30: Burning Bridges With Yourself These Are The Valleys podcast

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This weekend, we observe the death and resurrection of Jesus. Let's take some time to really think about what the experience must have been like for the disciples. Also, I'm taking a break! Pray for me please!

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56: Why NOT you? 17:28

2 years ago17:28

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Fully grasping that God has called us each to do and be someone in this Earth means wrestling with the question of " why me ". Here's an encouraging correction: Why NOT You? Let's dive in.

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55: Get Moving! 7:04

2 years ago7:04

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This episode is for all of us who have been scared, inactive, and lazy with our faith. No more asking for 1 million confirmations. No more waiting around and doing nothing. No more second guessing. God says MOVE.

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54: Lessons from a year of obedience | TRTV is 1 year old! 15:46

2 years ago15:46

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IT'S OUR ANNIVERSARY! Happy Birthday TRTV & Valley Village! Takeaways: 1. Obedience is scary but worth it. 2. Stewardship is really about partnership. 3. Discipline and consistency are not all on you; God can and DOES show up! 4. Seeds have to grow down before they can grow up.

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53: Your Calling WILL Cost You 19:37

2 years ago19:37

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"I want to find my purpose." "I want to be called." What does that really entail? What do we have to sacrifice? Takeaways: 1. Everyone wants to be called; no one wants to be obedient. 2. You can't have purpose without sacrifice. 3. The version you are before the calling must die before or during the achievement of your calling. 4. You've got to grow before you go.…

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52: Should you fast for Lent? 12:06

2 years ago12:06

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Religion is all about ritual; God is all about relationship. What is important about Lent? How do we fast effectively, if at all? What should we fast from? Let's jump in. Takeaways: 1. Fasting should be meaningful and intentional. 2. We should fast from what takes our time from God. 3. What we fast from should be a sacrifice. 4. You don't have to fast from everything. 5. Fasting without prayer and your Word is a diet, not a fast.…

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51: Believe God the First Time 15:45

2 years ago15:45

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When God asks things of us or makes promises, it can be hard to keep the faith that He meant what He said. I'm living testimony that if He said it, He means it. Let's dive in! Takeaways: 1. Sometimes God doesn't give you "confirmation" because He trusts you to obey anyway. 2. He is a God of action. He will back up what He says. 3. God can provide more than just the bare necessities. He already knows what you need and desire. 4. When He calls you to it, He'll bring you through it.…

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50: Lean on Me 13:53

2 years ago13:53

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Running to friends, family, or significant others for the comfort, rest, and peace that only God can provide will always leave us feeling empty, resentful, and alone. Let's dig into that. Takeaways: 1. We are not called to feel empty, resentful and alone. 2. Matthew 11:28-30 shows us to lean on God for rest and to consider that His burden is light. 3. The name of the Lord is our strong tower. Proverbs 18:10 4. If it doesn't point us back to God, it should no longer be a source of support.…

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49: How to Remember What God Said 12:37

2 years ago12:37

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Have you ever second guessed something God told you? All too often we can struggle with holding on to God's directions but I've got a tool that can help: a prayer journal! Takeaways: Prayer journals: 1. serve as a tracker of both personal and spiritual growth 2. encourage consistent communion with God 3. help you fight the lies of the enemy 4. track your testimonies Get your prayer journal here!…

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48: God still trusts you 13:57

2 years ago13:57

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When we mess up, we can begin to question if God still forgives us, loves us, and even trusts us. I've got good news, friends! HE DOES. Takeaways: * Numbers 22:20-35 * 1. God corrects those whom He loves. 2. A pause is not a cancellation. 3. God still trusts you! YOU CAN BE CORRECTED AND CALLED AT THE SAME TIME!…

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47: Why I Quit My Daniel's Fast 12:43

