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The betrayal of a family member, partner, friend, etc. can create physical, mental and emotional challenges. If left unhealed, it impacts us personally and professionally. The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast shares insights from the best therapists, coaches, healers, thought leaders and everyday people, combined with the findings of a recent Ph.D. study on betrayal to help you move forward and heal...once and for all.
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What do we know about criminal justice reforms or bail reform? How do we evaluate whether reforms are helping or making the situation worse? How can we take politics out of criminal justice and focus on public safety? The Bail Post seeks to be a place where legislators and the public can educate themselves on a host of criminal justice/bail reform issues. With various attempts at criminal justice reform from New York to Texas to California, many people are confused as to what is working and ...
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Nationally recognized family law attorney, mediator and award-winning podcaster, Susan Guthrie is to be the voice you can trust on your divorce journey. After guiding countless numbers of people through the perilous world of divorce for more than 30 years, and speaking to a podcast audience of over 5 million listeners, Susan brings you the top-rated The Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, ranked in the top 1% of the more than 3.5 million podcasts in the world, to help you successfully navigate the ch ...
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A podcast originally designed to push back on misinformation within Temecula Valley Unified School District that has evolved into a local whistleblowing content provider. The Point.Blank.Truth. platform is dedicated to providing community transparency on local situations, events, elected positions, and persons of interest through honest, direct, and respectable exchanges of ideas. We are local community members who value truth and accountability. We are not afraid to exchange words and persp ...
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In this special "From the Archive" episode, Susan Guthrie, top family law attorney and mediator, sits down with Dr. Debi Silber, the Founder of the PBT (Post-Betrayal Transformation) Institute, to discuss the trauma caused by betrayal and the path to healing and a better future. Dr. Debi shares her expertise on moving beyond betrayal, the five stag…
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Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko are back, and we couldn't be more excited! These two incredible guests are returning to share insights from their brand-new book, Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld, now available for pre-order. The book sheds light on the systemic issues within the family court system, particularly how it affects w…
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In this episode, I share insights from a recent VIP retreat where I worked with a small group of clients to help them transform their lives and move fully from stage three to stages four and five of healing from betrayal. The key theme that emerged was the importance of willingness. Here are the five crucial traits of willingness that can significa…
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Host Susan Guthrie welcomes back Tracy Malone to discuss some of the mistakes people make when divorcing a narcissist! Returning guest Tracy Malone is the author of Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can't Make This Shit Up! Divorcing a narcissist is a hot topic these days, and Tracy’s book is the most comprehensive compilation of tips, insights, case …
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In this episode, we dive into one of the most transformative topics: turning pain into purpose. We explore how individuals can harness their pain and trauma to fuel personal growth, resilience, and transformation. The conversation touches on various aspects of betrayal and the journey from hurt to healing. Key Topics Discussed: The Resilience of th…
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Did you know that over one-quarter of divorces in the United States today occur among couples over the age of 50? This is part of the ongoing phenomenon referred to as Gray Divorce. Susan Guthrie welcomes Financial Expert Jennifer Lee for an enlightening episode on the financial pitfalls of divorcing later in life. Jennifer shares essential strateg…
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In this episode, we delve into Stage Three of the Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough. If you're unsure which stage you're in, by the end of this episode, you'll have a clear understanding. We cover: The feelings, personas, and experiences typical of Stage Three. Why Stage Three is the most common stage where people get stuck. The consequence…
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Episode Summary: In this episode, we address a common and challenging scenario faced by many who have experienced betrayal. How do you handle social situations where the topic of betrayal comes up, and you find yourself feeling uncomfortable, angry, or even embarrassed? We provide practical advice and strategies to help you navigate these moments w…
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Susan Guthrie welcomes leading matrimonial attorney Susan Myres to the show, where she shares the potential pitfalls and legal issues you may face when cohabiting before or instead of getting married. Together they explore the legal challenges couples face when living together, including property rights, financial agreements, and child custody issu…
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Introduction: The episode focuses on regrets, especially within the context of betrayal, and explores how to manage and prevent them. Regret can be about any decision in life, not just betrayal. Key Points: Understanding Regret: Regret often leads to two choices: avoiding it due to its magnitude or cleaning it up if possible. Both betrayers and bet…
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Diving back into the archive for a replay of Part Two of our special two-part episode with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a leading expert in Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) that delves into some of the most insidious forms of abuse: coercive control and post-separation abuse. In part two of this special two-part episode on Domestic Abuse, we delve deepe…
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Danny and Derek sit down and review some newly surfaced information. We had some community members reach out and express a concern about Gary Oddi and his agenda. what is the secret? Why is his campaign for school board so vague, while his bike agenda is so precise and thought out? Maybe this is all some sort of odd coincidence, maybe it's not. We …
