The Intersection of Domestic Violence & Cyber Abuse | Ep 9

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Steve Preston is the CEO of Goodwill Industries. Though Goodwill is known for big stores where people can donate clothes and buy them secondhand, those stores are just the first level of what Goodwill Industries are about. Those stores fund an international organization that provides job training, employment placement services and other community-based programs for people who face barriers in their employment. Steve joins Jay to discuss the ways Goodwill Industries support veterans and individuals who lack job experience, an education, or face employment challenges, such as those people who are formerly incarcerated. Today's episode was produced by Tani Levitt and Mijon Zulu. To check out more episodes or to learn more about the show, you can visit our website Allaboutchangepodcast.com. If you like our show, spread the word, tell a friend or family member, or leave us a review on your favorite podcasting app. We really appreciate it. All About Change is produced by the Ruderman Family Foundation. Episode Chapters 0:00 intro 1:02 The Goodwill you don’t know 4:33 The troubling reality of work reintegration for formerly incarcerated folks 10:00 How Steve brings his public-sector experience to Goodwill 11:17 Goodwill’s employment centers 15:51 The interplay between Goodwill’s national and local arms 24:07 The case for minimizing recidivism becoming a cross-party cause 27:05 Goodbye For video episodes, watch on www.youtube.com/@therudermanfamilyfoundation Stay in touch: X: @JayRuderman | @RudermanFdn LinkedIn: Jay Ruderman | Ruderman Family Foundation Instagram: All About Change Podcast | Ruderman Family Foundation To learn more about the podcast, visit https://allaboutchangepodcast.com/ Looking for more insights into the world of activism? Be sure to check out Jay’s brand new book, Find Your Fight , in which Jay teaches the next generation of activists and advocates how to step up and bring about lasting change. You can find Find Your Fight wherever you buy your books, and you can learn more about it at ⁠⁠⁠www.jayruderman.com⁠⁠⁠ .…

about a year ago 17:10

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Today, I'll be talking about:

The different types of domestic violence and their digital counterparts
The dangers of deep fakes, doxing, revenge porn, sextortion, and image-based sexual abuse
Shocking statistics: 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men experience domestic violence in the U.S.
The devastating impact of digital abuse - including anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, financial loss, and career consequences
How victims can take action, report these crimes, and seek help

If you or someone you know is experiencing digital abuse, help is available. Here are some resources:

Cyber Civil Rights Initiative
StopNCII – Helps prevent non-consensual intimate images from being shared
Take It Down – A resource for removing explicit images online

References:
Power and Control Wheel

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The Intersection of Domestic Violence & Cyber Abuse | Ep 9

Rights and Remedies

published about a year ago

MP3•Episode home

Today, I'll be talking about:

The different types of domestic violence and their digital counterparts
The dangers of deep fakes, doxing, revenge porn, sextortion, and image-based sexual abuse
Shocking statistics: 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men experience domestic violence in the U.S.
The devastating impact of digital abuse - including anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, financial loss, and career consequences
How victims can take action, report these crimes, and seek help

If you or someone you know is experiencing digital abuse, help is available. Here are some resources:

Cyber Civil Rights Initiative
StopNCII – Helps prevent non-consensual intimate images from being shared
Take It Down – A resource for removing explicit images online

References:
Power and Control Wheel

18 episodes

#Non-Profit #Society #Business #Government #Allison Mahoney

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Survivor of Reproductive Coercion: Why He "Just Forgot” Wasn't a Valid Excuse - with Lynn Stroud | Ep 17 26:31

3 days ago26:31

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Trigger warning: This episode contains detailed discussions of domestic violence, reproductive coercion, and sexual assault. Please listen with care. In this raw and unflinching conversation, Lynn Stroud shares her powerful story of surviving reproductive coercion, intimate partner violence, and the long journey from silence to advocacy. What started as a seemingly small betrayal became a pivotal moment that exposed the deeper patterns of control, abuse, and manipulation she endured for years. Now a seasoned paralegal and outspoken advocate, Lynn breaks down: What reproductive coercion actually looks like (and why it’s still widely misunderstood) The subtle ways coercive control shows up in relationships, especially when you're young Why she kept silent for so long, and how telling her story publicly changed everything The legal gaps that fail victims of stealthing and coercion in the U.S. What finally made her say “enough”, and how she got out Resources mentioned: National Domestic Violence Hotline: www.thehotline.org Follow Lynn’s work or reach out on LinkedIn…

