Listen in to this monthly podcast from Conscious Discipline. Conscious Discipline experts Latoria Marcellus and Amy Speidel connect with educators, parents and community leaders in diverse conversations that delve into the challenges and triumphs of social-emotional education in today’s world.
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Connect Method Parenting I Conscious Parenting, Positive Parenting, Gentle Parenting, Connective Parenting, Peaceful Parenting, Slow Parenting, Parenting Teens, Single Parenting, Joyful Parenting, Positive ...
Andee Martineau - Podcaster, Best-Selling Author, Parenting Coach
Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged). Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
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Ep #70 A Walking Practice: How Strolling Can Change Your Parenting
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One of the most simple yet powerful things I've done for myself and my parenting is walking. I encourage everyone I know, including you, to start one. Today I'm sharing a few different kinds of walks I do and how to get the most out of a walking practice. Next Steps: --> Sign Up For my FREE Parenting Course: https://cmp.works/fpc --> Watch the STOP…
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Ep #69 Take On Me: From Mad to Sad - Why You Want To Let The Emotional Waste OUT!
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Do I let them cry? Do I tell them to stop? When is enough enough? How can I be supportive but not indulgent? Glad you asked because today we're gonna talk about how to parent when things are a bit emotionally turbulent with your kids. We're exploring the importance of holding space for your kids to experience their feelings, whether they are toddle…
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Ep #68 How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex
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Today we're diving into the oh-so-important topic of sexuality. We'll help you sort out your own ideas, understand sexual integrity, and tackle those tricky conversations with your kids. We'll also explore the delicate dance of modesty, finding the sweet spot between repression and healthy sexual decision-making. Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife shares …
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Ep #67 The Parent Trap: Breaking Free From Corrective Indulgences
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The relationship is where parenting is at! NOT discipline. That's why today I'm... Teaching you how to do "connection reps," simple two-minute exercises that help you stay grounded and connected with yourself and your children. Diving into your most common thoughts when your kids have cray cray behavior. So you can release and replace them with som…
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Ep #66 Parenting in the Green: How to Get Out of Overwhelm and Into Confidence
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Juggling work, kids, and everything in between, feeling overwhelmed and unsure you're doing anything right. Managing all the parenting advice left you second-guessing and overwhelmed? Sound familiar? If you’re nodding your head, this episode is for you! Join us for a live workshop replay where Andee guides you through exercises designed to build co…
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Ep #65 Diminishing Returns: When The Kids Fight
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From managing high emotions to practical tips for reducing conflict in various scenarios like the car, dinner time, and during the witching hour, this episode is packed with actionable advice. Plus, we’ll talk about the importance of routines, structure, and even scripting to help kids navigate their emotions and interactions better. Remember, the …
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As I walked out of the room, I firmly reminded them I didn't want to see them until morning. Five minutes later, they'd come out. I was a hot mess, frustrated and not liking who I was being with my kids. How did I turn it around? Tune in to find out. Next Steps: --> Sign Up For my FREE Parenting Course: https://cmp.works/fpc…
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Ep #63 Something Ventured, Something Gained: When Upsetting Events Take Over
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In today's episode, Andee's answering a question from a listener who wrote in asking about the right time to address off-track behavior or big emotions, and whether it's effective to teach during meltdowns. We explore this topic by breaking down the importance of timing, emotional readiness, and the developmental stages of children. Key insights in…
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Cooperation isn't something you can demand. It's how you feel, not what you say, that increases the likelihood of your child WANTING to listen to you. It's the emotion behind the words, not the words themselves, that makes you come across as either pushy or patient. Next Steps: --> Sign Up For my FREE Parenting Course: https://cmp.works/fpc --> Wat…
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Why do our kids have tantrums? What is a tantrum really? How do we help our kids when they're tantruming? That's what we're getting into today. Because raising humans and tantrums seem to go hand in hand. So let's understand the outburst a bit more so we can help them navigate the storm. Next Steps: --> Sign Up For my FREE Parenting Course: https:/…
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"We don't stop playing because we grow old. We grow old because we stop playing." Hey there! Parenting often feels like a serious business with all the discipline, rules, and responsibilities. But does it really have to be that way? Do we really need to rely on those serious tools? What if I told you that play—yes, good old-fashioned fun—can be mor…
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Ep #59 Something is Already Working: Being Good Enough
