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Jaemin is an award-winning life coach and author. He is the founder of The Insecurity Project and specialises in helping ambitious mid-lifers eradicate insecurity so they can show up to life unhindered by doubt, fear, and self-limiting beliefs. He is widely recognized as one of Australia's best personal development coaches and a leading voice globally on the subject of personal insecurity.
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Episode 307. Leunig, alcoholism and why I wish I was more insecure
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On todays episode: What the Olympics has to teach us about game theory and an explanation of the three main games each of us are invited to play. Why I have no respect for sobriety and why alcoholism is entirely a solvable problem (if indeed an alcoholic wanted it to be solved). How listening to an audiobook from someone who is long dead instantly …
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Episode 306. Being delusional, scaring Christians, and putting the past behind you
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On today’s episode: Why most of what you read on the internet about healing the wounds of your childhood is dangerously misleading. What I did to upset a couple of scared Christians this week and last week. How negative feedback from people who are not well placed to know who you are or to receive your gift, is actually very helpful in becoming a s…
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Episode 305. Kings and Queens and making your peace with God
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On today’s episode: Why I got into trouble with last week’s episode and what I learnt about chess and marriage in the process. Why I bought twice as many fence posts as needed and what happened when I got home. And, the importance of cleaning the space in your 3 most important relationships and why the order of which relationship to work on first r…
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Episode 304. Bad prawns, thinking problems and making women upset
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On today’s episode: The purpose of thinking. National identity as a construct. Why I offended 2 women at my last book event, and why it is likely to happen again in the future. The primary role of parenting and why you shouldn't let your kids do things that make you not like them (Jordan Peterson’s rule 5). And why I’m never going to Bali again.…
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Episode 303. Fighter jets, ADHD and the memories that stick
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On this episode: An update on the upcoming insecurity project events. The evolutionary process from a bird's wing to the latest fighter jet and what that has to do with your place in the natural world. A critique on the prevalence of adults diagnosed with ADHD and other mental health labels and why the world rewards dysfunction more than health. An…
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Episode 302. Sam Neill, sound systems and how to be idle.
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This week on the Unhindered podcast; The impact of the in-home sound system on modern life and an explanation of the mechanics of sound itself, How listening to the great Sam Neill narrate his life story reminded me about the illusion of separation, Why familiarity closes your heart to the divine, A few countercultural insights from Tom Hodgkinson’…
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On episode 301: - Why disappointment and embarrassment often go hand in hand, and why it is essential to revisit the very first time this happened in your life. - Dealing with my daughters daddy issues. - An update from the Self-permission book tour and why I'm still waiting for someone to agree with me about the book. - And the purest dream I've h…
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On the 300th episode of the Unhindered podcast: My first strongly negative feedback about the new book and what that means for me leading into my national book tour. Why ‘more courage and less fear’ is the worst advice you’ve ever heard. Why it won’t be enough to understand all the games you are currently playing, you’ll have to rank them in order …
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A five minute taster for the full audiobook.By Jaemin Frazer
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Episode 299. King Charles and the 10 principles for healing the wounds of your childhood
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On today’s episode: How I survived and even slightly enjoyed recording the Self permission method audiobook. I’ll tell you why this experience was different to the last two times I’ve recorded my books. I’ll also share part 2 of the conversation with myself about my internal resistance and how I regained full permission to power up in this season (…
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Following on from my hot take on the Australia Day debate last week, I'll show you another piece of coaching content to help you make sense of what to do with these kind of issues in the world. Also on today’s episode I’ve shared my own experience of how the self-permission model played out in real time over the last few weeks in my life so that yo…
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On the first episode for 2024, I’ve got an excerpt from my new book “The Self-Permission Method” to whet your appetite for the book launch in a month or so, and I open a can of worms by examining the current debate about Australia Day. See what happens for yourself when the delicate and polarising subject of the date of Australia Day is brought ins…
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On the final episode for 2023: The one biggest hindrance to listening to yourself and how to overcome it so that you can access the deep wisdom contained in your own heart. The life-changing insights and discoveries gained from my annual thinking week retreat. (What’s a thinking week you may be asking? Tune in to find out) And an exciting announcem…
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On today’s episode: My best guess about why you keep tuning in to this podcast and what my most important contribution to your lives really is. How to know when you’ve named your deepest fear precisely enough to make insecurity a solvable problem (and what happens when you haven’t). Some audio from a client who is wrestling with this very challenge…
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Episode 294. Let me summarise your life in 6 words
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To summarise your whole life in 6 words is a bold claim, so let me be a little more precise but no less bold and aim to summarise your pain, disfunction and suffering in just 6 words. If you are willing to try it on, I’m sure you’ll find this elegantly simple summary gives you more than enough clarity to defeat your worst fear for good.…
