Best Lola Phoenix Podcasts (2024)

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Episode 139 - Boundaries vs. Rules 27:43

2h ago27:43

27:43

If you frequently don’t follow your boundaries with action, your brain could respond with anxiety because of the self-sabotage. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link a…

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Episode 298: ‘Gloryhole Virgin’ (Jeffrey Allen Hayes) 29:42

39m ago29:42

29:42

In this episode, we dive into the hilarious and awkward world of Gloryhole etiquette with professional Game Master Jeffrey Allen Hayes. New to the world of anonymous sex, Jeffrey finds himself perplexed by an invite on the Scruff app. As he navigates the uncharted territory of Gloryholes, he wonders: Do you RSVP? Should you bring baked goods? And w…

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Episode 138 - Conflicting Routines 21:14

4d ago21:14

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Trying to work out intentional time together when life circumstances and sleep schedules get in the way without taking it personally can be a challenge. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Ch…

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Episode 137 - Meta's Fault 20:45

21d ago20:45

20:45

Your partner is making decisions about your relationship based off of your metamour’s feelings and resentment is building.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Episode 297: ‘Strap-On Olympics’ (Tatyana Brown) 30:46

22d ago30:46

30:46

My friend, has life gotten you so down that you’ve forgotten that you have Superpowers? Bay Area-based writer, performer, and educator Tatyana Brown is battling break-ups, job loss and the Sads; so should she really given up on sex at this young age? Hoping to jumpstart her libido, she heads to a play party and when a beautiful woman says “I could …

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Episode 136 - Long Distance Sharing 22:49

1M ago22:49

22:49

If you don’t want any other partners sharing your bed, is this jealousy or just a reasonable boundary? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.co…

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Episode 296: ‘A Stubborn of Queers’ (Kelli Dunham) 33:49

1M ago33:49

33:49

When you’re incapable of an emotional connection, can hookups fill the gap? When Nonbinary Polyamorous Storyteller Nurse Comedian Ex-Nun Kelli Dunham loses multiple partners to cancer, she looks for community in a Brooklyn LGBT Grief Support Group, and ends up loafer-deep in anonymous sex among the scrubby pines of Fire Island. Plus, Dixie talks Se…

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Episode 135 - Long Distance Avoidance 20:34

2M ago20:34

20:34

You’ve done all the studying but still can’t shake the negative feelings when your partner dates others and you think you may be monogamous by nature. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my a…

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Episode 295: ‘Orgasm Leader Board’ (Kevin A. Patterson) 26:40

2M ago26:40

26:40

Has a bad breakup ever made you think ‘the only way to get over someone is to get under someone else’? Author and Ethical NonMonogamist Kevin A Patterson is feeling a bit lost and confused, so he grabs his Bang bag and orchestrates his own gender non-specific traveling hand orgy. For one entire day, he schedules tag team handjob deliveries, because…

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Episode 294: ‘First Nude, Last Nude’ (Dirty Lola) 28:49

2M ago28:49

28:49

Have you ever cried because you hate the body you’re in? Netflix celebrity Dirty Lola gets onstage at Bawdy in Baltimore to tell the story of Sir, a kind Texan with a Southern Drawl who slides into her DMs to propose an arrangement. A fan of her Titty Tuesday posts, Sir suggests a year of virtual service, and quickly becomes Lola’s online Dom. Soon…

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Episode 134 - Polyamory and Trauma 31:30

2M ago31:30

31:30

Seeing yourself as “traumatised” may actually be causing yourself more stress and difficulty than if you allowed yourself the permission to feel. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliat…

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Episode 293: ‘Man’s Country’ (Race Bannon) 30:43

2M ago30:43

30:43

My God, that Leatherman is so hot - but why is he limping? In this vintage 70’s story, Leather & Kink Legend Race Bannon take you on a private tour of his first Gay Bathhouse, and this story is a doozy! Join us as we venture into Man’s Country, a private membership gay men’s club featuring 3 stories of wild adventure, including a theater, gym, rest…

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Episode 133 - Pressure to Open 26:18

