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Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face. A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the fa ...
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Could you be the key to unlocking your child’s heart once again? In our heartwarming episode with Dr. Amy Baker, we explore the multifaceted journey of healing through parental alienation. Discover the essential strategies to become an A++ parent, even in the face of hurtful statements from your estranged child. Dr. Baker sheds light on the transfo…
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Discover the hidden dynamics of parental relationships with Dr. Amy Baker, a leading developmental psychologist, in our latest episode of the Family Disappeared Podcast. We'll unpack the critical differences between parental alienation and estrangement, offering parents invaluable insights on handling these emotionally charged situations. Learn how…
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What if unconditional love could be the key to transforming your most challenging relationships? Join us in part 2 of our conversation around love, as we uncover the profound impact of practicing unconditional love, especially when dealing with alienation. Through personal stories and insights from the 12-step program, we explore the emotional, spi…
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When love comes with strings attached, it can entangle our hearts and minds in ways that are hard to unravel. This episode shines a light on entanglements with transactional love, revealing the profound shifts in mindset afforded by the unconditional love experienced through a 12-step recovery program. In this episode, we have a group discussion, s…
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When the heartache of a fractured family finds a path to healing, the story resonates with a profound truth about the human spirit. Renee's narrative of reuniting with her sons after an agonizing 30-year separation is a testament to the resilience we all harbor. In our latest episode, we traverse the emotional valleys and peaks of her journey, reve…
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The echoes of estrangement can resonate deeply, reverberating through the hollows of a parent's heart. Join us as we welcome back Renee, whose narrative of reconciliation after a 30-year rift with her children, offers a poignant testament to the resilience of familial bonds. Her experiences, layered with moments of hope and heartache, provide a com…
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As the sun set on a day marked by my daughter's distant wedding vows, I found comfort not in my solitude, but in the shared resilience and ingenuity that Anna and I bring to the table as we host another episode of Family Disappeared. Together, we peel back the layers of parenting in the absence of traditional contact, revealing the strength found i…
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Imagine the piercing silence of a father's heart as he misses his daughter's wedding, or the hidden tears when a grandchild's first cry echoes, and he's not there to share the joy. Lawrence Joss, in a stirring narrative, unveils the emotional landscape of parenting in absentia—sharing not just the pain but the triumph in creating bonds that transce…
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Have you ever felt the weight of family dysfunction heavy on your heart? Together with Allison Garner and two passionately committed parental alienation advocates, we traverse the emotional minefield that so many face but few dare to discuss. Our conversation is more than just an exchange of stories; it's a treasure trove of insights and strategies…
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Embarking on a heartfelt exploration, with myself, Geo, as guest host this week, we grapple with the heavy shadows of shame and guilt, those unwelcome companions that have trailed many of us from childhood to the labyrinth of parenthood. With the sagacious Allison Garner, an executive coaching connoisseur, our roundtable pulses with the shared beat…
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As an alienated father, I've walked the rocky path of connecting with my daughters through the thinnest of threads, and that's where I discovered the healing balm of Nonviolent Communication (NVC). With my guest, Mary Mackenzie, we unravel my journey, and offer you the tools to mend and deepen the bonds within your family, even when the waters of c…
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Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a heated argument, desperately wishing for a lifeline to navigate the emotional chaos? That's where my encounter with Nonviolent Communication (NVC) revolutionized not just how I speak, but how I live. Alongside the wisdom of Mary Mackenzie, a seasoned NVC trainer, we venture into the transformative real…
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Ever struggled with the delicate dance of blending families and navigating the shadows of parental alienation? I know I have. This week on Family Disappeared, join me, Lawrence Joss, alongside Steve and Alain—both fellow alienated parents—for a candid discussion on these intricate dynamics. We peel back the layers of introducing new partners to our…
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Have you ever wondered how the threads of a new family are woven together amidst the remnants of the past? On this heartfelt episode of Family Disappeared, we traverse the intricate path of remarriage and step-parenting. As your host, Lawrence Joss, I share a slice of my own life, revealing the profound impact of these transitions on children, and …
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As I unraveled my own knots of estrangement and marital upheaval, I discovered the unexpected gifts hidden in life's trials. Our latest podcast episode invites you into this personal journey, alongside insights from Dr. Paul, who illuminates the indispensable role of energy management in navigating the turbulent waters of family dynamics and child …
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When hope flickers in the darkness of life's toughest moments, transformation awaits. Dr. Paul Jenkins, a psychologist specializing in positivity psychology, joins the conversation today, illuminating the path to emotional wholeness. The conversation includes Dr. Paul's response to the heart-stopping diagnosis of his son's cancer, and champions the…
