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Calm Confident and Deliriously Happy is experiential. It’s about shifting the conversation from solving problems to transcending them - together. I’m your host, Mandy, and I believe that until the pain matters, real joy is impossible. CCADH (Cicada) is an opportunity to prioritize what matters most, review and shift core problems preventing you from connecting with the ones you hold dear, and transmute fear to love.
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Do you know anyone in your life who’s just completely unhappy because they’re totally ungrateful? I don't! What I do see is that the biggest problems we face, such as guilt, shame, grief, and fear (anywhere from anxiety to panic) are often called mindset issues when a new mindset may help but not heal. That's why I say that we have a romance with m…
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"There aren't necessarily any shortcuts, but you can go faster." Agree or disagree? In today's short show, I offer that there is a shortcut, and it's this: Go deeper. And also, how deep you go determines the outcome you create. There's only one reason why inner problems (blocks, anxiety, disconnection, doubt, confusion, fear) linger: You didn't go …
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Today we have something really special. I create in 9’s, so every 9th show closes a cycle, completes a minor journey in our great journey together. This is a universal truth: completion allows new beginnings. Death is a vital part of life, not something to fear. Some of us had someone to read us stories when we were little. Some of us didn’t. What …
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The conversation with today's guest Christine is such a treat to share with you. Christine is a mindset coach who is also an Energy Healer and Medium, dedicated to supporting others to be the best version of themselves. She has a very cheerful demeanor which really stands out to me in a world full of people taking themselves very seriously... The h…
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November is men’s health awareness month. This topic is IMPORTANT to me. In today's episode we dive into why men in our lives, our workplaces, our communities are more susceptible to suicide, and what each of us should do about it. What we don’t speak about, doesn’t change. What we don’t prioritize, doesn’t change. But when most "solutions" amount …
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There's a dynamic that's been going on for some time now in the world of self help. A dynamic instructing that giving is wrong when it happens at personal expense. This dynamic causes lions to de-claw themselves. Today's episode is about RE-EMPOWERING POWERFUL GIVERS. Because there’s a way of giving, even to the point of self sacrifice –such that i…
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In this episode I share one of my favorite memories of being a student at the US Air Force Academy - how I "broke" an academic simulation meant to demonstrate human nature through collaboration. Competition can make us rabid if we don’t stop to consider that maybe the stakes are not all they’re being broadcast to be. But Trust is the antidote. All …
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Most approaches to issues of Confidence fail for 1 of 2 reasons. Gaining awareness about when and how these variables are at play will allow you to make progress to every goal more quickly and easily. In today's episode we uncover what those are and how to remedy them. This is where gaining control over your own consciousness allows you to create c…
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Today I was getting dressed. I pulled on some athletic clothes, they didn’t fit the way they did a couple weeks ago. I thought about how much focus the idea of appearance can consume - without us even noticing it. This is a perfect example of the matrix effect. Attention following attention, instead of attention directing attention – like a big cat…
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There's a reason that Clarity is one of the pillars of my framework, and discernment is a part of the process, a necessary skill to develop along the way... Discernment means you don't end up second guessing later, or realizing that you made a mistake months or years later. A classic example could be with forming new partnerships (personal or profe…
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I couldn't be more excited to share our show with you today; my guest is Barry Brownstein. Barry is a PhD Economist and a Professor Emeritus of Economics & Leadership. He self-describes as working at the intersection of spirituality and the physical (economics), and as usual, the intersections are where the interest are. This is the first conversat…
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Today we have something really special. I create in 9’s, so every 9th show closes a cycle, completes a minor journey in our great journey together. This is a universal truth: completion allows new beginnings. Death is a vital part of life, not something to fear. Some of us had someone to read us stories when we were little. Some of us didn’t. What …
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As much as it’s true that personal power is something that each of us already have – like a locked box all our own and a matching key in our pocket – A lot of people today don’t see the box, they don’t feel the key, and they can’t remember what’s inside of it. More than that though, they’ve been taught to be afraid of what’s in the box. As long as …
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From my experience working with hundreds of clients to support their personal pursuit of clarity, most of us think of clarity as something to attain. But seeing it that way can be a little bit like trying to eat an elephant in one bite. What comes BEFORE clarity? Today's episode is a short journey - you could say a jaunt: a businessman's trip... Ab…
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Today's episode is about being pulled in a direction that “appears” to be imprudent, despite well meaning advice to ignore our inner voice. What do we make of this fork in the road? I believe that putting our faith in "contingency" is the same as trusting in lack. Limitation often masquerades as prudence. For me, aside from feeling a deep longing t…
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Even self hate has something to teach us. Do you agree... ? For a more empowered perspective on pain that will appeal to your analytical side, don't miss this Calm Confident & Deliriously Happy short show. The only way to shorten a learning curve in personal evolution is to improve the communication within. Do you value your time? How fast do you w…
