Awkward Etiquette With Kiki Astor podcast

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In this elegantly introspective episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , etiquette expert and romance author Kiki explores the timeless allure and quiet power of solitude. From the romance novel heroine brooding on a windswept terrace to the old money doyenne dining solo in a tucked-away bistro, being alone is not a condition to be pitied—it’s an art to be mastered. Kiki delves into the etiquette of spending time alone with intention and elegance, whether you’re reading on a park bench, traveling solo, or savoring a quiet meal at a fine restaurant. Learn how to navigate the manners of solo dining, embrace the understated glamour of doing things alone, and reframe solitude not as loneliness, but as personal luxury. With references to iconic solitary figures—think Jackie O, Greta Garbo, and mysterious heiresses who summered alone in the South of France—this episode is a cheeky-yet-chic guide to becoming effortlessly comfortable in your own company.…

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Heritage or hype? The true value of luxury handbags in 2025: an old money perspective 48:27

11 days ago48:27

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we dive into the true value of luxury goods—especially designer handbags—amid a shifting global economy, social media overexposure, and growing transparency about where and how these so-called “heritage pieces” are actually made. In the age of the Wirkin, or Walmart Birkin, and in the wake of the Chinese revealing exactly how many luxury goods get produced in their factories rather than in chic Parisian ateliers, Kiki unpacks (pun very much intended) the history of handbags as status symbols, from old money necessity to nouveau riche billboard, and dissects the old money perspective on luxury: discreet, enduring, and never desperate. With juicy anecdotes from her recent travels through Morocco, Turkey, and China, Kiki shares firsthand observations of the proliferation of fake designer bags, the depressing state of luxury duty-free shops, and the disillusioning reality of modern production—even at historic maisons like Hermès and Chanel. Topics we cover: The erosion of luxury's mystique in the age of TikTok unboxings. Why handbag resale value isn’t the flex people think it is. How discerning old money treats luxury goods (hint: if it has a TikTok hashtag, it’s already over). Spotting a dupe without losing your mind (or your manners). Whether you're a bag lover, a social climber, or simply etiquette-curious, this episode is your guide to navigating the luxury landscape with wit, wisdom, and perspective.…

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Social skills hacks that actually work: Etiquette vs social anxiety 33:42

4 weeks ago33:42

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If you suffer from social anxiety, you might think that the old money, high society types you see effortlessly navigayting cocktail parties were simply born with a socializing superpower, or that they learned it in boarding school, and that it's too late for you, but that's not true. In this calming yet cheeky episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , Kiki turns her velvet gloves toward a topic near and dear to many hearts: social anxiety. Whether you freeze at cocktail parties, overthink every interaction, or find yourself replaying conversations in bed at night, this episode is your invitation to breathe, settle in with something fizzy or soothing, and reclaim your social confidence—the elegant way. Kiki reveals her favorite etiquette-based social skills hacks designed for introverts, overthinkers, and those who never know what to do with their hands. You’ll learn how classic etiquette tricks—like the art of introductions, small talk that isn’t painful, and exiting a conversation gracefully—aren’t about perfection, but about making others feel comfortable, which (spoiler alert) helps you feel more at ease too. From how to glide through a room without breaking a sweat to using etiquette as armor in awkward social situations, Kiki shows that even the most anxious among us can master the social graces of high society—without faking a thing. Perfect for: Anyone looking for social anxiety tips, introvert-friendly social strategies, and a little old-school etiquette wisdom with a wink.…

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The rise of the Nouveau Pauvre: Status in the age of economic instability and inequity 39:27

5 weeks ago39:27

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When your host, Auntie Kiki, says she’s an “ex rich person” and espouses the label of “nouveau pauvre,” you may be left wondering whether that means she’s fabulously wealthy or delightfully destitute, or somewhere in between. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , we explore our society’s love-hate relationship with wealth, performative wealth on social media platforms and in real life, the rich vs poor divide, the rise of nouveau pauvre as the defining ethos of our times, and why the old money aesthetic and lifestyle gained so much traction in a time of financial instability. We also dive into the growing economic disparity of our era—why the ultra-wealthy keep getting richer while the rest feel increasingly precarious, and how this imbalance manifests in social media and social interactions. Why does losing wealth sting more than never having it? Is elegance ultimately more admirable than riches? And in a world where Instagram flaunts excess while reality often tells a different story, how do we maintain grace and authenticity?…

