Best Ben Orenstein Podcasts (2024)

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Delyla Ovalle-Bowyer | Do Grief Differently Helped Me Pick Up The Pieces After Father Loss, Bipolar Misdiagnosis, Career Loss, & More 1:01:52

2h ago1:01:52

1:01:52

Send Victoria a text message! Today, I'm sharing my conversation with my former Do Grief Differently client, Delyla Ovalle-Bowyer, a dedicated research associate at UT Austin's Texas Center For Disability Studies. Delyla shares her transformative journey into special education and advocacy after initially struggling to find direction in life. The c…

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D Paul Fleming | Healing Childhood Trauma Through Storytelling & Becoming a Veteran Advocate 1:34:30

1d ago1:34:30

1:34:30

Send Victoria a text message! D Paul Fleming, a retired Navy veteran and spiritual healer, shares his lifelong journey from trauma to healing. His story is a testament to resilience, as he recounts overcoming severe childhood abuse detailed in his book "2,442 Steps To Crazy." Through writing and sharing his experiences, Fleming found therapeutic re…

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Belonging, Fitting In, Othering, and Acceptance 18:33

8d ago18:33

18:33

Send Victoria a text message! In a world increasingly defined by division and isolation, radical belonging offers a powerful antidote to the epidemic of loneliness. Joe Primo's article, "Radical Belonging in an Age of Othering," featured on Grateful Living, delves into this pressing issue with profound insights that resonate deeply amidst our post-…

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When You Unleash Your Heart, You Unleash Your Life 19:12

15d ago19:12

19:12

Send Victoria a text message! In this week's episode, I share what I mean when I say at the end of every episode, "When you unleash your heart, you unleash your life." For me, it's more than a slogan; it's a belief. I navigated over 30 years of unresolved grief, resentment, and anger to achieve profound personal growth and self-realization. Healing…

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Christine Davies | From Sitting With My Sorrow in My Childhood Illness and Multiple Miscarriages To Finding My Calling 1:04:43

22d ago1:04:43

1:04:43

Send Victoria a text message! In today's episode, Rev. Christine Davies, a hospital chaplaincy leader, shares the path that led her into spiritual care and offers invaluable insights on navigating grief. A deep church involvement from childhood shaped her life path, a calling toward medicine influenced by her nurse mother, and personal health crise…

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Catching up 45:11

26d ago45:11

45:11

Adam and Ben are back on the mics after nine months to give an update on their lives. Timestamps (00:00) - Catching up (00:18) - Fitness update (18:13) - House updates (24:53) - Ben update (35:11) - Tailwind Labs update Links Adam on X Ben on XBy Ben Orenstein and Adam Wathan

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Jessica Fein | Creating Corners of Beauty Amidst Parent Loss, Sister Loss X2, and Child Loss 50:05

29d ago50:05

50:05

Send Victoria a text message! Amidst the challenges of her daughter Dalia's rare condition, MERRF Syndrome, this week's guest, Jessica Fein, also faced the crushing blows of losing her mother, father, and both sisters during the same trying period. Her story is a tapestry of sorrow and strength, woven with threads of love and loss that resonate dee…

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Amanda Popovski | Shedding The Old Self and Thriving as an Empath (HSP) 1:43:24

1M ago1:43:24

1:43:24

Send Victoria a text message! I'm excited to share this episode with Amanda Popovski, in which we discuss everything related to being an empath or highly sensitive person (HSP). I could feel the energy behind the words Amanda used in her application, and the synergy I felt with her was one of being a kindred spirit. Sometimes, there are people in t…

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Is There a Wrong Way To Grieve? 8:30

1M ago8:30

8:30

Send Victoria a text message! Inspired by recent discussions, this episode offers a new perspective that's been noodling around in my mind. In this week's episode, I explore the question: Is there a wrong way to grieve? Key Points: Societal Struggles with Grief: Despite popular belief that all grieving methods are valid, society often fails at effe…

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Annie Sklaver Orenstein | Sibling Loss: Forever Ben's Sister 1:21:50

