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1 Eli Beer & United Hatzalah: Saving Lives in 90 seconds or Less 30:20
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Eli Beer is a pioneer, social entrepreneur, President and Founder of United Hatzalah of Israel. In thirty years, the organization has grown to more than 6,500 volunteers who unite together to provide immediate, life-saving care to anyone in need - regardless of race or religion. This community EMS force network treats over 730,000 incidents per year, in Israel, as they wait for ambulances and medical attention. Eli’s vision is to bring this life-saving model across the world. In 2015, Beer expanded internationally with the establishment of branches in South America and other countries, including “United Rescue” in Jersey City, USA, where the response time was reduced to just two minutes and thirty-five seconds. Episode Chapters (0:00) intro (1:04) Hatzalah’s reputation for speed (4:48) Hatzalah’s volunteer EMTs and ambucycles (5:50) Entrepreneurism at Hatzalah (8:09) Chutzpah (14:15) Hatzalah’s recruitment (18:31) Volunteers from all walks of life (22:51) Having COVID changed Eli’s perspective (26:00) operating around the world amid antisemitism (28:06) goodbye For video episodes, watch on www.youtube.com/@therudermanfamilyfoundation Stay in touch: X: @JayRuderman | @RudermanFdn LinkedIn: Jay Ruderman | Ruderman Family Foundation Instagram: All About Change Podcast | Ruderman Family Foundation To learn more about the podcast, visit https://allaboutchangepodcast.com/ Looking for more insights into the world of activism? Be sure to check out Jay’s brand new book, Find Your Fight , in which Jay teaches the next generation of activists and advocates how to step up and bring about lasting change. You can find Find Your Fight wherever you buy your books, and you can learn more about it at www.jayruderman.com .…
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The Marriage Transformation Podcast focuses on everything you need to do to transform your marriage from failing to spectacular in the shortest time possible.
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1 Transforming Trauma: From Victimhood to Personal Accountability 3:00
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Visit https://now.bettermarriage.com/break-the-rules for some free training. What if the key to healing from trauma lies not in blaming others but in examining our own roles in the cycle of pain? Our latest episode invites you to join a transformative conversation with our guest, who bravely shares his journey from feeling victimized by life's adversities to recognizing his part in perpetuating trauma. With raw honesty, he recounts the struggles with alcohol that once defined him and reflects on the impactful relationship with his father, challenging the narratives he used to hold about being "not good enough." This powerful narrative urges us to reconsider the dynamics of victim and victimizer, and how our expectations can profoundly affect those around us. Listen as we explore the courage it takes to shift from a victim mentality to one of personal accountability and healing. Our guest's insights push the boundaries of traditional healing by emphasizing the importance of acknowledging our influence on others’ traumas. This episode promises to leave you pondering the complexities of forgiveness, responsibility, and the mutual healing journey. Through this eye-opening discussion, we aim to inspire listeners to not only embrace their healing path but also consider their potential to heal those they once perceived as oppressors.…
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Visit https://go.bettermarriage.co/trauma for some free training. Ever wonder why some people navigate life's storms with remarkable resilience while others remain perpetually adrift? The answer might be simpler than you think: a working philosophy that guides your decisions and responses. Picture the world's oceans filled with thousands of container ships. Every vessel that safely reaches its destination has something in common—a captain with both a clear destination and the ability to recalibrate when blown off course. Without this guidance system, no ship randomly drifts to safety. Your life operates by the same principle. Without a coherent philosophy to navigate by, you'll struggle to reach your desired harbor regardless of how hard you work or how talented you are. The philosophy we adopt fundamentally shapes our experience. Consider the profound difference between believing "life is friendly" versus "life is out to get you." The latter creates a perpetual state of anxiety and defensiveness, while the former opens us to possibilities and connection. These core beliefs function like operating systems, determining how we process every experience and opportunity. Perhaps the most powerful metaphor shared in this discussion is the circus elephant trained to believe it cannot break its chain. Even as the elephant grows into a magnificent beast capable of snapping that chain with ease, it remains captive to a limitation that exists only in its mind. How many of us live this way—constrained not by actual limitations but by beliefs formed when we weren't strong enough to overcome them? What would you do if failure was impossible? This question reveals the gap between your current life and your potential—showing how much your self-imposed limitations constrain you. Break free from the chains placed on you when you were too small to overcome them. You've grown stronger. It's time your beliefs caught up with your capabilities.…
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1 Transforming Conflict into Connection: The Art of Communication in Relationships 2:08