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Do you ever find yourself longing for that perfect day when everything is just right? Many of us fixate on the idea that problems are forever, believing that a perfect day will come when all is well. However, it seems like that perfect day rarely if ever comes. Let's talk about how to live in a powerful way where we feel Good Enough! Next Steps: --…
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Parenting can be challenging, especially when your child is experiencing big emotions. Struggling to provide the support they need during these intense moments? Today, we’re diving into the concept of "Stay." Learn how offering unwavering support, kindness, and compassion helps your child navigate their emotions. Discover practical steps to create …
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Get ready for a real-life coaching session with one of my amazing clients as we navigate the tricky world of setting limits and dealing with consequences. We tackle bedtime battles, sticker charts, and finding that sweet spot between firm yet compassionate boundaries that actually work. This episode is packed with practical advice and insights into…
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Parenting can often feel like balancing between maintaining authority and nurturing a loving relationship. Today, we're diving into Chapter 12 of the Connect Method Parenting book, focusing on "setting limits" with compassion and empathy. I kick things off with a powerful reminder: "It's not what you say, but who you are in that moment that matters…
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Ep #55 "It's different now." -League Member, Amelia's Real Life CMP Experience
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You are in for a treat today! No matter where you are on your parenting journey, you’re gonna find value, and some real nuggets of wisdom in this special episode. Today, I'm joined by one of my amazing clients, Amelia, who completed the February Parenting Pivot (where parents learn the entire CMP Framework in 8 weeks). During this episode, we dive …
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I remember my toddlers trying to put on their shoes backward over and over again. They wanted me to watch but NOT help them. Today I started thinking about those crazy years when I had six kids eight and under, and a thought popped into my mind, "Your kids are figuring out the world one backward shoe at a time, and they need you to be there, really…
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Ep #53 Three Vital Parenting Decisions Pt 3
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Happy Wednesday! Today, we conclude the 3 Vital Parenting Decisions Series. If you haven’t listened to the episodes from Monday and Tuesday, check those out first because they lay the groundwork for today’s discussion. Today's Focus: Practicing extreme self-compassion. It’s essential. My coach emphasized the importance of being gentle and loving to…
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Ep #52 Three Vital Parenting Decisions Pt 2
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Welcome back to day two of the Connect Method Parenting workshop - 3 Vital Decisions! If you listened yesterday, you’ll remember we introduced the concept of stopping the negative energizing of off-track behavior. Today, we build on that foundation with the second decision: committing to using connection as your primary parenting tool. Stop Negativ…
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Ep #51 Three Vital Parenting Decisions Pt 1
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Hey Friend! Welcome to the replay of a live workshop called 3 Vital Decisions. Over the next three days, (yep we're replaying them all this week) we'll explore three vital decisions you'll have to make if you want to transition from corrective to connective parenting. AND I'll give you an actionable challenge to go do with your kids today. Because …
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Throughout this book, we've been chatting about a Connect Method Parenting way of interacting with your kids. I've broken down the CMP philosophy page by page. Now it's time to break down the process. How you do Connect Method Parenting in real life. The tool I'm about to teach you is called Seen and Heard. Think of it like a sandwich. Next Steps: …
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Ever wondered why, despite your best intentions, you sometimes fail to take action toward your parenting goals? In today's episode, we're exploring the perplexing gap between our aspirations and actions. I'm sharing personal stories and practical strategies to help you stay calm, confident, and connected with your children. Learn how to harness the…
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Behavior is your child’s way of communicating with you. You’ve come up with stories about their messy room, refusal to do homework, and skipping out on family dishes. But your stories are wrong. What?! In this episode, we're diving into Chapter 9 of my book Behavior Is Information! Next Steps: --> Sign Up For my FREE Parenting Course: https://cmp.w…
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When we fear and resist negative emotions, we suffer. And when we have compassion for it and allow it, we grow and thrive. Welcome to the Connect Method Parenting podcast, where correction is out, connection is in, and your kids want to listen to you. In this episode, we're diving into an insightful coaching call replay from a year ago. Join me as …
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🎧 Dive into Chapter Eight: "Emotions are the Fuel," where I spill the tea on harnessing your emotions to supercharge your parenting game. 🌈 Ever feel like you’re drowning in frustration? I’ve got you covered. Learn to switch from "I am frustrated" to "I have frustration," and watch your relationship with yourself and your kids transform. 🗣️💭 And th…
