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That Sex Chick

Alexa Bowditch

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Have you ever wondered if there’s more to sex than what you’ve been taught? Well, Alexa Bowditch is here to show you what the more is… How sex can be edgy, playful and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams. As a sex coach, business mentor, and intuitive guide, Alexa will take you on a journey of pleasure discovery to show you how to create your best sex life and cultivate your desires, leaving you turned on and inspired AF. So, let’s talk sex, shall we?
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In this episode, Alexa shares her journey seven weeks postpartum, navigating the grief and loss of her baby boy. She discusses how she and her husband are dealing with the intertwining emotions of pain, love, and longing in the wake of this tragic loss. Alexa also outlines the changes in her life and business to prioritize her healing after this tr…
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In this heart-wrenching conclusion of the 3-part series, Alexa and Jordan share their emotional journey through preterm labor and losing their son, Gabriel Vincent. They take us inside the hospital, where they faced difficult decisions and grappled with overwhelming emotions. The episode captures the bittersweet moment they held their baby and the …
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In this heart-rending continuation of a three-part series detailing Alexa and Jordan's journey with their son, Gabriel Vincent, the narrative deepens further. The couple recounts their challenging moments, starting with the confirmation of Gabriel's Down syndrome diagnosis, a revelation that brought with it a complex mix of emotions. As they naviga…
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This is part one of a deeply personal three-part series about Alexa and Jordan's son, Gabriel Vincent. The couple shares their recent pregnancy journey, marked by challenges, including the loss of Jordan's pitbull, Biggie, during a month-long trip to Mexico where they hosted a retreat. They delve into their coping mechanisms during this time of gri…
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In today's episode, Alexa engages in an open-hearted conversation with Kelli Moore, delving into the unfiltered realities of pregnancy and the profound identity shifts accompanying motherhood. From the complexities of different pregnancy paths to the emotional aftermath of a miscarriage, they explore the empowering journey of redefining life as a m…
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Lauren is a registered nurse, ecstatic birth practitioner, and sex and love coach. In this episode, she joins Alexa in exploring the world of ecstatic birth and the sacred intertwining of sexuality, childbirth, and somatic embodiment. Discover the diverse birthing options, the foundation of pleasure in birth, and the enchanting dynamics behind achi…
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In this episode, Alexa delves deep into the world of emotional and sexual connection alongside guests Glenn and Phyllis Hill. They shed light on couples' struggles in attaining deep sexual bonds and explore the distinction between mere sexual activity and genuine emotional connection, emphasizing open communication and emotional attunement. Dive in…
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Dive deep into the world of sensory exploration in today's episode, as Arielle Greenberg, a distinguished expert in kink and ethical non-monogamy, joins Alexa. Together, they unravel the captivating intricacies of fetishistic sexuality, delving into paraphilias and the origins of kink. Arielle shares her personal journey of discovering her edgy des…
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In this emotional episode, Alexa pours her heart out while reflecting on her pregnancy journey. From discovering the gender of her baby through a psychedelic experience to embracing the idea of motherhood after dealing with past wounds and traumas, Alexa shares her path of preparing for pregnancy, spiritually and emotionally. With courage and raw h…
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In this riveting episode of That Sex Chick, Alexa welcomes Jennifer Kaylo to the show. Jennifer, a dynamic businesswoman who's generated multi-million dollar revenues and an insightful sex and relationship coach, takes us through her enlightening journey. She shares her experiences navigating through several marriages, undergoing the empowering pro…
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Join Alexa in a multifaceted and authentic conversation with Candice Horbacz. Candice shares insights on working with consent and redefining value for adult content creators while also providing valuable tips on preventing content bans and diversifying online platforms. They also discuss the importance of having open and responsible sexual conversa…
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In this episode, Alexa dives into her transformative fertility journey alongside the remarkable Dr. Jacque Moser, a functional medicine doctor with a holistic approach. Together, they explore the intricate dynamics of the fertility triad, delving into the impact of mold on our health and the various tests Alexa underwent in her quest to conceive. T…
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Today, Alexa and Jordan explore the dynamics of conflict and common challenges that couples face in relationships. Drawing from personal experiences, they emphasize the importance of genuine listening, creating safe spaces for expression, and prioritizing connection and harmony over winning individual arguments. Get the inside scoop on how Alexa an…
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In this indulging episode, Alexa is joined by sex and relationship expert Dr. Tara. They dive deep into the multifaceted aspects of sexuality and self-discovery, uncovering the keys to experiencing lasting pleasure and satisfaction. Dr. Tara emphasizes the vital role of understanding one's body and fostering effective sexual communication within re…
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Master Tantric Counselor, Shawn Roop, joins Alexa in an enlightening episode to explore the transformative power of tantra. With deep expertise in Eastern approaches, Shawn guides listeners into the vast world of tantra with grace and ease. Unraveling the essence of tantra as a holistic lifestyle, they highlight its profound impact on sexuality and…
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Today, Alexa sits down with Dr. Kyle Dean, a Physical Therapist and sex & empowerment coach. In this episode, Dr. Kyle highlights the importance of bringing sexual behaviors and kinks into light, how working in the shadows affects people, and what it truly means to be sexually empowered. They break through the stigma and talk about having conscious…