2 years ago12:43

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This month, I found myself swept up in the "traditions" of Christianity while leaving my heart behind. It's been my discovery that this practice is not pleasing to God so, I let it go. Let's discuss! Takeaways: 1. God is not pleased with routine. (Isaiah 58) 2. If your heart is not in it, it means nothing. (2 Corinthians 9:7) 3. Give god what He desires most: your heart. 4. Repent, be honest, and ask how you can move forward!…

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46: Stop Blending In 21:19

2 years ago21:19

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From the outside looking in, can others tell you're a Christian? We have to stop making conscious decisions to blend in and "relate" to the world. We are SET APART. It's high time we start acting like it. Takeaways: 1. We cannot serve two masters. 2. Standing in God's truth does and will pay off. 3. Scoffers/Haters are to be expected. 4. There is beauty and wisdom in purity & consecration.…

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45: The Value of TRUE Vision 16:53

2 years ago16:53

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In light of 2023's vision board parties and vicious goal setting, we can find ourselves in a frenzy of selfish ambition and forced futures. It should not be so. As Christians, we are called to submit ourselves to Christ and in following His direction, find purpose and fulfillment. Let's dive in. Takeaways: 1. Vision is God given. 2. A true mark of servanthood is submission. 3. It's okay to live day-by-day. 4. Focus on your current mission & trust you'll get your next one when it's time. 5. Selfish ambition is sin and rooted in anxiety and pride. Key Scriptures: James 3:14-16 James 4:13-16 Happy New Year, Valley Village!…

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44: Reflecting on 2022 27:01

2 years ago27:01

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As the end of 2022 approaches, we often become nostalgic and want to reflect on the closing chapter of the year. Let's. Takeaways: 1. To reflect on your spiritual journey this year, think back on the storms, leaps of faiths, and challenges you've faced. 2. Reframe how you think about "unanswered" prayers in one of two ways: (1) you may have been asking for something on your time and not God's. or (2) He DID answer your prayer and you just (a) don't like what He said or (b) had different expectations of how He should've answered it. 3. When you set goals and plans, check in with God and submit them to Him! HAPPY NEW YEAR!…

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43: How to be Successful 20:28

2 years ago20:28

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In the last two weeks of 2022, we often reflect on our successes and failures of the year and make plans for the future. Have you ever considered reevaluating your metrics of success and bringing them into alignment with what God is pleased by? Let's discuss. TakeAways: 1. Success can be defined as the accomplishment of God's will. 2. A successful Christian may not look successful to the world. 3. The goal is to store up Heavenly treasures, not just Earthly ones. 4. Poverty and prosperity gospels do not accurately describe God's plan for us. 5. Small obedience leads to purpose. The fulfillment of purpose is success.…

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42: Steward Your Seed 16:04

2 years ago16:04

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When God gives you a seed--be it an idea, business or gift, He is entrusting you to plant and take care of it. With this in mind, have you been doing the best you can? TakeAways: 1. The Parable of the Weeds (Matthew 13) teaches us to plant and watch for the enemy until harvest time. 2. Procrastination, laziness, and inactivity are robbing you of your anointing and harvest (i.e. King Saul in 1 Samuel) 3. Don't underestimate the necessity and impact of your seed. People need you! (i.e. Abraham)…

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41: How to Forgive God 18:45

2 years ago18:45

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Have you ever explored the thought that you may need to forgive God? Unforgiveness in our relationship with Him can harden our heart and weaken our faith. Takeaways : 1. Realize your hurts, disappointments and perception of "unanswered" prayers are in your way. 2. Demystify your relationship with God. In the same way that you need communication, healing and forgiveness in a regular relationship, you also need these things with God. 3. Remind yourself of His character and His promises. Go to Him about this and to His word. 4. Create space for faith. Dare to dream again. Start planning out your vision again. Regain a faithful heart.…

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40: Struggling with Lust 18:55

2 years ago18:55

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We've all had our fair share of problems with lust whether it be porn, fornication, fantasizing, or the like. Let's talk about how we can get help from God and for ourselves. Takeaways: 1. Let go of your shame. Romans 8:1 2. Invite God into your struggles and be open to His correction. 1 Corinthians 3:16 3. Get ahead of your triggers and set yourself up for success. 4. Prioritize community and accountability partners to help you stay the course. 2 Timothy 2:22…