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What It’s Really Like to Rebuild After Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma with Lorene Roberts | Ep 16 28:35

17 days ago28:35

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TW: This episode contains discussion of emotional abuse, narcissism, and trauma. Please take care while listening. What does it really take to rebuild your life after narcissistic abuse and deep emotional trauma? In this powerful episode, holistic counselor, author, and podcast host Lorene Roberts opens up about her personal journey from feeling completely broken to finding emotional freedom, and now helping others do the same. We dive into: The signs of narcissistic abuse most people miss (especially when there’s no physical violence) How Lorene’s daughter gave her the wake-up call she needed to leave her marriage The emotional collapse that followed… and the surprising moment that changed everything Why traditional talk therapy wasn’t enough - and what actually helped her heal Tools like root cause therapy, somatic release, and spiritual practices Lorene now uses with clients worldwide The importance of rebuilding self-worth, piece by piece This is the episode for anyone who’s ever asked: “How do I start over when I feel too broken to even try?” . Lorene doesn’t sugarcoat the journey but her story proves it’s possible to come out the other side stronger, wiser, and finally free. Mentioned in this episode: Lorene’s book Crazy Stupid Love on Kindle The Little Book of Divorce Survival – also available on Amazon Free course: 5 Steps to Emotional Freedom at loreneroberts.com…

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Found Your Photo Online? Here’s What To Do Before You Delete Anything | Ep 15 20:37

4 weeks ago20:37

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If you’ve just discovered an intimate photo or video of yourself online without your consent, take a breath - you are not alone, and there is a way forward. When you're hit with the shock of finding an intimate image shared without your consent, the instinct is clear: make it disappear, fast. But here’s the hard truth: deleting too quickly could erase the very evidence you need to take legal action, get the content removed, or hold the person responsible accountable. Whether you're thinking about taking civil action, reporting to the police, or simply wanting the abuse properly recorded, preserving evidence is essential - especially in revenge porn cases and cases of image-based sexual abuse. The internet moves fast - and when it comes to image-based abuse, revenge porn, or doxing, time is of the essence. Taking the right steps to preserve evidence quickly can make all the difference in building a strong case. In this episode, we walk through exactly what to do before you click delete, in a way that protects both your safety and your options. Whether or not you ever report, preserving evidence is power. You'll learn: What to screenshot (and how to make it legally useful) Simple tools and strategies to capture and store evidence safely What kinds of details matter (hint: it's not just the photo itself) The biggest mistakes people make in those first few hours - and how to avoid them What to know if you’re considering civil or criminal action If you've been a victim of revenge porn, image-based sexual abuse, doxing, or any form of online harassment, or you know anyone that has, this is an essential listen to help you stay empowered and prepared. You don’t have to do this alone. Let’s talk about how to protect your peace and your proof. References: Page Vault…

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We Are the Evidence: Empowering Survivors of Sexual Assault with Cheyenne Wilson | Ep 14 26:40

