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HAPPY PRIDE ICELAND! I am currently working on finishing my fourth book (second novel!) and i am knee deep in penile experiences - so much fun! Oh and I love love love pride! and its here and its queer! woohhooo! oh and - should I auction vulva casts for charity?
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I AM FREEZING MY CLIT OFF! snow storm and social distancing and corona virus and hornyness and fantasies - are you here for it all?
I am going to Mexico in just under a week and I CAN NOT WAIT! But I also have so much going on at the moment - it is CRAZY! I am organising my CockChat event here in Iceland, and participating in a workshop for the Prime Ministers Ministry, doing stand-up all over and going to Finland for Sexpos 50year celebration! So yeah. PARTY as always!…
🗣Everybody has a voice and it takes only one person to start a revolution 👊 So M.Pence came to visit Iceland. Our First Lady, or Mrs. President as I also like to call her, Mrs. Eliza Reid, wore a white pant suit. A silent but powerful nod to her “sisters” in the US Congress who wore white pantsuits to show the gender discrepancy in Congress (only 23% women). A month before Alexandra Ocasio-Cortez got sworn in, being the youngest woman in American political history to become a senator. She wore white to honor suffragettes and she said I do it for “those who came before her and those who are to follow”. Pence went to Höfði (historic house, Gorbatsjov and Reagan had a meeting there some years ago) to have his political meeting. Surrounding Höfði were 🏳️🌈LBGTQIA+ flags🏳️🌈 like everywhere you looked, they were not to be avoided. They were flown by businesses in the area. It just felt like the world was made a slightly better place. Like we all have a voice and something to say, even if we are not saying anything outloud. We have to take a stand for a better world. Guðni, our president, had a rainbow bracelet and so did Eliza. You can see photos of it highlighted in many famous handshakes like Guðni and Putins. I have met the president and yes, I did call him by his first name, Guðni. Because that’s how we rock here in Iceland. 🇮🇸We stand for equality, freedom and peace ✌️ SEE YOU IN GOTHENBURG SOON!…
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedHAPPY PRIDE ICELAND! I am currently working on finishing my fourth book (second novel!) and i am knee deep in penile experiences - so much fun! Oh and I love love love pride! and its here and its queer! woohhooo! oh and - should I auction vulva casts for charity?
I got a question from a Hungarian listener regarding the sex scene in Iceland and here is my reply... Also, a lot about armpit hair. Why does it bother OTHER people so?
TW - TALKING ABOUT ABORTION and RELATIONSHIP ISSUES So Iceland recently passed a law that made abortion the sole decision of the woman and it is allowed up to week 22. Here I share my story of my first pregnancy and abortion. And yes, abortion is a human right And yes, Iceland has achieved a lot in women's right and equality, in part due to easy access to abortion.…
I love love love going to conferences and presenting (duh well that might be a bit obvious) and I have to on the horizon this year! Woohooo! Oh and I had a pap smear and paid undir 40$ for it and it took under 20 minutes from start to finish. (that's the photo attached) Just in case you read the trending twitter link about the american women who love the Icelandic health care system. It is pretty great.…
So I am being totally censored on IG and FB, what's a sexologist to do?! Also, I found my first totally white pubic hair!! Party the house down, all day, every day.
1 28. What kind of sexologist are you anyway?! 18:06
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedSHOUT OUT TO SWEDEN! Going to Stockholm! And apparently I organised an orgy? But missed it? What? Oh and I am going on a vulva trip!
We need to talk about Sex robots - like now! Are they sex toys or are they partners? Should femme-looking bots have penises or vibrating tongues? Can bots replace romantic blood pulsing partners? Would you buy a bot if it were cheaper? SO MANY QUESTIONS! This one is all about robotic romance and sex!…
What is with this notion that something makes you gay? And, can picking cans and bottles for recycling be a great date idea? And, what is love anyways? So you know, your everyday ponderings!
1 25. Recording in the hot tub - dragons & UFOs 29:49
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedI stepped out into the freezing cold winter air to go into a steaming hot hot tub all by myself and as I star gazed I am thinking about my listeners all over the world, stars that fly in the sky, the power of water and trying to find and connect with my dragon. now that's a lot to unpack! AND - not driving! Also - a how to guide to finding your dragon!…
1 24. Where are the gay princes Disney?! Parents - this one is for you! 36:48
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedPARENT and ADULTS - This one is for you! Language and being appropriate is soooo important! So if you are a teen - share this with the adult in your life. Please. They want to be there but they dont know how! Help these old people out.
Do you remember your first jizz? How about the first time you touched a penis (non-penis havers)? Lets talk PENIS! And semen! And vasectomy! Oh and the photo is of a load of sperm before vasectomy (left) and after operation and there is NO VISIBLE DIFFERENCE! mindblown....!