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39: Trusting God's Timing 18:12

2 years ago18:12

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Trusting God's timing is SO HARD sometimes. Let's talk about why we wait and how we can be a little more patient. Takeaways: 1. Having less is not a punishment but an invitation. 2. Comparison is not worth the cost of being in God's will. 3. Let go of your timeline. It does not serve you. 4. Rushing the process can cost you longevity. {King Saul 1 Samuel 13}…

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38: The Importance of Gratitude 12:42

2 years ago12:42

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We often get so wrapped up in ourselves that we forget to thank God for everything we have and how far we've come. Let's discuss. Takeaways : - Today was a prayer of yesterday. - Acknowledge how far God has brought you and where you are now. - God's promises are not only material but transformative. Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesearethevalleys…

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37: In God We Trust 13:14

2 years ago13:14

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Having trouble trusting God, or even yourself? Tap in. This one's for you! Takeaways: 1. Trust in God's character is developed through reading the Bible. 2. Because you know His character, you can trust His promises and plans. 3. Because you believe in His plans and promises, you can trust His methods and design. 4. When you understand that God trusts you, you can begin to trust yourself.…

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36: The Problem with Purpose 13:20

2 years ago13:20

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We can find ourselves obsessing over "purpose" while missing the whole point. God is not here to serve us but, for us to serve Him! Let's get into it.

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35: You're the 1 God leaves the 99 for 19:23

3 years ago19:23

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Newsflash: God never leaves. If you feel distant or disconnected, it's okay but, it's also all on your end. Let's discuss how God is a father who will find you when you're lost. Key Takeaways: 1. God meets us where we are. 2. Start to look for Him everywhere because He's always there. 3. Allow the small whispers from Him to soften your heart. 4. When you're finally on the other side, look for the message in the mess.…

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34: When Christianity feels like a chore 11:20

3 years ago11:20

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Sometimes growing your relationship with God can be draining. Even maintaining the blessings you prayed for starts getting hard. What do we do? Honestly, I'm not sure but, I can certainly relate. Let's discuss.

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33: How to Refocus on God 16:10

3 years ago16:10

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Life often distracts us from our relationship with God. It's our job to (1) notice we're drifting, (2) identify the cause of the drift, and (3) return to/refocus on God.

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32: It's my birthday! 12:20

3 years ago12:20

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Jasmine turns 24 today! She looks back on her last year and shares what she's learned and how she's grown.

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31: How Dare You 19:34

3 years ago19:34

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It can be so easy to let the enemy get in our heads and sow seeds of ungratefulness, doubt and forgetfulness. We gotta put respect on God's name and take a hard look at ourselves and ask, "How dare you". TakeAways: 1. Stop letting the enemy knock you around. FIGHT BACK with your WORD. 2. Whatever you say or believe about yourselves reflects on what you believe about God. 3. Stop having amnesia about WHO God is and what He's ALREADY DONE in your life.…

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30: Burning Bridges with Yourself 10:22

3 years ago10:22

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On this walk, we have to get comfortable detaching from our former selves in identity, habits, and language. Let's talk about what burning bridges with yourself looks like. Takeaways: 1. Don't entertain your flesh in areas in which you struggle. 2. Stop identifying yourself in your present by your actions and characteristics of the past.…

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29: How to Be Content 22:37

3 years ago22:37

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Contentment can seem fleeting or like a "perfect life" scenario characteristic. Jasmine reminds us that it's attainable and practical for believers. Key Takeaways: Double check that where you are is where you truly believe God wants you. Your #1 priority should be pleasing God. Shifting your metrics of success to align with God's is key. You don't have to be "happy" to be content. If you fail to stay in your own lane, you will never be content and vice versa.…

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28: How to plan AND have faith 16:49

3 years ago16:49