6 weeks ago26:40

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Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault. When writer and activist Cheyenne Tyler Jacobs was sexually assaulted by someone she knew and trusted, she began a journey that was painful, confusing, and deeply transformational. She reported to police, went through a two-year legal process, and along the way, realized how few meaningful, survivor-centered resources were available. So she created her own. In this episode of Rights + Remedies , Cheyenne shares the story behind her powerful book, We Are the Evidence - a resource guide for survivors filled with real-world insight, legal guidance, and healing tools contributed by detectives, therapists, attorneys, and survivors themselves. We explore: 🔹 What it’s like to report to police and enter a system not built to support survivors 🔹 The emotional conflict of knowing your assailant and still trying to make sense of the trauma 🔹 The moment she turned to the library for help, and found a book that told her to “dress modestly” 🔹 The importance of control in the healing process and why it’s so often stripped away 🔹 What We Are the Evidence includes - from legal definitions and myth-busting to survivor stories and building your own healing support team 🔹 Why healing doesn’t look the same for everyone, and how horses, dancing, and solo travel helped Cheyenne rebuild confidence and reclaim power This conversation is a raw, empowering reminder that healing is not one-size-fits-all - and survivors deserve support that meets them where they are. Connect with Cheyenne: 📷 Follow Cheyenne on Instagram: @WeAreTheEvidence 📘 Find her on LinkedIn: Cheyenne Wilson 📱 Connect with her on BlueSky : @wearetheevidence.bsky.social 📖 Buy Her Book: via BookShop or Amazon 🖥️ Visit Her Website: WeAreTheEvidence.com…

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Fighting for Survivors, Hurdles, and Navigating the Criminal Justice System: Insights from a Retired SVU Detective, Justin Boardman | Ep 13 32:41

8 weeks ago32:41

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Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault, including the sexual abuse of minors. In this powerful episode of Rights + Remedies , I'm joined by Justin Boardman, retired detective and nationally recognised advocate for trauma-informed policing. Justin Boardman served as a detective in the Special Victims Unit for 15 years. Today, he’s a national speaker, consultant, and advocate for trauma-informed practices in gender-based violence cases. He co-authored a trauma-informed interview protocol that’s been proven to increase prosecutions, and now helps communities and justice professionals shift culture, improve investigations, and centre survivor experiences. In today's episode, Justin opens up about the hard truths of his early days in law enforcement, where he admits to not believing survivors and closing cases based on inconsistencies in their stories. But his perspective changed. Now, he's dedicated his life to changing the systems that failed survivors for too long. And we cover: 🔹 Why trauma can cause survivors to forget, pause, or leave gaps—and why this shouldn’t discredit their stories 🔹 The need for trauma-informed training in police departments, and why it’s still not mandatory 🔹 Justin’s push to make strangulation a felony, not a misdemeanor 🔹 How systems unintentionally re-victimize survivors, and how to stop it 🔹 What victim-centric, suspect-focused investigations should look like 🔹 The work he’s now doing to consult with agencies, train officers, review cases, and support survivor-led justice With nearly 300 forensic child victim interviews and 140 adult sexual assault interviews under his belt, Justin knows firsthand the power of believing survivors - and the danger of not. Connect with Justin Boardman: 📱 For more on Justin's training and consultancy services, vist his Website REFERENCES: - Abby Honold Act…

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Navigating the Foster Care System with Child Welfare Law Specialist | Ep 12 30:53

10 weeks ago30:53

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***TRIGGER WARNING: Child Abuse and Child Neglect*** The foster care system is complex, and for many families, navigating the legal process can feel overwhelming. In this episode of Rights + Remedies , Jill Roth-Gutman, a Child Welfare Law Specialist and experienced attorney, breaks down the key aspects of child welfare law and foster care. Jill shares: 🔹 What actually happens in court during a foster care case 🔹 The steps to becoming a licensed foster home 🔹 The adoption process, and how foster children move toward permanency 🔹 Her work as a Guardian ad Litem in contested custody cases 🔹 How her book, Simplify Your Life , helps families organize important legal and personal documents for emergencies With over 14 years of experience representing children in the system, Jill provides practical insights for foster parents, legal guardians, and anyone looking to understand the legal side of child welfare. Connect with Jill Roth-Gutman: 📷 Follow Jill on Instagram: Roth-Gutman Law 📘 Find her on Facebook: Roth-Gutman Law 📱 For more on Jill's Guardian ad Litem services, visit her Website : Roth-Gutman Law 💼 Connect with Jill on LinkedIn: Jill Roth-Gutman 📘 Simplify Your Life with Jill's book: Simplify Your Life…