2M ago1:21:50

1:21:50

Send Victoria a text message! With over a decade of experience collecting stories globally, this week's guest and author, Annie Sklaver Orenstein, has been featured on platforms such as NPR and Time. Her book, Always a Sibling: The Forgotten Mourners Guide to Grief, is an empathetic resource for surviving siblings—a group often overlooked in mourni…

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Carolina Sotomayor: From Fatherless Daughter to Womb Healer 1:41:11

2M ago1:41:11

1:41:11

Send Victoria a text message! Today's guest, Carolina Sotomayor, is a renowned fertility Reiki womb healer who shares how Reiki helped her conceive her son. We also dive deeper into her childhood stories and the emotional wounds that created what Carolina believes were the energetic blocks to conceiving. Carolina's Path to Healing 🧘‍♀️ Personal Str…

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An Invitation for Truth and One Statement That Can Change Everything 9:34

2M ago9:34

9:34

Send Victoria a text message! Unlock the power of deep connections with one simple phrase: "Tell me more." Today, I explore how a single statement can transform relationships and foster emotional honesty. I also explore the impact of inviting others to share their stories, emphasizing the importance of being present and truly listening. Key Takeawa…

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Q&A: What To Do When a Loved One Is Not Coping Well With Death in the Family 25:40

3M ago25:40

25:40

Send Victoria a text message! Let me support you in this week's episode by guiding you through a journey of understanding grief—especially when someone close doesn't seem to be handling a family death well. This isn't just another conversation but an invitation for introspection and growth. Key Highlights: The episode is thoughtfully structured aro…

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Tiff Carson | IVF Struggles, Divorce, Addiction Took My Brother, & Generational Trauma 1:32:33

3M ago1:32:33

1:32:33

Send Victoria a text message! In this emotional and deeply personal episode of Grieving Voices, Tiff shares the impact of generational trauma and the subsequent loss of her brother to a fentanyl overdose. Tiff Carson found her brother Cory’s struggle with addiction frustrating and impossible to understand until he chose to use his voice. It was her…

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Becky Ellis | The Secrets We Keep: A Daughter's Quest for Truth & Healing 1:14:40

3M ago1:14:40

1:14:40

Send Victoria a text message! This week's guest, Becky Ellis, recounts how her father’s concealed World War II experiences shaped their family life, culminating in her powerful memoir Little Avalanches. Join us as we explore themes of secrecy, resilience, and reconciliation. Key Highlights: Discover how Becky navigated through the silence surroundi…

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Ed Owens | A Veteran's Heart Cracked Open By Child Loss 56:05

3M ago56:05

56:05

Send Victoria a text message! This week, I had the privilege of hearing from Ed Owens, vice president of the Grief Recovery Institute, in a deeply moving episode of the Grieving Voices podcast. As Vice President of the Grief Recovery Institute, Ed's narrative isn't just about loss; it’s about discovery—the kind that reshapes lives. From his militar…

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Ann Hince | Tapping Through My Childhood Trauma and Sensing My Way To Peace 1:16:29

4M ago1:16:29

1:16:29

Send Victoria a text message! We encounter moments that shape our journey in profound ways. Ann Hince's story is a testament to such transformation—a narrative woven with threads of grief, self-awareness, and, ultimately, healing. In this week's episode, I had the privilege of hearing from Ann Hince, an inspiring author, speaker, and spiritual guid…

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Big Grief Energy 21:56

4M ago21:56

21:56

Send Victoria a text message! Grief isn't merely an emotion; it's a profound energy that demands reflection and immersion into our deepest feelings. But too often, our intellect and ego stand as gatekeepers, preventing the deep emotional healing we desperately need. In this week's solo episode, I speak of the body as a compass through loss. Grief t…

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Yvonne Caputo | Five Wishes That Transformed My Father's End-of-Life, Our Relationship, and My Grief 1:12:08

4M ago1:12:08

1:12:08

Send Victoria a text message! Dive into the depths of grief, joy, and the paradox of emotions with Yvonne Caputo on Grieving Voices this week. From personal tales to professional insights, learn how attentive listening can transform relationships and provide peace in life's transitions. Yvonne reflects on personally challenging life transitions tha…

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Dawn Jackson | Uncovering My Inner Light Through Divorce, Death, and Career Change 1:04:17