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In this episode, Alexa and Jordan take us through the breakdowns and breakthroughs of their pregnancy journey. They playfully look back at some of the highlights of their pregnancy story and talk about how they're navigating through the shifts and turns of the rollercoaster of emotions that comes with being pregnant! Today on That Sex Chick: Naviga…
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Leslie Schrock, an author and angel investor working at the convergence of health and technology, joins Alexa to talk about overall fertility health. They share their own experiences of going through fertility works, miscarriages, and their ongoing journey to conceive. Leslie also reflects on the process of writing her books, which blend clinical r…
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In this episode, professional dominatrix Kimi Inch returns to explore the complexities of power dynamics, masculine/feminine roles, and the transformative potential of conscious kink. Kimi unpacks the misconceptions surrounding Dom/Sub relationships, asserting they aren't limited to traditional gender roles. She dives into the empowering experience…
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In today's episode, Alexa sits down with Vanessa and Xander, authors of "Sex Talks" and advocates for improving intimacy through open conversations. Vanessa, a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years in the sex therapy field, and Xander, who brings the perspective of being married to a sex therapist, discuss their mission to take the intimidation ou…
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Today Alexa is talking with Alexandra Harbushka, the founder of Life with Herpes, an online community dedicated to shattering the stigma of living with herpes. They discuss the difference between HSV-1 and HSV-2 and statistics on how common they are. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of comprehensive STI conversations with partners, noting that h…
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Today, Alexa is joined by Megan Yelaney, a business mentor who helps entrepreneurs find their unique coaching voice and stand out in the market. But today, Megan is opening up about something more personal — how her marriage and sex life was impacted by her rapidly growing business. She shares how her marriage almost fell apart and how she and her …
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Alexa and Morgan K. delve into the world of polyamory and how to find the relationship structure that works for you. They discuss the colorful range of what relationships can look like and how to navigate traumas and triggers to achieve security and stability. The conversation covers different types of relationship styles, including polyamory, swin…
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In this episode, Jordan and Alexa explore the concept of giving 100% in your relationship. They discuss how giving in the way your partner loves to receive can lead to greater intimacy and closeness in the relationship. They also talk about taking radical ownership and responsibility for your role in the relationship and how it can foster a dance o…
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Today, Alexa is sharing a sensitive and vulnerable conversation with Justin Woodbury, author of "Sheltered but Not Protected: Learning to Love, Forgive, and Heal After Emotional and Sexual Abuse.” Justin shares his experience with sexual and spiritual abuse in the Independent Fundamentalist Baptist Church, and how the cult-like nature of the church…
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Today, Alexa is joined by Azrya Bequer to talk about the power of initiation through sex and relationships. Azrya delves into her stories of initiation with her husband, sharing what it means to surrender herself and confront parts of herself that need to be let go. The conversation also explores BDSM experiences, polarity dynamics, and the importa…
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Dr. Laura Meihofer, a licensed physical therapist, athletic trainer, and yoga instructor, joins Alexa to discuss the pelvic floor and how to care for it. The conversation covers a range of topics from anatomy and sex-specific challenges to pain, discomfort, and techniques for releasing and strengthening pelvic floor muscles. Dr. Laura also addresse…
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Dr. Jolene Brighten, a pioneer in women’s medicine, board-certified naturopathic endocrinologist, and certified sex counselor, joins Alexa to discuss hormones, fertility, and pregnancy after 40. They delve into the pressures of being a public figure while going through a miscarriage, navigating autoimmune diseases such as Hashimoto's before and dur…
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Today, Jordan and Alexa dive into the details of how Alexa is taking radical responsibility for herself and leaning into self-love to treat her relationship better. Alexa shares her journey of slowing down, being messy, and taking radical care of herself, especially after the trauma of her miscarriage. She's decided to be more feminine in their rel…
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GG joins Alexa to shed light on the realities of sex work, debunking stigmas and sharing her experience as a courtesan in both OnlyFans and legal brothels. As a recovering Catholic, GG reveals how sex work helped her embrace her sexuality and live her sexual dreams to the fullest. They discuss the benefits of legal sex work for relationships, the h…
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In this episode, Neeta Bhushan joins Alexa to discuss her new book "That Sucked, Now What?" which offers a practical five-stage framework to embrace the possibilities in chaos, overcome setbacks with grace, and fly forward every time. They discuss toxic positivity, personal responsibility, radical self-awareness, emotional capacity, and embodiment …
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“Intimacy Doctor” Alexandra Stockwell joins Alexa for a juicy conversation on being fully self-expressed in your relationship and uncompromising in your intimacy. Alexandra unpacks ways we compromise in our intimacy and how it can lead to a bland and unfulfilling relationship, while also sharing insights on how to practice awareness to begin speaki…
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Join Alexa and Jordan in this episode as Jordan shares his journey of learning to embrace his dominant side. You’ll hear how it was a difficult path, as Jordan struggled with feelings of inadequacy while Alexa felt like her kinkiness was too much for him to handle. But they found a way to navigate through the tension and dissonance, pushing past th…