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Joe Sanok is a Podcaster, a Consultant and Founder at Practice of the Practice, and Author of the book Thursday is the New Friday: How to work fewer hours, make more money, and spend time doing what you want. In this momentous book, Joe equips and empowers us with a practical, evidence-based methodology to create our own work schedule and dedicate …
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“If I had an hour to solve a problem and my life depended on the solution, I would spend 55 minutes to determine the proper question.” — attributed to Albert Einstein Most of us can effectively handle problems we can clearly identify. When the issue is known, we can work to resolve it. But when the block is intangible, unknown, or an issue of our p…
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The way I see the world is in systems. Natural systems in this universe are not about high or low, right or wrong, but about equilibrium. Equilibrium rules. This is the most basic explanation for why everything we experience dualistically is in tension, and the truth behind everything experienced - the essence of it - is always going to be non-dual…
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Each of us have exclusive and sole responsibility for our emotional reactions. An common question I see lion-hearted people grapple with is, How long do I stay silent waiting for others to process angry emotions, or even to recognize their ownership over them? This is a really important question to be asking. Is there a better use of your life forc…
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Today we have something really special. I create in 9’s, so every 9th show closes a cycle, completes a minor journey in our great journey together. This is a universal truth: completion allows new beginnings. Death is a vital part of life, not something to fear. Some of us had someone to read us stories when we were little. Some of us didn’t. What …
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Today's episode is a short journey - you could say a jaunt: a businessman's trip... About the inner creator within each of us, and how there's never anything missing, only things to be discovered. Take this time as an opportunity to find appreciation for yourself! Show notes: https://www.palladiummind.com/calm-confident-happy-podcast/making-thought…
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How often do you make allowances for the little nicks and pains that only you know about? That only you know you struggle with? Do you think this is the type of self-sacrifice that helps others out or does more harm than good? Seeing hundreds of people struggle with this exact same choice pattern, I'm convinced that it's a lack of awareness that tr…
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How bounded is your possibilities space? What do you believe is possible? Are you the person placing limitations, or is it those around you? My point in bringing it up now is that what we believe is possible literally bounds the possibilities space that we will experience. Attachment to what we’ve personally experienced prevents the imagination fro…
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Every day, every decision, every moment we have a chance to live or to abandon our own values. Likewise, every experience that we have has the potential to teach us something about ourselves - be that as a mirror or through contrast. Show notes: https://www.palladiummind.com/calm-confident-happy-podcast/reputation-protection-or-transparency…
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Today's episode was primarily inspired by a short clip I heard of Rich Roll interviewing a farmer with a primary concern for preservation and respect of life. Rich and John's conversation made a strong backdrop for my own thoughts to play out about whether respect is scalable at all, what does harm reduction look like in action - in our daily and p…
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In this episode, I am the guest! My dear friend and force of nature Virginia Schmidt was interviewing me for her series called Divine Dialogues. My intention was always to host her here on cicada, but after months of moving schedules around, our conversation for her series came first and it's my wish to share it with you, too! Show notes: https://w…
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Today's episode is a short journey - you could say a jaunt: a businessman's trip... Our conversation is about making peace within ourselves first. What it means, how to do it, holding the paradox, and creating peace on earth. So happy to have you along. For show notes: https://www.palladiummind.com/calm-confident-happy-podcast/holding-paradox-creat…
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What does it mean to talk in concept about the ego, and what real use do we make of that knowledge in our lives? What happens when we wake up to the extent of our sameness, to the actual interconnectedness of everything? And what does it imply for you practicality? For show notes: https://www.palladiummind.com/calm-confident-happy-podcast/transcend…
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Today we have something really special. I create in 9’s, so every 9th show closes a cycle, completes a minor journey in our great journey together. This is a universal truth: completion allows new beginnings. Death is a vital part of life, not something to fear. Some of us had someone to read us stories when we were little. Some of us didn’t. What …
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In the last few episodes we've focused on subtle differences in service structures, marketing approaches, and sales strategies. This subject is close to me because of the ways in the past that I've unconsciously benefitted from methods that were not in the highest good. While I realize I was doing the best that I could at the time, given the inform…
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Today's episode is among other things, another soap box for how free you really should be feeling when it comes to making decisions about how to resolve lifelong emotional issues permanently. Mandy also shares what Harm Reduction looks like in action when it comes to considering creating new constructs (for instance, frameworks), and how to stay in…
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Have you ever wondered how quantum shifts are possible, and how likely you are to create one? Or perhaps what's the best way to do so? This episode breaks down the 3 Trestles that all lasting change require (supported or otherwise, intentional or otherwise), and how non-ordinary states of consciousness are basically always responsible. The second t…