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Visit https://go.bettermarriage.co/trauma for some free training. What if the key to resolving conflicts in your marriage lies not in who’s right or wrong, but in how you communicate? Join us as we unravel the art of communication that shifts the focus from conflict to connection. We promise you'll walk away with insights that could transform your relationships, turning misunderstandings into meaningful conversations. Our discussion kicks off with a provocative question: Have you ever set out to hurt your partner at the start of your day? The answer might surprise you and set the stage for understanding the roots of miscommunication. In this enlightening episode, we challenge the conventional mindset that often pits partners against each other in a battle of right versus wrong. Instead, we champion a curious approach to dialogue, one that seeks to learn and understand. Imagine engaging in a conversation where the goal is not to win but to grow together. We explore how substituting the need to be understood with the desire to understand can lead to groundbreaking reconciliation. Whether you're navigating marriage or any relationship, tune in for transformative strategies that advocate for communication as a tool for connection rather than division.…
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1 Rethinking Communication: Unlocking Balance in Relationships 5:46
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Watch my free workshop: https://now.bettermarriage.com/break-the-rules What if the secret to a balanced relationship lies in rethinking how we communicate and fulfill each other's needs? Join us as we unravel the fascinating and often contrasting relationship philosophies of men and women. Discover the common mindsets of "I'm good, you're bad" versus "I'm bad, you're good," and how these attitudes can shape the early stages of relationships, often leading to tension and unmet expectations. We'll guide you through an eye-opening restaurant metaphor that vividly illustrates the frustrations of one-sided relationships, where one partner feasts while the other is left hungry for attention and appreciation. As we explore these dynamics, we'll highlight the turning point many women experience, often around their 40s, when they refuse to accept an unbalanced win-lose scenario any longer. Learn why empathy and open communication are crucial in avoiding long-term dissatisfaction and fostering equitable partnerships. This episode promises insights into improving relational dynamics, offering tools for open dialogue and mutual fulfillment. Whether you're navigating a new relationship or seeking to strengthen an existing one, our conversation offers valuable perspectives for anyone invested in creating a thriving, healthy partnership.…
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now The moment your wife says she wants to leave is the moment most men make their biggest mistake – they try to change her mind instead of changing themselves. In this powerful coaching session, I take you deep into the psychology of what's really motivating your wife's decision and what will ultimately cause her to stay. Your wife's behavior isn't random. She's responding to your behavior in predictable ways. When she tells you "you're too aggressive" or "I need more attention," she's handing you the blueprint to save your marriage, but most men are too busy defending themselves to see it. Through real conversations with men facing marital crisis, we uncover the fundamental truth that all communication serves just two purposes: to increase positive feelings or decrease negative ones. Understanding which category your wife's communication falls into gives you the power to respond effectively instead of reactively. The most transformative insight from this session might be recognizing that your insecurities function as "earplugs" that prevent you from hearing what your wife is really asking for. Men's fear of appearing incompetent drives defensive reactions that push partners away rather than drawing them closer. By challenging these insecurities and asking "what else could this mean?" when your wife expresses dissatisfaction, you open the door to genuine connection. This isn't about being "right" or "wrong" – it's about creating an environment where your wife feels safe, valued and understood. If you're ready to move beyond blame and into genuine transformation, this guidance will help you understand not just what's driving your wife away, but what will ultimately bring her back.…
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1 Transforming Relationships: Cody Butler's Journey from Struggle to Marital Success 43:11
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now Ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of failed relationships and wondered if there's a way out? In our latest episode, Cody Butler shares his riveting journey from personal struggle to marital success, offering a treasure trove of insights for anyone looking to improve their relationships. Cody opens up about his transformation through faith, education, and self-awareness, highlighting how these key elements helped him overcome immigration hurdles and financial woes, leading to a fulfilling marriage. His candid discussion about battling alcohol addiction and navigating family expectations is a testament to the power of responsibility and growth in achieving relational harmony. Tackling tough issues head-on, Cody delves into the detrimental impact of addiction on marriages and the crucial role of honesty and self-awareness in healing. Through powerful metaphors and personal anecdotes, he paints a vivid picture of how denial can obscure the severity of personal issues, and how shedding light on these can disrupt harmful patterns. Cody's wisdom shines through as he discusses the importance of embracing vulnerability, particularly during the COVID-19 pandemic, which has brought existing relationship challenges to the surface, necessitating direct communication and accountability. In a heartfelt exploration of marriage dynamics, Cody emphasizes the art of letting go, forgiveness, and sincere apologies as the bedrock for rebuilding connections. By prioritizing love over ego, couples can foster a future rich with mutual understanding, rather than being hampered by past grievances. Cody’s insights provide a compelling narrative for listeners seeking to enhance communication and intimacy within their relationships. As we wrap up, we express our gratitude to Cody for sharing his valuable experiences, encouraging our audience to explore his work further and reflect on the positive impact of embracing personal growth and responsibility in relationships.…