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The ultimate guide to old money style garden parties and outdoor entertaining 50:45

6 weeks ago50:45

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Is there anything more elegant and romantic than a garden party? In this episode of Awkward Etiquette , Kiki Astor dishes on the secrets of hosting the perfect old money garden party, because it takes a bit of behind the scenes preparation to exude effortless charm. From phrasing the invitations, to selecting the right garden party dress code to mastering high society entertaining, Kiki breaks down the essential elements of gracious outdoor hosting. She explores the proper etiquette for garden parties, including how to handle uninvited guests, seating arrangements, and social faux pas that could turn an aristocratic affair into a social disaster. Expect witty insights on classic garden party menus, champagne and other beverages, dos and don’ts, and the subtle art of appearing effortlessly chic while secretly micromanaging everything. Whether you’re planning a formal English garden tea or a laid-back estate luncheon, Kiki reveals how the truly elite entertain outdoors—without breaking a sweat (or letting anyone see them sweat). Tune in for humorous social commentary, historical high-society anecdotes, and Kiki’s signature nouveau pauvre take on timeless etiquette.…

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Unbothered & Elegant: Let's discuss Mel Robbins' “Let Them” theory 29:45

7 weeks ago29:45

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Whether it’s at a cocktail party, on the tennis court, or around the dinner table, Mel Robbins’ Let Them theory is the pop culture, pop psychology self-help phenomenon on everybody’s lips. But what does it really mean, and how does one apply it to living an authentic, elegant life on one’s own terms? In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , we dive into Mel Robbins’ “Let Them” theory and how it applies to high society etiquette, social skills, and romantic dilemmas. From handling social climbers with grace to dealing with romantic rejection like a queen and knowing when to simply let people embarrass themselves at a dinner party, Kiki explains why true elegance is about staying unbothered. You’ll learn how to navigate social faux pas without losing your cool, set boundaries while maintaining charm and wit, and master the art of letting people self-select out of your life—whether it’s a toxic friend, an over-eager suitor, or that one guest who insists on ignoring the dress code. If you’ve ever wondered how to exude quiet confidence, maintain effortless poise, and avoid the trap of chasing people who don’t appreciate you, this episode is your guide to graceful disengagement. Tune in for Kiki’s signature mix of old-money elegance, sharp humor, and a dash of social satire—because as always, the best response to bad manners is to simply let them . www.kikiastor.com…

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Welcome to the nouveau pauvre club: a glam life, on a budget 30:56

8 weeks ago30:56

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If you have always felt you have more taste than money...that you aspire to elegance and refinement, but are on a restricted budget...that you would be absolutely darling at spending oodles of cash, but for now you're making do with less...Welcome to the club! You're not poor, you're nouveau pauvre, my darling. Nouveau pauvre is an offshoot of old money, the one with no money...and you don't have to have been rich before to belong to the club. I'll let you in, as long as you promise to live an extraordinary, rich life, no matter your budget. In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your Auntie Kiki, Kiki Astor, walks you through some of her best nouveau pauvre tips for living a glamorous life on a budget, from fashion to home to entertaining, travel, and lifestyle, to the art of being an in-demand houseguest.…

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Behind closed doors: the secret world of private clubs 41:44

9 weeks ago41:44

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You're either in, or you're out...and who wants to be on the outside looking in? For many people, the words "welcome to the club" are music to their ears and the fear of being blackballed looms large, because, as the advertaisement famously states, membership has its priviledges. It's a basic human evolutionary need to feel that one belongs, and being excluded or feeling FOMO is far from fun. In this episode of The Awkward Episode Podcast, amateur social anthropologist of old money Kiki Astor dives deep into the world of private clubs, exploring the allure and exclusivity that make them so intriguing. From members-only access to secretive social networks, we unpack the hidden dynamics of private clubs, both old money and new money, and what it really takes to become a part of these elite circles. Whether you're curious about the benefits, the cost, or the true value of membership, we discuss it all—from the history and evolution of private clubs to their modern-day influence on social status and power. We'll also be talking club etiquette. Join us as we break down what’s behind closed doors and why private clubs continue to capture the attention of the wealthy, powerful, and influential. Don't miss this eye-opening episode about a world few ever get to experience!…

