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Have you checked in to identify where you are on your healing journey? Please do so, if you haven’t, because shit is real! Thank you for tuning in for another breakdown of “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. In this episode, we are reviewing the first 20 pages of Area 6: Politics (People Relations). We are Kiva and Kahawia.…

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We are back Bruthaz and Sistahz!! We thank you for continuing to join us as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. In this episode, we are focusing on the area of Law. We are Kiva and Kahawia.

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Brothers and Sisters, WE ARE BACK! Please bear with us through these technical difficulties with sound quality. We are still doing the work and we hope you are too! Join us as we continue to deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. This episode focuses on the area of Education. We are Kiva & Kahawia—still learning.…

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Brothers & Sisters, we are back and we apologize for the delay in our service to you! In this episode, we are deconstructing, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are concluding the area of economics and giving you the tools you need to get ya life—as we get ours! Peace & Progress, we are Kiva & Kahawia.…

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Social change is more important than social media. Tune in as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We are Kiva and Kahawia.

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Black Man, Woman and Child, you are worthy to be preserved. Join us as we deconstruct, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. This is an independent study so get into it! We are Kiva and Kahawia.

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What codes have you implemented to produce peace and justice in your life? Join us for another episode of deconstructing, “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. We our passionate about our ish. We are Kiva and Kahawia.

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Are you prepared to build a plan to be more constructive? Grab your copy of “The United Independent Compensatory Code/System/Concept: A Compensatory Counter-Racist Code” by Neely Fuller Jr. Get into this work with Kiva and Kahawia!

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Let’s talk about code and how folks are moving in these worn down streets! From “I, Claudius” to the real lives of Kiva and Kahawia. There are moves to be made no matter who you are. Let’s get into it!

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We have reached the final segment of BBCTV’s Racism: A History! We may be sisters in truth; and although we don’t always agree, our spirits are aligned. Find your tribe. Grow together and get into this work!

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If you didn’t know, Shark Island is a place where Europeans murdered so many Africans that the word ‘genocide’ was created. Tune in as we continue our breakdown of the information shared in BBCTV’s Racism: A History. We must remember our bloodline and what has been done to us. We are Kiva & Kahawia.…

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In this episode, we deconstruct another 40 minutes of BBCTV’s “Racism: A History.” During this discussion, we’ve come to a different conclusion as to what it means to be civilized. Let’s get into it!

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The Caucacity of European Trickery | K & K Podcast Ep. 58 1:44:50

3 years ago1:44:50

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Yerrrrrrr! We are back and eager to introduce our new segment: the deconstruction of film—starting with BBCTV’s “Racism: A History.” It is a documentary series that focuses on examining the scientific idea of racism, in the words of the oppressor. Tune in to hear what WE have to say about it. We are Kiva and Kahawia.…

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Escaping the Struggle | K & K Podcast Ep. 57 1:29:04

3 years ago1:29:04

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In this episode, we conclude our deconstruction of “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. We drop hella gems per usual so get your notebooks ready! Stay tuned for our next phase as we begin to breakdown films that relate to our mission of rebuilding and uplifting our nation. We love you brothers and sisters. We are Kiva and Kahawia.…

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Falsehood of Progress | K & K Podcast Ep. 56 1:04:10

3 years ago1:04:10

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Greetings Family! This is the second installment of our three-part breakdown of the final chapter in “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. As you tune in, reflect on this: What is true progress? Why are we still struggling with the illusion of success? We would love to hear from you.…

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Talk to Me Nice | K & K Podcast Ep. 55 1:01:07

3 years ago1:01:07

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As victims of white supremacy, we struggle with language barriers and communication. However, we must not abort our mission to love on each other. We are at the final chapter of “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. This chapter is entitled, “Language, Cultural Determinism and Black Mythology: An Overview.” We broke this chapter into three parts…Let’s get into it!…

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Cut the Nonsense | K & K Podcast Ep. 54 1:14:13

3 years ago1:14:13

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Nonsense, shenanigans and BS are at an all time high. Cut it out! In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Chapter 8 in “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. We know the definition of insanity, yet we keep doing the same things. Let’s get into this work!