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Do you find yourself tangled up in trying to control your kids? Wishing they would listen more, complain less, and for goodness sake go to bed on time?! But no matter what you try it feels like a losing battle?! You're not alone, and there’s a better way! In this episode, we’re diving into the art of focusing on what you can actually control as par…
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There are five ingredients you'll need to create the life you want. Situations Thoughts Feelings Actions Results Your job is to understand how each of these works. Then, put them together intentionally. Don’t complicate it. What thoughts are you thinking? What emotions are you feeling? What actions are you taking or not taking? That is why you have…
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Ep #43 The Compassionate Script: Finding Harmony With Scripture and Connect Method Parenting with Natalie
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Prepare for a soul-stirring episode of Connect Method Parenting. 🤯 Today, we delve into a topic that resonates at the core of many belief systems: the concept of anger and judgment as portrayed in the scriptures, and how it aligns with the principles of Connect Method Parenting. 📖✨ Joining us is the insightful Natalie Hunsaker, a mom of four, a tal…
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We're back with the next chapter in our 15-part CMP Book Club series, and today it's all about Chapter Six: "STEAR Your Own Boat." 📖 Get ready for a laugh with my "Baby Powder Blizzard" story – it's a whirlwind of chaos turned into a moment of clarity. 🌨️ I'll show you how to pause, take a breath, and choose responses that reflect the parent you st…
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Ep #41 The Screen Struggle: Cultivating Presence in a Digitally Distracted World
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Are you caught in the digital web of constant scrolling and screen time? 📱 In today's episode of Connect Method Parenting, we're diving deep into the heart of our relationship with technology and its impact on family dynamics. We're joined by Joey, a passionate advocate for helping families reclaim their time from the digital grasp and foster meani…
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Connect Method Parenting is the art of subtraction and addition in your parenting journey. 🌱 By subtracting control, correction, comparison, and the need to fix, we make room for what truly matters: unconditional love, acceptance, trust, and the freedom to experience all emotions. 🤗❤️ This is not about spoiling our children, but about filling them …
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Ep #39 Unlocking Unconditional Love: Embracing Lovability and Navigating Tough Conversations in Parenting
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It's no secret that CMP believes: Everyone is 100% loveable. ❤️ Accepting 🙌 without condoning is totally a thing. Love is not just an emotion but a 🛠️ skill that benefits both the giver and the receiver. Difficult conversations 📣 are inevitable and a rewarding process. Loving without conditions is the 💡 way to go. In today's 🎙️ episode, we're chatt…
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Ever caught yourself expecting perfection from your kids, only to realize you're holding them to a standard you can't even meet? In this episode of the CMP Book Club, we delve into the heart of empathetic parenting with a powerful reminder: our children mirror our behaviors, and kindness starts with us. Next Steps: --> Sign Up For my FREE Parenting…
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Ep #37 "I feel confident in my ability to handle whatever comes up." - League Member, Tori's Journey with CMP
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Do you feel overwhelmed by the emotional highs and lows of parenting? That used to be my story. That's why when Tori started sharing the emotional breakthroughs she was having because of CMP I knew I had to have her on the podcast! Learning how to process, feel, and regulate our emotions is critical if we want to show up as the connected parent we …
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Hey there, welcome back to the CMP Book Club! Today, we're diving into Chapter 3: "Nothing Has Gone Wrong Here." I'm excited to tackle a common myth about parenting - the idea that good parenting is all about having perfectly behaved kids. Let's unpack why your child's meltdowns are actually important milestones, not a measure of your parenting ski…
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Ep #35 “Connect Method Parenting has made what felt impossible, possible.” - League Member, Michelle's Experience in the Parenting Pivot
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Drop the green juice, call a friend, and tune in for a game-changing episode! Michelle, fresh from the 8-Week Parenting Pivot, spills the tea on her parenting transformation. Swapping discipline for connection, she witnessed incredible shifts in her family dynamics. Michelle's story isn't just inspiring—it's a total game-changer in the parenting pl…
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The "baby powder blizzard of 2007," was a pivotal moment that changed the trajectory of my parenting. I decided to abandon traditional disciplinary methods and began challenging the notion that discipline is the essence of parenting. Drawing from developmental psychology and attachment theory, I eventually discovered the five steps to transition fr…
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Ep #33 "CMP has helped me create changes I never thought were possible!" - League Member, Emilee's CMP Story
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In today's episode, we're peeling back the curtain on one family's transformative journey with Connect Method Parenting (CMP). Emily, a dedicated mom of four adopted children, opens up about her path to connection, revealing the real, raw, and unfiltered experiences that have reshaped her parenting approach. As a teacher turned full-time mom, Emily…