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Today's episode is a short journey - you could say a jaunt: a businessman's trip... Let's look at "people pleasing" for what it really is or can be, which is empowerment when we recognize the potential to do it with consciousness. Labels like "people pleaser" are pejorative and dismissive of the values that are always REALLY driving a choice to ple…
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My guest today is an ex-pat Iranian artist, film director, writer, and composer named Farbod Ardebilli. He’s one of my favorite humans for a lot of reasons. Farbod was born and raised in Tehran, where he "illegally" started an Underground Metal Band and released the first Persian language Metal album on the worldwide platforms, and then shot his fi…
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If there’s no exit in a maze, it’s really just a cage. There is always this false fear when you’re in a maze, that you could actually be trapped in there forever. that’s what comes to mind when we talk about looking at problems - things we don’t want to stay stuck in forever: when we believe there’s no exit, or fear there’s no exit, it’s ceases to …
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Healing happens best, quickest, and easiest when we enter into an arrangement with a provider, a supporter, a coach, a co-creator with the higher perspective and the truth that in cases of emotional issues being automated by your subconscious, the problem always includes our perception of a problem, and that can be cleared. Shifting to a new perspe…
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There are worlds within worlds when it comes to any dialogue, journey, or experience that was meaningful - the first time we experienced it. But we do have control over where we direct our attention right now in this moment. Today we explore the creative process that yielded episode 0, A Drop In Time, and recognize it as holographic of states of fl…
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Every 9th show closes a cycle, completes a minor journey in our great journey together. This is a universal truth: completion allows new beginnings. Death is a vital part of life, not something to fear. Some of us had someone to read us stories when we were little. Some of us didn’t. What I’d like to do is give 9th shows over to the telling of clas…
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What experiences do we miss out on because of an incomplete perspective? What opportunities do we shut out when we decide what something means too soon, without the broader picture? Let's provide some real life application and context of the idea that transcending bests solving, examples of how that can happen both spontaneously and intentionally, …
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Special welcome to a real powerhouse in the coaching space, Heather Chauvin. Author, Speaker, and Host of widely listened to podcast called Mom Is In Control, Heather is also a very dear friend. When you’re vulnerable and accountable for your own feelings and needs, willing to confront situations instead of avoid them, ironically you build stronger…
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Do you have someone in your life who gives more than they take? What about someone who inspires you to dream bigger? That type of appreciation is something that transcends circumstances, and is unlikely to be changed or taken away I think... Today's guest is one of those people to me, and I'm really excited to share her story with you in a few diff…
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What do I mean by inner identity? Outwardly there are a lot of ways we can understand ourselves, and those identities help others to know us, and us to know ourselves. But the inner ways we identify are also very important. Knowing these unique personal signatures allow us to express ourselves clearly, to make decisions easily, and to simplify comp…
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Coincident to the start of Black History Month, today I want to focus on the need to be specific about our identity premise, how it relates to happiness, and how accessing our personal power and remaining in integrity actually require that we do. Show notes: https://www.palladiummind.com/calm-confident-happy-podcast/outward-identity-happiness {The …
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Today we break down additional takeaways and key learnings from episode 10, and listeners will receive a lens for transforming their relationship to inner struggle / challenge which can be applied immediately in the moment. Show notes: https://www.palladiummind.com/calm-confident-happy-podcast/you-have-the-answers The host often helps people utiliz…
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When I think about Dorian's defining qualities, four leapt to mind: the power of consistency, self belief, building bridges, and bravery. When you hear his background, you'll probably understand the bravery piece right away. When you see him as the motor of his brand in action, you'll understand the consistency piece. We touch on self belief in thi…
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New direction with the show today, I woke up and wanted to speak, not script. This conversation is an uncommon kind of vulnerability - less related to the content of my past, present or future than it is to the literal process of self awareness / raising consciousness: demonstrated in part today by figuring out the purpose of my musings as I go ins…
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Today we have something really special. I create in 9’s, so every 9th show closes a cycle, completes a minor journey in our great journey together. This is a universal truth: completion allows new beginnings. Death is a vital part of life, not something to fear. Some of us had someone to read us stories when we were little. Some of us didn’t. What …
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This last episode of 2020, I wanted to share a reflection I made about the unlikely similarities between my father's work in disaster restoration, and my own with healing and transformation. My gift is in seeing a book for more than its cover, and I hope it inspires you to do the same as we collectively "catch the lights" on 2020. Show notes: https…
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This episode is about gratitude, appreciation, causality, and choosing our success instead of seeking it. "Happiness when" is a recipe for dissatisfaction; Mandy breaks down how appreciation can provide an equation for success that is sustainable over the longterm. Show notes: https://www.palladiummind.com/calm-confident-happy-podcast/appreciation-…
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