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Are You There, Midlife? It’s Me, Monica. | Balance Hormones Naturally in Perimenopause, Menopause for Women Over 40

Monica Topete | Holistic Health Coach | Perimenopause Educator | Hormone Imbalance Survivor

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The Go-to Podcast for Midlife Women Who Want To Balance Hormones Naturally Ugh. I feel so bloated. I’m retaining more water than the Hoover Dam. What? Not another pimple? It’s like puberty all over again! Sleep? What’s that like? (I forget.:<) Umm, I just turned 40….. Aren’t I too young for this?!? — Hello Friend. (Can I call you “friend”? ‘Cuz we’re already friends in my head:) Welcome to Are You There, Midlife? It’s Me, Monica. I’m Monica Lane Topete, Certified Holistic Health Coach and Ho ...
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Hey friend! Do you suffer from "food guilt"? If you’ve just come back from a summer vacation where you ate, drank, and maybe indulged a little too much…and are now feeling bad about it…you’re not alone. In fact, according to a recent survey of 2,000 men and women in the US, about 1 in 3 people eat food that makes them feel guilty and 39% of women s…
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Hey friend! Welcome to “Are You There, Midlife? It’s me, Monica.” Hi, I’m Monica and I’m super excited to bring you this week’s episode of “Hormone Hot Topics.” Every other Thursday, now through the end of summer, I’m bringing you the juicy scoop on the perimenopause, menopause, and post-menopause stories making the news. In today’s episode, I’ll s…
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Hey friend! Did you know today is officially the halfway point of summer? Yep! 47 days down and 47 days to go of sun, fun, and celebrating. (And by “celebrating,” I mean drinking.) If you’re a woman in perimenopause or menopause and you feel like drinking this summer is hitting you a little differently, you may be right. Research shows that hormona…
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Hey friend! Have you been “celebrating” a lot this summer? (And by “celebrating” I mean drinking.) “Celebrating” is synonymous with summer. From commemorating summer holidays like Memorial Day, the Fourth of July, Father’s Day, and Labor Day weekend–to celebrating kids graduating from high school and college–to weddings, vacations and so much more.…
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Hey friend! Welcome to “Are You There, Midlife? It’s me, Monica.” Hi, I’m Monica and I’m super excited to bring to you the second episode of a brand NEW summer series of the podcast called, “Hormone Hot Topics.” Every other Thursday, now through the end of summer, I’m going to bring you the juicy scoop on the perimenopause, menopause, and post-meno…
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Hey friend! Have you ever heard of “summertime sadness?” No, not the Lana Del Rey song…although that is a catchy tune! I’m talking about seasonal depression, irritability, and even anxiety that can occur during the summer…. especially in women with a hormonal imbalance. Yes! This is a thing! And it affects more of us ladies in perimenopause through…
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In this episode 528, of the KinkyCast, host Woody is joined by Hippie from Manchester Tennessee. They discuss how Hippie has been fostering a BDSM and kink community in a rural area known more for its Bonnaroo music festival than its kink scene. Hippie shares insights into running a local munch group called, Friends in the Sticks, and talks about t…
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How’s your summer going? Are you getting ready to go on vacation? Or maybe you’re on vacation right now??? Today’s episode was actually inspired by a mini vacay I took to Palm Springs in the spring. It was hot! Not record-breaking 126-degree weather hot like it was over the Fourth of July weekend… But hot enough that I had trouble sleeping. If you’…
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Hey friend! Welcome to “Are You There, Midlife? It’s me, Monica.” Hi, I’m Monica and I’m super excited to kick off a brand new series of the podcast today called, “Hot Hormone Topics.” Every other Thursday, now through the end of summer, I’m going to bring you the juicy scoop on perimenopause and menopause stories making the news. In today’s episod…
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Hey friend! How was your 4th of July? Did you enjoy your four days off? Whether you took a road trip out of state to visit family or friends, jumped into your RV to go camping at the beach, or flew to the nearest all-inclusive resort for some respite, travel causes a shift in your hormones. Today, I’m continuing my “Hot Flash Summer” podcast series…
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In this engaging and educational session, November Blue, a sex educator from Atlanta, covers essential topics at Frolicon. She discusses common myths about the hymen, clarifying that it is a stretchy membrane, not a wall to be broken. Attendees learn that the hymen’s presence or state doesn't signify virginity. November also delves into the foreski…
