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How to End Sibling Rivalry for Good with Ralphie Jacobs

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"Behavior is shaped by consequences, and as a child behaves a certain way and we give it a reward, then that behavior is stronger.

So, if we pay attention to our children while they're rivaling, while they're arguing with each other, We're making that behavior stronger, we're strengthening it, and we're actually adding to the list of things that they'll argue about in the future.

And so, what we want to send a message to our kids is what we will engage in, what we will intervene in, and what we will not intervene in.

So we have to kind of create a boundary there, but once we've created that boundary, we can actually parent with more compassion because we're choosing when to engage."

Ready to get some job training for the most important role you’ll ever have?

Welcome to Mom University.

If you ever feel like you're living the same day over and over…

If mom life feels like an exhausting whirlwind of laundry, dinner, driving and frustration on repeat…

You're not alone.

For every other thing we do in life there's training, but for the most important job, we're just figuring it out as we go.

Mom University is here to change that. It will give you the skills and education to break free of old patterns and be a leader in your home.

Join us for our in person event April 2024: universityformoms.com
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What questions do you have in mom life? Email me and let me know: hello@universityformoms.com

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"Behavior is shaped by consequences, and as a child behaves a certain way and we give it a reward, then that behavior is stronger.

So, if we pay attention to our children while they're rivaling, while they're arguing with each other, We're making that behavior stronger, we're strengthening it, and we're actually adding to the list of things that they'll argue about in the future.

And so, what we want to send a message to our kids is what we will engage in, what we will intervene in, and what we will not intervene in.

So we have to kind of create a boundary there, but once we've created that boundary, we can actually parent with more compassion because we're choosing when to engage."

Ready to get some job training for the most important role you’ll ever have?

Welcome to Mom University.

If you ever feel like you're living the same day over and over…

If mom life feels like an exhausting whirlwind of laundry, dinner, driving and frustration on repeat…

You're not alone.

For every other thing we do in life there's training, but for the most important job, we're just figuring it out as we go.

Mom University is here to change that. It will give you the skills and education to break free of old patterns and be a leader in your home.

Join us for our in person event April 2024: universityformoms.com
Instagram @universityformoms

What questions do you have in mom life? Email me and let me know: hello@universityformoms.com

  continue reading

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