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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships

E47: The Looking-Glass Self – How Others Shape Our Identity in Friendships

Who are you when you’re with your friends? Do you see yourself as they see you, or is your reflection a little distorted?

In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we step through the looking glass to explore how friendships shape our sense of self.

Drawing from the concept of the looking-glass self, we’ll uncover how the way others perceive us influences our identity, confidence, and the roles we play in our social circles.

Are we truly ourselves, or are we a mosaic of reflections? Let’s find out.

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Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships

E47: The Looking-Glass Self – How Others Shape Our Identity in Friendships

Who are you when you’re with your friends? Do you see yourself as they see you, or is your reflection a little distorted?

In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we step through the looking glass to explore how friendships shape our sense of self.

Drawing from the concept of the looking-glass self, we’ll uncover how the way others perceive us influences our identity, confidence, and the roles we play in our social circles.

Are we truly ourselves, or are we a mosaic of reflections? Let’s find out.

Music Credit:

Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now

… continue reading

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E53: The Chameleon Effect – Losing Yourself to Keep Others Close 14:21

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E53: The Chameleon Effect – Losing Yourself to Keep Others Close Have you ever caught yourself changing who you are just to fit in? In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we’re exploring the Chameleon Effect—the tendency to shift our personalities, interests, or opinions to match those around us. While adaptability can help us connect, it can also make us lose sight of who we truly are. How do we find the balance between belonging and authenticity? And what happens when we stop blending in and start embracing our true colors? Let’s uncover the magic of being unapologetically you! Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E52: Breadcrumbs & Mixed Signals – Understanding Uncertainty in Friendships 11:39

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E52: Breadcrumbs & Mixed Signals – Understanding Uncertainty in Friendships One day, a friend is warm and inviting—the next, they’re as distant as the Cheshire Cat disappearing into thin air. Sound familiar? In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we’re unraveling the mystery of mixed signals in friendships. Why do some people send breadcrumbs instead of clear intentions? How can we tell the difference between a confusing phase and a friendship that’s fading? And most importantly, how do we protect our own peace in the process? Let’s step through the looking glass and make sense of the uncertainty together! Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E51: The Mad Hatter's Tea Party - Navigating Different Friend Groups 14:42

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E51: The Mad Hatter's Tea Party - Navigating Different Friend Groups Ever feel like you’re bouncing between worlds when moving from one friend group to another? One moment, you’re sipping tea with the Hatter and Hare, the next, you’re trying to keep up with the Queen’s rules. In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we’re exploring the challenges and joys of navigating different social circles. How do you stay true to yourself when every group has its own dynamic? And what happens when your worlds collide? Pull up a chair—we’re diving into the art of balancing friendships, Wonderland style! Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E50: Healthy Competition and Supportive Friendships 13:40

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E50: Healthy Competition and Supportive Friendships Is a little competition between friends a good thing? In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we’re exploring the fine line between friendly rivalry and unhealthy comparison. Whether it’s celebrating each other’s wins or pushing each other to grow, the best friendships strike a balance between support and motivation. But when does competition become toxic? And how can we cheer each other on without losing ourselves in the race? Let’s dive into the art of being both ambitious and uplifting—because in Wonderland, there’s plenty of room at the table for everyone to shine! Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E49: Understanding Different Communication Styles in Friendships 15:44

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E49: Understanding Different Communication Styles in Friendships Ever feel like you and a friend are speaking two different languages—even when you’re both using words? In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we’re exploring the many ways people communicate in friendships. Some are as direct as the Queen of Hearts, while others drop hints like the Cheshire Cat. Understanding these different styles can help strengthen connections, avoid misunderstandings, and make room for deeper, more meaningful conversations. So, whether you’re a straight-talker or a riddle-speaker, let’s navigate the world of friendship communication together! Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E48: Tea Party Etiquette 101 11:05

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E48: Tea Party Etiquette 101 Step into the whimsical world of tea parties, where etiquette is just as important as the tea itself! In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we’re diving into the delightful (and sometimes absurd) rules of tea party etiquette. From knowing when to sip and when to speak to handling unexpected guests—like a hare who’s a bit too mad—we’ll explore the dos and don’ts of social gatherings, Wonderland style. So grab your teacup and join us for a charming, slightly chaotic lesson in hosting and attending the perfect tea party! Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E47: The Looking-Glass Self – How Others Shape Our Identity in Friendships 19:43

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E47: The Looking-Glass Self – How Others Shape Our Identity in Friendships Who are you when you’re with your friends? Do you see yourself as they see you, or is your reflection a little distorted? In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we step through the looking glass to explore how friendships shape our sense of self. Drawing from the concept of the looking-glass self, we’ll uncover how the way others perceive us influences our identity, confidence, and the roles we play in our social circles. Are we truly ourselves, or are we a mosaic of reflections? Let’s find out. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E46: Alice’s Journey – Embracing Our Authentic Selves in Friendships 19:23