3M ago26:18

26:18

Coming at a crossroads in your relationship with compatibility can make you feel a pressure to open your relationship, but rethinking that might help. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affil…

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Episode 292: ‘Dixie loves Wet Bread’ 24:39

3M ago24:39

24:39

Did you know that there’s an enclave of Bawdy SuperFans in Nashville, Tennessee? This episode is a Behind-The-Scenes story, the story behind the stories, if you will. For those who love the Dixie Ramble, get ready for a Puppet and Clown and Music Video filled birthday party (spoiler alert: wemay have broken the Birthday curse). Plus, the story of 2…

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Episode 132 - Mind Reading 26:58

3M ago26:58

26:58

If you feel too uncomfortable to ask for what you want from your partner then holding resentment towards them for not meeting your needs may not be fair. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affi…

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Episode 291: ‘Freaks Need Love, Too’ (Flora Goodthyme) 23:23

3M ago23:23

23:23

Can you guess the best makeup remover? Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Flora Goodthyme grew up feeling the pressure of her family’s heteronormative expectations, and struggled with what commitment could look like (some family members were on their sixth marriage, and many cheated). So she moved her single gay ass to San Francisco, discovered the sex…

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Episode 131 - Cheating Introduction 24:24

4M ago24:24

24:24

Can you move from cheating to a “successful” polyamorous relationship and what needs to happen? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠⁠ f…

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Episode 290: ‘Magic Trick’ (Scoby Goo) 22:29

4M ago22:29

22:29

Is that a Magic Wand in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me? Cuddle Party Facilitator and Intimacy Coach Scoby Goo feels like an outsider until she stumbles upon our little storytelling show, and its inclusive atmosphere changes everything for her. Obsessed, Scoby follows Bawdy from city to city, and becomes captivated with a Seattle magic…

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Episode 289: ‘Surprise Party’ (Phoenix Mandel) 33:44

4M ago33:44

33:44

Have you ever desperately craved ‘grown-up time’? Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel is working as a Travel Nanny with a rare night off in Canada, so when they are Invited to what they assume is a casual house party, they’re determined to make the most of this child-free time. But when Phoenix arrives, they discover it's actually a lively kink and sex-the…

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Episode 288: ‘Momsexual’ (Tracy Clark-Flory) 30:42

4M ago30:42

30:42

Holy Baby Bump, talk about the best sex of your life! In this week’s story, journalist, essayist, and author Tracy Clark-Flory is eight months pregnant and the bigger her belly grows, the more distant she feels from her usual spank bank cravings. Should impending motherhood change her fantasies? In search of answers, Tracy interviews a whip wieldin…

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Episode 130 - Deprioritised 26:26

4M ago26:26

26:26

If you know you’re being deprioritised and you just feel you can’t leave, can you actually make it work. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhel…

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Episode 287: ‘Footwear on Fire’ (Al Rahm Lujan) 27:29

5M ago27:29

27:29

Dixie is back, and so is the Podcast! In this episode: You’ve been told ‘Don’t do Bondage when you’re High’, but have you ever heard a true story that illustrated that point? Well, Science tells us that we learn best from a story, so this week, we have an informative ‘Don’t Try This at Home’ story for you. Punk Rock Leather Daddy Al Rahm Lujan was …

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Episode 129 - Struggling to Be Together 18:51

5M ago18:51

18:51

You can’t live your life only making decisions based on what will or won’t disappoint other adults. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠ for 1…

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Non-Monogamy Help Trailer 1:00

5M ago1:00

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What's Non-Monogamy Help about? I explain it. Head to nonmonogamyhelp.com for more details.

