# 153 - Of Back stabbing Friends and Air Force Rejections

Kiya Kahe Ga Kazi

I respond to questions about betrayal, loss, education, and friendship.

Timecodes

0:00 Won't mention your names until you tell me I can

0:55 Made friends at university, and now they're spreading rumors about you

6:10 Why are women hell-bent on hurting women?

7:45 Best bakery biscuits in Karachi

8:21 You're from Bangladesh and are studying and living in London

12:42 When is it okay to quit university?

18:28 We need to decide what we're going to suck at

20:34 Book recommendations

21:20 You couldn't make it in the Air Force, and now you want to go abroad

24:02 The truth about an undergrad degree

26:13 The truth about the concept of a home once you go abroad

26:55 Friendships change over time, this is inescapable

28:40 About my journey from Hyderabad to Toronto and back

32:00 Unpacking empathy

33:15 Using 70% of your savings on an undergraduate degree

36:08 The stifling amount of student debt in North America

38:52 You had a best friend, and now she wants nothing to do with you

40:48 Can't force someone to be in your life

42:45 Developing a malleable worldview

43:51 People need to not have access to you, to value you

45:33 Diminishing marginal utility of friends

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