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Talia Koren, the ultimate dating guru, joins Alexa to share her tantalizing insights on dating intentionally and with confidence. With 61 first dates under her belt in just 10 months, Talia dishes out the juicy lessons of her journey, along with what she learned from exiting a 6-year relationship. Get ready to savor her tips on crafting a dating ap…
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Get ready to up your sexual game and close the orgasm gap! In this juicy episode, we welcome Dr. Laurie Mintz, a leading expert in the field of sex therapy and the author of "A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex" and "Becoming Cliterate." She explains the differences between men and women when it comes to orgasm and shares her expertise on teach…
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Josh and Katy Whalen, the founders of Blokes for Him and Joi for Her, join the show to discuss the powerful impact of hormone optimization and peptide therapy on health and fertility. You’ll hear their personal story of how peptides not only healed their health but also their marriage. The conversation delves into the impact of hormone optimization…
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In this episode, Lex and Jordan guide listeners through their process of setting a New Year’s theme and intention for their relationship. They talk about intentional reflection on where they have been and where they are going, as well as milestones, celebrations, and hard moments. The couple shares their method of choosing a word for their relation…
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Jessica Zweig is the CEO of The SimplyBe. Agency and a personal branding expert. Today, she and Alexa divulge what it’s like to be in business with your significant other. Jess shares how aligning as one team with the same mission, values, and dream transformed her marriage. She shares how she and her husband create conscious boundaries between the…
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Wendy Perkins is on the show to unpack how anxiety and ADHD impact sex, connection, and navigating the world. She provides a look into the mind of someone with ADHD, and shares simple practices for calming the mind, feeling safe in your body, and increasing dopamine production. Whether you struggle with anxiety and ADHD or love someone who does, ma…
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Today’s conversation with Johnathan White is all about semen retention and non-ejaculatory orgasms for men, and how this can impact sex, love, and relationships. Learn why men would want to embark on this journey of separating their orgasms from ejaculation, and simple practices to begin. You’ll gain insight into the benefits like connecting deeper…
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Transformation expert and coach Nikki Sharp is on the show to unpack the question of — what does it really take to become the person you want to be to attract what you desire? Nikki explores how change happens when we accept where we are with love, and shares how we can learn to unconditionally love our shadows sides. She also unravels why we often…
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Dr. Lorne Brown is the Clinical Director of Acubalance Wellness Centre and host of the Conscious Fertility podcast. If you’re on the conception journey, you’ve probably become aware of how conceiving is not as easy as we think. Today, Alexa openly shares the fears and stories she’s been working through during her road to conception. It’s a deeply e…
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Rachel Maine is a former therapist turned sex and relationship coach! Today, Rachel unravels why she chose to pivot careers and the differences between the two models, including the business aspects and working with clients. Rachel also shares why someone would choose to work with a coach versus therapist, and what elements to consider when finding…
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Holistic Gynecologist Dr. Shawn Tassone is passionate about women having an active role in their care. Through this conversation, you’ll hear what is possible when you find a doctor that listens and advocates for you. He takes the best components of both allopathic and alternative medicine to find solutions for treating symptoms and the body as a w…
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Dr. David Ley is a therapist and psychologist here to de-shame, debunk, and shed light on the idea of sex as an addiction. He unpacks the impact growing up religious or with morally conservative beliefs has on people identifying as sex addicts, discussing why it’s crucial we make sexuality a healthy part of life. David and Alexa break down how afte…
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Today, Adam Roa joins Alexa to give hot tips on how to break up better. He talks about why breakups are some of the most painful experiences we go through, exploring how it’s a simultaneous dissolution of our past, present and future. They are an opportunity to redefine who you are, and explore yourself, what you want, your fears, your magic — aspe…
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Alexa and Jordan open up about their pregnancy journey, sharing the challenges they faced leading up to conception, and the devastation and grief from miscarriage. They unpack how it impacted their marriage and what Jordan’s learned about being fully present with Alexa and holding her emotions. Today’s show may do more than tug on your heart string…
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Grab your tissues, ‘cause Lex and Bryn are on the mic for a PSA that will bring some tears. Today on That Sex Chick: Full body yes & living in vans: Bryn’s path with Sex & Love Co. Lex & Bryn’s reflections on their growth together What Bryn’s excited for in her next chapter Leaning in and trusting yourself & the process Bryn’s goodbye to the commun…
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Dr. Cat Meyer is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and Ketamine Assisted Therapy. Today she and Bryn dive into sexual healing through psychedelics, specifically empathogens like Ketamine, and how it allows us to connect with our trauma in a way that does not dysregulate the nervous system. Dr. Cat shares why Ketamine therapy i…
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Alexa and Jordan are back on the mic to unpack what it means to do “the work” as a couple, including personal and sexual development. The path of growth looks different for everyone, and tension can arise when couples are not aligned on this path. Lex and Jordan share their own experience with navigating these waters, sharing ways to encourage your…
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