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In this premiere episode of "The God Hook," host Carol Costello introduces the chilling story of Richard Beasley, infamously known as the Ohio Craigslist Killer. In previously unreleased jailhouse recordings, Beasley portrays himself as a devout Christian, concealing his manipulative and predatory behavior. As the story unfolds, it becomes clear that Beasley's deceitfulness extends beyond the victims he buried in shallow graves. Listen to the preview of a bonus conversation between Carol and Emily available after the episode. Additional info at carolcostellopresents.com . Do you have questions about this series? Submit them for future Q&A episodes . Subscribe to our YouTube channel to see additional videos, photos, and conversations. For early and ad-free episodes and exclusive bonus content, subscribe to the podcast via Supporting Cast or Apple Podcasts. EPISODE CREDITS Host - Carol Costello Co-Host - Emily Pelphrey Producer - Chris Aiola Sound Design & Mixing - Lochlainn Harte Mixing Supervisor - Sean Rule-Hoffman Production Director - Brigid Coyne Executive Producer - Gerardo Orlando Original Music - Timothy Law Snyder SPECIAL THANKS Kevin Huffman Zoe Louisa Lewis GUESTS Doug Oplinger - Former Managing Editor of the Akron Beacon Journal Volkan Topalli - Professor of Criminal Justice and Criminology Amir Hussain - Professor of Theological Studies Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://evergreenpodcasts.supportingcast.fm…

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Tips for Leaders with a Vision Designing their New Direction Centered in Heart and Soul, Aligning with Purpose, and Ready for their Visions to Become Their Reality. Let's Create Our Dreams and Expand Peace on the Planet. Quarterly Dream Maker Summits bring you speakers on Leadership, Entrepreneurship, and Conscious Living. Hosted by Baylan Megino of http://GlobalDreamMakers.com, and Providing Guidance on using Your Dream Maker Matrix(tm) to Ripple Your Inspiration throughout Your World.

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Nix Negativity NOW with Coach Paul Litwack 39:32

4 years ago39:32

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Coach Paul Litwack is the Capability Improvement Coach. Since 1976, Paul has empowered leaders to create improved, measurable results. "Nix Negativity NOW: Guaranteed Strategies You Can and Must Harness for Negativity, Wherever You Find It... And What To Do When It Finds You!" will give you insight and an understanding of how we can manage the negativity that sometimes pops up in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Coach Paul Litwack's website: GetUNstuckNOW.org Dream Maker Summit: https://GlobalDreamMakerSummit.com…

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The Leader's Edge Ep 004 Evalena Rose on "Communicating Effectively and Negotiating Well" 1:00:00