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On today’s episode I’ll show you what it means to have faith, where faith comes from and why it is so important for it to be tested. I’ll also share the five key ideas on how to become the kind of person who holds onto their faith in what they cannot see especially when their hopes and dreams seem impossible. To have the full and effective human ex…
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On today’s episode, again I’ve been given permission to share a real coaching session. If you’ve ever struggled with these kind of issues, I’m sure you’ll find this conversation very useful - Long running or lingering health issues that the doctor doesn’t know what to do about. - Noticing the ability to manage, force or fight yourself effectively t…
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On today’s episode I’ve been given permission to share a recent one on one coaching session If you’ve ever struggled with these challenges, I’m sure you’ll find this conversation useful: - Knowing you have value to add to the world, but procrastinating about ever fully speaking your message. - Discovering that the ‘more courage, less fear’ approach…
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Episode 290. Politics, poker and polarisation
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On today’s episode: Why the game of politics rewards insecurity and what that means for the average citizen, What to make of the polarising debate about the upcoming voice referendum, (and which way I’m voting…) And what the game of poker has to teach us about knowing when to go all in with what you have in your hand.…
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On today’s episode of the podcast: Taking cues from an Aussie football star on the dilemma of talking about the things you are good at, Losing the ability to sleep as a direct result of unresolved internal issues, Why I had permission denied on the next phase of my grand book publishing plan and how I got it back again, The good reason I started ga…
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Episode 288. Life lessons from a German sauna
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On today’s episode: What I learnt about insecurity from a bunch of naked German oldies. The importance of pressure testing personal growth, Hidden wisdom from the creator of Young Sheldon, How knowing the rules of the game of life gives you an unfair advantage, And why goodness is a function of choice.…
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Episode 287. Hitchhiking and great German rules
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On today’s episode: My first public statement on the ‘Burpgate’ saga. Does Ivan Milat’s death mean it’s safe to Hitchhike now? Why sport makes me cry. Examining the problem with the ‘only human’ language pattern What the depraved behaviour showcased in ‘The sound of Freedom’ movie reveals about human nature. Understanding some brilliant German rule…
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This week on the Unhindered Podcast: In response to a ridiculously light weight article published in Time magazine on anger management, here are three rules that offer real world wisdom on the subject instead. Also, why getting permission from yourself to succeed is great, but permission to play is even better. And why the feedback from last week's…
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Episode 285. Eminem and and the meaning of life
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I was in a silly mood for this one…On today’s episode: What does Marshall Bruce Mathers III have to do with life’s hidden meaning? The 2 nap induced epiphanies I had this week. Just because someone has a cool name doesn’t make them a legend. Why it’s OK to drink VB. Even if you’re not a real tough kind of guy. And, the great pressures endured by Ch…
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Episode 284. PTSD and Autoimmune diseases
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This week on the Unhindered Podcast: How to enjoy gluten, dairy, sugar and alcohol even when your doctor says you should never ingest these items ever again. Why The Apostle Paul and Saint Augustine guessed the wrong answer to the right question, and why each of us are still paying for their mistake. And why I’m supremely confident in the quality o…
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Episode 283. State management for beginners
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Everything changes in your world when you discover the wonderful art of state management. State really is king. If you can control your state, you can also control your outcomes. On today's episode I'll show you the three most important levers to quickly and effectively change your state no matter what is going on around you. Also: Why you are not …
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On today’s episode: What my daughter discovered about the single most difficult part of being a life coach. Why the self-esteem movement got caught focussing on the wrong solution to the right problem. More thoughts on the use of Psilocybin for personal development in a therapeutic context. And why editing the first draft of my latest book is a lif…
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Episode 281. Bio-domes, taking risks and updating agreements
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On this week’s episode: How I ‘cooked the goose’ while writing my next book. Why perfect conditions are never as desirable as you’d imagine. The best thing Helen Keller ever said. Why risk averse people are actually the ones in most danger. How one of my clients got drunk on his own fumes for 3 days And the joy of John Farnham’s bagpipes.…
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My guest today is Charley Valher. Charley is an award wining business, marketing and investment expert from Melbourne who has just completed the Unhindered experience. He was happy to share very personally about his experience eradicating insecurity from his life and answer these tough questions on the subject. - Can you describe your initial resis…
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Episode 279. Turning dreams into reality (without backing music)
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A big welcome to the bunch of new listeners from the US over the last few weeks. Here’s what’s on today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast: - Un update on speaking at TEDx and where I’m at in the book writing process. - Why self-promotion always sounds weird and a gentle reminder about why you are special, but your problems are not. - Breaking fre…
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A big welcome to the bunch of new listeners from the US over the last few weeks. Here’s what’s on today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast: - Un update on speaking at TEDx and where I’m at in the book writing process. - Why self-promotion always sounds weird and a gentle reminder about why you are special, but your problems are not. - Breaking fre…
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Episode 277. Year 9 maths and the structure of things.
