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In October, 2016 I looked death right in the eyeballs and the truth of the universe/ life/ love/ God/ infinity cracked open before me. Truth is the best news in the world (YOU CAN END YOUR SUFFERING RIGHT NOW!!!) (if your human rights aren't being violated), and this book is my best effort to sing its sweet melody from the rooftops. ******************************************** During my journey, I ended my marriage (amicably). I explored my sexuality (enthusiastically). And I carried on my s ...
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*Who's Your Daddy?* EXCERPT: Some of my girlfriends raised their eyebrows when I told them the plan, but they knew better than to tell me I was nuts. I wasn’t stupid! I’d survived a good long time in this world walking the road less traveled. Clare admonished me gently when I told her about Mr. Florida: “Ok, if you think that’s safe, godspeed. But …
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*The Sugar Skull* EXCERPT: I set up my phone, hit record. But something felt… different. “I know I’ve been calling these meditation videos,” I explained. “But that doesn’t feel entirely true. “Meditation” doesn’t feel like the most accurate word. There is a word, satsang, that translates to “meeting with truth,” but I don’t like to use Sanskrit bec…
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*Manhattan, Manhattan, Manhattan* EXCERPT: Online degrees were a dime a dozen, especially those with religious affiliations, so it would have been easy peasy if I self-identified as Christian. But because I was unwilling to earn a degree from a Christian institution, my 4,000 options dwindled to approximately four. And two of the four were Harvard …
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*That's Private* EXCERPT: So. It was looking like the institution of private property was a real problem. Private property allows us, one human to another, to say “this is mine, you aren’t allowed to physically exist here, even if you need to sleep, even if you need to eat, even if you need to piss. If you exist here, I can call men with guns who w…
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*Giving Thanks* EXCERPT: This would be my first NFL experience, and I was moderately excited to do a thing I’d never done. But I’m not going to go into the details of how the Giants lost to the Redskins that day, or how institutional racism is so embedded in American culture that an official NFL team can still call themselves the “Redskins” with im…
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*The Sex Club* EXCERPT: In theory, I was familiar with the concept of a spank bank, but I had never consciously cultivated my own inner reel of sexually-charged moments. This was probably because I’d been so ashamed to have sexual thoughts in the first place, especially if the sexual thoughts involved fucked-up cult sex, like in Martha Marcy May Ma…
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*Jingle Bells* EXCERPT: We spent the rest of the weekend engaging in hilarious, articulate, informed discussions about everything with Madeline and the village. We visited her classroom and got introduced to her reptiles: there was Houdini the ball python, Milkshake the milk snake, ET the red eared slider turtle, and Frogzilla the African clawed fr…
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*Things Fall Apart* EXCERPT: If the grocery store was a strikeout, the rest of the week was a losing streak. One of the reasons I’d been so attracted to Little Jack was his willingness to dominate me. As a good feminist, I’d never known I was allowed to want to be dominated. It was never a spoken rule, just an assumption: strong women can’t be held…
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*Much Ado* EXCERPT: I was traveling Southwest, my favorite little airline. What makes this scrappy little discount company such a treasure, you wonder? I’ll tell you why. First, they’re just friendly. And that matters. But also, it’s because Southwest made all the right policy choices in all the right places. For starters, they don’t charge you ext…
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*London Calling* EXCERPT: At one point back in London, Olivia mentioned how noticeable my weight loss was. And she was right. I’d dropped over twenty pounds since she’d last seen me in Mexico. It was all rather entertaining to me at the time. After decades of food obsession, body-obsession, self-abuse and anger, I’d finally let it all go. Once I di…
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*The Dating Game* EXCERPT: I’ve been careful not to disparage the men I’ve slept with, especially for qualities that are unable to be changed (like natural endowment, for example) but I want to point out that there are some general, universal guidelines that you must follow if you want to be a good lover. While it is still true that what turns me o…
