How to Validate Someone’s Feelings

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You know those situations when someone expresses their feelings to you and you're not sure how to respond? You want to make them feel heard, but you also want to give them practical advice or express your own opinion on the matter. How do you approach this? Today, we discuss what "emotional validation" means and I offer practical advice on how to approach such situations.

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Literally No Subtext with Dear Kristin

How to Validate Someone’s Feelings

Literally No Subtext with Dear Kristin

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The burden of being an INFJ (feat. Joyce Meng) 1:36:14

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Joyce's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCarmrOHgveKHsaV6QejAZVw Book a Typing Session with Joyce: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/ ⌛ T I M E S T A M P S : 5:40 What motivates you to keep producing MBTI content? 11:42 What are the xNFJ values? 14:38 How would you describe yourself? 15:18 Why do INFJs seem to “hold back” their true selves in conversation? 16:24 What can INFJs learn from Fi users? 17:02 This is the best word to describe an INFJ. 19:19 How do you define yourself? Does that shape your identity? We discuss INFJ insight and foresight, which then leads into a conversation about how trauma shapes us. 30:23 How does an INFJ experience their Ni as opposed to an INTJ? 33:44 A distinction between Fi and Fe 34:59 Can you give us an example of using your Introverted Intuition (Ni) on a day-to-day basis? 38:58 Realising that people aren’t as deep as you think they are. 40:06 Were you ever confused as to whether you were an INFP or INFJ? If so, how did you realise you were an INFJ? 43:39 Is it insolence if I tell people what their MBTI type is even if they get bothered by it? 45:40 Do you think we can consciously develop our 5th to 8th functions? 52:46 Do very easy tasks stress you out? 53:17 What’s something you dislike admitting to be wrong about? 53:34 Which types do you tend to best get along with? 55:17 What don’t you understand about ESFPs? 58:40 What are some INFJ stereotypes that you relate to and are there some that you’ve never personally experienced? 1:01:34 Do you like being the unpaid therapist? 1:03:18 How do you deal with being overstimulated by sensory experiences? 1:05:01 Can an INFJ become like an ESTP? 1:07:50 Why do INFJs have a martyr complex? 1:08:28 What types are you the most attracted to romantically and why? 1:12:14 Why do INFJs have poor Se in terms of body/action, but good Se in terms of style? 1:14:48 Ni doms don’t seem to experience anxiety issues. Is there a reason? 1:16:14 What’s the easiest tell between an INFJ and an ISFJ? 1:19:12 Be honest, do you have a superiority complex? 1:20:54 What is something about MBTI that you think a lot of people gloss over? 1:23:39 Could you tell us a little bit about the book you’re writing? 1:25:33 What is one thing you’ve learned about yourself in writing this book? 1:26:34 What is your pitch for Enneagram? Is it worth looking into for people who haven’t? 1:30:15 If you could choose one thing to tell the MBTI community about INFJs, what would it be?…

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Dear Kristin 5: MBTI and trauma - Is there a link? Unpacking trauma and MBTI tests, type and treatment, and much more 42:07

1 year ago42:07

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Welcome back to the pod! Today, we dive into a heavier topic as I unpack the topics of trauma and MBTI, featuring questions from Cindy, Jackie and Tully. We explore the links between trauma and MBTI test results, type and treatment, trauma symptoms and healing, as well as some personal stories from myself. Disclaimer: I am not a mental health professional. Ask me a question for the pod: https://hellodearkristin.com/contact Leave a comment on this video: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpq6dbOAv1f6W2EPpb4OY5A Main YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin Instagram: @dear.kristin Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Wedding planning as an ESFP: What I learned about myself 52:12

1 year ago52:12

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Hey everyone, welcome back to the pod! Today I talk about some of the various things I learned about myself as an ESFP during the wedding planning process. Enjoy! If you'd like to leave a comment on this episode, please check out the same episode on the LNS YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 Looking for a crash course on the 8 cognitive functions related to MBTI? Check out the following videos: My video: https://youtu.be/uzNWdRgGdJg Frank James' video on the functions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUOkMm43hGM LiJo's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ViwFzX5uDWg Aimee Y's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xf13VRNPp8 Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Unpacking the ENTJ personality (feat. Allison Ramsey) 1:03:48

