Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends. If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you. You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
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Episode 295 Finding Refuge From The Email Carpet Bombing
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the narcissistic practice of email Carpet Bombing. This is the practice of incessantly sending repeated emails in order to hook you into an argument, to tell you are doing it wrong, to harass and demean you and to cause as much chaos as possible to get you to engage. This is an important concept to underst…
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Episode 294 Legal Abuse and Going it Pro Se With Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson from Been There Got Out
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In this episode Brook has special guest Lisa Johnson from Been There Got Out to discuss how High Conflict Personalities can drive legal abuse in the family court system and how to organize yourself to be able to go it with out an attorney. Lisa brings some good information to a scary subject. You can contact Lisa through their website beentheregoto…
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Episode 292 The Tightrope Act of Keeping The Kids Out of the Middle
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the struggles that come with dealing with a ex that isn't on the same page and exhibits narcissist like behaviors and how to navigate keeping the kids out of the middle of ongoing conflict. You Can contact and follow Michelle at these links :http://www.coachmichelle.club/ instagram is CoachMichelleSD https…
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Episode 293 High Conflict Co-Parenting Combating Harassment and Abuse An Interview with Talking Parents
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In this episode Brook Olsen and Kelli Avallone Join the Talking Parents team on their Co-Parenting and Coffee webinar to discuss Parallel Parenting and the use of Co-Parenting Apps. During High Conflict Co-Parenting and dealing with Narcissism and other personality disorders the use of Co-Parenting Apps like Talking Parents can be a useful tool in …
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Episode 288 Blind, Confused and In the Abyss. Now What.
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In this episode Brook and his co-host for this week Michelle Mitchell discuss the common state that happens when people enter into and realize the complexity of a High Conflict Divorce or Custody Case with someone with a personality disorder such as Narcissism or Borderline personality disorder. This is not unusual and working one's way through the…
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In this episode of the High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast Brook and Tony discuss the difference between Capacity and Competency and that building of the container ( Capacity) has to happen first and then from there Competency can build. Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.” https://www.highconflict.…
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Episode 286 Where Did It All Go Forensics and Tracing Assets
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In this episode Brook speaks with Attorney Kelli Avallone about the in's and out's, Features and Down sides of teaching for "Hidden Assets". Finding Assets can be difficult and deciding to do so should be a "Return On Investment" inquiry. Enjoy!!!! You can reach Kelli at kelli@atty-avallone.com Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: …
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Episode 285 Navigating Kids & Tech Doesn't Have to Be Scary
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In this episode Brook speaks with guest Forest Bronzon from Digital Detox. Forest is the CEO of Digital Detox whose goal and purpose is to educate parents, schools and children in the differing ways to use the digital environment in a healthy and connected manner. During divorce and high conflict custody battles it is often hard to navigate boundar…
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Episode 284 Parallel Parenting Tweens and Teens, Finding Stability and Reducing Unnecessary Stress
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In This Episode Brook and Tony discuss the unique stress that Tweens and Teen face in dealing with High Conflict Co-Parenting situations and how parenting styles can either mitigate the stress or exacerbate it. Giving the children room for expression and choice in direction for their lives and holding space and patience for their process is essenti…
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Episode 282 Cyber Security, Keeping Yourself Safe During Divorce and Custody
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In this episode Brook has special guest David Forrestall CEO of SecurIT360 to talk about how to best secure you and you children from the ability of your Ex or for that matter anyone else from being able to track/cyberstalk. Mr. Forrestall give practical and useable information on securing you devices, social media, cloud based storage and applicat…
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Episode 280 Distortions and Triggers With Dr. Debra Dupree
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In this episodeDive into the captivating world of human interaction with Dr. Deb Dupree on her guest appearance on “The High Conflict Co-Parenting” Podcast. Join Dr. Deb and Brook Olsen as they explore the intricate workings of our brains in conflict situations, unraveling the neuroscience of conflict to shed light on 10 common triggers for fear-ba…
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Episode 279 A Time for Transformation and New Thinking With Shelly Boismenu
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In this episode Brook has guest Shelly Boismenu MFT as his guest. Brook and Shelly discuss how the period of time during high conflict divorce and custody struggles, is one of the most fertile times for transformation and new ways of thinking. Looking toward what you want to create rather than the pain of the past and what has you stuck. By working…
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Episode 278 Finding The Yes With Your Children in Kid Friendly Terms with Tamara Fyke from Love in a Big World