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Episode 128 - Stopping Emotions 18:09

6M ago18:09

18:09

Is there really a way to stop your emotions in their tracks or fully control them especially if you’re in a difficult housing situation? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://bet…

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Episode 127 - Polyamory for Straight Dudes 13:41

6M ago13:41

13:41

Giving my best recap of what straight men might face when it comes to the lifestyle of polyamory. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠ for 10% off…

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Episode 126 - Living With Partners 20:18

6M ago20:18

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Living with people is already hard but living with a new partner and a metamour you don’t have a connection with can add to the challenge. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠https:…

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Episode 125 - De-escalating from Polyamory 24:07

7M ago24:07

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Is there a way to do polyamory without doing polyamory or de-escalate when you figure out that polyamory is not for you? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠https://betterhelp.com/n…

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Episode 124 - Reasonable Boundaries 24:22

7M ago24:22

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Knowing what boundaries are “reasonable” and which aren’t can be complicated in polyamory, especially when difficult feelings are involved. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones…

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Episode 123 - Keeping Things Equal 19:00

7M ago19:00

19:00

How do you keep things equal between your partners especially when it comes to introducing them to family? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and the art was made by Do…

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Episode 286: ‘Spicy Pervertible’ (McKenning Wood) 27:55

8M ago27:55

27:55

🎧 Episode 286: ‘Spicy Pervertible’ (McKenning Wood) Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large Episode Description: Have you ever awakened so achingly horny that you can’t even complete the Highlights Word Search? Black Queer Activist McKenning Wood is freshly divorced as Pandemic hits, and the lonelines…

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Episode 285: ‘On The Air’ (Bill Ratner) 32:09

8M ago32:09

32:09

What’s the best way to usher in the New Year? On this week’s episode, legendary voiceover artist Bill Ratner shares a true story from his early days in Radio: When his green card bride Claudine leaves him, he’s alone during the Holidays in an empty double wide and his evening shift duties at KJOI (LA’s easy listening music station). So when a fan r…

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Episode 122 - Jealousy vs. Envy 17:15

8M ago17:15

17:15

Sometimes long distance is difficult and the emotions it makes you feel aren’t always jealousy. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ and the art was made by Dom Duong at ⁠⁠⁠⁠…

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Episode 284: ‘Holiday Hookup’ (Dixie De La Tour) 28:14

8M ago28:14

28:14

Be careful with that Erection; you’ll put an Eye out, kid! Sexual Folklorist & Christmas Orphan Dixie De La Tour isn’t traveling for the Holidays, so she offers to petsit and housesit for a friend (hint: there’s a hidden agenda). Her hosts hit the road and the intrigue begins: Dix spends Christmas Eve interviewing 3 (4?) men to find the perfect cas…

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Episode 283: ‘AssDance’ (Leah Carey) 32:53

8M ago32:53

32:53

Have you ever let your tongue finish the dance that your ass began? Podcaster & Sex and Intimacy coach Leah Carey has never believed that great sex was something she deserved, but as she begins to seek out sensual, kinky live events in her local community, she meets a man who makes her feel safe enough to try new things. Together, they set a bounda…

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Episode 282: ‘Kinky Love Story’ (Madison Young) 31:06

9M ago31:06

31:06

“Kinksters deserve Love too! You deserve a Fairy Tale that includes Whips and Chains and Rope and Nipple Clamps” Sexual Revolutionary & Feminist Prn Producer Madison Young is a globetrotting fetish model who likes her rope cinched Tight, and is not a fan of the ‘Is this comfortable for you?’ check-in. So when she meets the Rope Artist, she quickly …

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Episode 121 - Q&A 31:05

9M ago31:05

31:05

I asked on my Instagram @NonMonogamyHelp for people to submit questions they had. Here's the result! That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠ and the art was made by Dom Duong at ⁠⁠⁠…

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Episode 281: ‘Jack and Jill-Off’ (Carol Queen) 31:34

9M ago31:34

31:34

Have you ever wanted to engage in a little friendly social masturbation? Legendary Author and Sexologist Carol Queen takes us on a freestyle journey back to the 80’s, where she details her own fear of sex, and how she found true love. In the early days of the AIDS Epidemic, lack of medical answers lead to a generalized Coitophobia… could intercours…

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Episode 280: ‘ClownF*cker’ (Ouchy the Clown) 43:45