2 years ago1:03:48

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Join me today as I unpack the ENTJ personality with a special guest! Allison Ramsey is the best-selling author of the Redefine book ( www.empirelifeacademy.com/book ) and the Founder of Empire Life, Coaching and Mentoring Company. At Empire Life, Female Founders are Guided in Scaling Their Empires. Allison is also a Mom and Dog Mom to Mars, her doberman. She also hosts the Empire Life Podcast, which broadcasts interviews with mega-successful empire builders from all around the world. With private clients, Empire Life guides clients in business strategy, structure, community building, authentic sales in scaling the technical infrastructure for membership sites, systems, raising prices, confidence, automation, sales funnels and scales momentum with Facebook and Google Ads (textbook ENTJ, amiright?). The Empire Life Blog has tons of exposure and engagement every day as well. Allison is also an international speaker on women in entrepreneurship, business, leadership, and business partnerships. She enjoys spending time with her loved ones, and working out in her free time. Female coaches and female-led businesses who have implemented Empire Life's business strategies have seen an increase in client leads, monthly income (often a 20X increase from when they started with Empire Life’s support), and client retention after having Empire Life Mentorship. Website: www.empirelifeacademy.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/allisonrmy www.instagram.com/empirelifeacademy Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/allisonramseyco/ X: https://twitter.com/Allison__Ramsey Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiJSVhz5kEuLMkbZDMIpBsw Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2dyMUbwo1PG5lHMC3qNUGO?si=3fe6ff477d4641ba My links: YouTube: www.youtube.con/dearkristin https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 Instagram: @dear.kristin Website: www.hellodearkristin.com Music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Dear Kristin 4: Unpacking my time in Korea, thoughts on INFJs, why extraverts get tired of people 47:08

2 years ago47:08

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In today's "Dear Kristin" episode, I share some vulnerable thoughts and experiences from my time in Korea, amongst other type-relate questions. Thank you to Chris S, Haleemah, Nicola, Casey, Emaryllis and Ellie for submitting the questions for this one. Grab a cuppa and let's dive in! TIME STAMPS: 1:44 Question from Chris Stockton: What’s your advice for using MBTI as a tool whilst creating characters in creative writing? 5:21 From Haleemah: Do you find yourself constantly typing people in your personal life? 7:32 From Haleemah: What has your experience been like with INFJs? 13:52 From Nicola: What was your experience in Korea like and why did you leave? 30:40 From Casey: What are some questions that you can ask people to get a sense of how they are perceiving and judging information? 34:17 From Emaryllis: I’m pretty sure I’m an ENTP, but why do I get tired from human interaction all the time? 38:25 From Ellie: What is the right thing to say to an Fi dom when they are talking to me about their feelings? (From a Ti dom) PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/dearkristin SUBMIT A QUESTION: https://hellodearkristin.com/contact My YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin My instagram: @dear.kristin Music by Restless Mosaic.…

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I’m engaged! Discussing my relationship with my ENTJ fiancé ❤️ 1:12:49