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Hey friend, Can you believe summer is officially here?!? To me, summer means long walks on the beach with my furry rescues, Sadie and Elle Woods. Outdoor barbecues, concerts, and lazy days by the pool. And, of course, summer vacation!!! But if you’re in perimenopause, menopause, or even post-menopause, the changing weather can also cause a shift in…
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Hey friend, Today, I’m super excited to share this bonus episode about weight gain, belly fat, and what to expect in menopause. It’s from a recent discussion I had with Robin Rhine McDonald, host of the Vision Driven Health podcast, for a 6-week series on healthy hormones. This juicy episode is jam-packed with answers to the questions I get asked m…
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Hey friend, For the last 6 weeks, I’ve been discussing the 7 most common hormonal imbalances that cause weight gain in perimenopause and beyond. Today, I want to share one last sneaky saboteur of weight loss–especially in women over 40–that has a little to do with hormones and a lot to do with metabolic function. Age-Related Insulin Resistance ofte…
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Hey friend, Today, I’m concluding my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series where I unpack the 7 most common hormonal imbalances in perimenopause and menopause and how they contribute to hormonal weight gain. Are you OVER trying to do “all the things” to lose weight while the scale keeps going up and up...and up? Do you REFUSE to shop for bigger clothe…
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Hey friend, Happy National Sex Day!!! Did you celebrate it? In case the date completely slipped your mind (blame it on perimenopause brain fog)...Or, like me, you never knew the day existed (and to be honest, do we really need the extra pressure of a NATIONAL sex day???....) National Sex Day was observed on June 9th to commemorate the importance of…
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Hey friend, Today, I’m continuing my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series where I unpack the 7 most common hormonal imbalances in perimenopause and menopause and how they contribute to weight loss resistance. If you’ve never heard of PCOS or thought it was only something that affects women in their 20s or 30s, think again! It is this and other myths …
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Hey friend, Today, I’m continuing my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series where I unpack the 7 most common hormonal imbalances in perimenopause and menopause and how they contribute to weight loss resistance. In today’s episode, I take a deep dive into High Cortisol and Adrenal Fatigue. While many functional medicine practitioners consider adrenal fa…
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This week's KinkyCast, episode 526, provides an in-depth exploration of the experiences of dominant women in the BDSM lifestyle, featuring insights from MisTress and Merdusa. It covers their personal challenges, societal misconceptions, and the subtleties of dominant-submissive relationships. The discussion highlights the balance between power and …
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"I’ve had a long day. I'm just too tired." "I'm too stressed out right now. I have so much on my mind." "I need a shower.” I’m feeling bloated.” “Can we just cuddle instead?” Sound familiar? If your low libido or lack of desire to have sex has started to become a more frequent thing….If your lack of intimacy or connectedness with your husband or pa…
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Hey friend, Today, I’m continuing my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series where I unpack the 7 most common hormonal imbalances in perimenopause and menopause and how they contribute to weight loss resistance. In today’s episode, I’m taking a deep dive into Hypothyroidism. While some studies suggest up to 40% of the population suffers from at least so…
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Hey friend, Today, I’m continuing my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series where I unpack the 7 most common hormonal imbalances in perimenopause and how they contribute to weight loss resistance. In today’s episode, I’m taking a deep dive into Estrogen Dominance. The most common hormone imbalance in women in perimenopause, Estrogen Dominance affects a…
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Hey friend, Can I call you ‘friend”? Cuz I already feel like we’re friends in my head. So just between us…. …How’s your sex life? No, I mean really….How Is Your Sex Life? If your answer on a scale of 1-10 is somewhere between 5 and non-existent, girl, you are not alone! On today’s episode, I’m joined once again by my husband, Rick, as we continue o…
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Hey friend, Pop quiz: What comes first: hormonal imbalance or weight gain? According to the latest research, 99% of all weight loss resistance in women can be traced to a hormonal cause. Today, I’m kicking off my “6 Weeks To Summer” podcast series and unpacking the connection between hormones and weight gain in perimenopause. In today’s episode, yo…
