Our golf origin stories, and easing tension on the tee

Sticks Together | Couples Golf

This week on Sticks Together, we share advice for those new to the sport, especially women paired with men for the first time. We discuss the increasing popularity of women's and couples golf, driven by healthier aging and a greater appreciation for outdoor activities.

Societal attitudes towards women in golf have evolved. Historically, women entered professional golf earlier than many other sports. More men now recognize that women can play, spend money, and even earn a living through golf without disrupting the game. Our goal with this podcast is to encourage more couples to play golf and enjoy it at their comfort level.

One of the best aspects of golf, we agree, is its inclusivity—you can play with anyone, regardless of gender. However, Stacey recounts her experiences where initial skepticism from male players quickly turned into respect as she demonstrated her skills. She emphasizes that making others comfortable on the course is often necessary, even if it means enduring patronizing attitudes from some men.

Slade notes that often, casual conversation during a game helps break the ice, but it's clear that for many women, especially those new to the sport, joining a group of unfamiliar men can be intimidating. We discuss the importance of setting the right expectations and fostering a welcoming environment for all players.

Our conversation shifts to personal anecdotes about how we both got into golf, influenced by our fathers. For Slade, golf became a bonding activity with his dad, leading him to join his high school team and develop a lifelong passion for the game.

Stacey's introduction to golf came later, influenced by her family's love for the sport. Initially indifferent, she took to the driving range out of boredom and gradually developed a liking for the game. Her early experiences were shaped by playing with family and boyfriends, eventually leading her to take lessons and improve her skills.

Everyone's journey into golf is unique. Despite the challenges and occasional discomforts, the joy of playing and improving keeps us coming back. Our shared stories highlight the importance of support and encouragement in fostering a love for the game, especially for women who might face initial reluctance or intimidation.

Our podcast aims to shed light on the opportunities couples golf offers, promoting inclusivity and enjoyment for everyone. Whether you're stepping onto the tee for the first time or have been playing for years, we hope to inspire more couples to join us in this rewarding sport.