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Diving back into the archive for a replay of our special two-part episode with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a leading expert in Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) that delves into some of the most insidious forms of abuse: coercive control and post-separation abuse. Abuse between intimate partners comes in many forms. All are destructive, but some are so …
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Episode Overview: In this episode, we dive into the sensitive topic of abuse with Dr. Jennifer Gardella. Jennifer shares her personal journey through abusive relationships, highlighting the subtle and often overlooked signs of abuse. This episode serves as a guide to recognizing, understanding, and healing from abuse. Key Points: Jennifer’s Story: …
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Susan Guthrie welcomes Jan and Jillian Yuhas, identical twins, relationship and conflict resolution consultants and co-authors of the book 'Boundary Badass.' Jan and Jillian have a knack for explaining the value of becoming a boundary badass and how to do that in a format we can all process. In this episode, they discuss their book, methods for set…
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Episode Description: In this episode, we dive into the Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough, with a particular focus on Stage Two. Dr. Debi discusses the physical, mental, and emotional experiences at each stage and offers insights into how to navigate through them. Drawing from real-life personas, the episode aims to help listeners recognize …
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This week we dive back into one of our most informative discussions from the archives. Join Susan and leading family law attorney Eric Broder as they explore the essentials of child support. Whether you are just beginning your divorce journey or are revisiting child support arrangements, this episode provides crucial insights and advice. Episode Hi…
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Episode Focus: Exploring relationships beyond the primary betrayal relationship. Emphasizing the importance of evaluating and possibly redefining other relationships in your life as you move through healing stages. Key Themes: Expanding the Focus Beyond Betrayal: Importance of assessing relationships with friends, colleagues, and other close connec…
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On this episode of The Bail Post we meet the new President of PBUS David Stuckman as we discuss multiple issues. One of the issues that we highlight is the recent data breach of Capitar's cloud based bail software and the responses by bail agents. We also discuss bail in the state of Kansas and we find out that there are both property bondsmen and …
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Susan Guthrie welcomes coach and speaker, Jodi Silverman to the show! Jodi and Susan get to the heart of finding happiness, even when life throws you a curveball. If you have ever said, “I want to be happy…” but are unsure where to start or don’t really know what it means to be happy for no reason - Jodi has a wealth of insights to share. Jodi has …
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Introduction Host: Dr. Debi Silber Guest: Elizabeth Kipp, a beloved coach at the PBT Institute Topic: Exploring how betrayal impacts the chakras and the journey of healing through the body's energy centers. Segment 1: Introduction to Chakras What are Chakras? Chakras are seven main energy vortices in the body from the base of the spine to the top o…
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In this special replay episode from the Divorce & Beyond Archives, Susan visits with the CEO of the High Conflict Institute, Megan Hunter, to hear her top tips and insights on co-parenting with a Narcissist or other High Conflict Personality! This is the #3 most listened to episode of all time - for a reason! Divorce is hard under the best of circu…
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In this episode, we are joined by Lisa Zeiderman, a seasoned attorney specializing in family law, to dive into the often challenging topics of prenuptial agreements, co-parenting, and navigating divorce. Lisa brings her wealth of knowledge and experience to the table, offering practical advice and valuable insights for those who are considering mar…
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Susan welcomes back the world’s leading expert on managing high-conflict behaviors, Bill Eddy! Bill shares insights from his newest book, Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them ― How to Stop Them. In this episode, Susan and Bill explore the different forms of bullying, the underlying causes, practical strategies for dealing with bullies, …
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In this episode, we dive into the complexities of handling various social events after experiencing betrayal. Whether it’s a wedding, a backyard party, or any significant occasion, navigating these situations can be particularly challenging. We discuss strategies for the betrayed, how to maintain composure and focus, and ways to protect yourself em…
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Show #142 – #blessup – On this month’s 12-Year Anniversary….and grand finale Trail Show, the crew pulls back the curtain to talk about all the things, the Hotline short circuits with a volume of calls we’ve never seen from you our adored listeners, D-Low enjoys a baked potato, POD drinks her annual habanero infused tequila tumbler, poison oak remed…
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Our guest on this episode of The Bail Post is the sitting district attorney for Harris County- Kim Ogg. D.A. Ogg was first elected to become district attorney in 2016 with the support of a Soros political group. She was re-elected in 2020 without the support of a Soros political group. D.A. Ogg was present for all the inside political discussions f…
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This is the second of two episodes regarding Charitable Bail Funds. The first part was episode number 5 of The Bail Post. On this episode on The Bail Post we highlight what states have done since Texas enacted a bill requiring transparency for Charitable Bail Funds. The state of Indiana limited these funds so that they could not post a bond over a …
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Susan Guthrie welcomes back the Champion of Change, Jenny Stevens! Jenny shares her top 5 signs that you need a coach! If you know something needs to change but can’t pinpoint WTF is wrong - tune into this episode for some insight on how working with a coach might just be what you need to motivate you to move forward. Susan and Jenny explore the po…