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Insights on Residential Foster Care from the CEO of Children's Harbor with Tiffani Dhooge | Ep 11 39:39

12 weeks ago39:39

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***TRIGGER WARNING: Child Abuse and Child Neglect*** Teenagers in foster care face an uphill battle - not just in finding placements but in overcoming the trauma they’ve endured. In this episode of Rights + Remedies , I sit down with Tiffani Dhooge, a relentless advocate for at-risk youth and CEO of Children’s Harbor, to discuss the realities of foster care and the power of community in healing trauma. Tiffani shares: 🔹 How her career started in the broom closet of a foster care agency and led to national recognition 🔹 Why teenagers are the hardest to place — and what that means for their future 🔹 The heartbreaking reality of sibling separation in the system 🔹 How Children’s Harbor provides not just a home but a family for foster teens 🔹 The critical role of therapy, education, and mentorship in helping them rebuild their lives With over 25 years of experience, Tiffani’s unwavering commitment to foster youth is changing lives - one heartbeat at a time. Connect with Tiffani Dhooge: 📷 Follow Children's Harbor on Instagram: @childrensharborinc 📘 Find them on Facebook: Childrens Harbor Inc 📱 Vist the Website: Children's Harbor 💼 Connect with Tiffani on LinkedIn: Tiffani Dhooge…

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Cyber Safety 101: Navigating Risks + Legal Challenges in the Digital Age with Lindsay Lieberman | Ep 10 29:29

14 weeks ago29:29

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***TRIGGER WARNING: Cyber Sexual Abuse and Sexual Abuse*** In today's episode, I'm joined by Lindsay Lieberman, attorney and founder of Lindsay Lieberman, LLC, a legal and consulting firm dedicated to advocating for victims of cyber abuse. From sextortion to deep fakes, Lindsay works to support survivors and educate parents, schools, and law enforcement on the dangers of digital harm. We discuss: How cyber abuse impacts victims of sexual and domestic violence Why parents often underestimate online risks — and what they need to know The rise of AI-generated fake images and how they threaten children’s safety The real dangers of data breaches and what they mean for all of us Why prevention and education are key to reducing online exploitation The malicious intent behind cyber abuse — and how some younger users see it as “harmless” With technology evolving rapidly, it’s more important than ever to educate and protect vulnerable communities. This conversation highlights the urgent need for awareness, legal action, and digital safety conversations at home and in schools. Connect with Lindsay Lieberman: 📷 Follow her on Instagram: @lindsayliebermanesq 📘 Find her on Facebook: Lindsay Lieberman, Esq. 📱 Follow her on TikTok: @lindsayliebermanesq 💼 Connect wtih her on LinkedIn: Lindsay Lieberman…

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The Intersection of Domestic Violence & Cyber Abuse | Ep 9 17:10

16 weeks ago17:10

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In this episode, I'll shed light on the growing intersection of domestic violence and cyber abuse. While domestic violence is often thought of as physical or emotional harm, digital abuse is an increasing tool used by perpetrators to assert control, seek revenge, and punish victims. Today, I'll be talking about: The different types of domestic violence and their digital counterparts The dangers of deep fakes, doxing, revenge porn, sextortion, and image-based sexual abuse Shocking statistics: 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men experience domestic violence in the U.S. The devastating impact of digital abuse - including anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, financial loss, and career consequences How victims can take action, report these crimes, and seek help If you or someone you know is experiencing digital abuse, help is available. Here are some resources: Cyber Civil Rights Initiative StopNCII – Helps prevent non-consensual intimate images from being shared Take It Down – A resource for removing explicit images online References: Power and Control Wheel…

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You Have the Power: Healing From Narcissistic Abuse and Reclaiming Your Power | Ep 8 31:35