2 years ago1:12:49

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Yes, I am engaged and so so happy about it! Today, in an absolute first for the pod, I discuss my romantic relationship with my ENTJ fiancé! Join with a cuppa as I answer your questions about ESFP / ENTJ compatibility, my thoughts on love and relationships, how we resolve conflict, how our functions play out and much more! Note: I received Andrew's permission to discuss our relationship openly. 😊 Links: Subscribe to the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dearkristin Become a YouTube member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5XC9aaEks0YAR2z55C62Og/join Leave a comment on this episode via the pod's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 Instagram: @dear.kristin Main YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@dearkristin ⌛ T I M E S T A M P S : 1:24 How did you two meet? An ENTJ and ESFP meeting must have been fun 3:49 Is your fiance Catholic? 4:15 Does your fiance also partake in the Te tone? Also what are your thoughts on MBTI? 5:45 Do you think if you were still in your prime you would have been more picky? 6:02 Was the ESFP/ENTJ interaction in the speed dating video based off something that happened in real life? 7:02 Where will you go to get married? 7:08 Have you chosen a date for the wedding? 7:22 What role plays faith in your relationship? 8:10 How involved are you in his plan to overtake Greece? 8:22 What other types have you dated before choosing your ultimate winner? 8:52 How and when did the both of you become official/start dating? Also, is it weird that I don't believe in type compatibility, that it all depends on the persons' true selves and how they grow and develop with each other? 9:37 How close is he to the ENTJ you've created on this channel? Was he an inspiration for this character in the last videos? Also, Feeler and Thinker pair - some tips, that help you understand each other better? Also, what helps him to deal with your spontaneity, and what helps you deal with his planning? Also, does he like MBTI? Will he help you in creating content? Will we see him in your videos? 16:45 How has it been introducing your fiancé into your family? 18:02 I can see you two connecting on the Fi-Te axis, but how do you navigate the S-N difference? Has it come up much? 21:58 Will you leave/take a break from Youtube after getting married? 22:33 Will baby shark be playing at the reception? 22:44 What are your enneagram types? 23:02 How did he propose? Did you discuss it beforehand and how? 24:44 Who fell in love first? How did you fall in love with each other? 27:09 Will he appear in any of your skits? 27:25 How did you type him as an ENTJ? 28:59 In what ways are you defying the stereotypes? 30: 54 Do social celebrations such as engagement and marriage mean anything to an ENTJ? 32:21 What does he like about ESFPs? 33:07 Did you introduce him to MBTI, or had he already heard of it? 33:28 Thoughts on free will and moral responsibility? 33:56 Do you think communication is easier because you have the same cognitive functions? 37:02 In what ways does your fiance balance you out? 40:01 Do you stalkers leave you alone now that they know you’re engaged? 40:21 Best and hardest thing about having an ENTJ as a fiance? 45:56 What does the ideal date look like to both of you? 46:57 Do you feel like style preferences re wedding venue/dresses etc have anything to do with personality type? 47:27 What are the scariest parts about engagement? 48:50 What did your siblings say when you announced your engagement? 50:22 Other than therapy, how does one reduce their toxicity? It’s so hard! 52:49 What, if anything, are you to on complete polar opposite sides within a specific issue? 54:17 How similar and in what ways is he similar to your ENTJ dad? 55:15 Has knowing MBTI so well helped your ability to communicate well? Or has it hindered? 47:25 How has knowing MBTI helped you grow in your faith? 57:45 How often do y’all actively use cognitive function language as a tool for resolving conflicts? 57:54 How does your fiance feed/compliment your energy? 58:45 Does MBTI play a role in your compatibility, or is it mostly other factors? 59:31 What’s the most surprising thing that you’ve learned about yourself being in this relationship? 1:01:52 Did you ever try to look for/date someone of a type compatible with yours? 1:02:11 What have you learned about relationships through dating him? 1:02:50 What were some of your preconceptions about ENTJs that have been proven wrong? 1:03:27 How do you handle conflicts? 1:05:11 Any advice for successful long-term relationships? 1:07:03 How did you know that he was the one? Music by Restless Mosaic.…

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10 things I wish I knew in my twenties 40:01

2 years ago40:01

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On today's episode, I'm reminiscing un-scripted on 10 of the lessons that I learned in my 20s. 💜 Watch on YouTube (main channel): https://youtu.be/OsS_VbbJ8kc Listen on YouTube (podcast channel): https://youtu.be/IACi3eRTTLI Jordan Peterson reference: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cg2OEoMlZd-/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Instagram: @dear.kristin Music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Unpacking the INFJ personality (feat. my INFJ friend Bek) 1:14:55

2 years ago1:14:55

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Today I welcome one of my oldest friends onto the podcast to make her uncomfortable with extremely pointed questions! Join us as we discuss all things INFJ: What is the Ni intuition? What is it like being married to an ISTP? Why do INFJs make so many judgements, and where do they come from? What is it like seeing the darkness of the world at all times? What are the dangers of living in your imagination? What is the INFJ doorslam? How do INFJs find a personal identity away from the tribe? Is "The Body Keeps the Score" even that good? We discuss all this and more in this juicy episode! I found it particularly interesting listening to how differently Bek and I perceived these questions and topics, given that we lead with each other's inferior functions. Grab a cuppa and enjoy! Check out my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@dearkristin Follow the pod on YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpq6dbOAv1f6W2EPpb4OY5A Instagram: @dear.kristin Music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Dear Kristin 3: ENTP x INFP relationships, MBTI and mental illness, Fe nuance and more! 37:32