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This week on KinkyCast episode 525, we run the KC time machine back to 2014, with Luna KM, the author, editor, and owner of submissiveguide.com. Luna discusses the concept of pain processing techniques during BDSM play, emphasizing the importance of understanding different methods to make the experience more positive and fulfilling. She explains po…
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Hey friend, Summer’s just 6 weeks away! So, in anticipation of sundresses and sleeveless shirt weather, I’m pulling back the curtain on the three biggest mistakes I made trying to balance my hormones and lose hormonal weight. From lab results to symptom management to calorie restricting and over-exercising, I’m stirring the tea on what NOT to do–al…
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Hey friend, On today’s episode, I’m joined once again by my husband of 26 years, Rick, as we continue our special “Love & Hormones” His-and-Her’s Day Spring Series (every other Thursday throughout the month of May.) Ladies, do you ever have days when you’re angry and irritated for no reason? … Guys, do you ever have days when you ask yourself, “Why…
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Hey friend, In today’s episode, we’re continuing a vital conversation about the efficacy and safety of supplements. Supplements can be a real game-changer when it comes to our hormonal health, especially for those of us who want to balance our hormones without HRT or hormonal birth control....Or who don’t want to take prescription medication like s…
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Hey friend, Do you take supplements? If so, do you know what’s in your supplements? And how do you know if your supplements are actually helping rather than hurting your health? In today’s episode, I pull back the curtain on the 37-billion supplement industry and share the good, the bad and the dangerous side of diet supplementation. In this episod…
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This week on the KinkyCast, episode 524, We invite a couple in a kink relationship with a significant age gap, 25 to 52, discussing their dynamic, interests, societal judgments, and the importance of communication and education in the kink community. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2024-archive/524---ageless-bonds-finding.html…
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Hey friend, Today’s episode kicks off a special “Love & Hormones” His-and-Her’s Day Spring Series, with new episodes every other Thursday throughout April, May and June. Join me and my partner of 26 years, Rick, as we spill the tea on how perimenopause and menopause have affected our marriage, including my personal story of hormonal imbalance, the …
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Hey friend, In today’s episode, I’m going to unpack one of the most misunderstood byproducts of hormone imbalance in perimenopause and menopause: food sensitivities. Understanding what foods may be exacerbating an underlying hormonal imbalance and causing issues like stomach pain, eczema, constipation, headaches, inflammation in your joints, brain …
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This week on the KinkyCast episode 523, we talk about the collaboration between SinisterMinister and LaTatona in organizing drag shows in Tennessee, while addressing misconceptions and challenges faced by the drag and kink communities. It emphasizes inclusivity, community support, and upcoming shows at Revel House, promoting fun, entertainment, and…
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Hey friend, In today’s episode I’m going to answer a question I get asked all the time: Should you bother getting your hormone levels checked and is there a way to check your hormone levels yourself? Understanding what’s going on with your hormones and what imbalance (or imbalances) you may have is the crucial first step in solving your hormonal pu…
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This week on KinkyCast episode 522, Woody has a conversation with Eibon, who presents on electric play, discussing various aspects of E-Stim, sensory overload, different electrical devices like the ET-312, and unique play experiences such as using video glasses and hot wax. Eibon also shares plans for future presentations and his interest in expand…
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Hey beautiful! Today, I’m going to spill the tea on a taboo topic: How much do our doctors really know about perimenopause–and share 6 reasons why your doctor may be dismissing your symptoms. This episode was inspired by Oscar-winning actress Halle Berry’s recent confession that her doctor mistook her vaginal dryness–a common symptom of perimenopau…
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This week on KinkyCast episode 521, we wind the wayback machine to March of 2015 and episode 60. We explore the profound evolution of personal identity and community impact in the leather and kink scene through Paula Smith’s candid interview, as well as the broader theme of living genuinely and embracing authenticity in one’s lifestyle. https://www…
