How to Feel Excited About Dating

The Future of Relationships

The Future of Relationships

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In this episode, we welcome back David French, columnist for The New York Times , former constitutional attorney, and author of Divided We Fall . We discuss the current state of American democracy, the challenges of political division, and how we can engage in civil discourse despite deep ideological differences. David also shares a personal update on his family and reflects on the profound trials and growth that come with adversity. 📌 What We Discuss: ✔️ How David and his family navigated the challenges of a serious health crisis. ✔️ The rise of political polarization and the factors driving it. ✔️ Why distinguishing between “unwise, unethical, and unlawful” is crucial in analyzing political actions. ✔️ How consuming different perspectives (even opposing ones) helps in understanding political dynamics. ✔️ The role of Christian values in politics and how they are being redefined. ⏳ Episode Highlights 📍 [00:01:00] – David French’s background and his journey from litigation to journalism. 📍 [00:02:30] – Personal update: David shares his wife Nancy’s battle with cancer and their journey as a family. 📍 [00:06:00] – How to navigate personal trials while maintaining faith and resilience. 📍 [00:10:00] – The danger of political paranoia and the pitfalls of extreme polarization. 📍 [00:18:00] – The "friend-enemy" paradigm in American politics and its influence in Christian fundamentalism. 📍 [00:24:00] – Revisiting Divided We Fall : How America’s divisions have devolved since 2020. 📍 [00:40:00] – The categories and differences of unwise, unethical, and unlawful political actions. 📍 [00:55:00] – The balance between justice, kindness, and humility in political engagement. 📍 [01:00:00] – The After Party initiative: A Christian approach to politics focused on values rather than policy. 💬 Featured Quotes 🔹 "You don't know who you truly are until your values are tested." – David French 🔹 "If we focus on the relational, we can have better conversations even across deep differences." – Corey Nathan 🔹 "Justice, kindness, and humility—if you're missing one, you're doing it wrong." – David French 🔹 "The United States has a history of shifting without repenting. We just move on." – David French 📚 Resources Mentioned David French’s Writing: New York Times David’s Book: Divided We Fall The After Party Initiative – More Info Advisory Opinions Podcast (with Sarah Isgur & David French) – Listen Here 📣 Call to Action If you found this conversation insightful, please: ✅ Subscribe to Talkin' Politics & Religion Without Killin' Each Other on your favorite podcast platform. ✅ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen: ratethispodcast.com/goodfaithpolitics ✅ Support the show on Patreon: patreon.com/politicsandreligion ✅ Watch the full conversation and subscribe on YouTube: youtube.com/@politicsandreligion 🔗 Connect With Us on Social Media @coreysnathan: Bluesky LinkedIn Instagram Threads Facebook Substack David French: 🔗 Twitter | BlueSky | New York Times Our Sponsors Meza Wealth Management: www.mezawealth.com Prolux Autogroup: www.proluxautogroup.com or www.granadahillsairporttransportation.com Let’s keep talking politics and religion—with gentleness and respect. 🎙️💡…

about a year ago 23:24

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Here’s what you’ll discover in this episode:

✨ How to think about dating so you’ll feel excited

✨ How to tap into the emotion of excitement now

✨ The trap of “When I _____ then I will____.”

✨ How to tap into your strengths

✨ The first steps to take to feel excited

✨ Important questions to ask yourself

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122 episodes

How to Feel Excited About Dating

published about a year ago

MP3•Episode home

Here’s what you’ll discover in this episode:

✨ How to think about dating so you’ll feel excited

✨ How to tap into the emotion of excitement now

✨ The trap of “When I _____ then I will____.”

✨ How to tap into your strengths

✨ The first steps to take to feel excited

✨ Important questions to ask yourself

Click the link to get on the Inside Dating Waitlist. https://bit.ly/4cWfVrZ

122 episodes

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#122 Lonely in a Relationship 6:43