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In this episode Brook brings in guest Tamara Fyke, Tamara Fyke is a creative entrepreneur with a passion for kids, families, and urban communities. She is the creator and founder of BlueWonder Creative which focuses on children’s mental health and wellness in education through Love In A Big World. Finding yes and navigating power struggles with chi…
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Episode 276 Navigating High Conflict Divorce and Custody with Therapist Brian Burns From the Bad Weather Podcast
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In this episode Brook has guest therapist Brian Burns of the Bad Weather podcast in to discuss Navigating High Conflict Divorce and Custody. Brook and Brian take a dive into the Karpman Drama Triangle and pull it apart in a deeper discussion of the role parents play in it, and how it sets the energetic template for how children experience being cau…
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Episode 273 Finding Resilience During the Chaos
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You can follow Brook on Instagram @ highconflictdiversionprogram Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.” Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet @ https:/disengage.highconflict.net/free-booklet Join our mailing list: Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time https://www.highconflict.net/e…
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Episode 272 Brook's Interview With The Bad Weather Podcast
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This episode is from an interview that Brook did on the Bad Weather Podcast. The Bad Weather Podcast is one that is focused on helping people navigating divorce and high conflict divorce. These gentlemen bring humor and intelligence to a difficult subject. Enjoy!!! You can follow the Bad Weather Podcast at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-…
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Episode 271, Understanding The Harm Parents Cause Children During Hostile Divorce. A Conversation with Joni and Lawrence Jones Co-Founders of Point C
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In this Episode Brook interviews Joni and Lawrence Jones Co-Founders of Point C. Lawrence is a retired Superior Court trial judge in New Jersey and Joni is a mental health professional the served under two New Jersey governors. Point C is a non-profit who's mission is to empower parents and professional to put the well-being of the children as a pr…
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Episode 270 Red Pill or Blue Pill Piercing the Veil Waking Up in The Matrix
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Using the analogy of the choice of taking the red pill or the blue pill from the Matrix movie, Brook and Tony discuss the choices of waking up to different ways of processing situations and using critical thought and sense making to explore different ways of being and ways of thinking a seeing the realities of where you are in your process. Not onl…
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Episode 268 Journey Beyond Divorce Interviews Brook On Parallel Parenting
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This Episode is and interview that Brook did with Karen McMahon from Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast. It centers around High Conflict Parallel Parenting and is well worth the listen. Enjoy!! Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.” https:/disengage.highconflict.net/free-booklet Join our mailing list: Di…
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Episode 266 Creating a Narrative VS What is Your Story
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In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the difference between telling a story and creating a narrative. The story is something that you tell yourself and others that has your beliefs and perspectives and can often be self deceptive and not fact based. A narrative is fact based and is meant to lead the listener to a conclusion based on same. Listen …
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Episode 267 High Conflict Co-Parenting Styles,Problematic-Pathological Parenting
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In this episode Brook and Michell discuss some of the unconscious ways parents inject behaviors into their parenting and how it affects the children and the unintended consequences there of. Enjoy!!! You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd. Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.” https:/…
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Episode 264 Setting Strategies and Moving Toward Goals, Reverse Engineering
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the importance of having a coherent strategy that is well thought out and that can have a set of goals that can be worked toward. The notion here is to Mind Map out the strategies by setting the goals and the reverse engineering them. Seeing the completed picture and setting the pathway from there. Enjoy Y…
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Episode 262 Responsibility, Choices within Choices, Outcomes and the Continuing Unfolding of Life. Don’t Regret, Grow
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the importance of having deep thought as you make choices about how you approach the conflict with the other parent, thinking about long term outcomes and then taking responsibility for the unfolding. This is something that as parents it is important to model for the children but equally teaching them the …
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Episode 258 Starting from Where You Are With Michelle Mitchell
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the importance of orienting to just where you are it the process, whether you are just thinking about the separation process or you are deep in the throughs of high conflict, using exactly where you are as the starting point and planing where you want to go. Getting the help and direction from the proper s…
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Episode 252 Tending to Your Garden_/Children,Weeding,Feeding, and Nurturing for Resilience
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In this Episode, using the metaphor of gardening, Brook and Tony discuss how the need for tending to your children as a garden, monitoring, weeding, analyzing and nurturing on a daily basis is needed on a ongoing basis in order to insure strength and resiliency for them now and into the future. Enjoy!!! Download the Free High Conflict Diversion Pro…
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