2 years ago37:32

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Today on the pod, I'm taking 37 minutes to answer 5 questions! Thank you to Erika, Misia, Maja, Ahab and YourLocalFriendESFJ for their submissions! In this episode, I talk MBTI and mental illness, typing yourself, Fe nuance, stereotypes and how MBTI types present in children. Links mentioned in the show: Submit a question: https://www.hellodearkristin.com/contact My YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin My website: https://www.hellodearkristin.com My instagram: @dear.kristin Podcast episode with ENFJ Laith: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3GS8gkEMls1tvlLK8SVYtF?si=f27172f8516f4c06 Podcast episode with Dr. Ben Coterill: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3lqkm2cq1vjkrsbxSxLg03?si=2311bca768954dc3 Music by Restless Mosaic.…

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MBTI, YouTube and faith with Bogdan Yakubets 1:54:37

2 years ago1:54:37

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Today on the pod, I'm speaking with fellow MBTI YouTuber, Bogdan Yakubets. We speak in depth about the struggles being a YouTuber, what made him quit YouTube, his experience with MBTI, his personality type and how MBTI works with his Christian faith. It was a pleasure speaking with him and I hope you guys enjoy it! Links mentioned in the episode: Bogdan's main YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@bogdanyakubets702 Bogdan's fight-choreography YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@copy-catchoreo1335 The comedic short film "Steak", starring Bogdan: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuiEn6jJdPE My YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5XC9aaEks0YAR2z55C62Og Instagram: dear.kristin Website: https://www.hellodearkristin.com/ My podcast YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 Music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Type Trends: What is your ultimate nightmare scenario? 53:49

2 years ago53:49

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Today, we're unpacking your answers to the question "What is your ultimate nightmare scenario?" We received 324 answers for this one and were able to uncover some interesting trends! So grab a cuppa and strap on in! Subscribe to my new YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 See all of the answers that I received for this question: https://www.hellodearkristin.com/typetrends Time stamps: 3:22 ENFP 5:29 INFP 9:53 ENFJ 11:30 INFJ 16:49 ESFP 18:17 ISFP 20:02 ESFJ 21:23 ISFJ 22:21 Recap of the "F" answers 24:05 ENTP 28:18 INTP 32:30 ENTJ 36:19 INTJ 40:31 ESTJ 42:28 ISTJ 43:58 ESTP 45:31 ISTP 47:12 Summary of the findings 51:10 Call for help! Thanks for listening guys! Send me an email if you'd like to help me analyse trends for future episodes: dear.kristin.mail@gmail.com Check out my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin Follow me on instagram @dear.kristin Music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Dear Kristin 2: MBTI in childhood, with faith, developing your functions and how to type yourself accurately 40:13

2 years ago40:13

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Welcome to "Dear Kristin" episode #2, in which we're diving into more of YOUR questions. Today, I answer questions from Lisandro, Pupairin, Sea and Rachel H. Topics include: changing one's personality type, communication tactics between Feelers and Thinkers, MBTI in childhood, MBTI and faith, how to use MBTI to better yourself, developing your functions and how to type yourself accurately. It's just me and my mic, so grab a coffee and let's chat! (And by "chat" I mean, "listen to me monologue while you get to say nothing!") Thanks for tuning in! Links: Check out my Patreon page to see the recent talk that I gave at a Catholic youth retreat: https://www.patreon.com/dearkristin The episode I mentioned about "Typing people in the wild": https://open.spotify.com/episode/6E1stgz15L13Flqii1xcWJ?si=6df4bdff17b94fa4 Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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A deep dive into the ENTJ personality (feat. my ENTJ housemate Marie) 1:44:59

2 years ago1:44:59

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Today, I welcome my ENTJ housemate Marie to answer 36 of your instagram questions. Your only instruction in submitting your questions was to "make her uncomfortable", which... well, you'll have to have a listen to see if we did! Some of you might remember Marie from an earlier episode, "Unpacking the ExTJ personalities with my housemates". As expected, without Sara, we were able to dive much deeper. Join us as we discuss strategies for empathy, femininity as an ENTJ, what it looks like to have blindspot Si, an ethical debate about the trolley problem, and some pretty wholesome affirmations between us as friends! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin Instagram: @dear.kristin Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Talking MBTI with a Psychology Professor (feat. Dr. Ben Cotterill) 44:34

