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Enjoy juicy and informative interviews with the acclaimed author Dr. Patti Taylor of ExpandedLovemaking.com and the Expand Her Orgasm Tonight System - 21 Day Program for Partners, as she talks with world-renowned experts on sex, sensuality and real-life practitioners of the art and science of orgasm! Expanded Lovemaking is a fusion of ancient erotic wisdom and modern practices and insights, where you learn to share ever-expanding bliss with your partner. Email Dr. Patti at patti@personallife ...
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Namaste, I am Gael. My podcast is about Love Light and Universal Harmony and how they are to me A Universal Trinity of Health and Evolution. I am an Artist. A Painter, a Poet and a Musician. I am also a Fervent Practitionner of Buddhist Meditation and through the years, by Focusing on my Breath of Life and Heart Center I have reached an Understanding of Life rooted in Pure Energy. Like a Cosmic Flower or a Cosmic Tree breathing from my Heart Center to my Roots and vice-versa, breathing from ...
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Spit Or Swallow is a podcast hosted by self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator of the federal republic @hausachocolate who puts the ‘ho’ in wholesome. SOS navigates and explores the world of Sex and Sexuality with no limits. Nothing is too over the top, embarrassing or out of bounds. It’s a journey of liberation, enjoyment and education. A judgement free zone demystifying sex matters where we unlearn harmful ideals, while having fun and gaining practical tips to live your best sex life along th ...
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Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast! Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal. Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more. Themes: Lon…
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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "…
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Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the so…
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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth,…
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What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between d…
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On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person vi…
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In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienc…
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Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the…
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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spiri…
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On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love wit…
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Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means t…
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On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyD…
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On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate …
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On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamo…
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Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication…
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It’s another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season! On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it’s like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos! Themes: Gender, Sexuality, Lab…
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On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you’re propositioned by a couple and more! Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power Dynamics Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! St…
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On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure. Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender Norms Enjoyy Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Se…
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On today's important episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by storyteller Valerie Ekpo and the girls talk red! They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis. They also talk about period sex and period shame. Enjoy! Themes: Periods, Period Sex, PCOS Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connect…
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On this juicy episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an SOS favorite Ed Goth Boy and they get into a loaded and informative conversation about what gets us in the mood for sex. How media influences the kind of sex we have, they also go into sex playlists and the differences between Ritual and Ego Sex Music. Dive in and enjoy! Themes…
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Dr. Patti returns to talk to Bruce Frantzis about sexual chi gung (qi gong) practices. Discover why today's world creates men and women who are too tired to have sex... and what you can do to reverse this situation. You'll enjoy hearing the practice (for men and women) of rubbing on a tofu cake for developing hand and finger sensitivity. (This can …
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Join in as Dr. Patti talks with Martin Smith, marketing director for the Sinclair Institute. Since 1991, The Sinclair Intimacy Institute™ has developed adult sex education videos covering everything from advanced sexual positions to erectile dysfunction solutions. Their best selling Better Sex Video Series has sold more than four million videos in …
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Ladies, when is the last time you checked out sexual enhancement products? If it’s been more than six months, then you’re in luck. The variety in sex toys is exploding rapidly. You can buy innovative new devices to custom fit your current relationship status, your very shape, and every mood. Some of the old favorites are more popular than ever, and…
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Dr. Patti talks with Daka Raj, advanced practitioner in the art of expanded orgasm, about "sandboxes". Dr. Patti has been teaching sandboxes for many years in all of her writings, as well as in her new 21 day program, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight. Sandboxes are a staple of her core teachings. What is a sandbox? Why are they so juicy? What is their val…
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Crystal Dawn Morris is a Certified SkyDancing Tantra Teacher, healer, and coach. Listen in as Dr. Patti and Crystal explore Tantra - a spiritual path that celebrates the body as a temple – and where our life force energy is our sexual energy. Listen to Crystal’s own journey of kundalini awakening through lovemaking. Discover how to access this kund…
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Listen in as Crystal Dawn Morris shares about enhancing your multi-orgasmic potential through Tantra. What does Crystal teach men and women to do as a routine part of learning this skill? Why is emotional clearing so important, and exactly what types of trauma can affect your sexuality? How can you clear that these energies? How does a woman develo…
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Lou Paget is a Certified Sex Educator and grassroots researcher. She is the Best selling author of FIVE books, translated into TWENTY-SIX languages and represented in over SIXTY countries with over THREE million copies sold. Among her books are Orgasms: How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming, and The Big “O”. What is an orgasm? Why is on…
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Dr. Patti returns to talk with Lou Paget, a Certified Sex Educator and grassroots researcher. Would you like to keep the passion even more alive and energized within your relationship? Here’s your chance. What do men and women secretly say about the other gender? What do they really want? How can you spice things up in the bedroom? How can you use …