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Ever felt like you were thrown into the deep end of parenting without so much as a “how-to” YouTube video? Today on the Pod, we're tossing out the old parenting playbook of timeouts and gold stars and diving into something truly revolutionary – Connect Method Parenting. Parenting can feel like getting ready to set sail only to realize your GPS is s…
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Ep #31: “CMP is the only thing that actually worked.” - League Member, Mary’s Journey to Parenting Success
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🔥 “CMP is the only thing that has actually worked, and I’ve tried everything. I had read over 40 parenting books when I found Connect Method Parenting.” -Mary Today, we’re sliding into your earbuds with a story that will make you rethink everything you thought was set in stone about wrangling your kiddos. Enter Mary. Six kids deep, including two se…
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Ep #30 Crafting Your Parenting Future with Compassion and Firmness: Unpacking Parent-Child Dynamics for Growth and Understanding
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Let's dig into the liberating truth that we can craft the future with our children, free from the chains of bygone days. This episode is not just about listening—it's about action. Andee unveils the three core strategies of Connect Method Parenting that guarantee results when applied consistently. She delves into the importance of safety, unconditi…
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Ep #29 The Off-Track Behavior Recovery Recipe: Conscious Parenting Strategies for Positive Discipline and Effective Communication
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Today, we're diving deep into a tricky topic: off-track behavior. But don't worry, we're not talking about rules and punishments. Nope, we’re talking about how to handle these off-track moments with style and understanding! Andee shows us how to turn those "What on earth?!" moments into chances for connection, growth, and better listening. Get read…
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Ep #28 The Dream Relationship Strategy: How to consciously create amazing relationships of trust and with your children
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Do you ever feel like there aren't enough minutes in the day to connect with your kids? Or lament that you're not making the most of the time you DO have with your kids? What if your focus on how you're unable to create the relationships you want with your kids is the very thing getting in the way of creating the dreamy relationships you so despera…
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Ep #27 Parenting Sovereignty: Strategies for Positive Parenting
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One of the great paradoxes of parenting is learning how to be both firm and compassionate. Andee calls it the middle way of parenting. Seems kind of impossible but once you’re there it feels like coming home. Parenting Sovereignty opens up the possibility of showing up emotionally neutral regardless of how off-track their behavior is. Tapping into …
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Ep #26 When They Won't Do Their Chores - Live Coaching Part 2
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Today’s episode is part two of a LIVE coaching series. In Episode 25, you were able to listen to a CMP coaching call I had with my amazing client, Jessica. A few months after that coaching session, we jumped on a call to document her incredible wins and progress. Now you get to be a fly on the wall and witness the process of implementing CMP in act…
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Ep #25 When They Won't Do Their Chores - Live Coaching Part 1
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Do you ever feel like no matter what you try the kids won't do their chores? Or lament that if you were a better mom then they'd happily keep their room clean? What if your fixation on getting the kids to do their chores is the wrong fixation to have?! I'm fairly certain it is! If you can relate, I invite you to pull up a seat and listen in on this…
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Ep #24 Three Parenting Mishaps: Shoulding, Needing, Doubting
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Hey friends! TGIW and time for a new episode! Leave the to-do list for later, because nothing packs a connective punch like dropping these three parenting mishaps that often fly under the radar. Once you see them you can't unsee them, and once you see them you're gonna want to stop doing them ASAP. Homework: At the top of a blank sheet of paper wri…
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Feel like your old self is tripping you up? Trust me, you're not the only one tangled up in doubt, confusion, and regretful thoughts from the past. Recently, a client asked Andee how she could have more self-confidence and let go of thoughts like 'I'm not enough for my kids' and 'I can't figure this out.' Both left her feeling uncertain, deficient,…
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Ep #22 The Art of Being Gentle With Yourself
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One of the great ironies is that while we deeply desire transformation in our parenting (better relationships, more cooperation and patience) we think the way to do it is to be hard on ourselves. In this episode, we debunk the myth that a failure to change is a failure of motivation and willpower. Turns out you don't have a week will, you just have…
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Ep #21 The Life Affirming Power of the Nervous System
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Put down the green juice and call your friend. Nothing packs a wellness punch like improving your ability to regulate your nervous system. In today's episode of Connect Method Parenting we're digging into why regulating your nervous system will up level your parenting in surprising and connecting ways. You're getting a sneak peak of a class I taugh…
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