This Is 45: What They Don’t Tell You About Midlife

No Edits Just Life

#Society #Kiwanis Rucker-Walker

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The healing power of fitness goes far beyond physical benefits—for today’s guest, it’s a form of self-expression and a celebration of what the body can do. In this episode, host Nora McInerny sits down with fitness personality Ivylis Rivera, who shares her deeply personal journey of navigating life with Chronic Migraine while holding onto her passion for movement. Ivylis opens up about the struggle of staying active while facing the fear of triggering a headache or migraine attack and the resilience it takes to keep pushing forward—a resilience that carried her through the challenging journey of finding a Chronic Migraine treatment plan that worked for her. Join Nora and Ivylis as they explore the concept of “soft living,” a philosophy Ivylis embraces—staying active, listening to your body, and building trust in oneself. Click here for Product Information, including Boxed Warning and Medication Guide, or visit https://abbv.ie/prescribing_info See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

about a year ago 6:11

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In this episode of No Edits, Just Life, we’re diving into the raw and unfiltered truth about turning 45. From unexpected physical and emotional changes to juggling family, work, and big dreams, I’m sharing what no one prepared me for—and the lessons I’m learning along the way.

Key Takeaways

The real challenges of navigating physical and emotional changes at midlife.
How societal expectations impact our sense of self at 45.
Tips for embracing imperfection and finding joy in the chaos.

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This Is 45: What They Don’t Tell You About Midlife

No Edits Just Life

published about a year ago

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Key Takeaways

The real challenges of navigating physical and emotional changes at midlife.
How societal expectations impact our sense of self at 45.
Tips for embracing imperfection and finding joy in the chaos.

Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook for more unfiltered moments: NoEditsJustLife.

What’s one thing you wish someone had told you about midlife? Share your story with me on social media or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com I’d love to hear from you!

Stay Connected

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Soft Life or Survival Mode? Why I’m Tired of Being the Strong One 3:52

2 days ago3:52

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This week’s episode is for the ones who are tired of being strong all the time. Kiwanis opens up about the emotional weight of being “the strong one,” how survival mode has been glamorized, and why choosing softness isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom. This isn’t just a conversation about burnout. It’s a permission slip to stop performing strength and start pursuing peace. Because surviving is not the goal anymore. Thriving is. And softness? That’s part of the calling too. Key Takeaways • Being “the strong one” often means being overlooked and emotionally exhausted. • Survival mode is not sustainable, and burnout isn’t a badge of honor. • Softness means rest, honesty, boundaries, and receiving support without guilt. • God’s calling includes rest—obedience doesn’t mean overextending yourself. • You are worthy of peace, softness, and support simply because you exist. Episode Resources • 📝 Ready to build a life that prioritizes peace? Grab the Prosperity Planner: Prosperity Planner Link • 🎉 Want to help spread the message of softness, healing, and truth? Join the No Edits Crew Street Team for exclusive updates and behind-the-scenes content: Join the Street Team Here • Affirmation to Repeat: “Softness is not weakness. Rest is not rebellion. I am allowed to choose peace over pressure.” Let’s Talk About It What does softness look like for you right now? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com and let’s talk about how we’re shifting out of survival mode—together. Stay Connected • Website • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode made you exhale or reminded you that rest is holy, leave a review and send it to a friend who’s always “the strong one.” Let’s normalize softness. Let’s normalize not carrying it all. Let’s normalize healing—loud, quiet, and everything in between.…

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Dear Midlife Me: An Open Letter 2:00

6 days ago2:00

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It’s not just a conversation—it’s a love letter. A letter to the woman who’s in the middle of it all: rebuilding, redefining, rediscovering herself. Kiwanis delivers a gentle, powerful message to her midlife self—and in doing so, speaks to every woman navigating the quiet chaos of becoming. This one’s for the late bloomers, the second-chancers, the ones who are still figuring it out. It’s not too late. You’re not too far behind. You are right on time. Key Takeaways • Midlife isn’t a breakdown—it’s a breakthrough. • You are allowed to take up space, dream again, and glow in your own way. • You don’t have to shrink to be loved or prove your worth to be worthy. • Every version of you—past, present, and future—is worth honoring. • You are not too old, too late, or too far gone. You’re exactly where you’re meant to be. Episode Resources • 📝 Ready to reconnect with your purpose and protect your peace? Start with the Prosperity Planner: Prosperity Planner Link • 🎉 Want to help amplify the No Edits, Just Life message of healing and realness? Join the Street Team for exclusive content and ways to spread the word: Join the Street Team Here • Affirmation to Repeat: “I am not too late. I am not too old. I am not behind. I am becoming.” Let’s Talk About It Did this letter hit home for you too? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email noeditsjustlife@gmail.com — I’d love to hear what your letter to midlife you would say. Stay Connected • Website • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode wrapped you in words you didn’t know you needed, leave a review and send it to a friend walking through her own midlife moment. Let’s normalize love letters to ourselves. Let’s normalize becoming.…