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*Meeting with Truth* EXCERPT: As I looked up at the stars, I reflected on what I’d learned about the sacred essence of shelter: a place to sleep is not like a pair of pricey Italian boots. Shelter is not an indulgence we can live without. So if someone you love asks you to share your roof and you refuse, you’re essentially casting them into the dar…
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*My Grandma, The Moon* EXCERPT: I prepared myself for a seven-hour stretch in the car, which wasn’t terribly challenging after so much practice. I had Peaches the artist to keep me company (“keep on it, keep on it, you own it…”) and perfect faith that seven hours was no big deal, that I could eat it up, that it was a privilege to have so much unint…
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*Harriet's House of Healing* EXCERPT: My last scheduled night in Colorado came and went, so I’d have about a week to account for before seeing Gangaji. ‘What’s another seven days of shelter manifestation?’ I chuckled to myself. However, it felt wrong to ask my Colorado people to extend my stay with them. I knew it felt wrong because my gut said so.…
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*The Birthday Surprise* EXCERPT: I’d never been into a strip club before (except for that one time in Guam…) because I’d always made assumptions about what they represented and what kind of people spent time inside. Now, of course, I was making a habit of questioning everything. Were strip clubs the naughty, gross, exploitive, venues full of lowlif…
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*Privilege* EXCERPT: The following chapter was written contemporaneously with its release (that is, in April of 2021).... Now that the book is complete and I am releasing it, in standard Evy Wallace unconventional fashion, as this podcast, it occurs to me that the time I spent wandering and wondering and writing were merely placeholders, giving me …
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*Broken Promises* EXCERPT: It’s challenging to explain my level of hunger, because I was many steps away from starving to death. But there’s a wide swath of human experience that lands somewhere between feeling fully satiated and dying of starvation, and while I was never worried that I wouldn’t have enough, and I’m certainly not complaining, I was…
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*The Spiritual Road Trip* EXCERPT: When I arrived in Utah, I was surprised at how many people were milling about the public park who seemed, by their appearances, to not have reliable shelter. It’s hard for me to call people homeless, because then it becomes their identity, their title, their permanent truth; this same inescapable labeling tends to…
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*The Goddess Chakra* EXCERPT: In those early months, my learning curve was steep. I learned that sexual needs represent an appetite that is just as legitimate, important, and unattached to shame as hunger. I learned that men weren’t the sex machines I’d been falsely conditioned to believe they were. (As it turns out, men are people, too!) I learned…
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*Self First is NOT Selfish* EXCERPT: In walking the walk of my shifted value system, in following the constant call of my deepest divinity, in prioritizing the needs of my own heart and spirit, I was often accused of acting selfishly. My mom certainly seemed to think so. Others who had never expressed one iota of concern for my or my children’s wel…
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*To All Things A Season* EXCERPT: Let me be clear: I was not pretending there wasn’t a loss to be mourned. Transformations come with growing pains. My fifteen-year marriage was ending; this ending was correct and necessary, and it was extremely uncomfortable for (what felt like) unbearably long moments. And yet, just as my heart kept beating after …
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*I Am A Strange Loop* EXCERPT: This saga started two full summers ago, when I saw the writing nook for what it really was and heard Maestro, who had just died, say from behind me, “it’s always been a book.” No, that’s not right. It started in the autumn of 2016, when Marshall left us and cracked the universe open on his way out. Or maybe it started…
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Welcome to Lifegasm Book I: Marshall's Promise, released in podcast form for your (free!) listening pleasure. EXCERPT: In October of 2016 I looked death right in the eyeballs and I woke up to truth. When I hear myself say this, I hear how it might sound arrogant or egotistical. But the moral of this story is not that I am any more or less special t…
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Chef Evelyn Garcia, owner and chef of Kin inside Politan Row, joins us this week via Zoom to talk about her move to New York, her travels around the world, and now opening her own concept. Kin - houston.politanrow.com/kin Thank you to our partners Boerne Brand Hot Sauce and Zero-Point Organics for making this podcast possible. Boerne Brand www.boer…
