How to Get Your Partner to Listen, Ask Questions, and Support You

Love Conscious Relationship

Hey there, welcome to the Love Conscious Relationship Podcast. Today, we're diving into a topic that I know many of you can relate to—how to get your partner to listen, ask questions, and support you.

Structure Overview: "I'm going to walk you through some common reasons why this might not be happening in your relationship and, more importantly, what you can do about it. We'll explore actual steps you can take to get (AND give more) support and how to feel good about your relationship. So, grab a cup of coffee, a pad and a paper, let's dive into creating a plan for you to get more support and connection in your relationship!"

"Who here wants a relationship where they only give and never receive?....No one, right? We all want support and understanding from our partners. But why is it that we find ourselves in a silent or unsupportive relationship?"

• Top 5 Reasons We Find Ourselves in Silent or Unsupportive Relationships:
  1. Misaligned Communication Styles
  2. Unmet Emotional Needs
  3. Assumptions and Expectations
  4. Fear of Vulnerability
  5. Habitual Patterns

Solutions:

1. Positive Deposits in the Relationship: Acts of kindness, appreciation, and love create a safe and loving environment.
2. How to Bring Up a Conversation: Make sure you check their readiness
3. How to Ask for What You’re Looking For: Be specific and break down what you want into manageable chunks.
4. How to Get Them to Support You: Clearly state the type of support you need and encourage active listening.

Additional Resources:

• Daily Double: https://www.couplesinstitute.com/couples-as-a-team-daily-double/
• Document on How to Ask Better Questions: https://couplesspeak.com/conversation-quick-start-gude/

Thanks for joining me today. Remember, implementing these steps can transform your relationship.

Until next time, keep working towards a love-conscious relationship!
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