“Oh I love the feeling of taking of my bra at the end of the day” * Well - what if you could have that feeling ALL DAY EVERY DAY?! * Bear with my 🥥🥥 * I was in Spain a few months ago and my bathing suit was pinching me in all the wrong places. I watched a 👩🏽🦳 walk by tits out and proud, head held high, body wiggling in all the fun places and I thought to myself: What the hell am I doing with my life?! Do I have to wait until I am old to be in my body? Because I am worried that I will a) offend with -notabeachready- body 🐳 b) be sexualised by some people (or not as the case my be) 😤 c) be bodyshamed by some other people 🐳 d) greatly offend my family 🙈 or e) remind myself that the once great breasts that I had have been suckled away 🤱 and are mere 🥟🥟 Not fit for display 😢 * I chose none of the above 🤗🦹♀️ * Now I have done my fair share of tit flashing, be it because of breastfeeding or partying, so breast-shame is not a thing for me. Or it did not used to be. Now I am all -mommed- out. Or something. * So, I ran to the closest shop and looked at swimtrunks. FOR MEN. Thats what the sign said. FOR MEN.🧜🏼♂️ * I found the cheapest ones, tried them on and lo and behold, the covered my ass and my jigglytummy AND they had a POCKET THAT CLOSED! with a zipper I might add. * I had never seen such a thing in my life! A pocket! And coverage! In the same pair of trunks 🙀🤯 * To the beach I went and it felt AMAZING 🧜♀️ * After this LIFE AFFIRMING revelation I have decided to stop wearing 👙 well, bras. There is no nudist swimming pool in Iceland so I will still have to wear a bathing suit to the pool. But for everyday activities and going out fancy, my breasts will be held back no more!! * 🙋♀️Nipples dont offend people, people offend people! * Free them nipples baby - you deserve it and it feels fucking amazing!…
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Three lectures and a 4-hour seminar later - here I am driving alone in the dark, seeing weird lights, being afraid of hitting rouge reindeer and talking about my first experience with porn - what could go wrong?!
I wanna talk about LOVE! Have you been in love? Do you remember what it felt like? What are you like when you are in love? Lets get down to the nitty gritty of it!
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I am in Turku for the NACS conference and decided to record my thoughts about nudity in the sauna...BIG mistake. To say the least!
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The conference in Oslo went splendid and now I am back in Reykjavik and telling you about my atypical day at work. No day is the same so there is never a dull moment! Ride into work with me and let's have a chat about kids and boundaries...amongst other things!
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I was invited to Oslo, Norway to talk about female pleasure and closing the orgasm gap (the video is on my facebook page in English for you to watch!) And I fell in love with the city! So much art and so clean and nice and fun people AND the weather was amazing ! Join me on a walk around Oslo :)
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This just might be one of the weirdest podcast episode you have ever listened to...at least it was one of the weirdest one I have recorded! I somehow managed to go from pulsa (Icelandic hot dog) and the penis museum to intense food porn (veggie porn?!) to the ethical debate of eating animals to mother earth squirting through Geysir (our no.1 tourist attraction). What just happened?! This one is definitely N S F W.…
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1 15. YES YES YES - How complicated is consent? 21:53
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedCould Monica consent when Bill was obviously her senior, both in power and age? How do we, or should we, navigate consent? When are you too drunk to consent? Who gets to say how much alcohol is too much? How bears the responsibility? Lets take a look at some aspects of consent...!
What makes you feel sexy? Do you feel sexy? What is sexy? What does Google think is sexy? It is raining like poured out of a bucket here in Iceland (its a local saying) and some sunshine sure would make me feel sexy...
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1 13. Masturbating @ work (would you? have you?!) 27:19
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedHave you ever masturbated @ work? Or had sex with someone? Why? Why NOT?! I asked Icelanders if they had indeed done the deed whilst @ work and here are the results... (psst - some who did were Subway workers! Some mayo with that...?!)
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I had an epiphany in the shower that I just had to share with YOU! Have you met CuntCliff? Do you have a CuntCliff living with you? No? So goes the tale of my three births, two c´s and one vag, and all of this as I drove to work!
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Do you crave chocolate at that time of the month? Was your period celebrated or have you celebrated another persons period? Why is it so shameful? Can we, or should we, have a period party?! Lets cover periods. period.
Did you know that there are sonograms of a child masturbation whilst in the womb?! We do it because it feels good - its innate although frequency and technique may differ! We need to talk about the proper names of genitals and pleasure, and that starts from birth because that is how we truly achieve gender equality. This is about releasing shame and welcoming acceptance and pleasure into your life.…
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Was Dj Khaled on to something that we receive but do not give? Have you ever wondered what people think about when they are receiving oral sex? How important is oral sex to you and your sex life? Spits or swallows?! I did a survey on oral sex in Iceland and here I read the results...!
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The second part of the genital photo session I did in 2014 where I explain why I was accused of indecent exposure and why the religious community got behind good honest sex ed and why small penises matter. All this and so much more - Thanks for listening!
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1 7. Genital photographs - part 1, Vulva galore! 22:41
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedI always show photographs of genitals in sex ed class, I have never understood the whole drawing thing. Its 2018 and its time for us to get real. And to show diversity. So here it is. The story of that time I did a genital photo shoot here in Reykjavík, Iceland (psst - these photos are used all over the world! I even use them as my business card!)…
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