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Today on the show we are talking to Tallulah Sulis about Female Ejaculation – that expulsion of fluids, also known as “squirting”, or “gushing”. It’s the “wetness” women can experience during pleasurable and often intense orgasms. But what is female ejaculation, really? Can every woman really do this? What is the range of experience possible? And h…
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Today on the show we are talking to Tallulah Sulis again about Female Ejaculation. Female Ejaculation – or squirting - can be enjoyed for pleasure, healing, and connection. Tallulah has just released Squirt Your Heart Out: Unleash Your Explosive Sexual Power (SquirtYourHeartOut.com) so we have the expert with us now! Women everywhere report having …
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On this riveting episode your fave Hausa Chocolate is joined by two Erotic Writers Ore Badmus and sexfluencer Ola AKA Lavezzed Out. They talk about erotica, sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships and share some real life and slightly garnished sex stories. Enjoyyy!! Themes: Erotica, Sexual Fantasy, P…
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As mental health awareness month draws to a close your favorite host Hausa Chocolate touches on the nexus between mental health and sex. How they are connected and all moving parts of the same system. She discusses the psychological benefits of a good Sex Life, some sexual dysfunctions and the importance of sexual self-actualization, and more. Enjo…
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On this exciting episode of the pod, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by queer activist, creative, and writer, Kayode Ani. They dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realities of queerness in Nigeria. Kayode shares his experiences being an activist, they discuss his journey, facing violence as well as the various …
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On today’s episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by visual artist, Alexis and they discuss bad sexual communication during sex. We always go on about ‘communication’ being the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom? Enjoy! Themes: Sexual Communication, Shame, Ghosting Don’t forget to rate us …
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On this super interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an Adult Film Star and they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry. Wunmin Savage shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria. They talk about dealing with the attention, revenue and so much more! Themes Di…
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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Lotanna Don and they discuss Oral Sex, its importance, societal and gender attitudes towards giving and receiving oral sex and share some of their experiences. They also discuss tips for better head and Hausa Chocolate whips at some interesting tools so don’t forget to catch the episode on YouTube to…
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This week on the pod Hausa Chocolate is joined by @the_mansu, CEO of HerRyde and they have an insightful conversation about reconciling sex and sexuality with religion. A lot of societal attitudes and views on sex are shaped by religion and interpretations of it, so how do you express yourself sexually when some of your beliefs are inherently suppr…
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On this episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by music consultant Folusho OG and they have a hilarious, informative episode about masturbation, early sex education, MMF threesomes, sexting, sex tapes, and the underground sex scene. Themes Discussed: Erotophobia, Morality, Monogamy Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected w…
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On this week's episode, our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by TV presenter and fellow podcaster Valerie Ike. They dive into a riveting discussion about sexual communication and all the chaos in between. Why don’t people communicate with their partners easily about sex? How do you express your sexual needs? What happens if you throw up E…
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This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Coco and they have a super interesting discussion about the continuum of sexuality and attraction. If a bisexual woman can only have sex with women but will date and marry men could that be homophobia and social conditioning? How much of our preferences are not externally influenced? Tap in to listen to this …
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On this sizzling episode, our self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator is joined by Ashley Okoli where they discuss sexuality and sensuality, objectification, Living confidently as your truest self and so much more! Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people to find and enjoy the podcast Themes discussed: Sexualization, Sexuality,…
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On today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Ashley Okoli and they discuss sexuality vs sensuality, how people often use them interchangeably, dealing with preconceived notions and certain types of energy when you’re perceived as a ‘sexual being’. They also touch on authenticity and living confidently as your truest self and much more. Themes Di…
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Our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is back and putting the ho in wholesome. On this episode, she’s joined by illustrious artist and photographer Anna Roberts and they discuss the intricacies and nuances of coming into oneself sexually, sexual expectations of men and overall ways to have a more fulfilling sex life. Themes Discussed Stereotypes, Pl…
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This episode, Our host - The Orgasm Gap Eradicator' and The Pleasure Priest - Two women in the sexual wellness space link up for an exciting episode. They discuss sensuality, sex education, teaching women how to connect with their bodies and how to live a more orgasmic life. And much more! Themes discussed: Sensuality, Orgasms, Sexual Wellness, Sex…
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On this episode, our host is back for a new season with bigger, badder energy, still putting the ‘ho’ in wholesome and staying sexy while doing it. She is joined by musician and the podcast producer 'RnB Princess, they take a peek into Hausa Chocolate’s DMs, discuss interesting “Sex Lives Of’ submissions and share a few Sex Stories. Themes discusse…
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And for our last episode of the season, our host is joined by health professional, Dr. Nosa Jeff Oshodi (a.k.a Dr. Stallion) to discuss sexually transmitted infections, diseases and all other sexy time infections. In this episode, they discuss the distinction between STIs and STDS, unprotected sex, using over-the-counter relief options or self-medi…
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This week our host is joined by one of the sexiest men in Nollywood, Eso Dike. In this episode, they discuss sexual stereotypes and ‘sexpectations’ of men alongside parental influence and sexual kinks. Eso also shares some tea on his experience as an attractive actor in Nollywood, being sexualized, ‘pretty privilege’ and more. Themes: Stereotypes, …
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On this week’s special solo episode, our host takes us through an in-depth discussion into having better and more enjoyable sex. She dissects popular sexual myths, explores the importance of some key sexual concepts such as consent, communication (when & how), masturbation, performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, and more. She also speaks about…
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