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00:35 Evalena Rose, M.A., Tantra teacher for 24 years, is a skillful coach in intimacy and communication skills. She founded LoveJourney: The Healing Path of Tantra. She has extensively studied body-centered therapies, relationship skills, alternative healing, soul retrieval, and recovery from abuse & addiction. Her deeply spiritual private sessions include MetaTherapy, couple’s counseling, Tantra, and channeling. Evalena works in Asheville, NC, by phone or Zoom world-wide. 02:00 Communicating Effectively and Negotiating Well. How did you choose the work you’re doing now? 02:25 I realized I was helping all my friends, and wanted to do that as my work. One class was “Meeting Your Spirit Guides.” That evolved, added massage, which evolved to energetic healing. 30 years ago felt need to improve the relationship I was in. Tantra - I didn’t plan to teach it or study it so extensively. It changed my life. I learned how to relate in healthy ways. It shifted everything about how having intimacy is. 05:10 Being seen. People don’t know where to look or how to look. It’s not about looking. It’s about receiving. Look with your heart. 06:00 Looking at it as an integration into your life – how bring it to other areas of your life. You’re fully alive. 06:40 You’re present in all your chakras. You’re not leaving out chakras. You are linking them all, and that’s powerful. It’s a path to enlightenment. Access all that you are, and bring that to every exchange. 07:40 Above the line communication? Increase the erotic connection between two people. Above the line to build self--esteem, yours and the other person’s. Below the line diminishes self-esteem. When you take out the negatives, what’s left is saying what you want. 08:55 Love sandwich with valuing statements. Request in the context of love. 10:10 How to translate into our day to day relationships? Ask self, “What is it I really want here?” vs. gathering little irritations where we lose opportunity to speak. What can say that is a valuing statement? 12:01 Especially women – we’re taught to go along, to just support it, to make it okay. Basically we are taught to just take it. Our field narrows. 13:15 You’re helping them see what they could do, and you’re finding an option. 14:00 Use “I” messages, not “I feel you don’t…” 14:30 “What I notice is, when…” 15:45 What things stop people from communicating what they want? 16:20 Empath’s level of emotions tend to be high, and tend to take on everyone’s emotions. 20:00 Men compared to women – success and scores. 21:30 What would stop people from negotiating? 21:50 Stay in the conversation and find the meeting ground. 23:35 Negotiation vs. Capitulation 24:15 Being happy with change. How can we both get our needs met? 24:45 Find the common ground. Win-Win situation all the way around. When they realize there Is caring, and how can we do this better? 25:45 Practice: Watch the thoughts in your own mind. Challenge yourself to turn it to an above-the-line thought. What do I want? Shift internal dialogue, which is easier than trying to change other people. 26:40 How can we use these tools with people who don’t know it? 27:15 Prayer to find words to speak that might work with this person. When I stay above the line, I get to feel good about how I did the communication, stayed in the negotiation. 28:15 Inner directed, in integrity with how you want to deal with it. 29:30 Think that they’re not important. It gets competitive. How do you turn that around? 32:05 Use this “above the line” communication as a tool. 33:00 Cultivate kindness. Cultivate being kind with yourself. You really are doing the best you can. 33:40 If our agenda is approval, we take things personally, and are in defense mode. 34:20 We’re resourced when we’re dealing with people. 34:35 What kinds of practices can we do to learn how to communicate this way? 35:20 How to rewrite history? 35:55 It’s really helpful to have a witness. 36:15 What do you do if the other person doesn’t get with the program? They’re not shifting, are digging in their heels. In a work situation where you’ve attempted to communicate above the line, to be kind and compassionate… what do you do? 38:00 You have to get agreement that we’re having a conversation… and you stay in it. If there’s a conundrum, you name it, because you’re both working on this together. Call on the bigger picture. 41:00 Making it possible to think of themselves. 41:30 When people feel that what they’re saying is heard, they can go to the next part of the conversation, or they keep going over and over the same point. Roadblock of being heard. 42:20 They want to be seen, heard, understood. It opens their heart, and they’re better able to talk. 42:50 It’s less complicated, it’s so succinct. “Think with the heart, feel with the mind.” The heart holds the gestalt. It’s able to hold the bigger picture of the person. More succinct and more on target. 44:10 When the heart speaks, things are easier, much easier. You have less to have to say. You don’t have to explain. This is what is. This is what I want. And you don’t need to justify…or defend. 44:40 We lose our Ouch. Take it above the line. 46:20 When Covid hit, I kept hearing, “Elders to the fore.” Wisdomkeepers need to make ourselves available to help people during these challenging times. 47:20 How to get over fear. 48:00 Whole website organized to offer her legacy of 40+ years at https://www.EvalenaRose.com 49:00 “Femifesting” vs. “Manifesting” - Set an anchor in the future that draws your life forward, into it. 50:15 Go in the quantum into the future and we bring energy back. 50:40 Call it in from your being. Create it as your reality. There is no time – there is all eternity to learn from and get our resources from. 51:50 If you could speak to the world’s leaders, not just the ones at the top of government, but everyone that really feels and has embraced that they are the leader of their world, if you could give them a message, what would you tell them? 52:50 Lead from your heart, and all the resources will be available. Let your passion guide you. Let Spirit talk to you. The guidance you need is available to you if you show up to receive it. And then receive it. 53:30 Your satsang is once a month on the 4 th Thursdays, with her and the Council of 12. It’s a membership series. You can come one time, and we do invite people into the membership series. That way they start building relationships with each other, bringing in wisdom, building community. There’s a facebook group, and a wonderful sign-up 20-minute meditation about Activating the New Human. 12-2pm Eastern/9-11am Pacific / 6-8pm Paris. 55:40 Tools to navigate the unknown. We’re in it! The internet has hooked up the global brain, which we’ve been working on for awhile. It’s our role to connect the global heart. 58:00 And we’re in it together. There’s a globalization of caring that’s evolving, we want to be supporting each other. We all get to pack boxes, we all get to rearrange. Moving – you get rid of a lot of stuff when you move. Most of the time! Visit Evalena’s website at https://www.EvalenaRose.com…