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Mind Over Materials | K & K Podcast Ep. 53 1:20:29

3 years ago1:20:29

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Yerrrr!!! We are here with the second installment of our three part breakdown of Chapter 8 in “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. We thank you for being on this journey with us. We encourage you to continue to get your affairs in order, as are we, for the sake of our nation.…

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Illusion of Success | K & K Podcast Ep. 52 1:42:52

3 years ago1:42:52

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We are inching closer and closer toward the end of Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s book, “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child.” Join us as we discuss constructive fun and our illusion of success as it pertains to what we’ve been learning up to this point. We are in Chapter 8, “The Socialization Process: Culture, Social Class, Family, Cognitive Style, Motivation, Education, Achievement.” Here is the first segment of our three part breakdown of this chapter.…

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We Is Who We Be | K & K Podcast Ep. 51 1:14:54

3 years ago1:14:54

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Do you know who you are and are you comfortable in your truth? In this episode, we deconstruct Chapter 7 of “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. This chapter is entitled, “Language and Communication: Language Capacity, Behavior, Black Dialect and Linguistic Conflicts.” Brothers and Sisters, your native tongue is as important as the one you create to communicate with your people. We are your people. Talk to us nice!…

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Redefine Reality | K & K Podcast Ep. 50 1:54:39

3 years ago1:54:39

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Join us as we conclude our deconstruction of Chapter 6 in “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. We also discuss what it means to redefine reality as we debunk the things that were taught to us as victims of white supremacy. Get into it!

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Realize Real Lies | K & K Podcast Ep. 49 1:16:32

3 years ago1:16:32

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Yerrrrr!!! In this episode, we are deconstructing the first half of Chapter 6 from “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. This chapter is entitled, “Intellectual Development as Revealed by Standardized Tests—‘Intelligence’ Testing: Hidden Agenda.” Join is as we separate what’s real from what’s written and continue doing this work! We are Kiva & Kahawia.…

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Reject the YT Hero | K & K Podcast Ep. 48 1:41:57

3 years ago1:41:57

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In this episode, we conclude our construction of Chapter 5 in Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s, “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child, Second Edition.” Although this work is heavy, this episode is a bit lighter as we share some of our cultural struggles with regards to the recreational opportunities available for our children. We’ve also introduced a new artist to the K & K Real Talk musical collection. Be sure to check out Tommi Truthz! His music is available on ALL streaming platforms and we are honored to have his unique sound included in our Praise Breaks. If you’re looking for a hero, search within!…

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De-Normalize Insane Behavior | K & K Podcast Ep. 47 1:05:09

4 years ago1:05:09

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In this episode, we deconstruct the first half of Chapter 5 in “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. Chapter 5 is entitled, “The Role of Play in Development. Games, Toys, Media: Schizoid, Frustrated and Restricted Play.” We continue to open up and share the lessons we’ve learned as it pertains to the text along with tools needed to heal and be better for our village. Let’s get into this work (and play)!…

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Broken Seeds Need Love Too | K & K Podcast Ep. 46 1:32:30

4 years ago1:32:30

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Shout out to all of our brothers and sisters who are out here making the best of the hands that have been dealt! Major props to those who’ve managed to reshuffle the deck and pick new cards. Stay with us as we conclude our breakdown of Chapter 4 in Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s, “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child.” We see you. We love you. We appreciate you!…

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Baby Steps | K & K Podcast Ep. 45 1:34:14

4 years ago1:34:14

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Yeeerrrrr!! In this episode, we are back with our deconstruction of Chapter 3 in “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. Chapter 3 is entitled “The Preschool Years: The Effects of Race Awareness,” and as always, we dive deep into those ‘hard to talk about’ topics. Stand with us as we take our steps towards reconstructing or babies and their minds.…

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Schizoid Negroid | K & K Podcast Ep. 44 1:28:28

4 years ago1:28:28

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Hey ya’ll, we are back with great news! We are also equally excited to finish where we left off and continue this work. In this episode, we complete our deconstruction of Chapter 2 in Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child.” By now, you should have the book. Let’s get into it!…

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Wisdom from Sister Shahrazad Ali | K & K Podcast Ep. 43 1:13:43

4 years ago1:13:43

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In this episode, we had the honor and pleasure of speaking with Sister Shahrazad Ali in regards to the work that we’ve done to deconstruct two of her books for 30+ episodes. Tune in as Sister Ali shares her wisdom and knowledge on how she lives her truth out loud. The gems dropped in the show are plentiful—take heed!…

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Until We Return | K & K Podcast Intermission 12:50

4 years ago12:50

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Yerrrrrrr! At this time, we would like to formally announce that we will be taking a break from recording. Tune in to find out why and stay tuned for our special episode—coming soon! Later ya’ll!