2 days ago6:43

6:43

Do you ever feel completely alone—even when you’re in a relationship? You’re not imagining it. Feeling lonely while being with someone is more common than you think, and it’s often a sign that something deeper is going on. In this powerful episode, we’re uncovering the truth behind emotional loneliness in relationships —why it happens, what it really means, and how to bridge the gap between you and your partner. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ The surprising reasons why you can feel lonely even when you’re not alone ✅ How unspoken needs, emotional disconnection, and past wounds play a role ✅ The difference between physical presence and emotional intimacy ✅ Real strategies to reconnect with your partner and feel seen, heard, and valued ✨ Bonus: Want to go even deeper? I’m hosting a FREE live masterclass called “Find Your Type” on March 27 at 5 PM . In this exclusive training, I’ll help you discover your unique relationship type —so you can finally stop wasting time on the wrong people and start attracting the love that truly fits you. In this masterclass, you’ll learn: ✅ What your relationship type says about your needs, patterns & compatibility ✅ Why certain types trigger you—and others feel like home ✅ How to quickly spot if someone is a match or mismatch for you ✅ The #1 shift that will change how you approach love forever This is perfect for you if you’re ready to attract aligned love and build a relationship that actually works. Save your spot—link coming soon! Stay tuned! 🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward deeper, more fulfilling love. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 👉 YouTube 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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# 121 How to Feel Feelings 11:42

9 days ago11:42

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Do you ever find yourself avoiding emotions—distracting yourself, overthinking, or shutting down instead of truly feeling? Do you struggle to process your emotions in a healthy way? If so, this episode is for you! We’re diving deep into why so many of us struggle to feel our feelings and how learning to process emotions can transform your well-being and relationships. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ Why avoiding emotions leads to stress, anxiety, and disconnection ✅ How to identify and name your emotions instead of suppressing them ✅ The powerful shift that helps you process feelings in a healthy way ✅ Practical steps to sit with your emotions without fear or overwhelm 🎧 Listen now and take control of your emotions today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs this shift. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 👉 YouTube 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#120 Expectations in Relationships 13:24

16 days ago13:24

13:24

Do you ever feel disappointed in your relationships because things don’t go the way you hoped? Do you find yourself wondering why your partner doesn’t meet your expectations—even when it seems obvious to you? If this sounds familiar, today’s episode is for you! We’re diving into the hidden impact of expectations in relationships —where they come from, why they often lead to frustration, and how to shift your mindset to create a healthier, more fulfilling love life. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ Why unspoken expectations create tension and misunderstandings ✅ How childhood, past experiences, and society shape our expectations ✅ The difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations ✅ Practical steps to communicate your needs without conflict ✨ Bonus: Want to go even deeper? I’m hosting a FREE live masterclass where I’ll reveal the three biggest mistakes that ruin relationships —and how to avoid them. Link will be provided next week, so stay tuned! 🎧 Listen now and take control of your love life today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs this shift. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 👉 YouTube 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#119 Emotions in Relationships 10:21

23 days ago10:21

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Do your relationships start off amazing but then slowly fall apart? Do you keep attracting the wrong people and don’t know why? Or maybe you’re doing everything right, but something still isn’t working? If any of this sounds familiar, then today’s episode is a game-changer for you! We’re diving deep into emotional adulthood vs. emotional childhood in relationships —and why making this one powerful shift can completely transform the way you experience love. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ What emotional childhood is and how it silently sabotages your relationships ✅ How emotional adulthood can empower you to create the love you actually want ✅ The mindset shift that will help you stop blaming, start owning, and finally break free from unhealthy relationship patterns ✅ Actionable steps to take full responsibility for your emotions—without letting people walk all over you ✨ Bonus: Want to go even deeper? I’m hosting a FREE live masterclass where I’ll reveal the 3 biggest mistakes that ruin relationships—and exactly how to avoid them. Link will be provided next week. So stay tuned! 🎧 Listen now and take control of your life today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs this shift. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#118 Mastery of Emotions in Relationships 13:51

4 weeks ago13:51

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Do you find yourself overanalyzing conversations, avoiding vulnerability, or struggling to express your needs? If so, this episode is for you! Join me, Polina Solda, on The Future of Relationships as I reveal the secrets to emotional mastery and how understanding your personality type can transform your connections and deepen intimacy. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ How mastering emotions can help you reduce stress and overwhelm. ✅ The four personality types and their unique emotional challenges. ✅ Real-life client success stories that demonstrate the power of emotional mastery. ✅ Practical exercises for singles and couples to enhance emotional connection. 🎧 Listen now and take control of your life today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs this shift. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#117 Take Action Now 11:59

5 weeks ago11:59

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In this powerful episode, Polina Solda dives deep into a conversation every woman ready for change needs to hear: what happens when you choose action over procrastination? And more importantly, what happens when you don't? In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ How taking action today can radically change your relationships and confidence in just three months. ✅ What your life will look like if you choose to take action—or if you continue to delay. ✅ Learn why procrastination keeps you stuck and how to break free. ✅ Discover how Polina’s coaching program offers personalized guidance to help you create the love life you deserve. ✨ Don’t stay stuck. It’s time to take control of your happiness and future. Tune in now and make the decision that will change everything. 🎧 Listen now and take control of your life today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs this shift. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#116 No Change in Your Life? 9:48