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What Does Success Look Like in This Season of Life? 4:44

9 days ago4:44

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This week’s episode is a powerful reframe for anyone who’s ever felt like they’re “behind” because they’re not checking off the same old boxes. Kiwanis opens up about how her definition of success has shifted in midlife—from hustle and external validation to peace, boundaries, healing, and joy. If you’re tired of chasing what you were told would make you happy and ready to define success on your own terms , this conversation will feel like a deep exhale and a fresh start. Key Takeaways • The old definition of success (degrees, titles, achievements) may no longer fit. • Real success might look like rest, joy, peace, or letting go. • Redefining success means asking: What actually matters to me now? • You’re not behind—you’re evolving. • You have full permission to create a version of success that feels good on the inside , not just one that looks good from the outside. Episode Resources • 📝 Ready to design a life that reflects your values and vision? Start with the Prosperity Planner: Prosperity Planner Link • 🎉 Want to help spread this message of soft success and real growth? Join the No Edits Crew Street Team and get exclusive behind-the-scenes updates and ways to support the show: Join the Street Team Here • Affirmation to Repeat: “Success doesn’t have to be loud to be real. My peace is proof I’m doing it right.” Let’s Talk About It What does success look like in your life right now? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com — I’d love to hear what you're walking away from, walking toward, or redefining. Stay Connected • Website • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode helped you breathe a little deeper or think a little differently, leave a review and share it with a friend who’s learning to define success their own way. Let’s normalize shifting, softening, and showing up in whatever way feels true.…

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Sometimes I Miss Who I Used to Be 3:54

23 days ago3:54

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This week’s episode is for the woman who’s growing, healing, evolving—and quietly grieving the version of herself she had to leave behind. Kiwanis gets real about the unspoken part of becoming: missing who you used to be. From the carefree girl with big dreams to the softer version of you that hadn’t been bruised by life yet, this episode is a tender reminder that growth and grief can coexist. You can be proud of who you’re becoming and still miss who you were. And that’s okay. Key Takeaways • Growth doesn’t cancel out grief—you can feel both at the same time. • Missing your old self doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful—it means she mattered. • The versions of ourselves we outgrow still deserve to be honored. • You’re not failing if you sometimes feel heavy during your healing. • Becoming the woman you are now is built on the dreams of who you used to be. Episode Resources • 📝 Need space to process your growth and actually see your wins? Grab the Prosperity Planner: Prosperity Planner Link • 🎉 Want to help share the message of real, raw growth with others? Join the No Edits Crew Street Team for exclusive updates, behind-the-scenes access, and the chance to amplify healing in your own community: Join the Street Team Here • Affirmation to Repeat: “I honor who I was. I embrace who I’m becoming. Both are worthy of love.” Let’s Talk About It What part of your old self do you miss the most? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email noeditsjustlife@gmail.com — because healing is easier when we say the quiet parts out loud. Stay Connected • Website • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode made you feel seen, leave a review and send it to someone who’s navigating their own “becoming.” Let’s remind each other that real growth is raw, layered, and absolutely worth it.…

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Friday Permission Slip: Unpopular Opinion: Not Everything is Gaslighting (And I Wish People Would Stop) 1:38