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Nautical but nice: mastering the fisherman aesthetic 32:12

10 weeks ago32:12

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The fisherman aesthetic is having a moment, to put it mildly, but those with old money sensibilities have been living with it for generations, sporting weathered knits, salt-washed trousers, and perfectly battered Barbours at their seaside second homes long before even coastal grandmother was just a twinkle in the internet's eye. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, Kiki Astor, your old money internet Auntie and the romance author who singlehandedly introduced the hot fishmonger trope, dives deep (pardon the pun) into looking and living effortlessly nautical without veering dangerously close to cliché. We'll be having a conversation on authenticity over aspiration, touch on iconic garments that whisper deadly chic, not deadliest catch, explain the high-low blend that takes your decor from tacky tidal to maritime fabulous, and generally how to achieve the perfect balance, so you're charmingly nautical but never nouveau.…

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Ski and Après Ski: Etiquette on and off the slopes 31:55

11 weeks ago31:55

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Strap on your ski boots and grab a hot toddy—Kiki Astor is taking you to the slopes! In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, we’re diving into the refined (and sometimes ridiculous) world of ski and après-ski etiquette. Whether you're navigating the chairlift like a seasoned Aspen regular, mastering the art of looking effortlessly chic in Gstaad, or figuring out how to sip champagne in St. Moritz without looking like a tourist, we’ve got you covered. Expect cheeky insights on old money vs. new money ski style, unspoken slope-side rules, what to wear (and what not to wear) at après-ski, and how to exude effortless elegance on and off the mountain—even if you’re on a budget. From vintage Bogner vs Gucci to how to be the most charming chalet guest, this episode is packed with tips to help you blend in at the world’s most exclusive ski resorts.…

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How to be charming 28:57

13 weeks ago28:57

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If you regret not having gone to charm school, here is your opportunity to learn the crucial social skills you might have worried you were lacking. First off: curtseying is less important than you might have thought, but there are some crucial ingredients in charm, and they are easier to combine than you might have feared. Social anxiety is no match for the easy to adopt tips your Auntie Kiki, Kiki Astor, etiquette maven and all around charming person, will be sharing with you in this succinct but chock full of gems episode. Listen for 25 or so minutes and become instantly more likable, more trustworthy, and more unforgettable. Talk about a return on investment! Of course, this episode is also stuffed ot the brim with entertaining anecdotes, which makes it a fun listen even if you are already as charming as charming can be.…

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Live a big, beautiful, elegant rich life...on a budget! 40:59

13 weeks ago40:59

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Here’s the thing about wealth: it can go up and down. Even old money families tend to lose their fortunes after three generations. The stock market, the economy, your relationships, and your health can all change on a dime...which is why knowing how to still have a rich, happy, fabulous life without two nickels to rub together is the most valuable skill there is. True elegance isn't about being rich: it's about navigating life's twists and turns with grace, and knowing that "this too shall pass" applies to pretty much anything. Life isn't always easy, but it is always possible to romanticize it just a tad and make it feel oh so much better- take it from an ex rich romance novelist! Join host Kiki Astor for an upbeat discussion that will leave you inspired when it comes to living your best, richest life...on a budget.…

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Real romance tips... from a romance writer? 35:00

14 weeks ago35:00

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Most of us were raised on Disney-fied takes of princes and princesses, and even if we scoff at that stuff as adults, we still dream of a happily ever after. The romance readers among us may be ashamed to admit that we fantacize about a love like the one we read about in our novels, but let's be real: everyone wants a happy ending. That prince, that heir, or that billionaire might look great on paper, but what about in real life? It's time for some real talk about real-world romance, and who better to give you that straight talk than your Auntie Kiki, an ex rich person turned romance author who married into a real-life aristocratic family? Getting your happy ending takes some work on yourself, darling, and hopefully this episode will inspire you to chase that happily ever after on your own terms, whether you're looking to marry rich, worried about marrying someone your family doesn't approve of, thinking about dating etiquette, or trying to spice up an existing relationship in old money approved, elegant ways. You're going to love this episode, which comes just in time for Valentine's month!…