4M ago1:04:17

1:04:17

Send Victoria a text message! In this second heartfelt episode of Grieving Voices Season 5, I welcomed Dawn Michele Jackson, a multifaceted healer specializing in grief recovery. Dawn shares her personal journey through divorce and how it led her to the path of healing not just herself but others as well. With a background in nursing and now a self…

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A 200th Episode Milestone Message 11:22

5M ago11:22

11:22

Send Victoria a text message! In this momentous 200th episode of Grieving Voices, I pause to honor the journey thus far. From heartfelt stories of loss to triumphs in resilience, this podcast has become a beacon for those navigating grief's complex landscape. Join me as I delve into reflections on societal norms around grief, personal growth throug…

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Susan Snow | The Other Side of the Gun: The Aftermath of My Father's Murder 1:22:33

5M ago1:22:33

1:22:33

Send Victoria a text message! In this week's episode, I am honored to host Susan Snow, a beacon of hope for anyone navigating the treacherous waters of trauma and loss. Susan is an inspiring figure as an author, international speaker, and resiliency coach. Susan bravely opened up about her experience following the tragic death of her father, an LA …

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Dave Roberts | Double Rainbows: A Father's Spiritual Awakening Through Child Loss 1:13:04

5M ago1:13:04

1:13:04

Send Victoria a text message! Grief is a teacher, a harsh one, but it comes bearing profound lessons. In today's heart-touching episode of Grieving Voices, I sit down with Dave Roberts, whose personal odyssey through loss is nothing short of inspiring. He shares his intimate experiences following the passing of his daughter to a rare cancer. From g…

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Adam Wathan, Creator of Tailwind CSS 1:00:06

5M ago1:00:06

1:00:06

Ben and Adam Wathan cover the development and reimagining of Tailwind CSS, focusing on the release of Tailwind 4.0. They delve into the motivation behind the rewrite, the challenges faced, and the approach to maintaining backward compatibility. The conversation covers topics related to software versioning, open-source maintenance, backward compatib…

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Denise Dielwart | Living a Reinvented Widow Life 1:07:51

5M ago1:07:51

1:07:51

Send Victoria a text message! In the quiet after-hours of our bustling lives, we often overlook the profound journeys that shape us. For today's episode, I had the honor of speaking with Denise Dielwart on Grieving Voices—a woman who turned her deepest sorrow into a beacon of hope for thousands. After the sudden death of her husband left her in des…

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Angie Hanson | Chapters of Loss and a Resilient Heart 1:09:26

6M ago1:09:26

1:09:26

Send Victoria a text message! Having endured the deaths of her one-year-old son, followed by her husband, brother, and sister-in-law, this week's guest Angie Hanson's journey through grief has been nothing short of harrowing. Yet from the depths of despair emerged a mission to alter perceptions around grief—a calling that led to the creation of But…

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Matt Swanson, CTO at Arrows 45:25

5M ago45:25

45:25

Ben and Matt discuss the role of a product engineer and Matt's journey as a content creator. Matt shares his experience working at a consulting agency and how it shaped his perspective on engineering. They also discuss the benefits of working in-person and the importance of the quality of coworkers. Matt reflects on his motivation for content creat…

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Hiring for tiny teams with Justin Jackson 1:39:02

5M ago1:39:02

1:39:02

Adam just wrapped up a big hiring project at Tailwind Labs, adding both a new engineer and a new designer to the team. In this episode he talks through the process with Justin Jackson, founder of Transistor, to compare notes and record what worked, what didn't, and how he will approach hiring in the future after going through this process. Timestam…

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Rising Tides: Mental Health Tips For Women Small Business Owners 28:39

6M ago28:39

28:39

Send Victoria a text message! Welcome to today's episode, which focuses on mental health awareness and celebrating women entrepreneurs for May Mental Health Awareness Month. In this episode I will share my experiences from a recent women's business summit in North Dakota where I met an array of incredible female business owners. FEATURED EPISODE CO…

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Lisa Sugarman | Shielded From the Truth 1:11:51