2 years ago44:34

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Today, I'm joined by Dr. Ben Cotterill, a psychology professor at Clemson University in South Carolina, to discuss his research using the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator and other personality tools. Doctor Cotterill and I discuss the strengths and weaknesses of MBTI, its critics in the psychological field, the Big Five model and how one's psychological birth order might affect their personality type. It was a fascinating conversation, so grab a cuppa and get comfortable! Dr. Cotterill's website: https://sites.google.com/view/ben-f-cotterill/research?authuser=0 His discussed research paper on "The Relationship Between Psychological Birth-Order Position and Personality Type": https://muse.jhu.edu/article/855025/pdf Boeree's MBTI test: http://webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/jungiantypestest.html The Big Five Aspects Scale: https://bigfiveaspects.com/ Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Dear Kristin: How can I type people in the wild? 44:12

3 years ago44:12

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Today I answer a question submitted by Kennedy, who asks how he, as an INTP, can learn to type people in the wild. I go into some of the tells that I've picked up as an Se dom that reflect what cognitive functions somebody might be using. If you're unfamiliar with the cognitive functions and need a crash course, check out this video: https://youtu.be/uzNWdRgGdJg Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Type Trends: What is your career/field of study? 31:33

3 years ago31:33

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Join me as we find trends between types based on career/field of study! Timestamps: 2:49 ENFJ 3:41 INFJ 6:22 ESFJ 7:02 ISFJ 8:02 ENFP 9:34 INFP 11:38 ISFP 12:42 ESFP 14:47 ENFJ 17:04 INTJ 18:49 ESTJ 20:34 ISTJ 22:00 ENTP 23:30 INTP 25:44 ISTP 26:46 ESTP Learn about the cognitive functions: https://youtu.be/uzNWdRgGdJg Theme music by Restless Mosaic…

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The Wonder of Creativity feat. Heart of Michi 1:49:22

3 years ago1:49:22

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Today, I welcome Michelle to talk with me about the wonderful topic of creativity as two creatives in the YouTube space. Where does creativity start? How do we manage the whims of creativity as two ExFPs in a society that demands content? How do we handle deadlines? Is there a difference between “creative” and “artistic”? What makes our art unique? Are certain personality types more creative than others? How can you be more creative? We discuss these and literally 10000 other questions in today's episode. Michelle’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/PsychologyandChillwMichi Michelle’s instagram: @heartofmichi Neon Genisis scene that Michelle mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXbCWJNfq_0 Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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16 Personalities as 16 Songs: A Deep Dive 1:11:37

3 years ago1:11:37

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This episode is for the insanely niche sector of my audience that has an extensive interest in both music and MBTI! (Just kidding, it's for all of you, please listen 🙏 ) Let's take an unnecessarily deep dive into these 16 songs that I've chosen to represent each of the 16 Myers-Briggs types. View Restless Mosaic's FREE book, "Music By The Innards": restlessmosaic.wordpress.com Watch my video, "16 Personalities as 16 Songs": https://youtu.be/2qnryrVYIjo ⌛️ TIMESTAMPS: 2:20 ENTJ 10:03 ENTP 14:16 ESTP 17:47 ISTP 22:06 INTP 26:57 INTJ 30:03 ESTJ 33:19 ISTJ 36:18 If you're interested in more MBTI music content... 36:55 INFP 40:49 ENFP 45:36 ISFP 49:00 ESFP 55:58 ESFJ 58:59 ISFJ 1:03:08 ENFJ 1:05:58 INFJ 1:09:51 Final comments Watch Restless Mosaic's interview with Ennpey about cognitive functions and music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YMl0jn2JBtg Learn about the cognitive functions: https://youtu.be/uzNWdRgGdJg Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Type Trends: In What Ways Do You Feel Misunderstood? 44:21

3 years ago44:21

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Want to help your friends feel more understood? Well, thankfully, we're back with another long-form analysis of your instagram answers to my monthly question. This time, you answered, "In what ways do you feel misunderstood?" Can't quite wrap your head around the personality type of someone in your life? Then this episode is for you! Thanks, as always, to those who participated. Timestamps: 4:17 INTP 7:05 ENTP 12:25 ISTP 15:41 ESTP 16:22 INFP 20:25 ISFP 21:35 ENFP 25:35 ESFP 28:11 ENTJ 29:21 ESTJ 31:05 INTJ 34:06 ISTJ 34:42 ENFJ 37:02 INFJ 41:00 ESFJ 41:36 ISFJ "Type Trends" is an experiment that I run via my instagram page, through which I ask my instagram followers various questions, and then find trends between the types based on their answers. Feel free to follow me on instagram @dear.kristin if you'd like to participate! Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Unpacking the INTJ Personality (feat. INTJ Joe aka ”Ghost of Jung”) 1:06:09

