To be a heaux is to engage in consensual sex, be kind to yourself and partner(s), creative, fully embodied, unapologetic, powerful, and free. A former virgin of 31 years and now heaux of 3, Ms. Heauxly Coitus (HC) loves talking to people who are coming to terms with their journey of sex, fu€king, Tinder dates, loving their bodies, unlearning from harmful teaching and purity culture, developing her sexual ethic, (re)claiming their sexual agency, and always in search of great sex (or not). Com ...
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Comedian. Demon. Sh*t talking Extraordinaire.
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Spit Or Swallow is a podcast hosted by self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator of the federal republic @hausachocolate who puts the ‘ho’ in wholesome. SOS navigates and explores the world of Sex and Sexuality with no limits. Nothing is too over the top, embarrassing or out of bounds. It’s a journey of liberation, enjoyment and education. A judgement free zone demystifying sex matters where we unlearn harmful ideals, while having fun and gaining practical tips to live your best sex life along th ...
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Welcome to The Kickback. An open space where John & Ryan, a couple of college friends, talk about everything under the sun. From droppin' gems to sharing wild locker-room debauchery. This podcast is ‘guy-talk’ at its finest. Cry with us, laugh with us, celebrate with us - as one listen makes you apart of our extended family. So recline that chair, put your feet up, kickback and relax. So what are you waiting for? Press play. It's easy! *This podcast is not brought to you by Everest Institute ...
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Free the world from a society who does not care about it.
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Marital Sex Isn’t Boring ft. William and Ayo Lawal
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Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast! Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal. Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more. Themes: Lon…
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Are You D!ckmatized or Lost In The Sauce? Ft. Ed Gothboy
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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "…
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Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the so…
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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth,…
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I talk about that thing animals do sometimes
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Just a quick update about the current end of days we are living in, nbd
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What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between d…
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Bitter Ramblings about relationships with humans
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Navigating Different Identities In A Heterosexual Marriage ft. Tolu
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On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person vi…
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Romance isn’t real if you ask me. I know you didn’t ask. Listen anyways.
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Sex Education (The Lack Thereof) In Nigeria ft. Olori Coitus
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In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienc…
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Making mistakes are a part of life, you have to grow from them, and that sucks!
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Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the…
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Touching on neurodivergence, people with autism and my experience with both.
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Divine Desire: Unveiling Eros With An Erotic Goddess ft. Joy
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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spiri…
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I discuss what absolutely sucks about being an adult.
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Silver Sex ft. Cheron K. Griffin & Mr. Hunni Bunni
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On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love wit…
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I talk about something I’m really passionate about.
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True Romance Is Dead! ft. Luciano & Torera
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Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means t…
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Happy Valentines Day. I ranted about s**ual orientation and things of that nature.
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Sexual Revolution ft. Teso The Star Seed
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On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyD…
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Mind-Body-Spirit Wellness ft. Oyin Talabi
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On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate …
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Nickless Minaj, Travis Kelso, Taymar Swift and Scissors are discussed
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We Are In An Open Marriage ft. The Play Smith & Venolia
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On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamo…
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Logical Lovers, Intimacy and Size Queens ft. Dr. SID
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Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication…
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I recorded this whilst slightly tipsy. Hear my review on Love Island Games!By sinthiasurace
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I'm back! Amy Schumer count your days...By sinthiasurace
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Bed bugs are coming...Rishi Sunak this is all your fault.By sinthiasurace
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Apologies in advance for the sound, my friends are incredibly unprofessional. Anyhow, join us as we discuss XL bully dogs, Teletubbies and pre-marital coitus.By sinthiasurace
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We are talking about the "Tube Girl", natural selection and Sadiq Khan! Where is he?!By sinthiasurace
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This week I am exploring the effect men have on climate change, and the effect Jonathan Bailey and Idris Elba have on me personally.By sinthiasurace
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WELCOME TO HYSTERIA REPORT! For the first episode it was only right to discuss Beyoncé on her B-Day!By sinthiasurace
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Living in a Post-Label Lagos (ft. Tushar )
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It’s another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season! On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it’s like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos! Themes: Gender, Sexuality, Lab…