6M ago1:11:51

1:11:51

Send Victoria a text message! This week on Grieving Voices is a mental health discussion with Lisa Sugarman – a multifaceted advocate who has overcome personal tragedies to make an impact. As a suicide loss survivor and crisis counselor, her insights are invaluable during Mental Health Awareness Month. Lisa's journey is one marked by unexpected tur…

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Derrick Reimer, Founder of SavvyCal 45:48

6M ago45:48

45:48

In this conversation, Ben and Derrick discuss the challenges of growing a business and the decision to target specific market segments. They explore the trade-offs between serving a broad audience and focusing on a niche market. They also discuss the technical choices and architectural decisions in building a product, with Derrick sharing his posit…

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Scott Forrester | Coping with Widowhood: A Story of 50+ Years of Love, Loss, and Learning 1:19:36

6M ago1:19:36

1:19:36

Send Victoria a text message! In the quiet aftermath of a personal storm, Scott Forrester found solace and strength in the Feldenkrais method. His journey is not just about physical recovery; it's a poignant narrative of resilience amid life’s harshest trials – loss, grief, and reinvention. Forrester’s story began with an accident that challenged c…

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David Chotka | A Walk in Faith: Synchronicities or Divine Appointments? 1:22:13

6M ago1:22:13

1:22:13

Send Victoria a text message! On this episode of Grieving Voices, I welcomed David Chotka, founder and director of Spirit Equip Ministries. With four degrees and extensive experience as a pastor and conference speaker, David shares insights from his journey through grief personally and within his community. David discusses the challenges pastors fa…

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Leah Hadley | The Power of an Intentional Divorce 52:53

7M ago52:53

52:53

Send Victoria a text message! In a world where life's transitions often have heavy financial implications, Leah Hadley is a beacon of guidance and support. On this episode of Grieving Voices, Leah—founder of Intentional Wealth Partners and Intentional Divorce Solutions—shared her journey from investment analyst to empowering individuals through som…

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Thorsten Ball, Software Engineer at Zed 1:12:58

6M ago1:12:58

1:12:58

In this episode, Ben chats with Thorsten Ball. This conversation fits neatly into two halves - in the first, Ben and Thorsten go deep on how to differentiate yourself, work in public, and make it easy for people to hire you. In the second part of the conversation, they talk more specifically about Zed, why it matters, and how it’s being built. Link…

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Managing Overwhelming Grief On Significant Dates & Milestones 15:47

7M ago15:47

15:47

Send Victoria a text message! Today's episode is about navigating significant dates and other reminders after a loss. Anniversaries, birthdays, holidays—these milestones can be poignant reminders that reopen the chapters of our grief, not to mention the special places that flood the heart with memories, and then the waves of emotion follow. But her…

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Stepping Back To Move Forward: Lessons From Spirit 18:26

7M ago18:26

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Send Victoria a text message! For this week's episode, I drew inspiration from an oracle deck by creator Colette Baron-Reid called Postcards from Spirit. Its message to you, my audience, and myself was the importance of stepping back to observe our thoughts and behaviors. This card pull reading inspired me to share my personal experience in decisio…

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Ben steps away from Tuple 1:11:22

7M ago1:11:22

1:11:22

After almost six years, Ben has stepped away from day-to-day work on Tuple and moved to its board. Friend of the pod Aaron Francis interviews Ben about the whole beautiful, complicated, enriching experience. As a treat, the boys dive into what's next for Aaron as well.By Ben Orenstein and Aaron Francis

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Denise Schonwald | Critical Care Nurse to Holistic Healing: Empowering Emotional Wellness 59:44

7M ago59:44

59:44

Send Victoria a text message! Welcome to another profound episode of Grieving Voices, where we explore the emotional intricacies of dealing with loss and healing. Today's guest is Denise Schonwald, a registered nurse turned nationally licensed therapist. With her holistic approach to care that encompasses mental, physical, and spiritual well-being,…

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Andreas Kling, Creator of SerenityOS and the Ladybird Browser 1:11:20

7M ago1:11:20

1:11:20

Ben interviews Andreas Kling, creator of SerenityOS and the Ladybird browser. They talk about the concept of lifestyle software and how it relates to the development of SerenityOS, Andreas’ vision of creating a Zen garden for developers, and the benefits of using a mono repo and a unified language in the development process. They also touch on the …