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This week Chef Conor talks with Chef Erin Feges of Feges BBQ via Zoom about the ever changing landscape for restaurants. Feges BBQ https://www.fegesbbq.com/ Thank you to our partners Boerne Brand Hot Sauce and Zero-Point Organics for making this podcast possible. Boerne Brand www.boernebrand.com Zero-Point Organics www.zero-pointorganics.com…
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This week Alex Au-Yeung, owner and operator of Phat Eatery, talks with Producer Chef Conor and guest co-host Pitmaster Brett Jackson of Brett's BBQ Shop about his venture into the restaurant business. Phat Eatery https://phateatery.com Thank you to our partners Boerne Brand Hot Sauce and Zero-Point Organics for making this podcast possible. Boerne …
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This week Sherman Yeung, first year restaurateur of Tobiuo Sushi & Bar, talks about the move from cook to owner in just a short period of time. Thank you to our partners Boerne Brand Hot Sauce and Zero-Point Organics for making this podcast possible. Boerne Brand www.boernebrand.com Zero-Point Organics www.zero-pointorganics.com…
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Michelle Wallace, executive chef of Gatlin's BBQ, talks with us this week about finding a career in cooking and learning just how big barbecue is in Houston. There are a ton of stories and even more laughs in this week's episode. Thank you to our partners Boerne Brand Hot Sauce and Zero-Point Organics for making this podcast possible. Boerne Brand …
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Welcome back to our regularly scheduled podcasting! This week we sit down with John Reed, CEO of Bosscat Kitchen & Libations and much more, to talk about growing from one sports bar to 11 businesses across the US. John was gracious enough to talk about his sobriety, his struggles in the restaurant industry, surviving both hurricane Harvey and COVID…
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Federico Cavatore opens 25% of his restaurant, Cavatore's, dining room tonight so we talk ahead of time to discuss policies and procedures he's taken to insure a safe environment for his guests and his staff. Cavatore's: http://www.cavatores.com/ We reference the Texas Restaurant Promise: https://www.txrestaurant.org/sites/de... Thank you Boerne Br…
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Eric Sandler joins Darren and Conor on an emergency podcast episode where we discuss the new COVID-19 regulations on restaurants and how this will impact the industry. We hope this episode and the ones to follow can help those in the food service industry by providing information, tools, and resources that others may be able to use. If you can help…
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Ben Sassani, owner of one of the franchise locations of Kung Fu Tea (https://www.kungfutea.com/), joins us via the phone to talk about the different social media strategies and businesses tactics he has used to help his business during the COVID-19 outbreak. We hope this episode and the ones to follow can help those in the food service industry by …
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Mary Thorn, owner and operator of Thistle Draftshop (https://thistledraftshop.com/), and head chef Ernesto Villarreal, join us via phone to talk about how they have made significant pivots and changes to their business during the COVID-19 outbreak. We hope this episode and the ones to follow can help those in the food service industry by providing …
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Chris Nikolas, owner and chef of JUST GRK (https://www.justgrk.com/), takes time to talk with us via the phone about how his business is changed by the COVID-19 outbreak. We hope this episode and the ones to follow can help those in the food service industry by providing information, tools, and resources that others may be able to use. If you can h…
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Thomas Nguyen, co-owner of Peli Peli and Peli Peli Kitchen, talks to us via the phone to talk about what steps he and his team are taking during the COVID-19 outbreak. We hope this episode and the ones to follow can help those in the food service industry by providing information, tools, and resources that others may be able to use. If you can help…
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Lance Eaker, Pitmaster and owner of Eaker Barbecue (https://www.eakerbarbecue.com/), talks to us via the phone about how his food truck business has changed since the COVID-19 outbreak. We hope this episode and the ones to follow can help those in the food service industry by providing information, tools, and resources that others may be able to us…
