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I’m Jill Coil, the author of the book and docuseries “No One Dies from Divorce.” But with the mental, emotional, financial, physical, and spiritual toll that divorce takes on people, the scope is so big that I decided to create a podcast, so this can be an ongoing conversation.Divorce sucks. I know because I’m a divorce attorney and have divorced hundreds of clients at this point. I also went through a separation myself with my husband. Though our journey ultimately did not end in divorce, i ...
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Do you feel stressed out, bewildered, emotionally compromised, or overwhelmed with navigating your divorce? Today we are talking with author Andy Heller about how to deal with high-conflict divorces and co-parent effectively. Through his own divorce and life experience, Andy has outlined a pathway for how to manage emotional, logistical, and financ…
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Samantha Boss spent years in and out of court, fighting to modify a poorly crafted divorce decree. This experience inspired Samantha to begin coaching others through the divorce process in order to help more parents avoid the pitfalls of parenting plans. Join us on this episode as we talk about the need for a solid, perfectly tailored parenting pla…
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Divorce is hard on everyone. Between Mediation, decrees, lawyer fees, court dates, parent-time, and more, the divorce process can create a lot of chaos. Often the children of divorce get lost in the conflict, and their voices are not heard. Today we are talking with Grace Casper, a young woman who was a child of divorce. Grace is sharing her perspe…
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Shelly Anderson is passionate about life's journey and the stages we grow through. At times that includes loss, divorce, and death. Join us as we discuss how grief isn't just a single stage, and that trauma becomes a part of who we are. Time does not heal all wounds; time allows the body to absorb the wounds and create space so we can mourn the lif…
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If you're divorced and dating or dating a divorcee, then this episode is for you! Listen in as Naja Hall tells it like it is. Blended families are difficult under the best of circumstances, but marrying someone with a High-Conflict divorce comes at a cost. It will test you mentally, emotionally, and financially, and test your relationship with your…
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Regardless of where you're at in your marriage or divorce process, there are a few key things to consider before choosing to stay or go. Divorce coach Kate Anthony talks about the importance of doing the emotional work which can guide you to finding joy and/or exit with grace. She says, Happiness is an inside job and it begins with making the choic…
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The question we should all be asking ourselves Why not ask is relevant in all facets of life. From high-conflict divorces to negotiations in the workplace, we can all benefit from the art of having Crucial Conversations that apply to all our relationships. Join us as we talk with Negotiation expert, Christine McKay, about how Negotiation isn't abou…
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Make your passion your purpose and it becomes your profession, something Tara Seals, The Bossy Educator has definitely accomplished. As a child of divorce, an educator, and a bonus mom herself, Tara knows all about what divorce means for children. In this episode, Jill and Tara dive into the unspoken trauma and confusion that impacts children when …
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For Jill and Joanna, family law was a calling. A call to represent the underdog and even the playing field for fathers. Both women have set the bar high in establishing firms that advocate for equal rights, parent time, and a voice is doing what's best for the child. Too often children are weaponized and used as leverage for money and control. List…
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Navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce can be exhausting and at times infuriating. However, many couples are able to come to peaceful resolutions having little to no conflict with the help of experts Jan and Jillian. Divorce doesn't have to ruin your life, but it will redefine it. In some cases, it may open old wounds and push you to find emot…
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You are in for a wild ride as we journey down the Rabbit hole of corruption with the Murdaugh family murders. At the center of it all is underage drinking, poor parenting, white privilege, and a prominent family wrapped in a web of deceit and corruption. On the surface what appeared to be a reckless boating accident turned into the scandal of a cen…
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So you fell in love with a partner who has kids! Everything seems pleasant at first, but quickly you become villainized as the “wicked stepmother.” You feel overwhelmed, unseen, blamed, and like you're always walking on eggshells. If this sounds like your journey as a step parent, join us as Radical Stepmom Christina shares her personal and profess…
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Today we are talking with Mary Crafts about her hard won life lessons in her newly published book, Unbounded: From Sorrow to Summitt. At 50 Mary found herself, overworked, overweight, and in a toxic loveless marriage. Something had to give. Join us as she shares her wisdom on how to honor yourself, reclaim your life, and let go of fear.…
