039 - How to Tell if they are Avoidant — Or Just Not Into You
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A beautiful woman slipped into my Instagram DMs the other day.
“How can I tell if someone is avoidant or just not into me?”
My answer to her — does it matter?
Does it really matter what their attachment style is — or their personality disorder, or their starsign, human design or whatever?
What really matters in love is, does it work for you?
(Meaning, does their behavior, personality and style work for you).
The big Q: why is your gaze on them — and not on you?
This episode is for you if you've felt anxious or confused about someone's dating behaviour.
Tune into:
- understand different attachment styles; and
- learn how to gracefully ask the other person what's going on.
This episode includes communication scripts you can use rightaway to move forwards — plus common errors to avoid.
This is one of the most juicy episodes I've ever recorded.
Love to hear your thoughts once you listen!
xo Ezzie
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Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©
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Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©
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