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The episode begins with an exploration of how betrayal can shatter confidence and disrupt life, affecting relationships, self-worth, and trust. Main Discussion: The concept of confidence is unpacked, describing it as a quality earned through overcoming uncomfortable experiences and reflecting on them to grow stronger. Dr. Debi shares personal anecd…
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Retired Chief Patrick Jordan worked for the L.A. County Sheriff's office for over 30 years. He has intimate knowledge regarding the California Criminal Justice System the reforms that have been pushed for years. He talks about the litigation that began attacking the State's failure to provide proper mental health care and medical care which lead to…
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In this episode of Divorce and Beyond, host Susan Guthrie chats with financial expert Rhonda Noordyk about the financial hurdles women often encounter during and after a divorce. They dive into why financial literacy and empowerment are crucial for women to navigate divorce settlements smoothly. The conversation also highlights the importance of ha…
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In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the complexities of handling life post-betrayal and navigating the path to divorce with financial experts Becky Wuest Creavin and Patti Janco Tupper. Both speakers share invaluable advice on dealing with the unexpected challenges that come with becoming suddenly single, particularly after a betrayal. …
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Kortnee Graves who runs Mom Army Natomas, reached out to do a podcast and talk about her experience with the family court system in California. Since Adam Vena has a recent situation with the California system, she wanted to also have him on the podcast to talk about the issues and the problems they see with our legal system in the California famil…
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Today, embark on a transformative journey with returning guest, Best-Selling Author, TEDx superstar, and Letting Go Expert Jill Sherer Murray. Join Susan and Jill as they explore invaluable insights on what you do and don’t need to let go of before, during, and after your divorce. Most importantly, they discuss how to begin this empowering process.…
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In this enlightening episode, Dr. Debi dives into the persistent struggles many face long after experiencing betrayal, challenging the notion that time alone heals wounds. Through personal anecdotes and scientific insights, the discussion revolves around the ineffective coping mechanisms and the essential Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough, provi…
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Susan Guthrie welcomes author Emma Thompson for a compelling conversation about parenting and divorce. Emma sheds light on her groundbreaking efforts in advocating for equal parenting as the best solution for families navigating divorce and separation. Emma is also the founder of Wealthysinglemommy.com and author of 'The 50/50 Solution', a book tha…
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In this episode, we dive into a common but limiting mindset: resignation. Resignation leads many of us to accept less than we deserve, believing "this is just the way it is" and nothing can change. In this episode, Dr. Debi shares personal anecdotes and insights on how our beliefs shape our reality and how challenging and changing these beliefs can…
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we sat down with Cole Everi Mann who interviewed for the open trustee school board seat at TVUSD. Cole is a very impressive community member and patriot. Another Parent standing up for what she believes, a woman of faith, a career woman, a single mom with children in the district, and a very impressive person to have had the pleasure to sit across …
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Show #141 – #allthingsgatos – On this month’s Trail Show, special guest Michael “Nano” Chamoun joins us to talk bidet cows, hiking with pizza boxes, and hiking (running also!) Tour du Mont Blanc, POD speaks on men pushing over rocks again, destroying the stairway to heaven, and yet another norovirus outbreak on the AT, OOO runs Cleveland and has a …
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Susan Guthrie welcomes Marsha Jacobson, author of The Wrong Calamity, to share her top tips for thriving through and beyond your divorce. Marsha Jacobson is an esteemed author, teacher, and writing coach. In this episode, she shares her personal journey through two vastly different marriages and divorces and how these experiences shaped her path to…
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In this episode, we dive into the complex process of making decisions, emphasizing the impact our current state has on the choices we make. We explore the idea that the Stage of healing from betrayal we find ourselves in - whether it be Stage three, four, or five - significantly influences our decisions, urging listeners to strive for Stage five, w…
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Aaron Hoover is a community member who is currently planning on running for Temecula Valley School Board for trustee area 2 (the current vacant position). We sat down with him to hear his perspective and his vision he sees for the school district and the community. Another community member willing to step up and be a positive impact for our distric…
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Jim Quinn is a former assistant district attorney in Queens, New York. His family has lived in New York for four generations. Jim was on the front lines as New York slipped bail reform into the budget bill in 2019 and when it went into effect in January 2020. Jim has written numerous articles about the New York bail reform and its impact on crime. …
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This week on the Divorce and Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Erin Levine! Erin is the visionary Legal Tech Innovator and Divorce Disruptor behind Hello Divorce. Erin shares her insights on how Hello Divorce transforms the divorce landscape through innovative technology and personalized support and simplifies the divorce process, empower…
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Welcome to today's episode where we dive into a nuanced and often overlooked form of betrayal: self-betrayal. This conversation talks about the complex relationship between betrayal by others and the acts of betrayal we commit against ourselves. Our exploration will provide insights into the manifestations of self-betrayal, the underlying reasons b…
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