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In order to experience lasting change your life, it is essential to first understand the exact structure of the way things are now. On today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast I'll show you exactly why this is so damn important. Also on this episode: The hidden link between the formula for the volume of a cylinder, and the process of eradicating i…
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All success and achievement starts in the mind. As Napoleon Hill says: “More gold has been mined from the thoughts of men than has been taken from the earth.” His book “Think and grow rich” is undoubtedly one of the all-time classics, but his authors note before he launches into the secret of wealth may be the best book introduction ever written. T…
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On todays episode: The great value of psychedelics in healing therapy, spirituality and helping becoming genuinely good humans. I’ll explain how to harness the power and grace of these natural substances and avoid the one big danger. How to live in a way where the goal is to disappoint as many people as it takes to never disappoint yourself again. …
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Episode 274. Neck pillows and knowing who you are
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It's taken me a couple of weeks to process and integrate all the learnings from the trip of a lifetime to the US and Guatemala with my son, but I've put together some reflections that I think you'll enjoy. Here are some of the highlights from this episode: Why I'm likely to win parent of the year unless chimpanzees assess the awards criteria like t…
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Episode 273. Jaemin interviewed by Sean Steele
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Get a behind the scenes view of the Insecurity Project and all that has gone into my journey to this point as Sean Steele follows his curiosity and turns the mic around to interview me. Here are some of the great topics we covered: When you set such high standards for your own life, how does that play out in your parenting What is the biggest misun…
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Episode 272. The only thing to fear is fear itself.
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On today’s episode of the Unhindered podcast: You may have heard me talk about my power and grace tattoos before, but today I’ll explain what happens when I get them around the wrong way. Even though these words still are my most important course correctors, this week I got myself in strife by looking for grace when I really needed to use my power.…
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Episode 271. Teaching someone how to love you
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Teaching someone how to love you. On today’s episode: - The $50million dollar solution to the problem of Australian bushfires that’s already working. - Why Malcom Gladwell’s book Blink isn’t that great, and why Jordan Peterson’s book beyond order is. - How to make an affogato properly. - The single most important question to ask your spouse and for…
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On today’s episode: - Showing up in other people’s dreams as the messiah. - The problem with running your business as a one-woman band. - My plan B if this life coaching thing doesn’t work out. - How I resolved my back pain in 30 minutes. - And, how to align the 4 key areas of life so that you win your most important games.…
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Jessica Wilson is a repeat tech entrepreneur and cofounder of Women Making Waves which uses NFT’s to fund law reform in Australia and the USA especially in areas that are adversely affecting women. She is a remarkable human doing extraordinary work in the world with an incredible story to tell. Her retail tech company Stashd’ operates in 150 countr…
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On todays episode of the Unhindered podcast find out: What Jesus was doing at the Super Bowl, Why it’s ok for football players to behave poorly at home, except in my home town of Goulburn, How to go viral on Instagram and stop wanting to be rich and famous, Why you should NOT stop caring about what others think. And why zooming out every once in a …
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Flow is defined as the most meaningful and effective experiences we get to have as humans. It is the moments of bliss, inspiration, clarity and power that transport us into the supernatural realm and allow us to achieve truly extraordinary results. Every has this magic inside them. The issue is, can you access it when you need it most? On today's e…
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The Insecurity Project podcast has a new name! From henceforth it shall now be known as the Unhindered podcast. There really is only one goal - To be completely unhindered so that you can show up to life at your best where it matters most. There really is only one problem - Hidden or unresolved insecurity is the only thing that ever stops people li…
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Episode 265. Imagination, generalisation and the 7 secrets of magic
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If you've listened to much of the podcast before, no doubt you'll have heard me say that in order to fully overcome all insecurity, you'll have to go back to the moments in your childhood where you created these fears about yourself in the first place. But what happens if you just CAN'T remember? Especially when the research suggests these formativ…
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Episode 264. Filipa Bellette - Being Unhindered
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Today's guest is Filipa Bellette. She is just about to finish the 6 month Unhindered experience with me and wanted to share what has happened in her life as a result. Filly was already a highly successful, highly motivated, multi award-winning business woman who didn't really know that there was hidden insecurity capping her performance before we s…
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Episode 263. Jordan Peterson and the 3 levels of awareness
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Like thousands of others in Australia this week, I was lucky enough to get to hear Jordan Peterson speak live in Melbourne. It gave me a fresh take on the importance of his voice in the world today and why feminists seem to hate him so much. On today's episode I'll unpack my favourite insights from his lecture. I'll also show you a simple model for…
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Episode 262. Matthew Perry and the subject object switch
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On today’s podcast episode: Why Matthew Perry's brand new autobiography should be on your must read list - even though it is definitely one of the worst books I’ve ever read. The very best thing about being a victim, but why the moment you use it, you lose the game for good. (This was so important to share that I had to pause the music to make sure…
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Here is the final live coaching session for 2022. Penny has courageously allowed me to share our coaching conversation with you all knowing that her problem is very typical of almost every ambitious adult in the mid-life season. Some of the issued covered in this session are: Reconciling the desire to be seen and heard with the costs involved How t…
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Episode 260. Blessed are the pure in heart
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This episode is a little longer than normal. Instead of the usual 10 minute Tuesday or my long form interviews and coaching sessions, today I want to talk about my own experience with Christianity and how it relates to overcoming insecurity - specifically I’m talking about how the bible addresses the dilemma of feeling like part of you is not good …
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Today’s podcast episode is a live coaching session. These sessions are always rare, raw and very special, simply because they require such a high level of vulnerability from the person willing to share their coaching experience. They also demonstrate how simple and hard transformation really is. In the conversation we examine these themes among oth…
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