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Sabrina Fletcher | Clara Was Wanted: My TFMR Loss Story 1:05:33

8M ago1:05:33

1:05:33

Send Victoria a text message! In a world where discussions about loss are often shrouded in silence, there's a particular kind of grief that remains even more hidden—termination for medical reasons (TFMR). Today on Grieving Voices, I had the honor of speaking with Sabrina Fletcher, a compassionate pregnancy loss doula who brings solace to parents f…

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Kris Carr | Mourning the Darkness of Loss To Fully Embrace the Light 1:04:22

8M ago1:04:22

1:04:22

Send Victoria a text message! In this heartfelt episode of Grieving Voices, I'm joined by the remarkable Kris Carr, a multiple New York Times bestselling author, wellness activist, and cancer thriver. Known as a force of nature and recognized as one of Oprah's Super Soul 100 influential thought leaders, Kris shares insights from her latest book "I'…

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Fable Tales, Staff Engineer at Stripe 1:05:31

8M ago1:05:31

1:05:31

In this conversation, Fable and Ben dig deep on building a technical career that balances programming and company leadership. Fable shares their experience working at Stripe and the different roles they have held, including being a technical advisor to the CTO. They also discuss Fable's career move from being a hands-on programmer to role where les…

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Greg Barnsdale | A Mortician & Financial Planner on Waking Up To Mortality 1:01:02

8M ago1:01:02

1:01:02

Send Victoria a text message! Are you truly living if you're ignoring the inevitable end? This question might feel heavy, but Greg Barnsdale doesn't shy away from it; he has built a movement around it. Greg is not your typical undertaker. With his diverse background as a Certified Financial Planner, Certified Executor Advisor, and death doula - top…

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Alexandra Cole | Coping with Grief: Self-Care, Parenting, and Life with Human Design 1:06:07

8M ago1:06:07

1:06:07

Send Victoria a text message! Are you ready to embark on a journey that could transform your understanding of purpose, parenting, and personal healing? This week on Grieving Voices, I welcomed Alexandra Cole, a former corporate consultant turned human design coach. After a decade in the Fortune 500 sector, Alexandra pivoted to guiding individuals a…

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Q&A | Feeling Ghosted in My Grief 8:29

9M ago8:29

8:29

Send Victoria a text message! When grappling with profound loss; it's during these times that we look to our friends for comfort, only to realize that some may have taken a step back just when we needed them most. If you've ever felt let down by the people you expected to be there for you during tough times, this discussion is for you. In this epis…

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Josh Pigford, Creator of Maybe.co 51:49

8M ago51:49

51:49

In this episode, Ben interviews Josh Pigford, founder of Maybe.co, about the company’s journey from VC-backed startup -> closed startup -> open source project -> funded open source project. They discuss JavaScript and Rails trade-offs, the challenges of building a personal finance software, and the operational difficulties of building a business ba…

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The Guilt and Blame Game 27:04

9M ago27:04

27:04

Send Victoria a text message! How often have we heard or even played 'the guilt and blame game' in relationships? This emotional turmoil hinders healing and obscures the path to genuine connection. In today's episode, we dive deep into the complex themes of self-love, self-acceptance, and navigating loss. Healing isn't just about moving past grief;…

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Supporting Yourself When It's a Less Than Happy Valentine's Day 14:03

9M ago14:03

14:03

Send Victoria a text message! In the quiet moments of early morning, as the world stirs awake and you're left with your thoughts, do you ever reflect on what self-love truly means? How often do we pause to consider that perhaps the most enduring relationship we'll ever have is with ourselves? As Valentine's Day approaches, hearts and flowers flood …

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Caleb Porzio, Creator of AlpineJS and Laravel Livewire 1:24:29

9M ago1:24:29

1:24:29

In this conversation, Ben interviews Caleb Porzio, the creator of AlpineJS and Laravel Livewire. The discussion ranges from discussions about life in general to specific testing practices and which notebook Caleb uses. Links Tuple.app - The best app for pair programming AlpineJS Laravel Livewire Caleb's VSCode Course Takeaways Apply core truths to …

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