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Give people what they ask for, not what you think they need - 24.07.10
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Give people what they ask for, not what you think they need - 24.07.10
We may feel like jumping in and giving advice because we feel that we know the solution to people's problems. But what works wonders for people is simply being listened to, being heard, and knowing that the person is there for us no matter what. Listen reflectively, mirror back to them what they are saying. Even if they are angry, instead of reacting to it, just say, so what I'm understanding is that you're upset with me because I ask for too much of your time and attention. And leave it at that. So they feel understood in their frustration. Be present - simply being there for someone can be much more powerful than giving advice.
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