27 days ago1:38

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This week’s permission slip comes with a little extra spice—and a whole lot of truth. Kiwanis is calling out a trend that’s been heavy on her heart: the overuse of the word “gaslighting.” While real gaslighting is serious and damaging, not every misunderstanding or painful relationship deserves that label. Healing is messy, complicated, and not always wrapped up in trending buzzwords. This episode is your reminder that honesty and peace matter more than fitting your story into someone else’s narrative. Key Takeaways • Real gaslighting is serious, but not every hurtful experience is emotional abuse. • Misunderstandings and imperfect relationships don’t always equal manipulation. • Overusing the word “gaslighting” can minimize the true experiences of survivors. • Healing is about telling the full, messy truth—not just assigning blame. • Some things don’t need a label—they just need your honesty, forgiveness, and peace. Episode Resources • 📝 Need a space to clear your mental clutter and focus on real healing? Grab the Prosperity Planner: Prosperity Planner Link • 🎉 Want to be part of the No Edits Crew ? Join the Street Team and help spread the real, raw, and relatable message of the podcast! Plus, get exclusive updates and behind-the-scenes peeks: Join the Street Team Here Affirmation to Repeat: “I honor my healing with truth, not trends. I choose peace over labeling my past.” Let’s Talk About It Have you caught yourself labeling something gaslighting that maybe was just messy and human? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email noeditsjustlife@gmail.com. Let’s talk about it—no shame, no judgment, just real growth. Stay Connected • Website • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode gave you a little clarity (or a little courage), leave a review and share it with someone who’s committed to healing for real—not just for the ‘gram. Let’s normalize messy, honest growth without edits.…

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The Invisible To-Do List: Why I'm Always Tired but Can’t Explain It 4:28

4 weeks ago4:28

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This week’s episode is for every woman who’s ever said, "I’m tired," but struggled to explain why. Inspired by the real, raw reality of carrying an invisible mental load, Kiwanis breaks down why it’s not just what you do that’s exhausting—it’s what you carry that nobody sees. If you’ve ever felt like you’re juggling a thousand things in your head while smiling on the outside, this one’s for you. You are not crazy. You are carrying more than most people realize. And you’re allowed to rest. Key Takeaways • The "invisible to-do list" is the mental load nobody sees—but you still feel every day. • Midlife adds extra layers to that invisible list: kids, parents, careers, health, and dreams. • Chronic tiredness isn’t always about physical exhaustion—it’s emotional and mental, too. • You deserve to set boundaries, ask for help, and honor your unseen work without guilt. Episode Resources • 📝 Need a space to unload your invisible to-do list and protect your peace? Grab the Prosperity Planner: Prosperity Planner Link • 🎉 Want to be part of the No Edits Crew ? Join the Street Team and help spread the real, raw, and relatable message of the podcast! Plus, get exclusive updates and behind-the-scenes peeks: Join the Street Team Here Affirmation to repeat: “Even when they can’t see it, my work matters. I honor my invisible labor with rest and grace.” Let’s Talk About It What’s one thing sitting heavy on your invisible to-do list right now? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email noeditsjustlife@gmail.com and let’s talk about it. No edits. No judgment. Just real life. Stay Connected • Website • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode put words to what you’ve been feeling, leave a review and send it to a friend who needs the reminder that invisible work is still real work. Let’s build a world where rest isn’t earned—it’s honored.…

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Friday Permission Slip: Let Them… and Let Me Breathe 2:37

5 weeks ago2:37

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This week’s permission slip is a deep exhale in audio form. Inspired by a real-life meltdown moment and the wisdom of The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, Kiwanis shares how one simple phrase—“Let them”—can be the reset you didn’t know you needed. If you’ve ever felt like everything’s on fire and you’re the only one holding the extinguisher, this episode is your reminder: you don’t have to fix it all. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do… is breathe. Key Takeaways • “Let them” is not about giving up—it’s about letting go. • You don’t have to explain, defend, or fix everything around you. • Your peace is more important than someone else’s perception. • You’re allowed to walk away, take a breath, and choose yourself without guilt. Episode Resources • 📝 Need space to process your stress and protect your peace? Grab the Prosperity Planner : https://shop.beacons.ai/noeditsjustlife/832e1a2e-f322-4bdd-b97f-eb239325fffa Inspired by: The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins Affirmation to repeat: “Let them. Let me breathe. I choose peace over pressure.” Let’s Talk About It When’s the last time you needed to just… let them? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com and let’s trade “almost lost it” stories with no shame. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode gave you the deep breath you needed, leave a review and share it with someone who’s carrying too much today. Let’s build a world where choosing peace is the norm—not the exception.…

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Friday Permission Slip: What Healing Actually Looks Like 2:12