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In this episode we uncover the outdated beliefs and practices within the legal system and how being a strong, independent woman comes with unique challenges. Listen in as Jill and Kathleen share their journey to success by overcoming the odds and obstacles of discrimination, shaming, and self doubt within the legal field. Join them as they champion…
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Sadly our society and the legal system encourages that we stack the evidence against our spouse to justify why we deserve a divorce. Often this approach only makes things worse and children become the collateral damage. There is another way. Today we are talking with Kate Strong about what it really means to do divorce differently. It starts with A…
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Dating after divorce can be daunting and exhausting. “The grass isn't always greener. It still has to be watered and most of it is fake. 80% of the dating pool is junk, they haven't done the work to be a good date,” says Katy Clark. Join us as we dive into how to reinvent yourself post divorce, start your Glow-Up and go from frumpy to fabulous with…
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Often when we are young we are blinded by love and overlook the small acts of indiscretion and disrespect in a relationship. Years later after marriage, kids, and abandonment of self, we face divorce filled with anger, fear and resentment. Together Jill and Cindy are on a mission to eradicate the shame and stigma around divorce. Listen in as certif…
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Divorces are messy, especially when it's time to clean house and sell! Today we are talking to divorce real estate expert, Joe Gordon on why you want a certified specialist vs. a standard agent when selling a house during a divorce. Having experienced his own divorce and the complexities of selling, Joe understands the delicate process it is to unr…
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With a New year, new you under way, this might include new relationships. But first, before we can start something new, we need to break up with the old and let go of what is holding us back. Join me and Leanne Kanzler as we talk about how to Breakup to Breakthrough and live your best life! It's time to break free from what isn't working.…
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There is no shortage of drama in Utah when it comes to the Wizard of Oz, Jen Shah and Momtok “swinger,” Taylor Frankie Paul. Jen Shahs is facing potentially 30 years in federal prison for fraud and Taylor is facing solitary confinement as a newly proclaimed monogamous woman. Shah struck gold by defrauding elderly people out of their retirement and …
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"How can I help the individuals going through a traumatic event like divorce,” is the question psychiatrist Amy Parry asks herself? Oftentimes teenagers get thrown to the side when parents are divorcing. Amy was drawn to teenagers who are struggling with the fallout of divorce on mental health. In her work she focuses on trying to understand what t…
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With the holiday season upon us, we often become quickly overwhelmed with to-dos. In this episode, Steph Andersen talks about the power of healing and yoga: to unit or become one with self. If the heartbreak of divorce and fractured relationships have you stressed out, take a minute to release those trapped emotions and center yourself. Finding bal…
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Relationships are hard and being human is complex, especially when you're going through a divorce. Today we are diving into why therapy is beneficial to individuals and families during or post separation. Divorce doesn't erase the relationships, it just changes the dynamics. We all need a safe space to unpack the emotions without shame or blame. Li…
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As an expert on attachment theory, Dr Morgan shares with us her insights on how to attract relationships you deserve. In today's episode we discuss how the habit of putting others' needs before our own, or ignoring our internal experiences, drives us to seek distractions from dealing with ourselves. Join us as we explore how healthy romantic relati…
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You can't fight for your rights if you don't know your rights. Rob Jepson has dedicated his career to helping divorcees avoid heartache, pain, and financial setbacks through solution oriented mediation. We all need guidance on what is legal, within our rights, and what we really want during divorce. Join us on this episode as we talk about the goal…
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While navigating through the turmoil of his own divorce, Andy Heller read countless support books to help him through the process. He identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women experiencing divorce. His book, “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family,” is his give back with a stated goal of ma…
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Jahan Kalantar fell in love with advocating for the little guy. During the pandemic, overnight he went from a booming practice in Syndey to zero revenue. The Government's regulation was confusing, convoluted and divisive. So he took to TikTok to help explain the law in plain English. Then he struck TikTok gold with the Depp-Heard case, or as he cal…
