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Is people pleasing holding you back in dating & intimate relationships? With Natalie Lue

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This was a great conversation with Natalie Lue, a boundaries and relationship coach who‘s the creator of one of the longest running self-help blogs in the world, Baggage Reclaim, and The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast. Her 5th book, The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want came out this year.

Many people I work with would define themselves as ‘people pleasers’ or ‘recovering people pleasers’ and it deeply affects how you show up in dating and intimate relationships so it was important to have this conversation with Natalie.

Natalie shares the 5 types of people pleasers, why you might people please and how it can show up in your life, practical ways to begin to step out of people pleasing, people pleasing in dating and relationships and how to stop accepting ‘crumbs’. Natalie also shared the landmarks of healthy relationships and the 4 qualities of a loving partner.

Natalie shares:

  • Nat’s definition of people pleasing
  • Why you might people please and how it can show up in your life
  • The 5 types of people pleasers
  • The feelings and thoughts that can be associated with people pleasing
  • Practical ways to begin to step out of people pleasing
  • People pleasing in dating and relationships
  • How to stop accepting ‘crumbs’ when you are dating
  • The landmarks of healthy relationships
  • The 4 qualities of a loving partner
  • What is changing in her life from peri-menopause

Natalie Lue is a boundaries and relationship coach who‘s the creator of one of the longest running self-help blogs in the world, Baggage Reclaim, and The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast. The England-born, Ireland-raised author helps people understand how their emotional baggage is interfering with their ability to live their lives happily and authentically. Natalie’s authored five books, including Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl and The Joy of Saying No (Jan 2023, HarperCollins). Her advice has been featured in the New York Times, Forbes, NPR, USA Today, and the BBC, among many others.

RESOURCES FROM NATALIE

Natalie’s latest book - The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want by Natalie Lee

You can find Natalie’s blogs here

https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/list-of-posts/

natalielue.substack.com

And you can also find Natalie on

natalielue.com

baggagereclaim.com

instagram.com/natlue

Mentioned by Natalie

Down Girl: The Logic of Misogyny by Kate Manne

RESOURCES FROM SARAH

Sign up to Sarah’s newsletter so you can find out about the latest podcast episode and get pleasure mapping, a guided audio practice

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Spotify for playlists https://open.spotify.com/user/dog9xui4wwpjatvbnpb2t7l3y?si=jnc_V6wxSCqaqr3UhNgD6Q

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Your podcast host is Sarah Rose Bright. Sarah is an Intimacy and Sex Coach who helps women & couples to truly enjoy sex and pleasure and create/deepen intimate relationships that are passionate, happy and healthy so that they can feel good about who they are.

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This was a great conversation with Natalie Lue, a boundaries and relationship coach who‘s the creator of one of the longest running self-help blogs in the world, Baggage Reclaim, and The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast. Her 5th book, The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want came out this year.

Many people I work with would define themselves as ‘people pleasers’ or ‘recovering people pleasers’ and it deeply affects how you show up in dating and intimate relationships so it was important to have this conversation with Natalie.

Natalie shares the 5 types of people pleasers, why you might people please and how it can show up in your life, practical ways to begin to step out of people pleasing, people pleasing in dating and relationships and how to stop accepting ‘crumbs’. Natalie also shared the landmarks of healthy relationships and the 4 qualities of a loving partner.

Natalie shares:

  • Nat’s definition of people pleasing
  • Why you might people please and how it can show up in your life
  • The 5 types of people pleasers
  • The feelings and thoughts that can be associated with people pleasing
  • Practical ways to begin to step out of people pleasing
  • People pleasing in dating and relationships
  • How to stop accepting ‘crumbs’ when you are dating
  • The landmarks of healthy relationships
  • The 4 qualities of a loving partner
  • What is changing in her life from peri-menopause

Natalie Lue is a boundaries and relationship coach who‘s the creator of one of the longest running self-help blogs in the world, Baggage Reclaim, and The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast. The England-born, Ireland-raised author helps people understand how their emotional baggage is interfering with their ability to live their lives happily and authentically. Natalie’s authored five books, including Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl and The Joy of Saying No (Jan 2023, HarperCollins). Her advice has been featured in the New York Times, Forbes, NPR, USA Today, and the BBC, among many others.

RESOURCES FROM NATALIE

Natalie’s latest book - The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want by Natalie Lee

You can find Natalie’s blogs here

https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/list-of-posts/

natalielue.substack.com

And you can also find Natalie on

natalielue.com

baggagereclaim.com

instagram.com/natlue

Mentioned by Natalie

Down Girl: The Logic of Misogyny by Kate Manne

RESOURCES FROM SARAH

Sign up to Sarah’s newsletter so you can find out about the latest podcast episode and get pleasure mapping, a guided audio practice

https://www.sarahrosebright.co.uk/guided-pleasure-mapping/

Book a complimentary consultation with Sarah https://calendly.com/sarahrosebright

Find Sarah online

Website www.sarahrosebright.com

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosebright/

Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sarahrosebrightsexcoach

Spotify for playlists https://open.spotify.com/user/dog9xui4wwpjatvbnpb2t7l3y?si=jnc_V6wxSCqaqr3UhNgD6Q

ABOUT YOUR HOST

Your podcast host is Sarah Rose Bright. Sarah is an Intimacy and Sex Coach who helps women & couples to truly enjoy sex and pleasure and create/deepen intimate relationships that are passionate, happy and healthy so that they can feel good about who they are.

  continue reading

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