Kindness And Other Kinks
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Ep 11 - "Kindness and Other Kinks" with Jon aka HiThereCatSuit
This topic has been called “life-changing” as it discusses how to use kindness within scenes and how to be kind to your kinky self.
Jon has been an ambassador in his communities by bringing people from all over together to share connections and experiences. He bases his success on one thing, kindness. Jon will discuss the difference between kind and nice and how that can make all the difference in the world in getting you the kind of partners and relationships you desire. Based on his Ted Talk, Jon’s deep dive into being kind discusses power dynamics and how turning those around can make all the difference in how people see you. We will talk about bringing kindness into scenes, which can be a lovely change of pace to heighten intense scenes. One discussion will be the “notebook” scene that is designed to help someone unsure of their place in the community and welcomes them to a new world in a beautiful combination of words, impact, sensation, and beauty. The lessons of pain become lessons of joy. Life-changing ways to be kind to yourself through dominance and submission
Jon aka HiThereCatsuit has been hosting the Authentically Kinky (formerly known as What Women* (*and other wonderful humans) Want podcast since October of 2020 with over 220 episodes. An avid writer on FetLife, Jon wrote a column about men and their unsolicited dick pics. The response led him to brainstorm with NookieNotes of Dating Kinky to create the podcast.
As Jon, the host has an award-winning background in broadcasting going back more than 35 years and has appeared as a talent on national, regional, and local stations. He has 7 Emmy Awards for work behind the scenes and designs all the graphic elements for the show’s social media.
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Chapters
1. Kindness And Other Kinks (00:00:00)
2. Kindness and Other Kinks (00:05:38)
3. Impact of Kindness (00:07:56)
4. More Than Reframing (00:16:14)
5. Nice vs. Kind (00:24:25)
6. The Notebook (00:33:25)
7. Spill to Vanilla (00:50:44)
8. Never Met A Sadist That Wasn't Kind (00:57:41)
9. Final Thoughts (01:15:14)
10. Inside The Kinkster's Studio (01:19:24)
12 episodes