18 weeks ago31:35

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In this episode, I'm joined by somatic trauma-informed coach Darla Radilla to discuss the journey of healing from narcissistic abuse and reclaiming your power. Darla shares her personal experiences of surviving an abusive childhood and multiple toxic relationships, and how she turned her pain into a mission to help others. We Explore: The signs of narcissistic abuse, including the love-bomb, devalue, discard cycle. How our bodies often know when something isn’t right - and why it’s crucial to trust your gut. The impact of psychological, financial, and social isolation caused by narcissistic abuse. The connection between childhood experiences and relational trauma. The role of somatic healing in working through past trauma and regaining personal power. Darla’s story is one of resilience, hope, and empowerment. Whether you’ve experienced narcissistic abuse or want to learn more about healing from trauma, this episode is packed with insights to help you take the next step on your healing journey. Follow Darla on Facebook , Instagram or Pinterest . Check out her website , join the Meet Up group , or listen to her podcast . Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/highvaluewoman7/ Meetup: https://www.meetup.com/narcissistic-abuse-women-warriors/ Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2390148…

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Relational & Trauma-Focused Healing with the Founder of the Thriving Woman Institute | Ep 7 29:13

20 weeks ago29:13

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Today, I'm sitting down with Kahila Hedayatzadeh, founder of the Thriving Woman Institute, to explore the intersection of therapy and coaching for trauma-focused healing. As a seasoned psychotherapist with over 10 years of experience, specializing in trauma healing and relational therapy, Kahila shares her unique approach to helping adults heal relational wounds, face their trauma, and build the skills to navigate life with resilience. What You’ll Learn: The difference between "big trauma" and "little trauma" and how relational wounds from childhood, adolescence, or adulthood shape us. How therapy and coaching together can create sustainable healing without relying on therapy for a lifetime. Why societal and cultural norms lead women to internalize emotions and how generational patterns can be broken. The importance of men sharing their experiences of abuse and the ripple effect it creates in fostering vulnerability and healing. Why This Episode Matters: Whether you’ve experienced overt trauma or subtle relational wounds, this episode is a powerful reminder that healing is possible. Kahila’s approach, inspired by Gabor Maté’s work, emphasizes the importance of raising awareness, breaking generational patterns, and building the tools to move forward. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of how trauma affects us all and how we can take steps toward taking responsibility for our own healing. Follow Kahila on Instagram , TikTok and LinkedIn . For more on the Thriving Woman Insitute, visit her website .…

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Healing From Betrayal with Dr. Debi Silber 34:12

22 weeks ago34:12

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In this episode of Rights and Remedies , I sit down with Dr. Debbie Silber, the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute . Dr. Silber shares her journey of transforming personal betrayal into groundbreaking research, and she discusses how she built a supportive community that helps individuals and couples heal from betrayal. Her work focuses on moving beyond the victim narrative and fostering intentional growth and transformation. Trigger Warning This episode includes discussions about abusive relationships and betrayal. If this topic is sensitive for you, please take care while listening or skip this episode. Here’s What We Discuss: The unique trauma of betrayal Five stages of healing from betrayal Post-Betrayal Syndrome and its symptoms The importance of the right kind of support in healing Why This Episode Matters: Betrayal is a deeply personal and unique trauma that can leave individuals feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and unable to move forward. This episode highlights the predictable stages of healing and how the right tools, resources, and community can help victims reclaim their power and rebuild their lives. Key Takeaways: Betrayal is a unique trauma requiring specialized healing approaches. Healing from betrayal involves moving through five distinct stages. Support groups and therapy must be designed to foster growth rather than reinforce the pain. Intentional healing is possible, and it transforms your life and relationships. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who may need this message. Together, we can help create a path to healing and transformation. Connect with Dr. Debbie Silber: Visit: The PBT Institute Explore Dr. Silber’s Work: TEDx: “Do You Have Post Betrayal Syndrome?” : Watch on YouTube TEDx: Stop Sabotaging Yourself : Watch on YouTube From Betrayal to Breakthrough Podcast : Listen here Follow Dr. Silber on Social Media: TikTok : @debisilber Facebook : InspireEmpowerTransform Twitter : @DebiSilber LinkedIn : Debi Silber Instagram : @debisilber YouTube : Debi Silber Get Support: Feeling stuck in betrayal? Take the Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz to assess where you are in your healing journey and access tools for transformation. https://thepbtinstitute.com/ Get Legal Help: ALM Law is offering free consultations to survivors of domestic violence and sexual abuse. Take the first step to understand your options and find a path forward. Call: 970-315-5152 Visit: almlawllc.com Disclaimer:…