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1 Reviving Marriages: Cody Butler's Guide to Transformation and Growth 27:58
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now Unlock the secrets to reviving a struggling marriage with insights from Cody Butler, a seasoned relationship coach and founder of Better Marriage. Cody shares his structured approach to reignite hope in relationships teetering on the edge of divorce. Learn how unwavering faith and understanding the true meaning behind a spouse's words can reveal and address the core issues in a marriage. By focusing on effective communication and avoiding complacency, you can transform your relationship into a thriving partnership. Explore Cody's personal journey through addiction and its impact on his marriage, as he candidly opens up about the challenges he faced and overcame. Discover the transformative power of vulnerability and honesty as Cody recounts how confessing his struggles to his wife created a safe emotional space for healing. With a focus on emotional safety, mutual respect, and a shared vision, Cody emphasizes the importance of rebuilding a marriage through genuine change and support. Take a step towards personal growth and marital transformation with Cody's metaphor of fruit-bearing trees, illustrating how personal identity shapes relationships. Learn why addressing personal traumas and committing to a year-long program for self-improvement can lead to better relationships with your partner and family. This episode offers a compelling invitation to embark on a journey of self-acceptance and growth, promising to foster a happier and more fulfilling marriage.…
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What if everything you believed about your limitations was a lie? Cody Butler challenges the conventional wisdom of traditional education systems, which often curtail our belief in our own capabilities. Sharing his compelling journey from adversity to becoming a multi-millionaire, Cody underscores a bold truth: we are beings of limitless power, divinely crafted to achieve whatever we set our minds to. This episode is a powerful call to recognize and embrace your inherent potential, urging a break from societal constraints that have long held us back from true success in relationships, health, and happiness. Living lives of quiet desperation isn't a foregone conclusion, as Cody passionately argues using insights inspired by Henry Thoreau. With love and commitment, he pledges to continue providing valuable insights and support through engaging content. By interacting—liking, subscribing, sharing, and commenting—you help spread this crucial message to a broader audience. In a world that desperately needs this empowering information, Cody extends his heartfelt blessings, eagerly anticipating future connections with listeners ready to seize the opportunity to unlock their incredible potential.…
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1 Building Successful Marriages: Love, Leadership, and Emotional Safety with Cody Butler 46:42
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now Cody Butler, the brilliant mind behind Better Marriage and the Marriage Recovery Process, joins us to unveil the secrets of building successful marriages through leadership grounded in love. Discover how embodying happiness and positivity can transform relationships, challenging traditional perceptions of authority within faith-based communities. As Cody shares insights inspired by Ephesians 5, we delve into the art of being a high-value male—one who naturally inspires a partner to follow by becoming someone worth following. Our discussion takes an intimate turn as we explore the necessity of fostering emotional safety in marriage. We unravel the complexities of understanding a partner’s needs before seeking to be understood, emphasizing that true emotional intimacy cannot be achieved through superficial means. By inviting open dialogue and criticism, couples can strengthen their partnership, maintaining a focus on collaborative growth. This episode sheds light on the foundational yet often overlooked elements that underpin a thriving relationship, highlighting the profound impact of emotional safety and genuine connection. Facing the challenges of marital crises, Cody provides a roadmap for personal growth and rekindling love. He explains how recognizing early signs of disconnect can prevent partnerships from reaching breaking points. By focusing on self-improvement and the characteristics necessary to attract meaningful connections, listeners are encouraged to uphold their commitments with integrity and ambition. Whether navigating a crisis or working towards a deeper bond, this episode offers indispensable insights for cultivating fulfillment and mutual respect in marriage.…
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1 Transforming Fear into Courage: Unlocking the Life You Truly Desire 2:35