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Hey girl! Today I’m answering a question from a listener and AYTM Insider, “What is your take on bioidentical hormone pellets? OMG! Where do I even begin?!? Disclaimer: While I’m admittedly a little biased when it comes to this controversial topic, I’m going to be as diplomatic as possible as I highlight the good, the bad, and the criminally insane…
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Hey girl! In today’s episode, I will be diving into the US healthcare system, the ins and outs of conventional medicine, and why it's so darn difficult to get perimenopause support–especially from our doctors. I’m also going to break down the five reasons why your hormone blood panel keeps coming back “normal.” In this episode you will learn: - The…
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Hey girl! In this first episode of the podcast, I will be answering a question I’m asked all of the time from clients: Perimenopause: What is it and how do I even know I am in it? I chose this question because I believe we can’t begin to heal and take back control of our hormones until we truly understand the shift that is happening in our midlife …
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On KinkyCast episode 520,  Woody and this week's guest Josh, discuss Josh's wild and adventurous stories, including incidents involving medical emergencies due to risky behaviors. Despite the shocking and sometimes humorous anecdotes shared by Josh, the conversation highlights his fearless and unapologetic approach to life. https://www.kinkycast.co…
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Ugh. I feel so bloated. I’m retaining more water than the Hoover Dam. What? Not another pimple? It’s like puberty all over again! Sleep? What’s that like? (I forget.:<) Umm, I just turned 40….. Aren’t I too young for this?!? — Hello Friend. (Can I call you “friend”? ‘Cuz we’re already friends in my head:) Welcome to Are You There, Midlife? It’s Me,…
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This week we reach all the way back to 2014, and our 4th show. This show revolves around Uncle Abdul, an expert in electrical play for BDSM, and Woody discussing various aspects of electrical play including safety precautions, differences between TENS units, and the use of Violet Wands. They delve into the risks, safety measures, and considerations…
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This week's KinkyCast, episode 518, delves into the creation of National Sex Day, a calendar holiday, which aims to encourage open discussions about various aspects of sex, including health, safety, education, and stigma. It covers topics such as sex education, adult industry rights, support for the homeless community, and the acceptance of diverse…
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In this weeks kinkyCast, episode 517, Woody engages in a conversation with Trinity, a writer who specializes in kink and non-mainstream genres. They discuss the challenges and strategies involved in expanding the audience for such genres. Trinity shares insights on writing for specific audiences, the importance of building reader bases, and the nee…
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This week on KinkyCast episode 516, We visit with, Miraposa, a family nurse practitioner, she discusses her pursuit of becoming a psychiatric family nurse practitioner, enabling her to provide therapy. She shares her interest in supporting the kink community and the challenges individuals face in being open with their therapists, emphasizing the im…
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This week on KinkyCast, episode 515. We have a vivid conversation titled 'Needles'. We dive deep into the world of needle play in a fetish context. The host, Woody, engages with different guests, each offering unique perspectives and experiences on the subject. Firstly, there's a discussion with Ginger Fox about needle experiments, specifically in …
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This week on KinkyCast episode 514, Amanda, also known as Cougarama on FetLife, talks about the topic of cougars and their involvement in the world of sexuality. They discuss the age range preference of cougars, where to meet young men, experiences with cuck play and gangbangs, and the joys of being in a cougar-young men dynamic. Amanda shares her …
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In this episode, 513, of the KinkyCast. It's a New Year! The KC Crew discusses a wide range of topics. They start with a discussion about pressing issues such as women's rights, legal developments within the BDSM community, and political changes. The discussion further extends to education, economic disparities, and the pitfalls of the U.S. politic…
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In this annual Christmas show, episode 512, the host, Woody, welcomes Susan Wright from the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom. They reflect on the state of sexual freedom rights, particularly noting the work by the NCSF on explicit prior permission, a new legal framework for consent to kink. They discuss the need for education and resources rele…
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