Best Relationshipanarchy Podcasts (2024)

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463 - You're Not as Open-Minded As You Think 1:04:44

6d ago1:04:44

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Today we're talking about being open-minded: what it means, how it's often misunderstood, and how we're probably not as good at it as we think we are. Typically people think of open-mindedness as a good thing, especially among younger folks, but it's hard to research it, given how difficult it is to objectively measure. We'll be going over some of …

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462 - Deepening Connections Through Slow Love 1:04:19

13d ago1:04:19

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Today, we're talking about slow dating and slow love, which was brought to our attention by Damona Hoffman in episode 456. We'll go over what slow love is, whether it's the answer to NRE woes or not, some of slow love's benefits and pitfalls, and how to decide if it's something that's right for you or not. If this show is helpful to you, consider j…

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461 - My Partner Won’t Admit Their Jealousy - Listener Q&A 56:05

20d ago56:05

56:05

Today we have another Q&A episode, so we're diving into some listener questions. Some of the topics we're covering are what happens when just one relationship in a triad has to end, how to support a long distance partner, how to build confidence when you’ve been a “late bloomer” regarding sex and relationships, and what to do when a partner will no…

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460 - Multiamory Presents: Navigating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy (Multiamory’s Interview on Better in Bed with Sara Sense) 1:06:59

27d ago1:06:59

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Today's episode is an interview we did with Sara Sense of the Better in Bed podcast about jealousy and navigating it in the context of relationships and non-monogamy. Sara Tang is a certified sexologist and coach based in Hong Kong. She believes that sex is a skill and everyone can learn how to get better in bed. She is most passionate about helpin…

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459 - Non-Monogamy in the Workplace Part 2 1:17:33

1M ago1:17:33

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For our second part of our non-monogamy in the workplace series, we're talking about how to actually go about opening up at work, what kinds of changes your organization can do to make the most impact the fastest, and why companies should care about being accepting and open. To tackle these topics, we're sharing some excerpts from an interview with…

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458 - Non-Monogamy In the Workplace Part 1 57:54

1M ago57:54

57:54

Today's episode is the first part of a two-parter series on being out as non-monogamous at work. We're going to explore pros and cons being out at work, some tips on making the workplace a more welcoming place for diverse relationships, and some ways to help you decide if being out at work is the right decision or not for you. If this show is helpf…

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457 - Creating Lasting Sexual Connections with Emily Nagoski 1:05:38

2M ago1:05:38

1:05:38

Today we're welcoming back Emily Nagoski to talk about her newest book, Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections. Emily is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestselling Come As You Are, and coauthor, with her sister, Amelia, of New York Times bestseller Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cyc…

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456 - F The Fairytale with Damona Hoffman 1:13:18

2M ago1:13:18

1:13:18

Today we're welcoming back Damona Hoffman, the Resident Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and OkCupid's Official Dating Coach. Damona is the host of the long-running podcast Dates & Mates, which has just begun airing its 10th season. She is also an advice columnist for the LA Times and a writer on dating and relationships for the Washington Po…

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455 - My Brain Understands, But My Body is Panicking (with Orit Krug) 1:09:13

2M ago1:09:13

1:09:13

We're excited to have a special episode this week! Today Dedeker is flying solo and having a fantastic conversation with board-certified dance/movement therapist Orit Krug. Orit Krug is an award-winning Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Licensed Creative Arts Therapist. Orit helps individuals & couples expand their capacity for self-love…

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454 - When Someone You Love Wants to be Monogamous 1:04:47

2M ago1:04:47

1:04:47

Happy New Year to all! Our first episode of 2024 is diving into a discussion about shifting from non-monogamy to monogamy. We'll be talking about why someone might want to go back to monogamy, what the potential benefits or negative consequences of doing so are, and what you should be asking yourself if you're considering it for yourself. We'll als…

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453 - Your Regrets are Here to Help You 52:34

3M ago52:34

52:34

Today, we're talking about regret. Regret often gets a lot of negative feedback and a bad rap, often being called a useless negative emotion, but we're going to dive into some of the psychology research that indicates how regret can help us gain insight, motivation, and direction. We'll be discussing different types of regret, how regret can influe…