9M ago43:45

43:45

How do you go from being a Gay Baptist Republican to the Biggest Freak Meme on the Internet? Infamous Pron Clown Ouchy the Clown tells his Origin Story, from his quiet Queer roots in Texas to the life-changing visit to Burning Man that changed everything. Returning to Oakland with 70+ new best friends and an appreciation for people who can juggle s…

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Episode 120 - Forced Primary 21:12

9M ago21:12

21:12

You’ve been happy as a secondary but slowly your partner is requesting more and more time after a recent breakup. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠ and the art was made by Dom Duo…

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Episode 279: ‘Lesbian Vision Board’ (Bambi Galore) 32:11

9M ago32:11

32:11

Ever needed to juice up your marriage? Have you ever talked to your wife about fucking a dude together? Burlesque, Drag and Theater sensation Bambi Galore is married to a woman, and they decide that what they need to juice up their marriage is to pick up some bio-cock together. So Bambi and Heidi create their Threesome Manifesto and head out of tow…

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Episode 278: ‘Take My Wife, Please!’ (Veronica Hart, a.k.a Jane Hamilton) 37:38

9M ago37:38

37:38

Have you ever run away to the circus and offered a clown a blowjob? It’s 1977 in Jolly Old England, and Golden Age of Adult Cinema megastar Veronica Hart (a.k.a Jane Esther Hamilton) is performing under the big top when Brian the tightrope clown catches her eye - so she propositions him backstage. Flattered, Brian tells Vanessa he’s happily married…

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Episode 119 - Brutal Honesty 24:21

10M ago24:21

24:21

Your partner outright tells you that they plan on prioritising someone over you. It’s harsh but is it what should happen? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠on my website⁠. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠albery-jones.com⁠ and the art was made by Dom…

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Episode 277: ‘Geek Revenge’ (Annalyn Bond) 27:03

10M ago27:03

27:03

Have you ever gotten laid at a Dungeons & Drag Queen sex party while dressed as an Entwife? Post body shaming and bullying, Cosplayer & Drag Performer Annalyn Bond finds community among fellow Superhero movie fans. & While sitting in a dark theater surrounded by comic book characters, Annalyn has an epiphany: Cosplay is about showing the world your…

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Episode 276: ‘Friendly Fire’ (Jet Noir) 28:30

10M ago28:30

28:30

Does assisting the other penis with lube application just feel like the polite thing to do? Burlesque Performer and Kinesthesiologist Jet Noir grew up rejecting the label ‘Bisexual’, because although his mother and father raised him shame-free, the world isn’t quite so openminded. Moving out on his own at 18, he started dating with intention, tryin…

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Episode 118 - Don't Ask, Don't Tell 29:42

10M ago29:42

29:42

When you agree to a DADT relationship with a closeted partner but it’s not moving fast enough into a more polyamorous relationship. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made …

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Bawdy Storytelling presents: All That and Mo: Dishing with Dixie 47:49

10M ago47:49

47:49

This week, we’re featuring an episode of the All that and Mo podcast, where Bawdy’s host Dixie De La Tour and Best of Bawdy repeat offender Mollena Lee Williams-Haas hang out - with a live studio audience - and swap stories of their antics on Craigslist Casual Encounters. Did you know that both Mo and Dixie Won Best of Craigslist? It’s True! Want p…

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Episode 117 - Metamour Management 25:42

11M ago25:42

25:42

Sometimes knowing way too much about your partner’s relationship with their metamour can seriously impact your relationship. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom …

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Episode 116 - Authentically Polyamorous 28:14

11M ago28:14

28:14

Telling the difference between a couple of bad dates and polyamory just not being for you can sometimes be difficult. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong a…

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Bawdy Storytelling presents the Double Teamed Podcast with Cami & Niki: Missing Kink, Prioritizing Partners, and Restructuring FWBs 48:43

11M ago48:43

48:43

Today Double Teamed Podcast's Cami & Niki talk about their recent journeys with kink & power exchanges, along with answering some listener questions centered around prioritizing partners, restructuring FWBs, and letting someone know how you feel. Hope you enjoy! Want More? You can listen to your favorite twins every Thursday, wherever you listen to…

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