5 weeks ago2:12

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This one’s for anyone who’s ever felt like they’re “doing healing wrong.” In this raw and comforting Friday Permission Slip, Kiwanis breaks down the real-deal truth: healing isn’t always peaceful, pretty, or Pinterest-worthy. Sometimes it looks like crying in your car, struggling to hold a boundary, or praying messy prayers. If you’re in a season where healing feels more chaotic than calm—this episode is your reminder that you’re still doing it right. Key Takeaways • Healing is not linear—and it’s not supposed to be. • You can be healing and still feel sad, mad, triggered, or exhausted. • Feeling it is part of healing it. • You’re not broken—you’re rebuilding. And that counts. Episode Resources • 📝 Need a safe space to process your healing journey? Grab the Prosperity Planner to help track your reflections, goals, and growth: https://shop.beacons.ai/noeditsjustlife/832e1a2e-f322-4bdd-b97f-eb239325fffa Affirmation to repeat: “I am not behind. I am healing. And that is enough.” Let’s Talk About It What does healing really look like for you in this season? DM me on Instagram or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com—I’d love to hold space for your story. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode gave you a breath of relief, leave a review and share it with someone in their own healing season. Let’s normalize the messy middle and remind each other that healing counts—even on the hard days.…

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This Feels Harder Than I Thought – When the Hustle Wears You Out 4:09

5 weeks ago4:09

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In this honest, unfiltered episode, Kiwanis is pulling back the curtain on something so many of us feel but rarely say out loud: the hustle is wearing us out. If you’ve been pushing, grinding, and doing all the “right” things but still feel drained and disconnected, this episode is your reminder that rest is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. Midlife hustle fatigue is real, and today, we’re naming it, unpacking it, and giving ourselves permission to move differently. Key Takeaways • Hustle culture is loud, but healing is quiet. • Burnout is not a badge of honor—it’s a sign to slow down. • You’re not lazy or behind for needing rest; you’re human. • It’s okay to change your pace without changing your purpose. Episode Resources • 📝 Grab the Prosperity Planner to help you create space for purpose, rest, and reflection: https://shop.beacons.ai/noeditsjustlife/832e1a2e-f322-4bdd-b97f-eb239325fffa Affirmation to repeat: “Rest is not a reward. It’s a right.” Let’s Talk About It How are you slowing down this week to protect your peace? DM me on Instagram or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com—I’d love to hear how you reset. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode reminded you to breathe, to pause, or to give yourself grace—leave a review and share it with a fellow dreamer who might be running on empty. Let’s normalize rest as part of the process.…

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Friday Permission Slip: It’s Okay to Want More Money 2:07

6 weeks ago2:07

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In this bite-sized bonus episode, Kiwanis is handing you a permission slip that’s long overdue: it’s okay to want more money. Period. If you’ve ever felt guilty for dreaming of overflow, felt silenced by shame, or played small so others wouldn't feel uncomfortable—this episode is your reset. Tune in for a quick but powerful reminder that wanting more doesn’t make you greedy, it makes you aware of your worth. Key Takeaways • Wanting more money does not mean you’re greedy, selfish, or ungrateful. • It’s okay to want financial freedom, peace, and overflow. • You don’t have to explain your desire to level up—especially not in midlife. • Playing small to be “humble” won’t serve you. Episode Resources • 📝 Grab the Prosperity Planner to start setting money goals that reflect your worth: https://shop.beacons.ai/noeditsjustlife/832e1a2e-f322-4bdd-b97f-eb239325fffa Use this affirmation: “I am allowed to want more. I am worthy of overflow.” Let’s Talk About It What’s one financial goal you’ve been scared to say out loud? DM me @NoEditsJustLife or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com and let’s speak it into existence together. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review Loving these Friday Permission Slips? Leave a quick review and share this episode with someone who needs a money mindset reset. Let’s normalize abundance in every season of life.…

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Why I Stopped Apologizing for Changing My Mind 5:40