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452 - Navigating Unrequited Feelings - Listener Q&A 1:02:00

3M ago1:02:00

1:02:00

Today we're doing our last Q&A episode of the year! We'll be tackling one final batch of listener questions ranging from unrequited NRE, insecurity and hypersexuality, determining if conscious monogamy is right for you, and more! If you're interested in submitting a question for a future Q&A episode, consider becoming one of our Patreon supporters …

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451 - Multiamory Presents: Defining Non-Romantic Relationships and More (Multiamory's Interview on The Wright Conversations) 56:11

3M ago56:11

56:11

Today we've got a very special episode: we're sharing an interview we did on Rachel Wright's show The Wright Conversations. In this episode we discuss going to therapy with family members, divorce, defining non-romantic relationships, inclusivity in relationship studies and much more! Rachel has a variety of interesting guests on her show every wee…

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450 - Polywise: A Conversation with Jessica Fern and Dave Cooley 58:47

4M ago58:47

58:47

Today we're excited to share a conversation with Jessica Fern and David Cooley about their new book, Polywise. Jessica Fern is a Psychotherapist, Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Jessica is the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonogamy, The Polysecure Workbook: Healing Your Attachment and Creating Security in Lovin…

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449 - When Life Demands Get in the Way of Love 1:00:07

4M ago1:00:07

1:00:07

This week we're taking some time to explore what happens when life's demands and outside stressors take a toll on even solid relationships. Things like busy schedules, financial woes, health issues, or other obligations can absolutely limit the time and energy you have for a relationship. We’ll be discussing strategies for collaborating through lif…

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Presenting: Private Parts Unknown: How a Happy Ending Massage Expanded Her Mind on Sex, Pleasure & Non-Monogamy with Courtney Kocak 15:37

4M ago15:37

15:37

Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of our favorite podcasts: Private Parts Unknown. Private Parts Unknown is a Bourdain-style podcast exploring sex, love, relationships, gender, and seductive subcultures around the world. Join host Courtney Kocak and expert guests for hilarious, sex-positive conversations — destigmatizing everything from abortio…

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448 - A Polyamory Devotional: Conversation with Evita Sawyers 59:24

4M ago59:24

59:24

Today we're rejoined by Evita Sawyers, who was last on the show back on episode 310. Evita is back to talk about her new book, "A Polyamory Devotional: 365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Nonmonogamous." Evita “Lavitaloca” Sawyers is a non-monogamy coach, speaker, and educator. Creator of “Today’s Polyamory Reminder”. Her approach is both fr…

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447 - De-Escalation to Re-Escalation: Listener Q&A With Amanda Katherine 1:01:46

4M ago1:01:46

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Today's episode is another Q&A, this time with Amanda Katherine from the Live Your F*ck Yes Life. Amanda Katherine (she/they) — — is on a mission to help you face your fears, speak your truth and get you one step closer to living your f*ck yes life. She has worked as a trauma informed coach, writer and facilitator since 2016 and as an artist, actor…

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446 - Multiamory Presents: Navigating Abuse as a Non-Monogamous Person (Dedeker's Interview on Initiated Survivor) 36:47

5M ago36:47

36:47

Today we have a special episode highlighting an interview Dedeker did on the podcast Initiated Survivor, hosted by Kelsey Harper. Kelsey is a clinical psychologist and a survivor of sexual violence, and on her show she speaks directly with other survivors to hear their stories and offer practical skills for reclaiming their lives. Dedeker shares he…

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445 - Yes, Some People Need Drama 58:38

5M ago58:38

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Today we're diving deep into the world of drama! Have you ever met someone who just seems to thrive on it? Or maybe you've seen a bit of that drama-lover in yourself? We're going to be talking about why some of us need drama in our lives (there's science behind it!), and discussing some of the behaviors and whys behind a need for drama. If this sho…

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444 - Assert Yourself Without Being an Asshole 55:08

