool.com/ How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb here 👉🏼 https://a.co/d/3GuHVg2…

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342. How to Keep Your Brain in Discovery Mode 23:19

21 weeks ago23:19

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Welcome back to the podcast! This week, we’re diving into an essential concept for the new year: moving from defense mode to discovery mode in our brains. I share insights from one of my favorite books, How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb, breaking down how our automatic and deliberate systems influence our responses to stress. We’ll explore practical ways to shift out of the fight, flight, or freeze mindset and into a space of curiosity and anticipation for good things. Join me as we unpack how embracing discovery mode can help us live intentionally and create a more rewarding life.…

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341. Is Your Brain Filter Lying To You? 27:37

22 weeks ago27:37

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Hey friends, welcome to a brand-new year and an exciting new series on Intentional Living! This month, we're diving into how to live with purpose by understanding how our brains work and how that impacts our choices, behaviors, and faith journey. I'll be sharing practical, actionable steps to help you align your thoughts with God's design and set priorities that actually stick. So, whether you're here to grow personally or as a leader in your community, there’s something for everyone. Let’s reset, refocus, and start living with intention together. Tune in—this series is going to be life-changing! Sign up for Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/…

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340. The Biggest Questions in Your 50s 24:52

23 weeks ago24:52

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Hey there! In this episode, we’re wrapping up our series on navigating life’s big decades with a dive into the 50s. I chat with Paula, a vibrant, wise, and courageous soul who shares her journey of transformation, from battling life’s curveballs to rediscovering herself in this new season. We talk about embracing change, taking risks, grieving past disappointments, and dreaming boldly, no matter your age. Whether you’re stepping into your 50s, reflecting on your own journey, or just curious about what’s ahead, this conversation is full of encouragement and fresh perspective. Don’t miss it!…

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339. The Biggest Questions in Your 40s 27:55

24 weeks ago27:55

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Hey friends! In this episode, I sat down with my incredible friend Michelle Raftery to dive into the unique challenges and joys of life in our 40s. We talk about discovering strengths, letting go of unnecessary expectations, and how grace and reflection have shaped our journey. Michelle shares her wisdom on finding freedom in embracing who we really are and the beauty of evolving through life’s seasons. Whether you're in your 40s or just curious about what lies ahead, this conversation will encourage you to trust God's timing and live with purpose. Don’t miss this one—it’s packed with honesty, laughs, and a whole lot of heart!…

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338. The Biggest Questions in Your 30s 37:59

25 weeks ago37:59

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Are you navigating your 30s and wondering if you’re “doing it right”? Join me in this conversation all about the ups, downs, and edits of life in your 30s. I’m sitting down with Esther Garcia, a creative genius and a mom of three, as we dive into the challenges and victories of this transformative decade. From redefining friendships and career paths to embracing personal growth and faith, this episode is packed with real talk, laughs, and wisdom. Whether you’re in your 30s, have been there, or know someone who is, you’ll find something relatable here. Let’s tackle this season of life together!…

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337. The Biggest Questions in Your 20s 39:34

26 weeks ago39:34

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In this episode, we dive deep into what it’s like navigating your 20s—the highs, the lows, and the wild unpredictability of it all. I’m joined by Katie, a third-year student at Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry, who shares what being 25 really feels like. We talk about embracing experiences, taking risks, and shaking off the pressure to have it all figured out. Whether you’re thriving, surviving, or somewhere in between, we cover how to find purpose, peace, and maybe even a little fun in the chaos. If you’re in your 20s—or know someone who is—this one’s for you!…

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336. The Unseen Struggle: Listening for God’s Voice as a Hearer 23:48

27 weeks ago23:48

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Hey friends! In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the unseen struggles of Hearers—those prophetic personalities who connect with God through words, phrases, and conversations. We’re talking about the challenges, like when you only get part of the story or feel like God’s gone silent. I share tips on building trust, stewarding what you’ve already heard, and leaning into gratitude to quiet the noise of life. If you’ve ever wrestled with feeling stuck or doubting what you’ve heard, this one’s for you. Plus, I’ll tell you all about my new Created to Hear God Journal to help you take these lessons even deeper. Let’s grow in confidence together—grab your coffee, and let’s jump in! ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah…

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335. The Unseen Struggle: Confidence in Knowing as a Knower 22:26

28 weeks ago22:26

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Hey friends! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the "knower" prophetic personality. Are you someone who just knows things deep in your spirit, without visions or emotional experiences? You’re not alone, and you’re not missing out! I share my journey as a knower, the challenges of feeling underrepresented in spiritual environments, and how to embrace your unique way of hearing God. We’ll also talk about overcoming fear, trusting your inner knowing, and building confidence in who God created you to be. Let’s jump in! ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah…

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334. The Unseen Struggle: Trusting Visions as a Seer 22:34

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