Long-Distance Love: Non-monogamy Across Continents with CJ

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Are you in a long-distance relationship and curious about exploring non-monogamy? Today's guest, CJ, a sex coach and pleasure advocate, walks us through their personal experience of how non-monogamy played a vital role in navigating the challenges of being apart from their partner across two continents. We take a deep look into the significance of communication, creating a non-judgmental environment, and the importance of touch in maintaining intimacy, despite the miles.
Navigating jealousy and exploration in a relationship, especially in a non-monogamous one, can be tricky. CJ opens up about their journey of confronting the fear of being replaced and how they managed their anxiety without letting it hinder their partner's experiences. We discuss the delicate balance of sharing feelings without spoiling the partner's experience, and CJ reveals how they turned their partner's experience into something erotic, showcasing the exciting opportunities non-monogamy can offer.
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www.noshamewithcj.com

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Chapters

1. Long-Distance Love: Non-monogamy Across Continents with CJ (00:00:00)

2. Exploring Non-Monogamy in Long-Distance Relationships (00:00:14)

3. Jealousy and Exploration in a Relationship (00:16:39)

4. Navigating Inappropriate Questions and Boundaries (00:33:33)

5. Overcoming Shame and Trauma Through Conversation (00:47:17)