6 weeks ago5:40

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Ever felt guilty for pivoting, quitting something you once announced, or just changing your mind? This episode is your permission slip to stop apologizing for evolving. Kiwanis gets real about the emotional weight of trying to stay consistent for others while losing alignment with yourself. From personal stories to powerful truths, she unpacks the freedom that comes when you finally let go of what no longer fits—and stop explaining yourself for it. Key Takeaways • Changing your mind doesn’t mean you failed—it means you’re growing. • You don’t owe anyone an explanation for choosing peace and alignment. • It’s okay to pivot, quit, start over, or try again differently. • Give yourself permission to evolve, even if others don’t understand your journey. Episode Resources • 📝 Ready to organize your next pivot? Grab the Prosperity Planner and map your new direction with clarity and intention: https://shop.beacons.ai/noeditsjustlife/832e1a2e-f322-4bdd-b97f-eb239325fffa • Affirmation to repeat: “I don’t have to apologize for growing. My peace is more important than their understanding.” Let’s Talk About It What’s something you’ve recently walked away from or changed your mind about—and how did it free you? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email noeditsjustlife@gmail.com and let’s talk about your pivot. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review Did this episode give you clarity or confidence to move differently? Leave a review and share it with a friend who’s ready to stop apologizing for their growth, too. Every share helps this community grow.…

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Midlife Money Triggers and Why We Don’t Talk About Them 7:20

7 weeks ago7:20

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Money is more than just numbers—it’s emotions, history, and sometimes, heavy baggage. In this vulnerable episode, Kiwanis opens up about the midlife money triggers that many of us carry but rarely talk about. From shame and comparison to silence and procrastination, she dives into why these emotional landmines exist—and how we can start healing. If you’ve ever felt behind, frustrated, or just plain overwhelmed when it comes to finances, this episode is a safe space to unpack it all. Key Takeaways • Midlife money triggers are real—and you’re not alone in feeling them. • Shame, silence, and fear often keep us from facing our finances honestly. • Healing begins with truth, grace, and one small intentional step. • You can rewrite your money story—and God’s grace is big enough to cover all of it. Episode Resources • 📝 Grab the Prosperity Planner to help organize your finances, life, and goals: https://shop.beacons.ai/noeditsjustlife/832e1a2e-f322-4bdd-b97f-eb239325fffa • Scriptures mentioned: Romans 8:1 – “There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” • Affirmation to repeat: “I am not my past. I am making progress. My relationship with money is healing, and God is walking with me every step of the way.” Let’s Talk About It What’s your biggest money trigger? And how are you working through it in this season? DM me on Instagram or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com—I’d love to hear your story and walk this journey with you. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode hit home, please take a moment to leave a rating or review. It helps other women in midlife find the show and know they’re not alone on this journey.…

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Bonus Episode: Mom in Midlife – What My 10-Year-Old REALLY Thinks 7:43

8 weeks ago7:43

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In this lighthearted bonus episode, Kiwanis flips the script and hands the mic to someone very special—her 10-year-old son, Jayden! From hilarious one-liners to surprisingly sweet moments, this fun Q&A gives listeners a peek into what it’s really like to parent in midlife… straight from the source. Whether you’re a parent yourself or just in need of a good laugh, this episode is a whole vibe. No edits, just honest (and slightly embarrassing) kid commentary. Key Takeaways • Kids say the realest things—especially when there’s a mic involved. • Parenting in midlife comes with laughter, love, and learning to laugh at yourself. • It’s okay to have fun and not take yourself too seriously. • As moms, we might be “cringe” sometimes—but we’re also their safe place. Episode Resources • 📝 Want to keep your parenting life (and everything else) organized? Grab your Prosperity Planner here: https://shop.beacons.ai/noeditsjustlife/832e1a2e-f322-4bdd-b97f-eb239325fffa • Try this fun Q&A with your kids and tag me in your answers—I’d love to hear them! Let’s Talk About It Parents—what’s the funniest or most unexpected thing your child has ever said about you? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com. Let’s share some laughs and parenting wins (and fails) together. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review Loved hearing from Jayden? Leave a review and let me know if I should bring him back! Your support helps more midlife mamas find this space and feel a little more seen—and a lot more understood.…

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Raising a 10-Year-Old and Watching a 26-Year-Old Become a Father 6:34

8 weeks ago6:34

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Parenting is never one-size-fits-all—especially when you’ve got a 10-year-old at home and a 26-year-old about to become a parent himself. In this heartfelt episode, Kiwanis shares what it’s really like to raise kids in two different generations while stepping into the brand-new role of grandma. From energy shifts to emotional rollercoasters, she opens up about the joys, challenges, and growing pains of parenting at midlife—and the beautiful perspective it brings. Key Takeaways • Parenting at 45 hits different—from patience to energy to expectations. • You don’t parent your adult kids the same way as your younger ones—and that’s okay. • There’s a fine line between helping and hovering when your kids become parents. • Grace, perspective, and presence are the real keys to parenting through different life seasons. Episode Resources • 📝 Grab the Prosperity Planner https://shop.beacons.ai/noeditsjustlife/832e1a2e-f322-4bdd-b97f-eb239325fffa Let’s Talk About It Are you parenting little ones, grown ones—or both? I want to hear about your journey! Share your challenges, joys, or best grandparenting advice with me on Instagram or email noeditsjustlife@gmail.com. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode resonated with your season of life, please rate and review the show! It helps other mamas, midlifers, and multitaskers find this community and feel seen.…