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E46: Alice’s Journey – Embracing Our Authentic Selves in Friendships In Wonderland Unlocked, we often explore the whimsical and the unexpected, but what happens when we turn that curiosity inward? In this episode, we follow Alice’s journey as a reflection of our own—navigating friendships while staying true to who we are. From fitting in at the Mad Hatter’s tea party to standing her ground in the Queen’s court, Alice teaches us that authenticity isn’t always easy, but it’s essential. Join me as we uncover the magic of being ourselves in friendships, even when the world feels like Wonderland. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E45: Alice’s Sister – The Voice of Reason: Navigating Friendships with Different Perspectives 7:51

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E45: Alice’s Sister – The Voice of Reason: Navigating Friendships with Different Perspectives In Alice in Wonderland, Alice’s sister represents logic and stability—a stark contrast to Wonderland’s chaos. But what happens when our friendships reflect this same dynamic? In this episode, we explore how to navigate relationships with people who see the world differently than we do. How do we balance curiosity and reason? Can opposing perspectives strengthen a friendship rather than divide it? Let’s unravel the wisdom of Alice’s sister and discover how embracing different viewpoints can lead to deeper, more meaningful connections. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E44: The Doorknob – Opening and Closing Doors in Relationships 14:52

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E44: The Doorknob – Opening and Closing Doors in Relationships In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we explore the metaphorical power of the doorknob in relationships—the moments when we open ourselves to new connections and the times we need to close doors for our own well-being. From setting boundaries to knowing when it’s time to let go, I’ll discuss how we navigate the thresholds between closeness and distance. Join me as we reflect on the delicate balance of opening and closing doors in our relationships and how these choices shape our emotional journey. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E43: The Talking Flowers – Gossip, Influence, and the Voices That Shape Us 20:20

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E43: The Talking Flowers – Gossip, Influence, and the Voices That Shape Us In a garden full of whispers, which voices do you listen to? In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we explore the power of gossip, influence, and the narratives that shape our perceptions of ourselves and others. Like the talking flowers in Alice in Wonderland, the people around us can either uplift or entangle us in a web of judgment and assumptions. How do we navigate the noise, recognize toxic influences, and choose which voices deserve our attention? Join me as I unravel the impact of words and discover how to cultivate a more authentic, empowering inner and outer dialogue. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E42: The March Hare – Chaos, Excitement, and the Unpredictable Friend 18:20

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships Episode 42: The March Hare – Chaos, Excitement, and the Unpredictable Friend Some friendships are a whirlwind—wild, exhilarating, and completely unpredictable. In this episode, we dive into the energy of the March Hare, the friend who keeps you on your toes with their spontaneity, boldness, and occasional bouts of delightful chaos. But what happens when that unpredictability becomes overwhelming? How do we embrace the excitement while maintaining balance? Join us as we explore the dynamics of high-energy friendships, the beauty of spontaneity, and the importance of setting boundaries in the midst of the madness. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E41: The Tweedle Twins – The Push and Pull of Codependent Friendships 11:42

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships E41: The Tweedle Twins – The Push and Pull of Codependent Friendships In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we step into the world of the Tweedle Twins—inseparable, yet tangled in a dance of dependence. Codependent friendships can feel like a comforting mirror, but what happens when the reflection becomes a trap? We explore the fine line between deep connection and unhealthy reliance, uncovering the push and pull that shapes these bonds. How do we break free from patterns that hold us back while still holding onto the friendships that matter? Let’s unlock the balance between closeness and independence. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E40: The Mock Turtle’s Echo – Rebuilding After a Friendship Fades 19:27

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships Episode 40: The Mock Turtle’s Echo – Rebuilding After a Friendship Fades Not all friendships last forever, but their echoes remain. In this episode, we explore the bittersweet process of moving forward when a friendship fades. Inspired by the Mock Turtle’s lingering nostalgia, we’ll dive into the emotions of loss, lessons learned, and the resilience it takes to rebuild. Whether you’re grieving a friendship’s end or finding your way toward new connections, this episode offers gentle guidance for embracing change while honoring what once was. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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E39 The Mad Hatter The Unpredictability of Friendships 17:27

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Series 3: Curious Connections – Navigating Relationships Episode 39: The Mad Hatter - The Unpredictability of Friendships Friendships, much like a tea party with the Mad Hatter, can be delightfully unpredictable—full of laughter one moment and complete bewilderment the next. In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we explore the ups and downs of friendships that keep us on our toes. From the charm of spontaneity to the frustration of inconsistency, we’ll dive into the delicate balance of embracing the unexpected while setting boundaries. Are unpredictable friendships a source of excitement or exhaustion? Let’s take a seat at the table and find out. Music Credit: Intro song by Lydia the Bard & Tony – ALICE IN WONDERLAND VILLAIN SONG – I Only Paint in Red Now…

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