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EP54~ Love me like a Country Song
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In this episode, I use songs from Lanie's country music playlist to describe how I hope to be thought of felt about by someone who loves me. I hope this musical discussion elicits thoughts in your own mind of what it is exactly you are looking for and how you hope to be treated.
The first song I dissect is She's Everything by Brad Paisley. A few talking points are:
- It's nice to be appreciated for what we look like in our natural state. It's exhausting putting our best foot forward, appearance-wise all the time.
- I want to be with someone who expects me to have a full spectrum of emotions and wants me to express both the highs and the lows. I want to be understood.
- I want to be there for my person and make the people around me feel good and know that they are loved.
- I love BIG. I have a big heart and my feelings run deep. It's important to me that the person I'm with knows that if I'm mad, it's for good reason. The flip side is also true, I show my love loudly too.
- While I understand the ebb and flow of longterm romantic relationships, I love to be around people who dote on their significant others.
- I mean, bubble baths and wine just make me feel all warm inside.
- Growing old with someone sounds good to me. I don't think it's ever too late.
The second country song I talk through is Billy Currington's song, Details. This song is about how this guy recognizes everything about the woman he adores. He seems to notice and pay attention to all of her attributes. I talk about how this song reminds me of a recent dating relationship I was in. I felt noticed and adored but not necessarily understood. I think there's the surface level of recognizing preferences and interests and then there's the deeper level of truly understanding and balancing their flaws with their gifts.
The third country song I discuss is Zac Brown Band, Whatever it is. This song makes me feel flutters and fireworks. It's not a deep, sentimental song but it has a great vibe. It reminds me of when I met a guy at an event recently who kept telling me that he felt drawn to me and he couldn't explain why. Too bad he was married (See Ep53 Easy Targets).
The last song is like an inspirational theme song for me. It's The Good Ones by Gabby Barrett. We can hope for all of the checklist items, but at the end of the day, simple qualities like solid and steady sound pretty great. After years of being alone, online dating, and getting hurt, it's easy to be discouraged. It can feel like the "good ones" are all committed and the single ones aren't what we're looking for. This song gives me the feeling of hopefulness that there are good people out there.
Up Next, Ep55 RED FLAGS!
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