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Europeans Are Not the Standard | K & K Podcast Ep. 42 1:21:38

4 years ago1:21:38

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In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s book, “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child.” The first half of Chapter 2, entitled, ‘The First Two Years: Care, Development, Intelligence, the Restricted Nature of the Black World,’ is loaded with scientific evidence to support the fact of Europeans not being the standard when it comes to our own. In 2021, these conclusions are still valid.…

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The Presence of the Past | Ep. 41 1:12:36

4 years ago1:12:36

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In this episode, we conclude our deconstruction of Chapter 1 of Dr. Amos N. Wilson’s book, “The Developmental Psychology of The Black Child,” entitled, ‘The Prenatal Period’. This chapter covers topics such as Maternal Health, Nutrition and Birth. Raise your hand if you know that your past helps to shape your future. Let’s figure out how to make the best of the hands we’ve been dealt.…

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Time is Nigh | K & K Podcast Ep. 40 1:54:37

4 years ago1:54:37

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Hey Ya’ll! We are excited to begin the deconstruction of our THIRD book! We are now reading, “The Developmental Psychology of the Black Child,” by Dr. Amos N. Wilson. We are reading from the second edition. Let’s continue on our journey to clean up and heal our Black Family!

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Make It Make Sense | K & K Podcast Ep. 39 2:02:44

4 years ago2:02:44

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We have reached the final episode for our deconstruction of “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman,” by Shahrazad Ali! As we continue our reviews, we are joined by Brotha Love and he shares his perspective on what it means to understand the Black man. This conversation is not for the faint hearted—just so you know!…

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Navigating with a Broken Compass | K & K Podcast Ep. 38 1:44:04

4 years ago1:44:04

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Brothers and Sisters, join us for our reviews of our previous episodes! On this show, we’ve introduced the male perspective from our good brother, Jeremy—host of the Life Unplugged Podcast. We are truly out here trying to navigate through this life as a collective and the struggle is real!

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I Can’t Hold My Tongue | K & K Podcast Ep. 37 1:58:45

4 years ago1:58:45

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In this episode, we complete our deconstruction of the final chapter in “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman” by Shahrazad Ali. If you’re comfortable being lied to, you won’t be ready for this show. However, we’re still going to speak the truth. If your version of the truth is different from ours, we welcome you to share with us. May we continue to listen, learn and grow!…

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Is This Your King? | K & K Podcast Ep. 36 1:29:47

4 years ago1:29:47

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In this episode, we hit the nail on the head as we discuss the final chapter of Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman.” Chapter 12 is entitled ‘Leadership’ and as we know, this an area in which we struggle as a people. By now, you all should have the book. Follow along and get into this word!…

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Downright Pitiful | K & K Podcast Ep. 35 1:47:09

4 years ago1:47:09

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In this episode, we conclude our deconstruction of Chapter 11 in Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackwoman’s Guide to Understanding The Blackman.” The overall condition of our teenage boys is downright pitiful! We are on a slow climb towards change and we need to get us together. Black Man, we need you!

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Dysfunctional Peace | K & K Podcast Ep. 4 1:16:45

5 years ago1:16:45

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In this episode, we continue our discussion of Chapter 3 from "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman" by Shahrazad Ali. We dive deeper into understanding our roles as Black women and removing ourselves from the negativity we project onto our Black men--as it pertains to 'Adulthood and Marriage.' Trust, it ain't no walk in the park! Be sure to look out for our, "Get You Some Business" list by yours truly, Kiva & Kahawia. 🤎…

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99 Problems & Then Some | K & K Podcast Ep. 3 1:13:50

5 years ago1:13:50

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In this episode, we reintroduce ourselves as Kiva and Kahawia. Find out the reason for our name change. We also discuss the first half of chapter 3 in The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman by Shahrazad Ali as she highlights the problems we have within ourselves. Make sure you have your notebooks and tea ready for this one!…

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W.I.T. (Whores in Training) | K & K Podcast Ep. 2 1:20:27

5 years ago1:20:27

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In this episode, we get into Chapter 2 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman." Chapter 2 is entitled, "Teenage Years." It's a chapter of very few pages with LOTS of information to unpack. Grab your note taking device and a warm beverage to take to a comfy spot. It's time for a real, hard discussion! Also, visit kahawia.com/kahawia-speaks to check out our lists for movies, books and songs that cater to uplifting our community.…