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An Overview of Foster Care in the US 17:42

23 weeks ago17:42

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In this episode of Rights and Remedies , Allison Mahoney gives us a closer look at the U.S. foster care system. With nearly 400,000 children currently in foster care, Allison walks through the system’s structure, from federal to local levels, and explains how children enter foster care and what happens while they’re in the system. Trigger Warning This episode discuss sensitive topics related to child abuse and neglect. Please take care while listening if these topics are difficult for you. Here’s What We Discuss: How the Foster Care System is Structured – A breakdown of the federal, state, and local roles. How Children Enter Foster Care – The various reasons kids are placed into foster care. The Goal of Permanency – Why reunification is the first priority, and what happens when that’s not possible. Types of Foster Care Placements – From kinship care to residential facilities, and everything in between. The Services Children and Families Need – From mental health support to educational services, and why they’re crucial. Why This Episode Matters: The foster care system is a complicated, often misunderstood part of our society. In this episode, Allison brings some clarity to how it works, the challenges kids face, and why it’s so important that we improve the system to meet the needs of vulnerable children and families. If you want to understand what’s happening with children in foster care, and how the system is—and isn’t—working for them, this episode is a must-listen. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who might need to hear it. By spreading awareness, we can all do our part to make the foster care system a little better, one conversation at a time. Get Legal Help: If you or someone you know was harmed while in foster care, we are here to help. We are offering free 15-minute consultations. Call: 970-315-5152 Visit: almlawllc.com Disclaimer: The views and opinions shared in this episode belong to the participants and do not necessarily reflect the views of any affiliated organizations. These conversations aim to inform and inspire, but they are not a substitute for professional legal or child welfare advice. If you need specific guidance, please consult a professional in your area.…

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Daniel's Voice: Advocating for Male Victims of Domestic Violence 35:09

24 weeks ago35:09

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In this episode of Rights and Remedies , Allison Mahoney talks with Linee Walker and Lillie Floyd, the passionate founders of Daniel's Voice . The organization was created in memory of Linee’s son, Daniel, whose life was tragically cut short by domestic violence. Together, Linee and Lillie are working to ensure that male victims and their families find the support and understanding they need. Trigger Warning This episode includes discussions regarding domestic violence. If this topic is sensitive for you, please take care while listening or skip this episode. Here’s What We Discuss: Daniel’s Story The struggles of male victims of DV The need to find new approaches to help male survivors of DV Why This Episode Matters: Male victims of domestic violence are often overlooked, and their voices go unheard. This episode shines a spotlight on their experiences and shows how advocacy, understanding, and safe spaces can create real change. Key Takeaways: Sharing your story can lead to healing for yourself and others. Advocacy is crucial to challenging societal norms and supporting victims. Every victim, regardless of gender, deserves compassion and help. If this episode moved you, please share it with someone who might need to hear it. Let’s work together to amplify these voices and create a ripple effect of change. Connect with Daniels Voice: Email : DanielsVoiceLLC@danielsvoice.live Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557539026934&mibextid=JRoKGi Phone: 334-509-0139 Get Legal Help: Have you or someone you know experienced domestic violence? ALM Law is offering free consultations to survivors of domestic violence. Take the first step to understand your options and find a path forward. Call: 970-315-5152 Visit: almlawllc.com Disclaimer: The views and opinions shared in this episode belong to the participants and do not necessarily represent affiliated organizations. These discussions aim to inform and inspire but are not a substitute for professional advice. For specific guidance, consult a professional in your area. Tune in next time on Rights and Remedies as we continue exploring justice, advocacy, and healing.…

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Florida's Privatized Foster Care System with Mari Frankel 34:00

25 weeks ago34:00