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This Is 45: What They Don’t Tell You About Midlife 6:11

9 weeks ago6:11

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In this episode of No Edits, Just Life , we’re diving into the raw and unfiltered truth about turning 45. From unexpected physical and emotional changes to juggling family, work, and big dreams, I’m sharing what no one prepared me for—and the lessons I’m learning along the way. Key Takeaways The real challenges of navigating physical and emotional changes at midlife. How societal expectations impact our sense of self at 45. Tips for embracing imperfection and finding joy in the chaos. Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook for more unfiltered moments: NoEditsJustLife. What’s one thing you wish someone had told you about midlife? Share your story with me on social media or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com I’d love to hear from you! Stay Connected Include links to your social media and platforms. Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast! Your support helps more people discover No Edits, Just Life and join the conversation.…

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Feeling Lost, Staying Focused, and Moving Forward in Faith 7:18

9 weeks ago7:18

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Have you ever started something with excitement—only to get distracted, discouraged, or just… stop? In this raw and relatable episode, Kiwanis shares what it feels like to question your purpose, pause your dreams, and wonder if you’re even still on the right path. Through the powerful story of Hagar in the Bible, she dives into what it means to feel lost, and how God still meets us right where we are. If you’ve been battling inconsistency, doubt, or just trying to find your next step—this one’s for you. Key Takeaways • The story of Hagar shows us that even in the wilderness, God sees us. • Why we lose focus: fear, overwhelm, distractions, and doubt. • Practical ways to stay grounded, move in faith, and return to your assignment. • Powerful scriptures, prayers, and affirmations to help you get back on track. Episode Resources • 📖 Genesis 16:13 – El Roi: “You are the God who sees me” • 📖 Genesis 21:19 – “Then God opened her eyes, and she saw a well of water.” • 📖 Psalm 34:17-18 – The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. • 📖 James 1:5 – Ask God for wisdom. • 📖 Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trust in the Lord. • 📖 Jeremiah 29:11 – He has a plan for your future. • Daily Prayer + Affirmation included in this episode—save and repeat them often! Let’s Talk About It What’s something you’ve been putting off that you know God is nudging you to pick back up? DM me on Instagram @NoEditsJustLife or email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com. Let’s hold each other accountable. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review Did this episode speak to you? Share it with a friend, leave a review, or post your favorite quote on social. Your support helps others find this space and join the journey.…

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Happily Ever After, or Nah? 6:13

9 weeks ago6:13

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Marriage in midlife ain’t always candlelight dinners and weekend getaways. In this episode, Kiwanis gets all the way real about what it looks like to navigate love, partnership, and personal growth in the middle of life’s chaos. From evolving communication to shifting intimacy, she shares the raw truth of being newly married at 45 while balancing motherhood, hormones, and a whole lot of life. This episode is your reminder that love is less about perfection and more about the daily choice to show up—mess and all. Key Takeaways • Marriage in midlife isn’t a fairytale—and that’s okay. • Real love includes dishes, bills, and finding connection in the everyday. • Intimacy evolves—and it’s not just physical. • Give yourself and your partner grace while growing together, not apart. • Follow along for more midlife realness on Instagram and TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife Let’s Talk About It What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned in your marriage or relationship? Let’s keep it real in the comments or DM me on Instagram. You can also email me at noeditsjustlife@gmail.com—I’d love to hear from you. Stay Connected • Website: https://tinyurl.com/Noeditsjustlife • Instagram: @NoEditsJustLife • TikTok: @NoEditsJustLife • Email: noeditsjustlife@gmail.com Leave a Review If this episode spoke to your heart, take a minute to leave a review and share it with a friend. Your support helps more midlife women find this space and feel seen, heard, and supported.…

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No Edits Just Life Trailer 1:29

10 weeks ago1:29