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Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo co-host one of the top marriage podcasts on Apple called, The One Extraordinary Marriage Show. From their own experience and years of helping others, they know a thing or two about what it takes to make any relationship last. It starts by understanding the six pillars of Intimacy. Tony and Alisa have written a best selling …
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Shakira and Gerard Pique split after 12 years together. They have two children together. There is much speculation and gossip around why they are breaking up. Join us as we go into all the juicy details of the power couples split. Shakira’s hips may not lie but her lips aren’t moving and the truth behind their break up may never come to light. And …
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Michael Wise is a paralegal for MoxieLaw, a personal injury firm. He is dedicated to helping people find peace and closure through difficult times, including the struggles many of us have with mental health. Today Michael and I will be discussing the very sensitive yet crucial topic of suicide. Join us as we go over 5 things you can do to help you …
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Welcome to season 2! Tessa is the founder of The Job Doctor. A practice dedicated to building career strategies and re-engaging people in the workplace. She believes anyone and everyone can gain new skills to enter the workplace and thrive. Tessa was newly divorced and had been out of the workplace for a while. She knew she had to provide for her f…
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Krista Andersen is passionate about living fully, family, conflict engagement, using words to heal instead of harm, and creating memorable experiences. Her passion for how words are used to heal and harm led her to the field of mediation where Krista is devoted to helping clients learn how to engage in conflict in healthy ways. Knowing that conflic…
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You sometimes have to fall flatter on your face then you ever have to be able to stand taller than you ever could. This is exactly how Megan Sanford would describe her experience of being addicted to Meth, pregnant at 19, and not knowing if she would be here tomorrow. Megan shares her most vulnerable story with the world in hopes that it will give …
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Immigration is scary and a complicated process for those that have started, are in the middle and/or are in the final stages of the process. It can be almost paralyzing when having to deal with immigration when going through a divorce. In fact many think that they cannot divorce or leave an abusive relationship because of their immigration status. …
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Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard’s Defamation trial has been heard around the world. Millions are captivated at every move, argument and evidence that has been presented regarding Johnny Depp's Defamation case against Amber Heard and her Counter Complaint for Defamation against Johnny Depp and his Lawyer. Jill Coil and Sterling Swank break down the trial…
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Life after divorce allows you to be true to who you really are. So often in marriage, we forget our own needs because we are busy taking care of our spouse and our children. Because of this, we end up losing sense of what we want and what our needs are. Divorce gives us that chance to rediscover who we are and what we want to be. Today’s guest, Let…
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Taken from Chapter 1 of my book, No One Dies from Divorce: How to Survive and Thrive When Your Marriage Ends. This is a book about not only surviving divorce but also coming out on the other side stronger and more capable. The scariest part about divorce is the unknown, the questions that keep you up at night: Am I going to be okay? Are my kids goi…
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Most assume the financial ramifications of a divorce to be devastating, but with the right legal and financial counsel, divorce can offer the chance for a new financial beginning and opportunity. Today’s guest, Rick Salmeron, is a certified financial planner and knows firsthand about the financial issues that arise when getting divorced. Keep your …
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The mission of the state funded programs, DCFS and CPS (Division of Child and Family Services and/or Child Protective Services), is to keep children safe from violence, abuse, and neglect. If DCFS/CPS shows up at your door, you likely have a lot of questions about their process and what your rights are at each stage of the process. Tune in if you a…
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TR Morgan has presided in over 10,000 hearings as a former Domestic Relations Commissioner for the Utah Courts. After years of practicing on the bench, TR joins to share his background, judicial philosophy, and best practices when your case goes to court. Tune in to learn more from a retired Commissioner! T.R. Morgan grew up in Northern Utah playin…
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Can I keep my inheritance safe from divorce? The short answer is yes, however you need to ensure you’re protecting money by knowing your state’s laws. Regardless of your state, I always advise that you avoid commingling these funds, and to consider getting a trust as an added layer of protection. If you’re the recipient of an inheritance, tune in t…
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