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Chef Austin Simmons of TRIS (https://triswoodlands.com/) and The Kitchen (https://thekitcheninthewoodlands.com/) talks to us via the phone about what he and his team are doing during these unprecedented times. We hope this episode and the ones to follow can help those in the food service industry by providing information, tools, and resources that …
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A very special episode this week as we are joined by two amazing pitmasters, Wayne Mueller of Louie Mueller Barbecue (https://www.louiemuellerbarbecue.com/) and Ara Malekian of Harlem Road Texas BBQ. We cover a range of topics this episode and left the mics recording for a little longer, but listen all the way through as both Wayne and Ara drop som…
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Brothers Don and Theo Nguyen join us this week to talk about their barbecue pop ups and combining great bbq with some traditional Vietnamese dishes. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https://www.boernebrand.com/), Zero-Point Organics (https://www.zero-pointorganics.com/), an…
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Eric Sandler, Food Editor of CultureMap (http://houston.culturemap.com/author/eric-sandler/articles/) joins us this week to discuss what it takes to host a podcast and write about the food scene in and around Houston. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https://www.boernebrand…
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Ronnie and Linda Nguyen, co-owners of one of Houston’s most popular bánh mì establishments Roostar Vietnamese Grill, join us this week to talk about their humble beginnings to opening their second location and now expanding their original locations footprint. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boern…
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Chef Arash Kharat joins us this week to discuss the opening of the new Buffalo Bayou Brewery building and what it takes to run a three story establishment. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https://www.boernebrand.com/), Zero-Point Organics (https://www.zero-pointorganics.co…
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Michael Sambrooks, of Sambrooks Management which oversees the operations of The Pit Room (https://thepitroombbq.com/), Candente (https://www.candentehtx.com/), 1751 Sea & Bar (https://1751houston.com/), Sam’s Fried Chicken & Donuts (samsfriedchickendonuts.com), and Pi Pizza (pipizzahtx.com), talks with us this week on what it takes to run all these…
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Jackie and Cory Yates, owners of Jersey Bagels (https://jerseybagelstx.com/) join us this week to discuss opening one of the first hand rolled bagel shops in Houston. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https://www.boernebrand.com/), Zero-Point Organics (https://www.zero-point…
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John and Veronica Avila, owners of El Burro & the Bull and the Henderson & Kane General Store, talk to us this week about opening their new stand alone brick and mortar restaurant. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https://www.boernebrand.com/), Zero-Point Organics (https://…
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Russell and Misty Roegels of Roegels Barbecue Co (https://www.roegelsbarbecue.com/) join us this week in part 2 to deep dive into what it truly takes to run a barbecue restaurant. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https://www.boernebrand.com/), Zero-Point Organics (https://w…
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This week Joey Machado, marketing director of FOGO Charcoal, talks with us about the BBQ world and how premium charcoal plays a major role in it. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https://www.boernebrand.com/), Zero-Point Organics (https://www.zero-pointorganics.com/), and o…
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Russell and Misty Roegels of Roegels Barbecue Co (https://www.roegelsbarbecue.com/) join us this week to deep dive into what it truly takes to run a barbecue restaurant. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https://www.boernebrand.com/), Zero-Point Organics (https://www.zero-po…
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Blake Stoker, owner and pit master of Blake's BBQ (https://www.facebook.com/Blakes-BBQ-1189254797773684/), joins us this week to talk about how he turned a passion into a business and is looking forward to the future with a brick and mortar location in the works. Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), B…
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Thomas Nguyen, co-founder of Peli Peli (https://www.pelipeli.com/) and Peli Peli Kitchen (https://www.pelipelikitchen.com/), talks with us this week about growing a business from one location to now having five locations around Houston.Thank you to our sponsors Duke's Premium Meats (https://www.dukespremiummeats.com/), Boerne Brand Hot Sauce (https…
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