6 weeks ago9:48

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Do you feel like no matter how hard you try, nothing really changes? Are you stuck in the same patterns, relationships, or situations—wondering why things aren’t improving? In this episode, Polina Solda reveals the hidden reasons why change isn’t happening in your life and what you need to do differently. You’ll learn how to break free from the cycle of stagnation, take back control, and start creating real transformation in your relationships, confidence, and success. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ The biggest mistake keeping you stuck in the same place. ✅ Why your thoughts and beliefs dictate your results. ✅ How to take action even when you don’t feel ready. ✅ The role of confidence in making bold, life-changing decisions. ✅ A proven strategy to create the change you actually want. 💡 Your life changes the moment YOU decide to change. 💖 Ready to finally break free and create real transformation? Join my Confidence Masterclass and take the first step toward the life and love you deserve. 🔗 Register now: 👉 Confidence Masterclass 🎧 Listen now and take control of your life today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs this shift. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#115 Love Starts with You 13:27

6 weeks ago13:27

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If you’ve ever wondered why love isn’t showing up the way you want in your life, it’s time to ask yourself: How much love do I give to myself? The quality of your relationships starts with the relationship you have with yourself. In this episode, Polina Solda explores the powerful truth that self-love is the foundation of all love. You’ll learn how your beliefs about yourself shape your relationships, why attracting the right partner starts with you , and how to cultivate deep self-worth that draws in real love. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ Why self-love is the key to attracting a healthy relationship. ✅ How to break free from seeking validation and approval from others. ✅ The connection between self-worth and the love you receive. ✅ Practical ways to start loving yourself on a deeper level. ✅ A mindset shift that will transform how you experience love. 💡 When you love yourself first, the right love will follow! 💖 Ready to build unshakable self-love and confidence? Join my Confidence Masterclass and start your journey toward the love and life you truly deserve. 🔗 Register now: 👉 Confidence Masterclass 🎧 Listen now and start creating the love you desire—starting with YOU! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs this message. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#114 Woman with Confidence 7:21

6 weeks ago7:21

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What makes a confident woman truly magnetic? How does she carry herself, make decisions, and attract the right people into her life? Confidence isn’t just about how you look or what you say—it’s about the energy you bring into every situation. In this episode, Polina Solda breaks down the traits, habits, and mindset of a woman who exudes authentic confidence. You’ll learn how to embody self-assurance in dating, relationships, and everyday life so that you naturally attract the respect, love, and success you deserve. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ The defining characteristics of a confident woman. ✅ How to cultivate unshakable self-worth and self-trust. ✅ The secret to setting boundaries without fear or guilt. ✅ Why confidence makes you more attractive in dating and relationships. ✅ Practical steps to start showing up as the most confident version of yourself. 💡 Confidence is your greatest superpower—let’s activate it! 💖 Ready to become a truly confident woman? Join my Confidence Masterclass and start embodying the version of yourself who attracts everything she desires. 🔗 Register now: 👉 Confidence Masterclass 🎧 Listen now and step into your confidence today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs this message. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#113 How to Quickly Change Your State 8:29

7 weeks ago8:29

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Have you ever felt stuck in a negative emotion, overwhelmed by stress, or paralyzed by self-doubt? What if you could shift your state instantly—moving from fear to confidence, from anxiety to calm, or from frustration to clarity? In this episode, Polina Solda reveals the fastest and most effective ways to change your emotional and mental state in any situation. Whether you need a confidence boost before a date, want to break free from overthinking, or simply need to reset your energy, these powerful strategies will help you take control of your emotions and show up as your best self. In this episode, you’ll learn: ✅ Why your emotional state determines your success in relationships and life. ✅ The fastest way to shift from stress and anxiety to calm and confidence. ✅ Simple, science-backed techniques to rewire your brain in seconds. ✅ How to use your body and breath to instantly transform your mindset. ✅ A powerful mindset shift to stay in control, no matter the situation. 💡 Your emotional state is the key to your success—learn how to master it! 💖 Ready to step into unshakable confidence and control over your emotions? Join my Confidence Masterclass and take the first step toward becoming the best version of yourself. 🔗 Register now: 👉 Confidence Masterclass 🎧 Listen now and take control of your emotional state today! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs this shift. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#112 5 Steps to Confidence 7:07

