"D/S 101: Introduction To Authority-Transfer Relationships" With Dave!! a.k.a. 20-20Hindsight
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D/S 101: An Introduction To Authority-Transfer Relationships
We often hear terms like "D/S," "Authority," and "Power Exchange" when talking about kinky relationships. But what do these terms mean, and how can they apply to our daily lives?
Whether you're new to the idea of these kinds of relationships or you're a longtime veteran looking for a refresher, this guided discussion can help anyone gain a clearer understanding through the context of our personal experiences and stories.
Dave!! Aka 20-20Hindsight - Since entering the kink scene in 2008, Dave!! (he/him) has seen a lifetime’s worth of growth. As a former leader of St Louis TNG (a group for kinksters ages 18-35), Dave worked to bridge the age gap and provide a safe, welcome, and valued resource to younger or newer members of the lifestyle.
Dave serves on STL3’s Executive Board, currently as Chair of the Membership Committee. He is also one of the founders and Executive Officers of QaNDI - Queer and Neuro-Diverse Inclusion (pronounced “candy” when spoken aloud), a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization dedicated to education and creating more fully-inclusive spaces. Dave has taught classes in-person for a variety of groups and organizations throughout the St. Louis, MO area and surrounding regions and online for groups across the United States.
In addition to being a pansexual polyamorous, rope-slinging, needle-piercing, boot-blacking kinkster, Dave also enjoys cigars and whiskey, the Rocky Horror Picture Show, resin crafts, and tabletop RPGs.
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Chapters
1. "D/S 101: Introduction To Authority-Transfer Relationships" With Dave!! a.k.a. 20-20Hindsight (00:00:00)
2. What is Authority Transfer? (00:02:50)
3. Definitions (00:07:30)
4. Know Your Role (00:13:40)
5. Labels (00:18:52)
6. The Candle Metaphor (00:22:55)
7. Transfer Vs Exchange (00:25:40)
8. The Biggest Mistake (00:30:23)
9. The Same Action (00:38:19)
10. OPP (Other People's Protocol) (00:43:28)
11. Honorifics (00:52:11)
12. Punishment (01:01:55)
13. Inside The Kinkster's Studio (01:19:17)
11 episodes