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As I laid bare the raw edges of my heart, recounting the times my children seemed like distant stars in a sky I could no longer reach, our community conversation took a turn toward the cathartic. We navigated the difficult terrain of parental alienation, a path I've walked with heavy steps, and emerged with a deeper understanding of the healing pro…
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The pain of family estrangement cuts deep, and in our latest episode, we grapple with this silent struggle alongside guests from the PAA community. We share not only our own heart-wrenching experiences of alienation from our children but also the journeys of others who are navigating these turbulent waters. Embark on a conversation that is both a m…
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Embarking on a profound odyssey through emotional landscapes, I found that healing personal wounds and transforming relationships starts with the language we use and the understanding of our own neural pathways. Our guest, Sarah, with her expertise in relational neuroscience and self-compassion, joins me to share insights that can turn the brain in…
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Embarking on a healing journey often feels deeply personal, yet it's a path that can resonate with many. My own voyage through the valleys of disconnection to the peaks of joy, love, and community has been marked with profound interactions and insights. In our conversation, Sarah Peyton, an expert in nonviolent communication and family constellatio…
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Have you ever yearned for a connection that seemed perpetually out of reach? Ceyhun's raw narrative in our latest episode takes you deep into the heart of such a longing, where the shadows of parental alienation within an intact family contour adult identities and relationships. He bravely exposes the emotional toll of striving for a father's valid…
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Have you ever felt caught in the middle of your parent's silent wars, loving them both yet torn by their underlying discord? I'm Lawrence Joss, and in this poignant conversation, we explore the complex world of parental alienation within intact families. Joined by Ceyhun from Turkey, we offer a cross-cultural perspective on family estrangement, and…
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Have you ever reached for pen and paper, hoping to mend bridges with heartfelt words, only to find yourself at a loss? Dr. Josh Coleman joins us to explore the cathartic journey of writing an Amends letter, a voyage that might begin with you, but has the power to heal entire family systems. In a conversation that's as raw as it is insightful, we ta…
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Embarking on a journey of reconciliation can be as daunting as it is necessary, especially when the estrangement lies within the delicate fibers of family. I, Lawrence Joss, alongside the insightful Dr. Josh Coleman, delve into the often-unspoken paths of familial healing, and the profound act of writing amends letters. Navigating the complexities …
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This season on Family Disappeared podcast, I, Lawrence Joss, alongside my new co host Geo, welcome you back for a deeply personal exploration of family dysfunction, and the transformative power of healing. With the added perspectives of experts like Josh Coleman, Karen Woodall, and Amy Baker, we're widening the lens to include the BIPOC and LGBTQ c…
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As the frosty air ushers in a season of merriment, our latest podcast episode wraps you in a blanket of heartwarming tales and transformative discussions. Joined by the remarkable Renee, along with Anna and Geo, we traverse through the complexities of the holiday season, touching on the joyous, the challenging, and everything in between. Imagine fi…
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As we step into the holiday season, dealing with family disappearances and parental alienation can feel like navigating an emotional minefield. Imagine unraveling the complexity of such experiences while striving to reclaim the joy of the festive season. Sounds challenging, doesn't it? In our latest episode, we make space for this difficult convers…
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Can you imagine the profound impact of family systems on children, particularly during instances of divorce and parental alienation? In a raw and insightful conversation, we explore this topic with our guest, Darryl, who was once an alienated child, and is now a father himself. Together, we dissect the role of codependency, the lack of boundaries, …
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Have you ever wondered how the unseen dynamics of parental alienation can profoundly shape our relationships and lives? This episode is a journey into the complex world of alienation and it's impact on families. Our guest, Darryl, an adult who has lived through alienation as a child and now as a parent, opens up about his experience. His story, fil…
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As families gather this holiday season, the empty seat at the table can be a painful reminder for parents alienated from their children. But what if there are ways to handle these gut-wrenching moments, and ultimately, find paths to healing and reconnection? Tune in as we share our raw experiences, and the coping mechanisms we've discovered. In thi…
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Navigating the holiday season after experiencing family separation or alienation can feel like walking on a tightrope. But remember, you're not alone. Listen in as Lawrence, along with a panel of parents, discuss their personal journeys of recovery, and share strategies for maintaining the joy of the holidays amidst the pain of alienation. Hear abo…
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When navigating the labyrinth that is the family court system, where does one turn for guidance and support? Enter Larry DeMarco, the founder of the Law Center and the Family Court custody bootcamp, an expert who knows the "ins" and "outs" of this intricate system. In this candid conversation, Larry generously imparts his knowledge, offering invalu…
