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043 - What To Do If They Aren't Exactly Available?
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Tori finally met the one she was calling in.
He shared her profession, he was emotionally mature, he wanted a globe-trotting life, he was super cosmic, she was catching feels …
Except that ...
He was focusing on building up his business. Like, super focused on that. He wasn't able to meet her where she was at, he said.
OMG.
Maybe you've had this experience, meeting someone GREAT but,
They're not exactly available.
It's not as on-the-nose as “they have a partner”.
It's a little more tricky, how it shows up.
They might be single, but aren't ready for a relationship ...
Or not emotionally available, or no space for love
Or they might be absolutely perfect, but living somewhere else.
The temptation is to start convincing yourself ... and them ! ... that this is perfect, these feelings can't be ignored, maybe even trying to coach them through any blocks.
While it can work out, sure, this is a pretty risky approach.
It can mean that you lower your standards, delay your timeline ...
... all the while, entrenching a relational dynamic that may later lead to resentment.
If you're in this situation, you may wish to ask yourself:
Are you available?
Listen in today's episode to go a little deeper on that question.
And if you are available, then tune into today's episode for a simple framework to figure out what to do if you are available and they aren't, exactly.
You deserve it all.
Abundance baby,
x Ezzie
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