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now What if the key to a fulfilling life is simply knowing what you truly want? Join us as we unravel the mysteries of overcoming fear and resistance to change, drawing from insightful discussions on the physiological impact of negative emotions like shame and guilt. Our exploration begins with a crucial question: Do you know what life you genuinely desire? We tackle the common hindrance of undefined goals, emphasizing the importance of clarity in pursuing your dreams. As we navigate the complex realm of emotions, we touch on how fear triggers fight-or-flight responses, posing challenges in personal relationships, particularly marriages. Our conversation takes a transformative turn as we highlight the power of courage—fear with action added to it—encouraging you to flip fear into a stepping stone for growth. Discover how embracing courage attracts positive outcomes and paves the way for a life that aligns with your true desires. This episode offers practical insights for those feeling stuck or fearful, illustrating how action-oriented behavior can lead to significant life changes. Remember, courage is not about the absence of fear but about making the conscious decision to act despite it. Listen in and equip yourself with the tools to turn your fears into opportunities for a brighter, more fulfilling future.…
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now Have you ever felt paralyzed by the fear of not being ready to face a challenge? Imagine standing in front of a crowd, guitar in hand, and realizing that no amount of preparation could replace the experience of a live performance. This episode unpacks that transformative moment, sharing personal stories and hard-earned wisdom about the necessity of immersing yourself fully into life's greatest challenges. From the exhilarating world of performance art to the intricate process of reconciliation, we shed light on why real growth happens when you step into the arena, not from the sidelines. Join us as we deconstruct the myth of control and the power of letting go, using the metaphor of a sat-nav to navigate the unpredictable paths toward our goals. We challenge the preconceived notions of rigid planning, urging you to trust the process and embrace flexibility. Learn why trusting your journey, even when it seems off course, is crucial for personal and professional growth. Whether you're looking to rekindle a relationship or achieve a professional milestone, this episode offers actionable insights and inspires the courage to let your ego take a back seat.…
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now Could a simple muesli bar and a bottle of water be the key to genuine intimacy? This episode challenges the high stakes and grand expectations often associated with modern dating. We dig into why lighter, more thoughtful gestures often have a greater impact than lavish dinners or expensive gifts. Learn how to create a pressure-free environment that fosters real connection—one that feels authentic and heartfelt, rather than transactional. Join us as we share personal stories and humorous dating anecdotes to emphasize why true affection isn't bound by material wealth. Discover how prioritizing genuine attention over financial displays can lead to more fulfilling relationships. We unpack the misconception that financial stability is a top concern for everyone, offering insights that could transform your approach to dating. Tune in and find out why making someone feel special with simple, thoughtful actions can often outweigh the most extravagant gestures.…
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1 Unlocking Relationship Potential: Cody Butler on Transformative Marriage Recovery 56:39
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now Ready to transform your marriage and discover the secrets to a happier, more fulfilling relationship? Join us as Cody Butler, founder of Better Marriage and creator of the Marriage Recovery Program, shares his journey from business success to personal relationship challenges and how he developed groundbreaking strategies to save marriages without traditional therapy. Cody's firsthand experiences and expert insights provide a fresh perspective on restoring intimacy, communication, and love in as little as four weeks. Explore the pivotal concept of the "get real stage" in marriage recovery, where addressing root issues is essential for lasting change. Cody explains how unresolved problems can escalate conflicts, using real-life examples to illustrate the importance of identifying foundational causes rather than merely treating symptoms. Discover how recognizing and understanding these core issues can lead to breakthroughs in conflict resolution, creating a more harmonious and loving relationship. Cody dives into the profound impact of rewiring internal beliefs, introducing his Marriage Recovery Removal Process to help individuals confront and reprogram limiting beliefs. Learn practical strategies for breaking negative cycles and fostering a positive mindset to enhance intimacy and connection. With invaluable advice on personal growth, accountability, and creating emotional safety, Cody's principles offer actionable steps to unlock your relationship potential and achieve lasting marital success.…
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🔥 Struggling to reconnect with your wife? Join our FREE Win Your Wife Back workshop and learn proven strategies to reignite love and trust! 💑✨ >> Click Here To Watch In Now What if the secret to a fulfilling relationship was simply to have more fun together? In our latest episode, we explore the essential elements that shift relationships from emotionally taxing to lighthearted and joyous. We discuss the impact of unconditional positive regard, the importance of de-escalation and validation, and cultivating an attitude of gratitude. Discover how these principles can help you foster a more appreciative and enjoyable partnership, steering clear of the pitfalls of constant invalidation and conflict. Letting go of preconceived notions about your soulmate can open doors to unexpected and beautiful outcomes. Just as a GPS recalculates its route, staying flexible and open-hearted can lead to deeper connections and reconciliation with your partner. This episode is packed with insights and practical tips to help you embrace the unpredictability of love and maintain a supportive, carefree relationship. Tune in and learn how to navigate the journey of love with an open mind and a playful spirit.…
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