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Miseducation of the Black Female Child | K & K Podcast Ep. 1 1:11:28

5 years ago1:11:28

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In this episode, we introduce "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman" by Shahrazad Ali. We discuss our reason for choosing this book and the significance it has on the Black woman of today (as when the book was first published in 1989). Here's our take on the Preface and Chapter 1, 'Her Childhood.'…

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Level Up & Grow | K & K Podcast Ep. 19 58:38

4 years ago58:38

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We have reached the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman!" In this episode, we discuss chapter 18, "The Conclusion," along with some of what it will take for us to level up and recognize our true selves. Everyday is a good day to put in the necessary work for growth! As we prepare for our episode reviews, please email any questions or comments you have to kandkrealtalk@gmail.com.…

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Pussy Pacifier | K & K Podcast Ep. 18 1:51:40

4 years ago1:51:40

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We are getting closer to the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman!" In this episode we discuss Chapter 17, entitled "Arguments." Ladies, ya'll know that most of the arguments that we start has one main purpose, above all of the other fifty'leven reasons we find. Also, be sure to listen out for the code to get 30% off Kahawia's books at Afrosofly.com!…

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Polygamy or Nah? | K & K Podcast Ep. 17 2:08:52

5 years ago2:08:52

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In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman." We are getting close to the end of the book and this is our discussion of Chapter 16, "The Other Woman." Many of us aren't ready to face some of the truths in Sister Ali's words and we find that what's good for the goose AIN'T good for the gander. Take a listen to find out why!…

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Shallow & Untrained | K & K Podcast Ep. 16 1:50:01

5 years ago1:50:01

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In this episode, we continue deconstructing "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali with Chapter 15--Sex. We share details of our lives that shed light to how shallow we can be as "untrained" Black/Negro/Hebrew women. As we strive to be better, we must be comfortable with the discomfort required for change. This episode also features new music from Lewy Lotus--look him up on all platforms. Let's get into it!…

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Neck Rolls & Finger Snaps | K & K Podcast Ep. 15 1:52:09

5 years ago1:52:09

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In this episode, we further our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," with chapter 14. If you haven't guessed by now, this chapter is entitled, "Attitude"--which many of us are guilty of having. This chapter breaks down every component of having an attitude and reminds us to get it together ladies! We are Kiva & Kahawia--and we are in this with you! Check it out, along with beautiful music from Libby Baeloo and Lewy Lotus!…

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Hypocrisy & Denial | K & K Podcast Ep. 14 1:23:48

5 years ago1:23:48

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It's been two weeks and WE ARE BACK! Join us for our further deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman." In this episode, we are discussing chapter 12, "Religion" and chapter 13, "Education and Career." We are not speaking our truth in the effort to belittle anyone else but rather to increase the quality of our own lives and that of our Black nation. Let's get into this word!…

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Be the Change You Want to See | K & K Podcast Ep. 13 1:20:41

5 years ago1:20:41

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In the episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," with chapter 11, "How She Dresses." This chapter speaks about choices and priorities when it comes to our outer appearances. We touch on other related topics and the bottom line is, we have to be the change we want to see. Tune in with your copy of Sister Ali's book and figure out the changes you need to make to assist in building a better nation.…

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Protect Our Babies | K & K Podcast Ep. 12 1:38:50

5 years ago1:38:50

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In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackmans Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman," with chapter 10, "Raising Children." It is another heavy chapter that points out our failures as a nation with raising our Black children. Many of these failures are brought on by external influences; however, we have to recognize our faults so that we can implement change. Our babies are counting on us!…

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Clean Up, Woman! | K & K Podcast Ep. 11 1:12:22

5 years ago1:12:22

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In this episode, we deconstruct Chapter 9 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Housekeeping." Ladies, the condition of your home is a direct reflection of your current mental state. The time is nigh for us to get our affairs in order! This is not a drill. Get your cleaning products together, bluetooth this episode to your speakers, and get to work! With love always, Kiva & Kahawia.…

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Gimme the Loot or Get the Boot | K & K Podcast Ep. 10 1:16:18

5 years ago1:16:18

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In this episode, we revisit our discussion from Episode 2, "W.I.T. (Whores in Training)," to clear up a few things. We continue our deconstruction of the book, "The Blackmans Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Money," and honey, ain't nothing funny! Pun intended. Lol!…