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FOMO, JOMO, and the etiquette of invitations 54:48

16 weeks ago54:48

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Did you ever receive an invitation and promptly contact the host or hostess and inquire about further details, including what you should wear? You may worry that Auntie Kiki will label this behavior as rude, but in reality, if the invitation was not clear enough, that is the hosts' fault, not yours. In this fascinating episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, we will first take a deep dive into Victorian history and culture- after all, those wacky Victorians had invitations and events down to a science, and we still use some of those formulas and wordings today...and then we fast forwrad to modern times, to cover invitations to events both formal and casual. Etiquette coach Kiki Astor will answer listeners' most burning etiquette and social skills questions, such as, is a digital invitation ever appropriate? How do I phrase my invitation? How do you save money on invitations? How do you curate a guest list, be it for a gala evening, a wedding, a cocktail party or a backyard BBQ? What about RSVP's? And how do I deal with not being invited to an event? Which will lead us to a discussion of FOMO and her glamorous older cousin, JOMO, otherwise known as the Joy Of Missing Out.…

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The art of art collecting...on a budget 47:20

17 weeks ago47:20

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, and to celebrate the launch of her latest book, Art, Love, and Other Miracles, set in the international art world including galleries in Roma Norte, CDMX, and Art Basel Miami, romance author, ex rich person, and art enthusiast Kiki Astor delves into the fascinating world of art collecting, offering practical tips for collectors at any budget level. Whether you're a seasoned collector or just starting, Kiki provides insights into the nuances of building a collection that reflects your taste and investment strategy. The episode explores the key differences between old money and new money approaches to art, from how they acquire pieces to their philosophies on display and preservation. Kiki also shares advice on navigating galleries, auctions, and private sales, ensuring listeners feel confident in making informed decisions. Tune in for a cheeky yet informative guide to mastering the art of collecting with confidence, sophistication and flair.…

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Timeless or Tired? The Old Money Aesthetic in 2025 43:34

17 weeks ago43:34

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New Year, New You... So is the Old Money Aesthetic Out? How does one reconcile reinvention and tradition? In this first of the New Year episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we explore the tension between tradition and reinvention in the ever-evolving world of the old money aesthetic. Kiki talks about her New Year's resolutions and goals, and delves into the delicate balance of maintaining timeless elegance while embracing the excitement and potential of a fresh new year. Listeners will learn how to romanticize their lives in a meaningful, authentic way, on a budjet, naturally, stay true to their values, grow as a person, and stay graceful, fashionable, and elegant in the face of change, all while adhering to the understated luxury that defines the old money ethos, which is, spoiler alert, very much not over. Engage with us as we discuss elegant New Year’s resolutions and the art of navigating reinvention with poise and confidence.…

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Bitter bloodlines: How to resolve family feuds elegantly 31:05

22 weeks ago31:05

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Old Money isn’t always old harmony. In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your host Kiki Astor, aka Auntie Kiki, begins by delving into a famous Astor family feud that led to the creation of the Waldorf-Astoria hotel. Using this dramatic historical anectote full of rivalry, egos, and its unlikely legacy as a jumping-off point, Kiki explores the dynamics of old money family feuds and uncovers why even the most "refined" families can find themselves at odds. With the holiday season approaching—a time when family tensions often come to a head—this episode provides actionable advice on how to manage your own family disputes with poise and elegance. Drawing from both etiquette principles and psychological insights, we’ll show you how to navigate tricky relationships, set boundaries, and find peace without losing your cool. Whether you’re sparring over a seating arrangement or something far more serious, this episode is your guide to handling family drama with the grace of old money—and maybe even turning conflict into a legacy of your very own.…

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What is true wealth? It may be more attainable than you think 36:10