5M ago55:08

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Today we're talking about the five different communication styles in order to help us identify some of the healthy and unhealthy ways we might be expressing ourselves. If we can learn to assert ourselves in a healthy, respectful way, it can improve the quality of our relationships, along with overall wellbeing and happiness. We'll go over some tool…

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443 - Why Aren't You Being Fair? Exploring Aggressive Fairness in Polyamory 1:04:02

5M ago1:04:02

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Today we're talking about aggressive fairness in non-monogamy. We all want equitable relationships, but in a relationship style as fluid as non-monogamy there is often more to consider than simple fairness. We'll be exploring what aggressive fairness means and looks like, discuss what fair means for a relationship (non-monogamous and monogamous), a…

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442 - Do You Trust Your Partner With Your Emotions? 55:17

6M ago55:17

55:17

Today we're discussing emotional safety and how our close relationships can provide a safe and comforting way to enhance our positive emotions and regulate our negative ones. Unfortunately, many relationships are lacking the feeling of safety and support necessary to facilitate honest emotional expression. We are going to look at a couple recent re…

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441 - Multiamory Presents: The Art of Boundaries (Dedeker's Interview on Help Existing) 1:01:48

6M ago1:01:48

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This week we're highlighting an interview Dedeker did on Rachel Krantz's show, Help Existing. Rachel is also the author of Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy. Rachel and Dedeker have a great conversation about boundaries, covering topics like, How do you figure out what your boundaries are? How should you go about comm…

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440 - We Have All Violated Consent - Listener Q&A with Kitty Stryker Pt 2 1:18:39

6M ago1:18:39

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We're continuing our Q&A episode today with guest Kitty Stryker. Kitty has been working on defining and creating a consent culture for over 13 years through her writing, workshops, and website consentculture.com. She's the editor of "Ask: Building Consent Culture," author of "Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook," and is especially interested…

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463 - You're Not as Open-Minded As You Think 1:04:44

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462 - Deepening Connections Through Slow Love 1:04:19

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461 - My Partner Won’t Admit Their Jealousy - Listener Q&A 56:05

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460 - Multiamory Presents: Navigating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy (Multiamory’s Interview on Better in Bed with Sara Sense) 1:06:59

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459 - Non-Monogamy in the Workplace Part 2 1:17:33

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458 - Non-Monogamy In the Workplace Part 1 57:54

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457 - Creating Lasting Sexual Connections with Emily Nagoski 1:05:38

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456 - F The Fairytale with Damona Hoffman 1:13:18

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455 - My Brain Understands, But My Body is Panicking (with Orit Krug) 1:09:13

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454 - When Someone You Love Wants to be Monogamous 1:04:47

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453 - Your Regrets are Here to Help You 52:34

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452 - Navigating Unrequited Feelings - Listener Q&A 1:02:00

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451 - Multiamory Presents: Defining Non-Romantic Relationships and More (Multiamory's Interview on The Wright Conversations) 56:11

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450 - Polywise: A Conversation with Jessica Fern and Dave Cooley 58:47

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449 - When Life Demands Get in the Way of Love 1:00:07

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Presenting: Private Parts Unknown: How a Happy Ending Massage Expanded Her Mind on Sex, Pleasure & Non-Monogamy with Courtney Kocak 15:37

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448 - A Polyamory Devotional: Conversation with Evita Sawyers 59:24

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447 - De-Escalation to Re-Escalation: Listener Q&A With Amanda Katherine 1:01:46

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446 - Multiamory Presents: Navigating Abuse as a Non-Monogamous Person (Dedeker's Interview on Initiated Survivor) 36:47

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445 - Yes, Some People Need Drama 58:38

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444 - Assert Yourself Without Being an Asshole 55:08

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443 - Why Aren't You Being Fair? Exploring Aggressive Fairness in Polyamory 1:04:02

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442 - Do You Trust Your Partner With Your Emotions? 55:17

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441 - Multiamory Presents: The Art of Boundaries (Dedeker's Interview on Help Existing) 1:01:48

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440 - We Have All Violated Consent - Listener Q&A with Kitty Stryker Pt 2 1:18:39

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