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Secrets, Lies & Chaos | K & K Podcast Ep. 9 1:14:16

5 years ago1:14:16

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In this episode, we discuss chapter 7 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Family Relationships," and our responsibility to prioritize our Black men first, as head of our nation. We shed light on some secrets, lies, and chaos in our lives. We are also blessed with beautiful music from Libby Baeloo & Lewy Lotus. Check us out!…

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Disrespect Galore | K & K Podcast Ep. 8 1:15:46

5 years ago1:15:46

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In this episode, we discuss chapter 6 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Communications." While we all scream for communication, the fact is that many of us--as Black women--do NOT know how to properly communicate with our Black men. Ladies, change must come in order for us to help rebuild our nation. Speaking of change, we paid homage to Her Thirsty Soul Podcast. Any woman in the dating world needs to subscribe to her show for a real perspective on how to navigate, effectively. Let's put this work in!…

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Half Head | K & K Podcast Ep. 7 1:11:16

5 years ago1:11:16

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In this episode, we discuss chapter 5 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "Social Integration (Dating and Marrying the Whiteman," and it is explained that there are some traitors among us--in so many words. We revisit Tyler Perry's, Acrimony, as Kahawia further explains her original standpoint on Taraji's character, Melinda. (Listen to Kahawia on the One Take No Chaser Podcast to see where it all began). Kahawia GOES IN to acknowledge her trauma and pain. Grab your tea, wine, fruit juice or water and get into it!…

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Check Yaself, Don't Wreck Yaself | K & K Podcast Ep. 6 1:31:25

5 years ago1:31:25

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In this episode we wrap up our discussion of Chapter 4 in "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. We talk about unlearning our bad behaviors and redefining our intentions to be better rather than continuing down our destructive paths. Shout out to One Take of the "One Take No Chaser Podcast," as we revisited Acrimony. Kiva has introduced Kahawia to a new perspective since being featured on his show. Get into this conversation and bring an open mind! We are Kiva & Kahawia.…

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Are You Who You Say You Are? | K & K Podcast Ep. 5 1:14:52

5 years ago1:14:52

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In this episode, we discuss chapter 4 of "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. This chapter is entitled, "The Wedding - The Beginning," and it is quite the show! Per usual we dive right into the text and uncover some of our dysfunctions as it relates to being a Black woman in (dis)agreement with our Black Men. We often want to be brides, but do we also strive to be good women and wives to our Black men? Turn to chapter 4 and tune in! If you have more to add, reach out to Kahawia on IG: @kahawia__…

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PG: More than a Rating | K & K Podcast Ep. 34 1:47:52

4 years ago1:47:52

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We are getting closer to the end of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," and in this episode, we deconstruct the first half of Chapter 11, 'Teenage Years.' Parental Guidance is advised and necessary--not just to listen to this episode, but in general. Our children need guidance, especially from our Black men. We have to get into this work as a collective!…

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Sex, Lies, & Homo Tapes | K & K Podcast Ep. 33 2:23:04

4 years ago2:23:04

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In this episode, we complete our deconstruction of Chapter 10 in Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled 'Sexuality & Relationships.' We uncover some uncomfortable topics including: sexual perversion, trauma-filled relationships and more! As we've stated previously, change happens when discomfort is present. Let's get into it!…

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Clusters of Confusion | K & K Podcast Ep. 32 1:49:03

4 years ago1:49:03

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In this episode, we dive right into Chapter 10 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled 'Sexuality & Relationships.' Have you ever been confused by the patterns and "commitments" of our Black men? Sis, you are not alone! Tune in as we explore some of the reasons for the confusion.…

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Be-Li(e)ving the Narrative | K & K Podcast Ep. 31 1:42:30

4 years ago1:42:30

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As you know, what you believe ultimately translates to how you BE LIVING. In this episode, we continue to deconstruct Chapter 9, Religion, of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." We talked about Jesus as a slaveship and now we discuss Jesus as a man. We also explore the narratives that we've been brainwashed to believe. Let us scrub our minds, detox our thoughts, and get into this word! We are Kiva & Kahawia. Barak Atha!…

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Eff Outta Here | K & K Podcast Ep. 30 1:30:54