3 years ago1:06:09

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Today, I welcome fellow type-enthusiast and esteemed author, Joe Arrigo (aka "Ghost of Jung" on YouTube), to discuss the burden that is being an INTJ. Why do INTJs focus so much on the future, rather than the present moment? Do INTJs find it hard to touch base with their feelings? What do INTJs value in relationships? Dating advice, conflict management, and, of course, the million dollar question, “are you evil”? Joe also shares with us a bit about his writing process in crafting his type manifesto, “Marble and Sculptor”. Buy “Marble and Sculptor” today on Etsy (PDF and Signed Copy): https://www.etsy.com/shop/GhostofJung?ref=seller-platform-mcnav Amazon (Kindle and paperback): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B42PTVZL Joe’s YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/c/GhostofJung Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-arrigo Bangin’ track created by Restless Mosaic.…

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How we experience our Introverted Feeling (feat. my ENFP sister Jenna) 58:52

3 years ago58:52

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Will Jenna put Kristin to sleep in this episode? Find out as we dive into all things Introverted Feeling (Fi)! How does Fi differ from Fe? What are some common misconceptions about each of these feeling functions? What might these functions look like in real life? And what the heck does Moana have to do with this? Let's dive in. Learn about the 8 cognitive functions below: https://youtu.be/uzNWdRgGdJg Intro music by the talented Restless Mosaic…

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Unpacking the ENFJ Personality (feat. ENFJ friend Laith) 47:52

3 years ago47:52

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Today we welcome Laith, a dear friend of mine, to chat all things ENFJ. Do ENFJs really want to unpack everything? What even is Extraverted Feeling (Fe)? Are ENFJs prone to being "fake"? We unpack all this and more in this interesting, albeit slightly unhinged, chat. (This is the longest Laith has ever talked about himself in front of me.) See Laith feature in one of my sketches below: https://youtu.be/H0uDwGWa4ho Intro music by the talented Restless Mosaic…

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Defining the 8 Cognitive Functions Behind MBTI 30:48

3 years ago30:48

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Those darned "cognitive functions" that everyone talks about! What even are they?! Today, we unpack the 8 Jungian cognitive functions with my own ever-developing understanding of what they are in essence, how they differ from one another and how they might present in individuals. A big thank you to my sister for brainstorming the functions with me over many cups of tea, and letting me use some of her own clever phrasing. My YouTube video on the 8 cognitive functions: https://youtu.be/uzNWdRgGdJg Other helpful resources: Frank James' video on the functions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUOkMm43hGM LiJo's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ViwFzX5uDWg Aimee Y's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xf13VRNPp8 Theme music by Restless Mosaic.…

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Unpacking the ExTJ Personality (feat. my ESTJ and ENTJ housemates) 1:32:57

3 years ago1:32:57

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Today I welcome my ESTJ and ENTJ housemates to talk about all things Te! Are they really as bossy as their stereotypes say they are? How do they get in touch with their feelings? Do they ever waste time? How do they navigate living with each other? We answer some of the questions you asked on instagram and have great fun doing it.…

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How to Validate Someone’s Feelings 16:14

3 years ago16:14

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Type Trends: From Where Do You Get Your Sense of Identity? 26:01

3 years ago26:01

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Enjoy the first episode of my long-form analysis of your instagram answers to my question, "From where do you get your sense of identity?" "Type Trends" is an experiment that I run via my instagram page, through which I ask my instagram followers various questions, and then find trends between the types based on their answers. Feel free to follow me on instagram @dear.kristin if you'd like to participate! Helpful resources in learning about the cognitive functions: My 2 videos on the cognitive functions: https://youtu.be/uzNWdRgGdJg https://youtu.be/MiPdmFl9PLg Frank James' video on the functions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUOkMm43hGM LiJo's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ViwFzX5uDWg Aimee Y's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xf13VRNPp8…

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Answering Your Questions With My ENTP Brother, Cameron 1:32:00

3 years ago1:32:00

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... or in other words: Ne left unbridled to frolic! This episode is the audio file from my YouTube video, "Answering your questions with my ENTP brother". We talk about what it's like being an ENTP; the differences between Introverted Feeling (Fi) and Introverted Thinking (Ti) as cognitive functions; and his outlook on life, relationships and religion. Enjoy! The link to the video episode can be found below: https://youtu.be/fDW4axCaIAM…

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Introduction to the Pod 12:24

3 years ago12:24