24 weeks ago36:10

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we explore what it truly means to live a rich life, far beyond the balance in your bank account. Kiki delves into the essence of true wealth through the lens of the old money lifestyle, uncovering how timeless values, understated luxury, and intentional living can elevate your daily experience. Learn how certain behaviors, choices, and mindsets can make you feel impoverished, while embracing old money habits can enrich your life in surprising ways. From the power of generational thinking to the importance of quality over quantity, this episode is packed with tips for embodying the grace and poise of an old money aesthetic. Whether you’re striving for a wealthy lifestyle or just curious about old money values, Kiki offers cheeky insights and practical advice to help you find abundance—no matter your financial situation. Perfect for listeners drawn to old money elegance, luxury living on a budget, and the art of living well. Don’t miss this guide to feeling rich in all the ways that matter!…

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These books will make you look richer, smarter, and more popular 48:39

25 weeks ago48:39

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Sometimes it's not the clothes that make the man. It's not which model of Barbour jacket you have chosen, or where you get your tweed suit. What is between your ears is much more important than the Rolex watch on your wrist or the Stubbs and Wooton slippers on your feet. As AUntie Kiki says, education is often free. Obviously, much of this come through in polite cocktail party conversation. But how can you let people know immediately who you are? By the books in your library, on your coffee table, and yes, even in your bathroom. When it comes to letting people know exactly where you fit in in society, which books do almost all old money, elegant, high society people own? In this crucial episode of the Akward Etiquette podcast, Kiki Astor gives you a Grand Tour of sorts, discussing the tomes you must acquire. Show me your library, and I'll tell you who you are.…

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Modern manners? Which etiquette rules are outdated, and why 45:52

26 weeks ago45:52

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, hostess Kiki Astor dives into the fascinating world of etiquette and manners, exploring which traditional etiquette rules may now feel outdated and why. From rigid social scripts to the nuances of dining decorum, Kiki examines how changing societal values, cultural shifts, and modern social skills are transforming what we once considered polite behavior. Tune in for an entertaining yet insightful discussion on the sociological and anthropological aspects of evolving social norms. This entertaining episode full of cheekiness and personal anecdotes is perfect for listeners intrigued by social skills, the history of manners, and the evolving landscape of interpersonal etiquette.…

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What's in a name? Trending vs "old money" baby names, name history and etiquette 54:52

27 weeks ago54:52

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What's in a Name? Our moniker might be our most important attribute, influencing how we succeed and how we are perceived. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, Kiki Astor dives into the delightful—and sometimes awkward—world of names. Starting with the hottest naming trends for 2025, sourced from Nameberry, Kiki explores how some baby names go in and out of style and why certain ones are making a comeback. Next, we go on a fascinating journey through the history and anthropology of naming, from ancestral customs to “old money” traditions that add an air of distinction (or occasional pretension) to family names. As Kiki shares her top tips for selecting the perfect name for a child, you’ll get insight into her curated list of timeless, old-money-approved names that evoke classic sophistication. Next, Kiki tackles the social minefield of name etiquette: what to do when you can’t remember someone’s name, how to handle "name poaching" from a close friend or family member, and whether it’s appropriate to name your dog after a friend. And for those of us with four-legged friends whose names overlap with our human companions, Kiki provides a cheeky yet respectful approach to those situations. Tune in for a fun, informative, and etiquette-savvy discussion on all things names and naming!…

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Awkward but necessary: addressing microaggressions 34:28

28 weeks ago34:28

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, your hostess, etiquette maven and romance author Kiki Astor, dives deep into the world of microaggressions—those subtle, often unintentional comments and actions that can have a profound impact on individuals and communities. Although they may seem small, microaggressions accumulate, leading to emotional distress and a feeling of being marginalized. Kiki discusses what microaggressions are, the different types that exist, and why addressing them is crucial for fostering an inclusive environment. Listeners will learn how to identify microaggressions in their daily interactions and what steps to take if they find themselves as victims, perpetrators, or witnesses of these behaviors. While traditional etiquette focuses on smoothing over discomfort, this episode emphasizes the importance of speaking up to break the cycle of microaggressions by educatin yourself and becoming an ally. We'll also discuss what victis of microsaggressions can do. Join us for an enlightening conversation that blends awareness with actionable advice, empowering you to navigate awkward situations with confidence and compassion. This is a difficult, often awkward conversation, but fear not, your Auntie Kiki will address it with a blend of cheekiness and compassion.…

