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Ep 64: Corona Relationship Advice #11 Ask Better Questions

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The questions you ask determines whether you feel panicked or inspired. The questions you ask can help your mind - and your relationship - go in a powerful direction or a terrible direction. What questions to ask?

DON'T ask questions like: - Will this never end? - Why can't you just ..... (do it my way, get it right, get your s*** together, connect, etc.)? - What's your problem? - What's wrong with you/me/our relationship?

DO ask questions like:

- What's one important thing am I going to achieve today? - How can I best contribute to my spouse/family/team today? - How can I maximize my energy level throughout the day? - What one special thing can I do for my spouse today? - What will I do today that will push my boundaries and make me grow? - Who can I contribute to or uplift today? - What is one self-care activity I can do today? - What is one soul-nourishing just-for-fun activity I can engage in today? - What is one risk I can take today? - What is something new that I have never done before that I could do todaY? - What is one thing I can do today to help me grow or learn something new? - How can I show up more in my life today? - If I trusted that the truth would be a contribution to our growth and empowerment, and ultimately bring us closer today, what would I reveal? - If it wasn't an option to walk away from this conflict or challenge, how would I use it to step more into my Full Potential?

The LoveWorks Solution is a practical and positive approach to marriage, relationship, intimacy, communication, and dating.

LoveWorks offers private coaching and relationship counseling to couples and singles, from anywhere in the world; as well as online and live workshops for couples and singles.

The LoveWorks Solution has saved marriages and helped singles find love, plus helped thousands of couples and singles deal with complex problems that arise in relationships, such as communication breakdowns, trust in relationships, insecurities in relationship, toxic relationship, emotionally unavailable men or women, deepening intimacy, finding the right partner, dating, and many, many more.

LoveWorks is founded by Sonika Tinker, MSW & Christian Pedersen, CLC, who have 35+ years of experience coaching and educating about relationships. They designed The LoveWorks Solution to be practical, applicable, fun and light-hearted, demonstrating that deep relationship work can be done in a positive way while having a good time.

* Catch the live broadcast on our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Loveworkssolution

* Get the free E-book, How To Save My Marriage (and many more free resources for your relationship), here: https://loveworksforyou.com/

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The questions you ask determines whether you feel panicked or inspired. The questions you ask can help your mind - and your relationship - go in a powerful direction or a terrible direction. What questions to ask?

DON'T ask questions like: - Will this never end? - Why can't you just ..... (do it my way, get it right, get your s*** together, connect, etc.)? - What's your problem? - What's wrong with you/me/our relationship?

DO ask questions like:

- What's one important thing am I going to achieve today? - How can I best contribute to my spouse/family/team today? - How can I maximize my energy level throughout the day? - What one special thing can I do for my spouse today? - What will I do today that will push my boundaries and make me grow? - Who can I contribute to or uplift today? - What is one self-care activity I can do today? - What is one soul-nourishing just-for-fun activity I can engage in today? - What is one risk I can take today? - What is something new that I have never done before that I could do todaY? - What is one thing I can do today to help me grow or learn something new? - How can I show up more in my life today? - If I trusted that the truth would be a contribution to our growth and empowerment, and ultimately bring us closer today, what would I reveal? - If it wasn't an option to walk away from this conflict or challenge, how would I use it to step more into my Full Potential?

The LoveWorks Solution is a practical and positive approach to marriage, relationship, intimacy, communication, and dating.

LoveWorks offers private coaching and relationship counseling to couples and singles, from anywhere in the world; as well as online and live workshops for couples and singles.

The LoveWorks Solution has saved marriages and helped singles find love, plus helped thousands of couples and singles deal with complex problems that arise in relationships, such as communication breakdowns, trust in relationships, insecurities in relationship, toxic relationship, emotionally unavailable men or women, deepening intimacy, finding the right partner, dating, and many, many more.

LoveWorks is founded by Sonika Tinker, MSW & Christian Pedersen, CLC, who have 35+ years of experience coaching and educating about relationships. They designed The LoveWorks Solution to be practical, applicable, fun and light-hearted, demonstrating that deep relationship work can be done in a positive way while having a good time.

* Catch the live broadcast on our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Loveworkssolution

* Get the free E-book, How To Save My Marriage (and many more free resources for your relationship), here: https://loveworksforyou.com/

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