How Do I Break Up With My Girlfriend Who Has Cancer? - Fridays with Ferne: Episode #14

The Frame of Mind Coaching™ Podcast

How do you break up with someone that has a horrible illness? Should you stay with them out of pity? How do you get out without hurting them even more?

In this episode of the Frame of Mind Coaching™ Podcast, Ferne and I explore a case study about a man named Philippe who is dating a girl that develops cancer. As the treatments proceed, their relationship changes, she becomes short-tempered and mean. Philippe does everything he can to help her but realizes that he is in over his head. He doesn’t know how to take care of her. He doesn’t know how to take care of himself. He doesn’t know how to get out. He feels trapped in his obligation.

Here is a sneak peek into my insight. “Imagine that you’re in a relationship with someone and find out that they are only with you because they feel obligated? How would that make you feel?” I ask. “Being in this relationship certainly isn’t serving him and, in the end, also isn’t serving her. When you look at someone and only see their illness, you’re not looking at the person, and you’re not helping them get better.” I recommend Philippe be honest with her and help her find other support.

What would you do if you were in Philippe’s shoes? Let us know!

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