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Chic Gatherings: The secrets to affordable "old money" style entertaining 35:21

30 weeks ago35:21

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Have you been wanting to entertain at home, but you are intimidated? Have you been thinking of repaying your friends in kind for dinner invitations or jaunts aboard their yachts, but you can't afford an evening in a restaurant? In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, romance author and amateur etiquette expert Kiki Astor will inspire you and share her tips on achieving an elegant old money aesthetic while entertaining on a nouveau pauvre budget. Kiki covers everything you need to know for three old world style gatherings: a successful country house weekend, a sophisticated cocktail party, and a charming dinner party. From invitations that set the tone for your events, to clever strategies for preparing your space and menu without breaking the bank, whether you’re hosting a cozy gathering or a stylish soirée, this episode provides practical advice on how to impress your guests with an air of affluence and sophistication, all while keeping costs manageable. Also, remember, friendship and kindness are free. Tune in for Kiki's insights on creating memorable experiences that reflect the grace of old money entertaining!…

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Old Money Aesthetic and fashion etiquette for Fall/Winter 44:01

30 weeks ago44:01

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Winter is coming! Some of you dread this turning of the seasons, and some of you celebrate it. Those of you who love winter, admit it- it's all about the fashion, isn't it? But with more layers come more problems and questions: how does one layer? Which socks are we suposed to be wearing? Can I wear trendy chocolate brown with black? Which shoes are appropriate? How does one wear formal gloves? Must I remove my hat? In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we dive deep into the world of old money aesthetic Fall and Winter fashion. Discover the timeless elegance that defines this sophisticated style, from classic silhouettes to luxurious fabrics. Kiki discusses what to wear and how to wear it, ensuring you embody the effortless charm of the elite. Explore essential fashion and etiquette rules you might not have known, including how to choose the right colors that evoke a sense of understated wealth—think deep jewel tones and muted earth shades. Kiki shares her expert tips on selecting accessories that enhance your outfit without overpowering it, emphasizing the importance of quality over quantity. Wondering what to buy and what to avoid? This episode covers the must-have pieces for your wardrobe, such as tailored coats, cashmere sweaters, and elegant shoes, while steering you clear of fleeting trends that don’t align with the old money ethos. Join Kiki as she unpacks the nuances of dressing with class and sophistication, offering valuable insights that will elevate your wardrobe and refine your personal style. Whether you're aiming to perfect your old money aesthetic or simply want to understand the subtle intricacies of fashion etiquette, this episode is a must-listen! Tune in for a blend of fashion advice, etiquette tips, and a dash of humor that will leave you feeling inspired and well-prepared for the colder months ahead.…

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What is good taste, and how do you cultivate it? 43:02

31 weeks ago43:02

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In this enlightening episode, your Auntie Kiki steps out of her romance novelist slippers and leans into her identity as an etiquette coach and amateur social anthropologist. With a rich background in old money society, interior decorating, fashion, and history, Kiki Astor explores the essence of good taste and how to cultivate it in today’s world. Listeners will gain insights into: -What good taste is, and what it isn't, and the difference between your own personal tastes and the overarching idea of "good taste". - The historical and cultural context of old money aesthetics and their influence on modern taste, and good taste. -Whether "good taste" is only for the rich. -Whether "good taste" is a synonym for "old fashioned," Eurocentric," or "antique." Can good taste be modern? -Whether the "Old money Aesthetic" automatically means good taste. -How to cultivate good taste. -Practical tips for embodying good taste on a budget. Tune in for a philosophical and practical discussion that will inspire you further in the art of living well!…

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Old Money vs New Money: Navigating Class & Etiquette in Modern Society 45:34