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The Leader's Edge Ep 002 Jen Gilchrist "Amplify Your Intuition for Business Success and Global Impact" 37:44

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Show Notes: Website mentioned: https://soulsuccessunleashed.com/gdm 2:26 I consider my life a spiritual retreat. Swimming with wild dolphins in Kona. Divinity in action. 2:50 It wasn’t always this way. The hamster wheel – doing all the things. Overwhelmed and exhausted. Came to a crashing halt. 4:00 Decided had to do life differently. Wine and chocolate. Prayed. Grandfather visited her. There’s more to me than this body. 4:45 Incredible sense of peace in my heart. Was being guided. My intuition opened up. Went on a spiritual quest. Got clear. I want to help others open their spiritual gifts. 5:30 Business didn’t take off for 2 reasons. Doing weddings who was in the spiritual closet. Compartmentalized her spiritual world. Fear of public speaking. 7:23 TLC meditation to find what is fear vs. what is real. (When) fear doesn’t stop me and what allowed me to be where I am today. 8:35 When at edge of the cliff. Either way you have to move. Dark night of the soul because you are not in alignment, not integrating everything that you are. How did you get through it? 9:30 Being an empathic leader – don’t know what to do with all that information, energetic overwhelm so can make decisions that are balanced. 10:05 Have an awareness that you are overwhelmed. 10:45 Magic fingers and transference of energy. Having boundaries of what’s your energy versus someone else’s. Will clog up our clarity, might conflict with what our own soul wants. Clouds discernment, vision. We can get totally off track. 11:45 Regular meditation as a tool. Learn to be present with yourself on a consistent basis so you can recognize if this is my feeling or somebody else’s. 12:15 My intuition vs. my ego 12:50 How to cultivate spiritual gifts and use consistently in their lives. 13:10 Spiritual retreat is all part of workday. Consistent meditation practice – giving yourself that time and space. Start being centered with you. Start to hear that small, still voice, as well as that of Source or your spiritual support team. All this chatter is much louder; it takes practice. 14:20 You have to ask. Meditation and journalizing are where you hear your answers. Open up to it. Notice signs throughout the day. 15:10 Cultivate the trust, and the discernment of what is true guidance versus fear. How to validate and recognize your intuition. 16:35 It’s the way we engage our world to co-create. 18:10 Ways to stay in alignment. Masculine and feminine energy work together. Breaking down the patriarchal way we’ve been taught to take action in life. How each energy feels. 19:20 Masculine energy in action. 19:40 Feminine energy in action. 20:20 Stepping into your leadership in a purpose-driven way. Starts from the inspiration of the feminine. Leads and informs our action. When fully guided by the expression of your soul. Know when to pause, when to go. Give yourself permission in the feminine energy. 22:00 What wants to happen? Where is this misalignment? Burnout and Pushing vs. Creations not shared. 22:45 Who you love to work with? 23:45 Your intuition is your fast track to success, but it often is not logical. 24:55 Transformational work: “Amplify Your Clairvoyance, Channeling and Healing Abilities” offered several times a year to awaken your gifts to the next level so you can start to integrate into your day-to-day life, and energetic mastery. “Amplify Your Gifts Soul Alignment” download available anytime. Soul Inspired Leaders Collective on Facebook to stay aligned with your higher path. 27:30 Mercury Retrograde – working with the energy of the universe. An opportunity for transformation, called into reflective energy. Review what’s going on, release what’s not working, retreat into self-care, realign so you can see the things not aligned with where you’re going next. Clear communication and being a good listener. 30:20 In this incredible time of change, everything being turned upside down or sideways so is better aligned for the future. How to get clear and move forward into the unknown. The creation process and letting go of the old, having acceptance of what is and not resisting it can help navigate. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Move out of fear. What wants to happen? You don’t’ have to have it all figured out. Just have to be open to what is possible. 33:41 Baylan framework as the Benevolent Queen of my Queendom, what is the next thing that needs to happen? Benevolent, sovereign person who is cocreating with everybody and everything else. 34:05 That’s why that morning time is so important. Website: https://soulsuccessunleashed.com/gdm…

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Leading in the Evolving Global Energy 53:44

4 years ago53:44