7 weeks ago7:07

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Have you ever wished you could walk into any room feeling unshakable confidence? Do you struggle with self-doubt, second-guessing yourself, or feeling like you’re not enough? Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build. And in this episode, Polina Solda will show you exactly how. Discover the five powerful steps to developing lasting confidence, no matter where you are starting from. Whether it’s in dating, relationships, career, or life in general, these steps will help you step into your power and own your worth. In this episode, you’ll learn: ✅ The #1 mistake that keeps you stuck in insecurity. ✅ A simple daily practice to boost your confidence instantly. ✅ How to shift from self-doubt to unshakable self-belief. ✅ Why confidence is not about being fearless (and what it really takes). ✅ The secret to embodying high-value confidence in relationships and life. 💡 Confidence is a skill—you just need the right steps to build it! 💖 Ready to become the most confident version of yourself? Join my Confidence Masterclass and start your transformation today! 🔗 Register now: 👉 Confidence Masterclass 🎧 Listen now and start showing up as the most confident version of yourself! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs this boost. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: 👉 Instagram 👉 Facebook 👉 Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#111 The Woman Who Does Everything for a Relationship 7:09

7 weeks ago7:09

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Are you the one always giving, fixing, and fighting for your relationship—while your partner puts in little to no effort? Do you feel like you’re carrying the entire emotional load, hoping that if you just do one more thing , he’ll finally appreciate and love you the way you deserve? In this episode, Polina Solda uncovers why so many women fall into the trap of overgiving in relationships and why it never leads to the love and commitment they crave. You’ll learn how to shift from over-functioning to receiving, from chasing to attracting, and from feeling unappreciated to being cherished and valued. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ Why doing everything for a relationship pushes love away. ✅ The hidden beliefs that keep you stuck in overgiving mode. ✅ How to shift from over-functioning to allowing a man to step up. ✅ What truly attracts a high-value, committed partner. ✅ A powerful mindset shift to break free from exhausting relationships. 💡 It’s time to stop proving your worth and start attracting the love you deserve. 💖 Ready to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns and attract the right man? Join my Relationships Monthly masterclass and start your transformation today! 🔗 Register now: 👉 Masterclass 🎧 Listen now and start receiving the love and effort you deserve! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs this message. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: Instagram | Facebook | Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#110 I Don’t Feel Valuable 7:15

7 weeks ago7:15

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Do you ever struggle with self-worth? Do you find yourself questioning your value in relationships, work, or life in general? If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough, this episode is for you. In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, Polina Solda uncovers the hidden reasons behind feelings of unworthiness and how they shape your decisions, relationships, and overall happiness. You’ll learn how to break free from self-doubt, build unshakable confidence, and start seeing yourself as the valuable, worthy person you truly are. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ Why you feel unworthy (and how to shift this belief). ✅ The impact of low self-value on your love life and success. ✅ How to recognize and break free from self-sabotaging patterns. ✅ Simple, proven strategies to build confidence and self-worth. ✅ A powerful mindset shift that will transform the way you see yourself. 💡 You are valuable. You are enough. Now, let’s make sure you truly believe it. 💖 Ready to step into your true worth and transform your love life? Join my Relationships Monthly masterclass and take the first step toward attracting the right man who values and respects you! 🔗 Register now: 👉 Masterclass 🎧 Listen now to reclaim your confidence and self-worth! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this message. 📲 Let’s connect! Follow me on: Instagram | Facebook | Telegram 💬 Tag me in your stories and share your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#109 Why You Choose the Wrong Man? 7:15

7 weeks ago7:15

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Are you tired of attracting the wrong men and ending up in disappointing relationships? Have you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns, no matter how hard you try to choose differently? In this eye-opening episode, Polina Solda dives deep into the hidden reasons why you may be choosing the wrong partners—and how to break free from this cycle once and for all. You’ll learn how your personality type influences your dating choices, the subconscious beliefs that might be sabotaging you, and the exact steps to finally attract the right man for you. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✅ The real reason you keep choosing the wrong men (and how to stop). ✅ How your personality type influences your relationship patterns. ✅ The #1 mindset shift that will change your love life forever. ✅ Practical strategies to break toxic cycles and start fresh. ✅ How to identify and attract a high-quality, compatible partner. 💡 Ready to transform your love life? Sign up for my exclusive Relationships Monthly masterclass and take the first step toward finding the right man for YOU! 🔗Register now: 👉 Masterclass 🎧 Listen now and take control of your love life! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs to hear this. 📲І Let’s connect! Follow me on: Instagram | Facebook | Telegram Tag me in your stories and let me know your biggest takeaway from this episode—I’d love to hear from you!…

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#108 Confident Communication- The Key to Thriving Relationships 11:55

8 weeks ago11:55