33 weeks ago45:34

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In this episode of the Awkward Etiquette podcast, your host Kiki Astor ,etiquette maven and romance author, dives deep into the enduring tension between old money and new money, exploring the historical roots and modern-day dynamics of wealth, class, and social status. From feudal societies where aristocratic lineage dictated power, to the Industrial Revolution's rise of self-made tycoons, and the evolution of these tensions into the modern era of tech billionaires, Kiki offers a fascinating look at the sociology of wealth and social anthropology. Listeners will learn how old money families have historically upheld social traditions and exclusivity, while new money disrupts these norms with innovation and often ostentatious displays of wealth. Kiki explores the complex relationship between cultural capital, prestige, and economic mobility, particularly within the class system of the United States. The episode also serves up etiquette tips for navigating interactions between old and new money circles, offering insights into discretion, humility, and authenticity in high-society settings. Whether you’re intrigued by the sociology of class or looking for practical advice on mingling with the elite, this episode is packed with rich details about the history, economics, and social behaviors of the wealthy.…

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Oops! The most awkward, cringe-worthy social slip-ups, and how to recover from them 33:39

34 weeks ago33:39

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It's hard not to dwell on embarrassing public slip-ups, but according to psychologists, etiquette experts, and social anthropologists, moving on elegantly is more important than you might think. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we’re diving into the issue of the most awkward and cringy of all: those embarrassing public faux pas that happen to even the most polished society diva. We'll be talking about how to deal with even epic social fails with grace—because, whether it’s forgetting someone’s name at a party, awkwardly knocking over a drink, or getting toilet paper stuck on your shoe, we’ve all been there! , Your Auntie Kiki, Kiki Astor, romance author and etiquette maven, is here to reassure you that even the most elegant among us have our cringe-worthy moments. With Kiki’s signature mix of elegance, wit, charm, cheek, and funny stories, you’ll learn how to recover from social slip-ups like a pro. From handling embarrassing situations at upscale events to navigating small talk disasters with style, this episode is full of helpful tips for socially awkward souls who still want to thrive in the world of old money elegance and refined social circles. If you're looking for practical etiquette advice and a boost of confidence for your next event, tune in to this episode.…

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High Seas, High Drama: Yacht Etiquette, Style, and Scandals (Yachting part 2) 1:02:59

35 weeks ago1:02:59

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Set sail into luxury and high society with this cheeky episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor ! If you love aspirational travel, the old money aesthetic, and juicy scandals at sea, this is the perfect listen. In this episode, Kiki Astor, etiquette maven and author of Low Season in St. Tropez —a romance novel about a yacht interior designer, obviously—delves into the world of yacht life. Explore high-seas scandals, from misbehaving guests to illicit affairs, and learn the subtle art of yachting etiquette. Whether it's the battle of old money vs. new money yacht interiors or the summer buzz around the very divisive design of the RH Three yacht in St. Tropez, Kiki Astor covers it all with her signature wit. And of course, since the cost of yacht charters can be a sensite question that elicits choruses of "if you have to ask darling..." we cover the true hidden costs of yachting. Tune in for an episode brimming with luxury, laughter, and a few manners tips that could save you from a faux pas on your next yacht charter!…

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Yachts, Part 1: Tradition, Style, and Etiquette on the High Seas 41:54

35 weeks ago41:54

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In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , we're pulling back the velvet rope to reveal the hidden world of yachting—the ultimate symbol of wealth and power. Join your Auntie Kiki, your trusted guide through the nuances of high society, as she uncovers thehistory of recreational yachting, spills the secrets behind yacht naming conventions, and explains the not so subtle, very telling differences between old money and new money vessels. She'll even tell you where to go: which destinations are safe harbors, and which tacky ports of call are to be avoided at all costs. Whether you're charting a course to the most elite yachting destinations or simply want to avoid a social faux pas on the high seas, this episode is your ticket to navigating these waters with confidence. And remember, as the author of Low Season in St Tropez , Kiki knows a thing or two about the high stakes of yacht life—after all, her heroine designs them for a living. Don’t miss out on the first of this two-part series that’s as rich in history as it is in intrigue.…

Awkward Etiquette With Kiki Astor

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Back the school...the old money way? 39:57

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