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Have you ever felt like a small boat lost in the stormy sea of the family court system? I know I have, and you're not alone. I sat down with Larry DeMarco, founder of the Law Center and creator of the Family Court Custody Bootcamp, to unravel the complexities of this daunting process. A warrior who battled his way through the system, Larry shares h…
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Every parent's journey is unique. Add in the complexity of dealing with parental alienation, estrangement, or disconnection, and you've got a recipe for a whirlwind of emotions. In our latest episode, we navigate these turbulent waters with our returning guests, Geo and Betsy. The conversation explores the fear and discomfort about bringing such a …
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Have you ever felt the soul-crushing pain of estrangement from your children due to parental alienation? We invite you to join us on a journey of healing, resilience, and personal growth through the heart-rending narratives of our brave guests, Betsy and Geo. As they unload their decade-long battles with parental alienation and estrangement, these …
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How often have you walked the 'high road', believing it to be the road to success, only to find it's not always the best route when engaging with the complexities of parental alienation? Join me, Lawrence Joss, as we dismantle this concept and explore the profound impact it can have, not just on us, but our children as well. We'll dig into my perso…
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Ready to arm yourself with the tools to battle parental alienation in a custody battle? Join us as we sit down with the highly esteemed Dr. Lynn Steinberg who shares her knowledge on the matter. From navigating the tumultuous terrain of the court system to getting emotionally and spiritually resourced, Dr. Steinberg’s insights are invaluable for an…
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Navigating the court system can be a daunting expedition. In this episode, we're joined by Dr. Lynn Steinberg, a seasoned author, advocate, and psychologist, who's also served as an expert witness. We discuss navigating the courtroom, self-representation challenges, and the importance of taking control of your legal journey. She shares practical ad…
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“We try to be the best version of ourselves we can be, but it takes time, and it takes work.” ~ Lawrence Joss Many people often make the mistake of thinking it is the job of other people to fill the voids and mend the broken pieces within us. However, WE are the only ones who can do the inner work to better ourselves. While we need the right tools,…
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"You don't put up boundaries. You have boundaries. You put up walls." ~ Lawrence Joss Host Lawrence Joss has invited a panel of parents who have 'been there before' to share the benefits of their hindsight. Today's episode unpacks some of the common mistakes parents make when trying to reconnect with their loved ones. The beauty of this episode is …
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Have you ever witnessed a child who is 'inundated', feels overwhelmed, and doesn't know how to respond to a situation? Wherever we may find ourselves within the family system – as a child, parent, grandparent, or partner – feeling dysregulated or ‘triggered’ by our loved ones can cause us to say and do things we may later regret. Dr. Mandy Cisler i…
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Have you ever experienced the feeling of dysregulation – and lashed out at a child or loved one because you were in a highly emotive state? Dr. Mandy Cisler is a somatic therapist, coach, and founder of the ‘Healing Framework’. She is an expert on a mind/body integration approach that supports you in regulating your nervous system. In this episode …
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"I feel really safe in the PA-A community. And that's allowed me to heal." ~ Alienated Mom "How can I create deep and meaningful, loving, reciprocal relationships in my life?" ~ Alienated Dad 'Alienated Mom' and 'Alienated Dad' are in conversation with Lawrence Joss in this, the second part, of a thoughtful interview that sheds light on the subject…
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What does it look like to recognize that you suffer from parental alienation? What can you do about it? Where can you turn to for support? Meet 'Alienated Mom' and 'Alienated Dad,' whose identities are protected in this episode for the sake of anonymity. The two are in conversation with Lawrence Joss, sharing parental alienation, and the joy of dis…
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"I wanted everyone to change. I just wanted them to do the right thing. I thought that if they just did the right thing, I'd be OK. That the pain, the desperation, the confusion... that all that stuff would just go away." ~ Lawrence Joss Are you disconnected, alienated, estranged, or possibly erased from your children – or even your grandchildren? …
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"Identifying and labeling some of the things that were happening in my life was incredibly important to me starting my journey of recovery." ~ Lawrence Joss Are you disconnected from other family members? Are you struggling with the pain of estrangement from your loved ones, and looking for emotional support and guidance on where to turn? In today'…
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"And what tribal knowledge is, is that there's a lot of people that have gone through a lot of different things at different times in their lives, and they have information on how they got through stuff, or how they messed stuff up. And in a community, we get to share that together in a constructive way." ~ Lawrence Joss Do you find yourself strugg…
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Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face. A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the fami…
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