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On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you’re propositioned by a couple and more! Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power Dynamics Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! St…
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Emotional Safety and Sex (ft. Tayo Bero)
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On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure. Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender Norms Enjoyy Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Se…
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The Period (Sex) Episode (ft. Valerie Ekpo)
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On today's important episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by storyteller Valerie Ekpo and the girls talk red! They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis. They also talk about period sex and period shame. Enjoy! Themes: Periods, Period Sex, PCOS Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connect…
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In The Mood For Sex (ft. Ed Goth Boy)
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On this juicy episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an SOS favorite Ed Goth Boy and they get into a loaded and informative conversation about what gets us in the mood for sex. How media influences the kind of sex we have, they also go into sex playlists and the differences between Ritual and Ego Sex Music. Dive in and enjoy! Themes…
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Erotic Stories and Sexual Fantasies (Ft Lavezzed Out & Ore Badmus)
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On this riveting episode your fave Hausa Chocolate is joined by two Erotic Writers Ore Badmus and sexfluencer Ola AKA Lavezzed Out. They talk about erotica, sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships and share some real life and slightly garnished sex stories. Enjoyyy!! Themes: Erotica, Sexual Fantasy, P…
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As mental health awareness month draws to a close your favorite host Hausa Chocolate touches on the nexus between mental health and sex. How they are connected and all moving parts of the same system. She discusses the psychological benefits of a good Sex Life, some sexual dysfunctions and the importance of sexual self-actualization, and more. Enjo…
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“Fellas, Is It Gay?” (ft. Kayode Ani)
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On this exciting episode of the pod, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by queer activist, creative, and writer, Kayode Ani. They dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realities of queerness in Nigeria. Kayode shares his experiences being an activist, they discuss his journey, facing violence as well as the various …
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On today’s episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by visual artist, Alexis and they discuss bad sexual communication during sex. We always go on about ‘communication’ being the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom? Enjoy! Themes: Sexual Communication, Shame, Ghosting Don’t forget to rate us …
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Being A Pornstar In Nigeria (ft. Wunmin Savage)
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On this super interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an Adult Film Star and they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry. Wunmin Savage shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria. They talk about dealing with the attention, revenue and so much more! Themes Di…
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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Lotanna Don and they discuss Oral Sex, its importance, societal and gender attitudes towards giving and receiving oral sex and share some of their experiences. They also discuss tips for better head and Hausa Chocolate whips at some interesting tools so don’t forget to catch the episode on YouTube to…
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This week on the pod Hausa Chocolate is joined by @the_mansu, CEO of HerRyde and they have an insightful conversation about reconciling sex and sexuality with religion. A lot of societal attitudes and views on sex are shaped by religion and interpretations of it, so how do you express yourself sexually when some of your beliefs are inherently suppr…
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Sex Tapes, MMF Threesomes and The Underground Sex-Scene (ft. Folusho OG)
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On this episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by music consultant Folusho OG and they have a hilarious, informative episode about masturbation, early sex education, MMF threesomes, sexting, sex tapes, and the underground sex scene. Themes Discussed: Erotophobia, Morality, Monogamy Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected w…
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Throat Goats, Dirty Sheets and Sexual Communication (ft. Valerie Ike)
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On this week's episode, our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by TV presenter and fellow podcaster Valerie Ike. They dive into a riveting discussion about sexual communication and all the chaos in between. Why don’t people communicate with their partners easily about sex? How do you express your sexual needs? What happens if you throw up E…
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Bisexual for Sex, Heteroromantic for Love (ft. Coco)
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This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Coco and they have a super interesting discussion about the continuum of sexuality and attraction. If a bisexual woman can only have sex with women but will date and marry men could that be homophobia and social conditioning? How much of our preferences are not externally influenced? Tap in to listen to this …
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Sexuality vs Sensuality (ft. Ashley Okoli)
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On this sizzling episode, our self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator is joined by Ashley Okoli where they discuss sexuality and sensuality, objectification, Living confidently as your truest self and so much more! Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people to find and enjoy the podcast Themes discussed: Sexualization, Sexuality,…
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The Madonna–Whore complex (ft. Menisms Podcast)
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On today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Ashley Okoli and they discuss sexuality vs sensuality, how people often use them interchangeably, dealing with preconceived notions and certain types of energy when you’re perceived as a ‘sexual being’. They also touch on authenticity and living confidently as your truest self and much more. Themes Di…
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