4 years ago1:30:54

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For this episode, we decided to split Chapter 9 of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," into two parts because there is much to discuss when it comes to 'Religion.' We discuss the hypocrisy of being restrained and kept down, especially pertaining to Jesus--the first slave ship to America. Bring your research to this conversation and let's talk about it! We are Kiva & Kahawia. Barak Atha!…

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Jail Birds Fly Low | K & K Podcast Ep. 29 1:29:20

4 years ago1:29:20

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In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," with chapter 8 entitled "The Law 9-1-1." Too many of our Black fathers and sons fall victim to the system. Many of whom are seemingly proud of this new slave mentality. Brotha, where are you flying to?…

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He Play Too Much | K & K Podcast Ep. 28 1:18:54

4 years ago1:18:54

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In this episode, we deconstruct chapter 7 of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding the Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Recreation," and we all know how Black men love to thrive in the game world. Whether it's sports, corner gambling or the likes, our Black men play too much! Let's get into it!…

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No Comparison | K & K Podcast Ep. 27 1:44:08

4 years ago1:44:08

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In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." As we discussed chapter 6, entitled "Employment," we must share that with all due respect to Sister Ali, we disagreed with the tone of chapter. There is no comparison between the economic struggles of the Black Man and the Asian man. Tune in to find out what we mean & read along if you have the book! Peace & Blessings Always, Kiva & Kahawia.…

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Caught Up in BS | K & K Podcast Ep. 26 1:51:23

4 years ago1:51:23

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In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of Shahrazad Ali's, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman" with chapter 5, entitled "Education." In this chapter, we learn that our Black men are systematically taught to disown themselves and the Black family. Sister Ali makes it clear that not only is he to relearn new information but that he should also teach his offspring. Our Black men are responsible for teaching our sons. It is his natural right as a man. We are Kiva & Kahawia and we are here to support our Black men.…

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Lies & Miscommunication | K & K Podcast Ep. 25 1:08:29

4 years ago1:08:29

1:08:29

In this episode, we are deconstructing chapter 4 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Communication" and we gain a deeper understanding of the lying lips on some of our brothers. Keep in mind that we are doing this work to bring about change within ourselves and our nation. In doing so, we are going to call it like it is.…

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Scattered Brain | K & K Podcast Ep. 24 1:24:41

4 years ago1:24:41

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In this episode, we discuss chapter 3 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman," entitled, "Appearance." The phrase "representation matters" is about more than just seeing Black people in prestigious roles. It also includes what you wear and how you carry yourself in society. Tune in to find out how the Black man's appearance is closely related to his identity--and get the book!…

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Barely Surviving AmeriKKKa | K & K Podcast Ep. 23 1:41:52

4 years ago1:41:52

1:41:52

In this episode, we deconstruct Chapter 2 of Shahrazad Ali's book, "The Blackwoman's Guide to Understanding The Blackman." This chapter is entitled, "Identity." Dear Black Man, do you know who you are? Are you ready to strip yourself from AmeriKKKa's faulty version of you? Let's get into this work because we need you, Black Man. Check out this lecture from Dr. John Henrik Clarke, "You Have No Friends" https://youtu.be/EnJtYDNIui8…

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Protecting His Ego | K & K Podcast Ep. 22 1:14:36

4 years ago1:14:36

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Hey Ya'll! In this episode, we have moved on to Book 2 and we are deconstructing, "The Blackwoman's Guide To Understanding The Blackman," by Shahrazad Ali. We encourage our listeners to support our Sister and get the book to read along as we continue our journey of building our nation. We are Kiva and Kahawia.…

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Cleanse Your Core | K & K Podcast Ep. 21 59:05

4 years ago59:05

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In this episode, we conclude our episode reviews for episodes 12-18. We also discuss the importance of checking our core values and being better women in sisterhood. Now, we are moving on the "green book!!" In the meantime, do us a favor and type 'Charlene's Priceless Podcast' into the search bar on Anchor & Spotify. Our good sis has a story to tell and we need ya'll to listen. Love Always, Kiva & Kahawia.…

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A Strawberry Special | K & K Podcast Ep. 20 1:37:05

4 years ago1:37:05

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As you know, we have concluded our deconstruction of the book, "The Blackman's Guide to Understanding the Blackwoman," by Shahrazad Ali. In this episode, we are honored to have our good sister, Strawberry, join us for our review of episodes 6-11. Strawberry has blessed our show with her honest feedback and you don't wanna miss it!…

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